1st time post,need advice

[marc26]

Hey guys,
First id like to say i love reading all your posts. I met a bg in patong my last visit and stayed with her for the week, with a few massages and short times while she was sleeping in my room. I am going back in August and she wants me to go to see her family in her hometown. Have any of you ever done this and does anyone have any advice. I do not ,by any means, any delusions of grandeur, but wouldnt mind taking the 2hr trip from bkk to see what its like for a day or two. Does anyone have any experience or advice, id appreciate it. Thanks Paul

[IRISH JONNY]

Hi Paul......
I Once Went To Trang With A Gf.......
Its Not That Far From Phuket.......i Had A Great Time .....
Its A Complete Different World Seeing Where Their Families Live....
Really Poor People Making A Small But Happy Living Off Of The Farm....
They Depend On Their Daughters To Send Them Money To Buy Food And Other Little Luxieries....
Sorry For Side Tracking....
You Can Expect To Give Her Family Some Money And Pay For Your Own Welcome Party To The Village ...the Party Could Be For 30 Or 40 People........but You Still Have A Wicked Time......
Jonny

[domifletch]

Ooops, after only one week, she wants to make you meet her family ...

I guess it's the first step of the game when you are back ... Next step can be "Mama sick, buffalo dead, problem of pregnancy, etc" and obviously she will need money.

Wait and see

[marc26]

she really didnt ask for anyhting when i was with her, or since i been home, but i am not naive, as soon as that comed i am out of there, but i am looking at it as irish johnny saw it, i dont mind going and seeing a totally different way. but,believe me, domi, i am well aware of possible traps to come.

[domifletch]

Good luck, Marc,

I hope for you it's the beginning of a nice story, even if I don't believe it too much, but all BG's are different, like us !
I read a post telling that sometimes farangs are welcome in far villages because they pay a party for all Thai people living there ... I would like to live it because I'm sure it's not really so much money for us and we ca make them happy .. but always money money money in the mind of a BG becomes being boring. I really like Thai people, and not only BG's, I know we are wallet for them (and at their place I would think "same same"), but I didn't live enough in LOS to understand them enough about their feelings about us (and I don't speak about BG's).
I remember I was speaking with a tour operator guide, we spent sooo much money in trips, drinks, hotels etc... What we spend in one day was often what he earns in one month ... i felt he has a little problem about that, because he had a family 1,000 kms from him, he slept in a very little room close the station, he worked 11 hours/day ... He was a lesson of life for me. So I can understand why there are so much BG's, why they want to keep contact with us ... but, as I don't like lying, I don't like they lie to me ... It's so easy to understand why they have to work, why may be they can be afraid to trust us, sex tourists (even if I don't really think to be one) ... Things are so easy when we tell truth.
OK, it was my philosophic thought of the night
I need sleeping now

[mikegb]

Hi Domi,

I totally agree with you. For me, the most important thing is that the person I am with tells the truth.

I TOTALLY understand why they would lie (I love you etc.), so we stay with them for longer.

However, I will always spend more time with someone who tells me the truth.

This is why I liked Jen on my last tour. ANY question I asked got a truthful answer.

There was times when I said to Jen "I want to be with my friends, to play pool and darts and drink a lot"

"Ok" said Jen "I need to see my friends and talk Thai. It is hard talking english all day. It hurts my head. I must make funny with my people".

Later on, we would meet up. Good for her, good for me. No bullshit.

A while ago, I had somebody stay with me, and they were great. The only thing I said to them was "Come and see me at 2am".
Everything was great for about 5 or 6 nights, then one time they arrived at my room at 3.30am

"Hello" I said.
"Sorry I am late, I was tallking with friends too long"
"Im sorry also, goodbye" and I sent them home.
If they said to me that night "I can see you at 3.30am" then I would have no problem.

I think they will NEVER understand us, and we will NEVER understand them

[marc26]

Hey guys,
Thanks for the responses, i really appreciate the advice. And what an honor to get a reply on my post by the infamous mikeegb, your posts are hilarious. Anyways, mike, everything you said about that girl jen basically came out of this girls mouth,from wanting to go speak thai to her friends, and telling me the truth,as much as i think they can. anyways,i figure,what the hell,ill go,itll be an experience,and whne we get back to patong, i can slip out and go searching for extras because she sleeps like a house cat most of the day. anyways, again,thanks

[domifletch]

Hi Marc,

I don't remember a BG who doesn't like sleeping all the day ... it seems common to all of them But they spend so much energy all the night for us

[mikegb]

Hi Marc,

Thanks for the kind words, but honestly, you neednt feel honoured because I write a reply. There are a lot more guys with a lot more good things to say than me.

If you knew me, you would realise -

Im nothing special, infact Im a bit of a bore
If I tell a joke, you've probably heard it before,
But I have a talent, a wonderful thing,
coz everyone listens, when I start to sing,
Im so grateful and proud,
All I want, is to sing it out loud :p

I look forward to reading more of your sexploits from Thailand

[Werwolf]

Originally Posted by domifletch

Hi Marc,

I don't remember a BG who doesn't like sleeping all the day ... it seems common to all of them ...........

and don´t forget:
..........................and watch TV