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17-05-2004, 02:32
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Thailady in Norway
This is a story about my x-girlfriend.
She is thai and used to work in a bar in Patong. She met a 25 year old norwegian man in her bar. He falled in love with her and ivited her to Norway. Everything worked out fine for the first months and they got married. After a while they got some problems, she was allways asking for money and told him if he didnt give her, she would go back to thaland. Just the same things that most of thailadies do. I wount say thats the way the tradgedy happened, but the young man hanged himself in his garage. A few months later I met this lady at a party in my friends house. I likes thailadies, so offcause we ended up in the same bed. That was the start of our 8 months relationship. After some weeks she moved in with me, and we had some great weeks without problems. Then she got some monney from the insurance-company because of her husbands death. Then the problems started. She got about 30 000 pounds, and she spent half of the money for a house for her family. I agreed that was a good thin to do. She put the rest of the money in the bank, and I told her not to spend any of it. I gave her everything she needed in norway and sent 6000 bath to her family every month. We agreed that, if everything worked out fine, we should buy a house together. She supposed to put in her 15000,- and I would do the same. Then if we split up bouth of us would have some money after selling the house. She had a good life with me and I gave her allmost everything she wanted. Then she wanted to visit her family in Thailand, so I payed for her flight and gave her money for her trip. After staying there for some days she called me and told me she allready hav spent her monney ang bought a new car for her father. I reminded her of our agreement of buying a house, but she wouldnt listen to me and even asked me to send more money. I got pissed off and told her to **** off. I finished the relationship, and without my premission, she couldnt come back into Norway. So, when I went to Patong last christmas I meet her in a bar in Soi Seapearl. So shes back where she started, and she got what she deserved. This is how stupid thailadies can be. Instead of having a good life in Norway, she is back selling herself. Her family have a nice house and a new car. But they have no money for furnitures and fuel..... I hope some thailadies read this and understand what happens if they get to greedy. Im not shure if this story have been of interest for you guys, but I think its important to learn to know the ladies before you get to emotionel with them. I know the most of you are butterflying, but for those of you that want to get married to a thai, keep this in mind. BTW, Im probably going to marry one myself one day.  
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17-05-2004, 02:48
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Hi Geir , Yes we are interested to read these stories as although many of us butterfly , there are just as many start to fall for 1 girl and start to think maybe i picked the right one this time . I aint just talking about forum members here , im also talking about the thousands of single men descending on los each year , there are many stories out there , some that were successes (although IMHO thats the minority) and many horror stories too , GREED seems to be the key word with many bg's and the simple fact is most of them dont seem to be able to look at the long term picture , the life changing benefits of hooking up with farang and not just quick and easy money in the short term , no disrespect to you Geir but i do feel you should have seen the warning signs on this one , particularly as the other guy killed himself over this greedy girl .....to be honest i dream of winning the lottery in the UK and becoming an overnight millionaire but i do know even that much still would not be enough for some of the greediest of b/g's. Its a no win situation 
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17-05-2004, 02:59
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17-05-2004, 05:54
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Geirs story
I have been lucky enough to know Geir for about 2.5 years now.
He has many great stories about Thailand and Thai ladies. I remember when he arrived for the first time in Patong. His first ever trip to Thailand, he had a little bit of problems, but he learned VERY quickly. Believe me, Geir is no fool. He knew all the time what he was doing, and why he was doing it. I met his thai girlfriend in Norway when I went to visit him. Very nice girl. Probably one of the better ones. Geir knew exactly what was happening all along. Me and him have talked about it many times. I am sure if she wasnt so greedy, she would not be on her knees now, sucking a mouldy old todger for 1,000 baht, but maybe she likes it  Maybe the problem is that these girls dont look into the future too far. 5 years down the road is a long long time for them. They take what they can now, and live by the consequences. Geir was always in control. Believe me, if you are in Thailand, and Geir is there, go and see him and have a drink. He is one of the nicest guys you will ever meet. I am sure me and him will be friends for a long long time to come. As long as he doesnt go stealing my ladyboys !
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17-05-2004, 06:33
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Different country similair storey...
Geir, Thanks for sharing mate...
I know this is a bit of track but it reminds me of my own story. My last Expat placement was in Botswana, Africa and I got married to a 9.5/10 black african girl. When we were in Africa everything was Ok with her as her family was there and kept her on a tight leash so as not to let me slip under the radar. Plus she had a daughter that I really cared and loved as my own so I married her against the advise of nearly everyone I knew... When I meet her she had asked me for money for her rent and clothes for her baby so I guess I should have seen the warning signs. And then again maybe not as love is blind. I moved with her and the bubba to Singaopore and not less than two weeks in her true colours shone through - She started going out during the day and coming back late - She got herself a boyfriend and started buying new clothes and the likes. I was still pretty broke as Singapore can be expensive to set up in and I had been earning African wages for the previous 2 and a half years... I thought bright lights and all so I tried to get a hold of the situation and gave her a lot of chance - a year and a halfs worth to be exact because I loved her and because of her daughter who called me Daddy. But like all these things greed was the killer and she kept at - I found hidden bank accounts with tens of thousands of dollars in them, she had been FL to other Farangs and the local Chinese in the Orchard Towers - I knew she was up to no good as some weeks she would not come home for four nights a week. She even bullshitteed me into her going to Malaysia for a week with her "school" friends to find out she had gone with one of her boyfriends - This happened another time with her going to LOS with a different boyfriend... Anyway I am unfortunately one of the most stubborn people I know and refused to give in - Refused to admit I had made a mistake and kick her to the curb. Even set up marraige counciling sessions to try and get her to see reason. Then around Christmas last year she said she was visiting her home - I found out from her daughter who went with that she was actually staying in a five star hotel in Botswana with a German guy who she had hooked up with in Singapore... Well that was enough and I turned the house upside down looking for evidence to get me out of this hell hole of a situation without having to pay Alimony and Maintenance. I found it - two weeks before she left for home she had had an abortion without me knowing about it - Sad to say I had not been sleeping with her for over a year as I knew what she was upto and did'nt want to get a disease and/or get her pregnant and make getting out harder - I knew it was'nt mine and upon closer inspection I found a credit card payment slip attached to the hospital reciept from one of her known to me boyfriends... That was that - I took advantage of her not being in Singapore and cancelled her Dependents Pass and set the lawyers on the attack. She is now in Botswana having spent most of her cash on her family - These extended families can rip through money like no ones business and even the new car she bought is now wasted as she crashed it by her own fault and she did'nt have enough sense to get insurance. I suppose if you never actually work hard for money you never know to protect or look after it - Easy cash is spent in a flash... So Geir, thanks for sharing mate - Different country but similair experiences with a third world bride... These girls seem to have no sense of time and when they have a good thing going for them. I know some out there will say that it not their culture, but that is BS as many local girls make it good, have happy families with their farangs and never get up to this sort of carry on - And yes, I am talking about ex BG's. From experience it seems the older the BG is when they convert to Nice Girl the better the odds are that it will work out as they have been stupid before and know where it will all end for them... Maybe now that I have shared a bit the other board members might understand why I am so bitter towards long term relationships with women and why I have emersed myself completly in the pay as you go play boy scene of SE Asia...
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Be Like Water Last edited by Bafana : 17-05-2004 at 06:41.
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17-05-2004, 11:29
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Geir, cheers for sharing your story. The saddest bit was that the original sod topped himself over her. Wow, that's a bummer. Clearly you knew what you were dealing with from the get go, although you were extremely generous to send money back to her family and pay for her holiday to LoS (I wouldn't do so, but that's just me). Glad you took the time to share your tale with us!
Bafana, wow, another good tale. Sounds like your girl was a big-time player. Gone for 4 nights at a time?! I couldn't take 1 night of that, me. Again, like Geir, I'm glad you came out ok. Too bad for the little girl...Hopefully she won't turn into a sequel to her mother. It never ceases to amazing how these Third World ladies of night can charm and manipulate us...
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17-05-2004, 12:01
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Thanks to Geir and Bafana for sharing
After hearing both your stories I will be combing the orphanges for Thai ladies, and only after finding one who's over 18 and missing both parents with no brother and sisters will I settle.
 What do you think the odds are I can find this filly?
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17-05-2004, 13:47
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GOT TO AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT SCORE MIKEE.... MET HIM AT CRIMBO...... A TOP BLOKE............
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17-05-2004, 16:54
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17-05-2004, 17:03
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Geir
Quote - Instead she is getting humped by an old nasty coustumer for small money.
No, you have got it wrong. That was YOU !!! Now she probably has a great time with young men with lots of money
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17-05-2004, 17:29
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17-05-2004, 22:32
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that is true.a lot of the thai girls i have met said they never look into the future as no1 knows what will happen.they live for today and today only.thats why when they got cash they splash it,then moan they have nothing left 2 weeks into the month.i met 1 girl who seemed semi responsible.she still never looked into the future but she bought herself gold when she had money.when i asked why she said so that she doesnt flitter away the money she has earnt,and then if she needs money she cashes in a bit of jewelry. steve
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18-05-2004, 14:48
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I had more or less the same kind of problems with my ex girlfriend (Samphan).
She had everything to be happy but by having a so bad attitude and asking more and more, she will finish her life as a ****** or worse, dying from a STD...
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18-05-2004, 17:13
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Hello Geir
Is she still working in Soi Seapearl? I met a girl in Soi Seapearl who was speaking Norwegian. Nice looking girl. She told me her boyfriend died in a motorbike accident. Maybe it's the same girl. Supermao
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18-05-2004, 20:18
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BTW are you sober now?
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19-05-2004, 19:50
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20-05-2004, 21:39
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JONNY 
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25-05-2004, 02:46
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sound like my ex-girlfriend before she went to norway...
you have to remember...I don't want to be harsh...most girls don't give a shit... Most BG's don't give a shit about selling themselves...She would rather sell her self than be cold and listen to someone tell her what to do. No she can smoke, drink and play hi low (or cards) I have spoke to many that don't want to live in Norway or anywhere else for that matter...understand they go to Norway for MONEY.
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