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Old 19-05-2004, 22:22
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Are they a ladyboy?

Hi,

In a previous post, the question was asked about ladyboys 'conning' people for a week when they were on holiday (not making them aware they were/had been a man).

This is a good story.

The first few times I came to Thailand, I got in tow with a ladyboy. You have all seen there photo before on the forum. Anyway, I asked her if she had ever fallen in love with anyone. She said yes, only one time. He was an australian man. He liked her a lot, but never knew they were a ladyboy.
Anyway, this man asked the ladyboy to go and live in australia with him. I dont know how they managed it, but the ladyboy ended up living in australia. The man would go to work, and she would stay at home, looking after the house, garden and cooking etc. The man wasnt particularly horny. Maybe once or twice a week he would want sex, but what the ladyboy used to do, was buy a load of tampons, then once a month tell him they couldnt have sex because she had her period
After a few months this guy said he wanted a baby with the ladyboy, and of course the ladyboy just said ok. Naturally nothing was happening but it wasnt a problem, UNTIL, one of the australian guys friends went to thailand, 'fell in love' with a REAL thai girl and brought them back to australia.
Of course once the friend and his real thai girl came to visit, she saw that he was with a ladyboy, and told her boyfriend.
The shit hit the fan and the ladyboy got kicked to fcuk and thrown out the house.

So, the moral of the story might be to check the vagina VERY closely for stitches. They arent the size of what you would get on a cricket ball. They are very very faint and difficult to see unless you have had your face right into it (which naturally I have)

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Old 19-05-2004, 22:33
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I think he was stupid that kicked her/him out. It was just a small lie.
Im shure that his friend that married the real thailady got much more trouble in his relationship.
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I almost got engaged with a LB from Bangkok. I had been suspicious for quite a while but she was just too damn good at lying about it. She is a classic example of how dangerous we guys can be when hunting for girls in Thailand. I swear that she look so perfectly woman from tip to toe that no one who had met her upclose could ever have a single clue. Some people say a good makeup could do the magic, but she actually look better when without it. She's just so damn cute!

The first clue that I got is when she show me pictures of her friends in her handphone. All seems to look like typical LB. The second clue is her small adam's apple. I should be very suspicious about it but at that time it's just too unbelievable for me that she is man. After then I begin to discover more and more clues like she won't show me her passport when I travel with her, she won't shower with me, and she won't let me have close look at her pussy. Yet I still can't quite convince myself to believe it. Until one day I ask her to see a gynaecologist with me and her reaction proved me correct. She finally admitted to me that she had operation before to change into a woman. By the time I had already been dating with her for six months and brought her to see my parents.

I do believe what really make this whole trick works is that she's truly in love with me and plan to develop a long term with me. Did she choose to be what she is? She's just another person who is in search for real love. For a man who is so desparately to become a real woman, even an LB as convincing as she do, will our society ever give her the position that she want?

I am not really angry with her, on the contrary I feel sad and bitter for her. Like a lot of lady or ladyboy from the Isan area, her family is so poor that she had to work in the bar out of no choice. She is so desparate to become a woman that this is the only way to finance her transformation. She wants to be a good girl. she wants me to be happy, she gave up her job in bar to live a poor life in her hometown. Now that I can no longer be with her, she told me she plan to go back to bar as the only way she can survive. How many guys like me will she met? How many more broken heart will she have? What will her life become? Where will she go?

To be honest I will still stay in touch with her. Although my love cannot be given to a was-man, I still want to know that her life will be ok in the future. I hope my story can tell you guys that there are those 'untypical' LB out there. Be very careful if you are not looking for one of them, they are just so perfect that you won't have a clue. But still treat them with repect as they are the same normal descent human being who needs love and care. They just happen to be in the wrong body.
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That's a really good, honest and bold first post chic jing. You sound like you also really liked the person, so my question, why didn't you continue to see her once you knew the truth? you said she was more female than anyone you had ever met and that no one else would have known, or was it others opinions that you were worried about?
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I almost got engaged with a LB from Bangkok. I had been suspicious for quite a while but she was just too damn good at lying about it. She is a classic example of how dangerous we guys can be when hunting for girls in Thailand. I swear that she look so perfectly woman from tip to toe that no one who had met her upclose could ever have a single clue. Some people say a good makeup could do the magic, but she actually look better when without it. She's just so damn cute!

The first clue that I got is when she show me pictures of her friends in her handphone. All seems to look like typical LB. The second clue is her small adam's apple. I should be very suspicious about it but at that time it's just too unbelievable for me that she is man. After then I begin to discover more and more clues like she won't show me her passport when I travel with her, she won't shower with me, and she won't let me have close look at her pussy. Yet I still can't quite convince myself to believe it. Until one day I ask her to see a gynaecologist with me and her reaction proved me correct. She finally admitted to me that she had operation before to change into a woman. By the time I had already been dating with her for six months and brought her to see my parents.

I do believe what really make this whole trick works is that she's truly in love with me and plan to develop a long term with me. Did she choose to be what she is? She's just another person who is in search for real love. For a man who is so desparately to become a real woman, even an LB as convincing as she do, will our society ever give her the position that she want?

I am not really angry with her, on the contrary I feel sad and bitter for her. Like a lot of lady or ladyboy from the Isan area, her family is so poor that she had to work in the bar out of no choice. She is so desparate to become a woman that this is the only way to finance her transformation. She wants to be a good girl. she wants me to be happy, she gave up her job in bar to live a poor life in her hometown. Now that I can no longer be with her, she told me she plan to go back to bar as the only way she can survive. How many guys like me will she met? How many more broken heart will she have? What will her life become? Where will she go?

To be honest I will still stay in touch with her. Although my love cannot be given to a was-man, I still want to know that her life will be ok in the future. I hope my story can tell you guys that there are those 'untypical' LB out there. Be very careful if you are not looking for one of them, they are just so perfect that you won't have a clue. But still treat them with repect as they are the same normal descent human being who needs love and care. They just happen to be in the wrong body.
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Surely, one of the most important things in ANY relationship is honesty! If you are not honest from the start (no matter what the truth is) then there is no future. If these katoeys told the truth from the start, they wouldn't risk being hurt a lot, lot worse in the future.

Personally, I have more sympathy for the men that are decieved and lied to.
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When they won't let you go down on them, then you really have to be pretty suspicious, and they are probably a LB. It is very rare that a real girl doesn't like a guy to go down. It happens, but very rare.

On my second tour, one of the first girls I hooked up with was very, very pretty, and very petite, short, slim body. She would not let me go down on her. I went with her two nights. She was really very nice, but not my type. I did feel that there was something odd about her, but could not put my finger on it.

It wasn't until a year or so later, looking back at my old pics, that it occurred to me that she was probably a LB. At the time I met her, I hadn't really been exposed to LBs much. But after you have seen a lot of them, you begin to see a difference between what they look like and what the real girls look like. In many cases the LBs are prettier, but it is a different kind of look. Not less feminine looking, but just a way that a real TG doesn't look like.
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I did feel that there was something odd about her, but could not put my finger on it.

I'm sure if you'd put your finger on it , you'd have known.....
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well guys, it is that I did not like the first and last experience. No ladiesd here in Langkawi, although I wonder if the girl working in the hotel, was not hitting on me this afternoon. As she is muslim, you cannot see it, is quiet modern, I did not try.

But in the place down the road, where the meals are fantastic, I get fancied by all the ladie-boys that work there. Normal, mostly couples here!

Again I am not in to it, but they are of tremendous beauty, nicer then the ones in Thailand.
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Yeah, i tried and i liked it
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Well actually I won't mind to see her again when I go to Thailand. But she told me that she'd rather not. She asked me to never call her again. If I don't call her she may be able to forget me someday. I might not be able to love her anymore but I still want to know that she's ok...the person that I loved, is just an illusion, it had never existed.

As Jaybee said, I am just doing the same thing to myself that she was. She know I will find out one day but still she wish that I will love her for who she is. I know she probably is a LB but still wish that she might be not. I feel pity for her more than anger. We both make mistake. What makes me feel being stabbed in my heart is when she told me in tears that it's not her choice to be born in a man's body.

She have asked me one question that is rather provoking. What is the difference between a post-op LB and a woman that cannot give birth? Will you accept a woman who will not have a baby with you? Other than that what's the difference between a LB and a real woman? We are all flesh and bones, the difference is just the outer form that we take. Does it really matter that she was once a man? A granny was once a beautiful woman, does it justify that you can love a granny because she was once a beautiful woman?

Thinking deeply she's probably correct. We are all prisoner of our own mind. It is our mind that's making all the difference. But how many of us can really jump out of the circle? Or are we just worrying about other's opinion?
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dear jazz i want to bet with you that if i make a pick you'll never see or feel the difference between a BOB or a bg you will fall for it like most of us

Big boy I still have no idea how a genetic man could possibly look like this. She actually looks like Jessica Alba. The only thing that gives way is the slight adam's apple. If she have a plastic surgeon, Michael Jackson should be coming to Bangkok and flip the city over to search this guy out.
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to find out if she is a ladyboy. just ask if she know denver ,if the answer is yes, it is a ladyboy 555555
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I third it!! 5555555555 Just a quick one on Adams Apples! I was informed there was a relatively safe operation being undertaken on Phuket now for the LB's to have this taken back by "Shaving" it!

I'm not exclusively a 'Bob Hunter' but I have found them to be some of the most feminine of 'girls (People) I have met! Strange as that may seem. I also see loads of reports of guys mistaking LB's for girls! Quote "Imagine my surprise when I woke up next to a bloke" I find that quite difficult to believe unless you were totally out of you tree and probably wouldn't care what or who you woke up next too anyway! I've lost count how many times I have stood in a bar in Phuket with other expats who are looking at girls and saying things like "Look at the ar5e on her and Wow look at the top B0llocks on her" etc etc and I then told them they are in fact LB's, just to see them screw up thier faces in disgust! The LB's are obviously doing something right! Anyway, thier loss is usually my gain!

Every 'girl' I have chatted to before propositioning has openly told me she is a ladyboy. I have never had one let it get to such a stage i.e. vunerable (For her!) and alone in a strangers bedroom before saying "I'm a ladyboy" They will tell you! They don't want the possible reprecussions of not telling a potentially violent person who has been on the beer most of the day and night! - IMHO You won't need to ask anyway, unless you are a total dork with your eyes closed to your surroundings!

IMHO also, while I am spouting off. I think that many of the 'scare-mongerers' with regard to LB's haven't actually sat and talked to them, had a laugh with them, bought them a drink or three, never mind taken them back to thier room! Enough said! I think if you go with the Anti-LB attitude to the LOS then your demeanour towards them will be picked up pretty quickly, these girls have a good 'antenna' for those kinds of people and try to avoid them if possible! Wake up and smell the Coffee! There are Ladyboys in Thailand! There are also thousands of beautiful girls to go around. Be polite to them, it costs nothing and move on!

A groups of LB's attacked me down the beach one night! OK, that could have been a gang of blokes, a gang of expats!, a gang of girls, Tuk Tuk drivers, drug dealers, transplant kidney dealers!! We've seen it all. Don't go to the beach alone at night! Easy! They are always in my face asking me for money to have my photo taken with them! So is the bloke with the monkey, I won't mention the tailors!!! Ever been dragged in a bar by about six girls trying to get to the MTB! It's called business!

If you want to go with a LB in the words of the famous slogan of Nike "Just Do It!" Don't keep bloody harping on about it! If you don't like the experience or want that experience! So be it, move on, get over it.

I for one do what I want in my life and haven't really the time or the inclination to listen to the Anti-Darkside Brigade and LB trolls, in fact, they just bore me to death! Just do what you wanna do, enjoy yourself, it's your life, relax and have a great time.

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She have asked me one question that is rather provoking. What is the difference between a post-op LB and a woman that cannot give birth? Will you accept a woman who will not have a baby with you? Other than that what's the difference between a LB and a real woman?

Or are we just worrying about other's opinion?

Queston asked. Question answered. I was going to answer the question which your LB posed to you, but then you answered it yourself in the last sentence!!
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Queston asked. Question answered. I was going to answer the question which your LB posed to you, but then you answered it yourself in the last sentence!!

Until now I still can't fit a male image onto her. In my mind she's still the same cute girl who loves Britney Spears and sing happily when hear a song she likes. She's a girl, inner or outer, except her past, and her functionality to reproduce. You are right, my biggest problem is the fear of the acceptance of our society.