advice on 'long time' girls please

[hishnick]

hi everyone, only my 2nd posting...i would like to know the scenarios please:
you find a girl and you negotiate a long time....what happens next?

do they say 'hang on' whilst they fly off round the corner to pick up their overnight bag or a change of clothes.?

if your accom is not within walking distance, is it in a taxi, or do they all have their own scooters and you hop on the back?

the morning after: you want to go to the beach; and you fancy the company- is she likely to say yes and is it etiquette to 'tip' her for staying with you and keeping that sun oil rubbed?

and the worst bit-can you suggest a polite way of parting company.

love to read your experiences.
thanks everyone

[brit]

You don't mention what your trip plans are - BKK & Pattaya time as well as phuket? The answers a slightly different for each place.

Originally Posted by hishnick

do they say 'hang on' whilst they fly off round the corner to pick up their overnight bag or a change of clothes.?

If they're in a gogo or there's a few bars in BKK & Patts they'll change into street clothes first. Otherwise they'll just grab their bag and be ready. You also need to pay the barfine first.

Originally Posted by hishnick

if your accom is not within walking distance, is it in a taxi, or do they all have their own scooters and you hop on the back?

In phuket book a hotel within walking distance. End of.

Elsewhere it's in a taxi if you can't walk there. Some girls have bikes (certainly not all), I love riding around on the back of them actually but there's no way I'd get on some (possibly half-cut) chick's motosai at 2am in BKK!

Originally Posted by hishnick

the morning after: you want to go to the beach; and you fancy the company- is she likely to say yes and is it etiquette to 'tip' her for staying with you and keeping that sun oil rubbed?

Up to her if she wants to go. If I want to see a girl again during the daytime I usually just tell her I'm doing xxxxx today to dangle the line out there and see if she bites and then ask. I don't know if there's an etiquette about it but I don't tip here personally, but then I'd never ask a girl to the beach in the morning. A few things - 1) most really try to avoid the sun, 2) they need/want to go home at some point, morning is the best time for them and you can meet up later in the day, 3) sounds bloody boring to be honest. Better to invite them back in the afternoon for something they can enjoy like prawn fishing, etc.

Originally Posted by hishnick

and the worst bit-can you suggest a polite way of parting company.

There's a whole thread about it somewhere with some good answers on there.

[Dodger]

Think Brit has covered most of it for you.

With me the following day was usually the following afternoon anyway by the time we had both woke up and got sorted for the day. Most times they went home in the afternoon but when not it just happened, they hang around doing whatever I'd decided to do.

Getting rid of them, do a search as there is an extensive post but to try and precis it, be firmish and concise with your request for them to go. Make up an excuse if it sits better with you but never say maybe words, always concise answers of yes or no, (black and white) every possible other word of maybe will be turned into yes and thats where problems arise.

[Dupree00]

Originally Posted by hishnick

and the worst bit-can you suggest a polite way of parting company.

Say Good-bye.

[LivinLOS]

Originally Posted by brit

There's a whole thread about it somewhere with some good answers on there.

Originally Posted by Dodger

Getting rid of them, do a search as there is an extensive post but to try and precis it, be firmish and concise with your request for them to go. Make up an excuse if it sits better with you but never say maybe words, always concise answers of yes or no, (black and white) every possible other word of maybe will be turned into yes and thats where problems arise.

An old staple is "I must go work now.. Go internet shop" etc.. Also helps to remind them that we have to think about money too !!