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Old 10-10-2007, 03:41
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looking at that site now...

Paying £1,950 for an Introduction Fee to TPI Svs UK Ltd is like a huge bar fine..... to put it crudely , you still need to sample the goods...

So is part of the 'shes a good girl' test to wait and see how long it takes before she gives out ?

Unless your castrated your preference will be for a girl that gives it her best shot between the sheets, plus she can cook and clean and be good company, etc etc

I think its a waste of money. I prefer the freedom of 'free choice' rather than feeling pressured into rushing to choose from some pre-filtered range of girls cos ive dished out 2 grand. What if the one u do choose doesn't 'do it' for you ..... can you try another one from their site ?

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lol i was hoping this thread would die off.

I was also careful not to advertise any particular dating company etc.

Anyways bud thanks for the good luck...''

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Old 10-10-2007, 04:02
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lol i was hoping this thread would die off.

I was also careful not to advertise any particular dating company etc.

Anyways bud thanks for the good luck...''

KB

I dont think it will die out , 90% of guys here are intrigued by Thai girls, the rest in to LB's 555..... and this is a focused site for just that ..... you posted some reasonable personal argument as to why ur choosing the dating site way as a new tactic in finding the 'right girl'..... i think personally u should keep trying the bar route..... maybe in other areas of Thailand. Lots of good advice from the local expats as well.

If you've got the cash , time and patience then you can be cool about finding the right girl.....

.... but now you have committed , give it a go, tell us the results as we are all cheering u on fella

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Well i hope it works out for me and if it's meant to be then it shall be...''
I will be truthful and honest, if i have a nightmare and it turns out to be a disaster, i will tell the story. I hope i have a good ending and find what I'm looking for,
speak to you guys soon. Regards KB

On a lighter note KB.

A friend of mine recently made a couple of remarks on the subject of women:

Men are stupid.

Women are crazy. The crazier the woman, the better the pussy. The stupider the man, the more likely to get married.



Profile of the typical mail-order bride customer.

"I want a woman who challenges me not one that walks two steps behind.

Having said that, I worship a woman who will give me a full-body massage on request".

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Old 13-10-2007, 06:37
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Good luck to you.
1/2 the marriages over here go pearshaped anyway, so nothing is ever certain no matter how long youve known the girl or where she comes from.
this route of yours is as good as any for the old ball and chain.
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lol i was hoping this thread would die off.
But didn't you just say that you would keep us posted, for better or for worse?
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Therein lies my problem, as I like great sex, but crazy women are impossible to live with for very long.
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Old 14-10-2007, 05:34
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But didn't you just say that you would keep us posted, for better or for worse?


I've got nothing more to tell you yet lol

OK, so Bangkok in December meeting a few girls I liked from pictures, three weeks in total for holiday plus looking forward being there for christmas.



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Good luck to you.
1/2 the marriages over here go pearshaped anyway, so nothing is ever certain no matter how long youve known the girl or where she comes from.
this route of yours is as good as any for the old ball and chain.
All the best fella.

Thanks mate, totally agree that's exactly how i see it myself. I have girls here that are interested sure, english girls and even a romanian for example, but compared to thai women still a big difference, lucky for me I've seen Thailand over the last couple of years and had the benefit to see outside of the fishbowl.

Never going to Thailand ? i would be towing the line by now just like some of my friends who know no different............''
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Therein lies my problem, as I like great sex, but crazy women are impossible to live with for very long.

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It's not a process l would get involved in.

l mean once you meet these girls....how long do you have before you decide she is the one ? Quite difficult l would imagine if you are due back at work in farangland the week after....and does her feelings come into pay at all?....or has she a certain time frame to fall in love with you ?....or isin't that important ?....if she doesn't fall in love with you, does she go back into the box and another one chosen for the same process ? and if she does say she loves you, do you believe her or is she just telling porkies like most of the Bg's do ? or TG's that want to meet farangs for that matter.....or because she is from a "Reputable Agency" she will be truthful ?....because only "good girls" use "Reputable Agencies" and the never lie about anything.

And will she have any Thai BF's whilst you are apart, or will she be faithful and not sleep around, because she is able to go without sex for long periods.....maybe you will give her a green light for the ocassional leg over with the Motorbike Taxi man up and across the Soi.

Or maybe love is not important....so long as you are happy with her you can marry her and introduce her to mother?.....seems very Mail Order Brideish to me, not to mention costly if it goes pear shaped.

Ok....l have been negative, and cynical (l'm consistent with that) maybe it will work for you.....as l said Good Luck with your project.
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My apologies......it's a temprorary thing....not permamnent in any shape or form.
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It's not a process l would get involved in.

l mean once you meet these girls....how long do you have before you decide she is the one ? Quite difficult l would imagine if you are due back at work in farangland the week after....and does her feelings come into pay at all?....or has she a certain time frame to fall in love with you ?....or isin't that important ?....if she doesn't fall in love with you, does she go back into the box and another one chosen for the same process ? and if she does say she loves you, do you believe her or is she just telling porkies like most of the Bg's do ? or TG's that want to meet farangs for that matter.....or because she is from a "Reputable Agency" she will be truthful ?....because only "good girls" use "Reputable Agencies" and the never lie about anything.

And will she have any Thai BF's whilst you are apart, or will she be faithful and not sleep around, because she is able to go without sex for long periods.....maybe you will give her a green light for the ocassional leg over with the Motorbike Taxi man up and across the Soi.

Or maybe love is not important....so long as you are happy with her you can marry her and introduce her to mother?.....seems very Mail Order Brideish to me, not to mention costly if it goes pear shaped.

Ok....l have been negative, and cynical (l'm consistent with that) maybe it will work for you.....as l said Good Luck with your project.


Well Mav,

What you have written is totally correct and of course could well be the reality of my situation (no pun intended) I'm going to give it go, based on the many successes of people meeting in this way, i hope i stand as good a chance as anybody. I'm thinking many couple's do stay together otherwise these places would i presume soon close down if they didn't work. I think with the girl making a serious commitment of marriage and moving to my country for example shows a real determination to make it work on both sides. I hope mine will be one of the successes but at the same time it could as quickly be the biggest mistake of my life. I understand that fully and is the risk I’m prepared to take.

I hope i prove myself right and don't hear your words and others ringing in my ears when it goes wrong.


Appreciate the good luck,

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Well Mav,

What you have written is totally correct and of course could well be the reality of my situation (no pun intended) I'm going to give it go, based on the many successes of people meeting in this way, i hope i stand as good a chance as anybody. I'm thinking many couple's do stay together otherwise these places would i presume soon close down if they didn't work. I think with the girl making a serious commitment of marriage and moving to my country for example shows a real determination to make it work on both sides. I hope mine will be one of the successes but at the same time it could as quickly be the biggest mistake of my life. I understand that fully and is the risk I’m prepared to take.

I hope i prove myself right and don't hear your words and others ringing in my ears when it goes wrong.


Appreciate the good luck,

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Yes, I think you stand as good a chance as anybody, and good luck to you then. BTW, do you know if they are quoting odds on this sort of arrangement?
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Old 16-10-2007, 17:20
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Yes, I think you stand as good a chance as anybody, and good luck to you then. BTW, do you know if they are quoting odds on this sort of arrangement?

lol I don't know, going into this probably best i don't !
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lol I don't know, going into this probably best i don't !
When I place a large wager, I do prefer to know the odds I am getting. But, to each his own. Whatever floats your boat!
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I hear what your saying,

On a serious note, and this is the truth the money i have paid is the same sort of money I tend to spend doing the bar girl scene, drinking everyday so the money does not really worry me too much it's what i have come to expect to spend. Because i will not be doing the bar scene in the same way it may even turn out to be a cheaper holiday for me.

This time around I'm going with my friend and girlfriend from England both visiting Thailand for the first time.

I will keep sober with a sensible approach, it will be a different sort of holiday for me if i may still call it that.

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Hello guys its been few years since i first joined this forum as a newbie,

The first time i went to Thailand i will never forget it best time of my life and a serious changing point even now i smile about it just thinking about it...''

However been back a few times since travelled around learned so much even into Cambodia i have f**ck more than i could ever wish for loved every minute of it felt like a 18 year boy again those were the days eh.

But i want to settle down i had my time i'm 38 i met so many bar girls but have learned over the years that these girls ruined due to the constant bar scene as per a pervious post are not something you want to keep.

Anyway since i started here i will finish here i have gone with a thai introduction service in Bangkok to meet a genuine Thai women who like myself wants to make a real go of it, never worked in a bar and someone i can take home to my mother, i have signed up and paid my money and will be in Bangkok this December to see it through and hopefully meet my future wife i sitting here having a few beers talking to you guys because no-else knows what i'm doing so any response or opinions would be appreiciated.

It is something i do will do everything i can to make it work

Just wondering Kathleen Billy if it turned out the way you wanted; if it's not too early to ask?
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On a lighter note KB.

A friend of mine recently made a couple of remarks on the subject of women:

Men are stupid.

Women are crazy. The crazier the woman, the better the pussy. The stupider the man, the more likely to get married.



Profile of the typical mail-order bride customer.

"I want a woman who challenges me not one that walks two steps behind.

Having said that, I worship a woman who will give me a full-body massage on request".

Well im in cambodia at the moment started the process last week in thailand for want of a better word interviewed about ten girls and went on one date no luck so far im in no rush. I will wait and wait for as long as needed there has been some beautiful girls pass through and i do still hope to find the right girl i fly back in a couple to see three more i rather lose the money then jump in with haste
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This gets weirder and weirder by the minute, 'Ive interviewed 10 girls so far, popped over to cambo for .............? and popping back to interview 3 more'

Absolutely insane, nearly had me speechless!!!
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Heh I don't remember writing that, I just wrote what I was thinking instead of thinking what I was writing.

Oh well still stand by it, interview someone for a day then take them home and marry them..............snowball comes to mind, this guy seemed so sensible in the past .........(shaking my head as if that will make me see some sense in it).
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Heh I don't remember writing that, I just wrote what I was thinking instead of thinking what I was writing.

Oh well still stand by it, interview someone for a day then take them home and marry them..............snowball comes to mind, this guy seemed so sensible in the past .........(shaking my head as if that will make me see some sense in it).
Well im actually havin a good holiday and fairly relaxed about the whole process really no big deal dont shake your head upsets me that my situation would worry you lol everything is fine this end honestly bud
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Don't understand the mentality of paying huge sums of money to be introduced to "desperate to find a farang husband" women when on a daily basis you can walk into any shopping mall and have dozens of sales girls smile at you and say hello and be up for a mini interview and maybe a meet after work.

Louis Therouxs' documentary in case you haven't seen it...Thai Brides&g