I'm looking to find a genuine thai lady

[easyrider_au]

They probably drove that down to the wharf & met up with the family, for an 11,000b lunch on a river boat.

[Mav]

Originally Posted by Nanook

Craig, Probable a brand new BMW 645 CSi!!!

Nice motor Nanny.....wouldn't find that in ER's yard.

Credit to KB for being honest with the feebback on his project.

[kathleenbilly]

Originally Posted by Critical Mass

Hi KB.

I empathize with your situation.

Most yearn for someone to love and be loved, and if she's cute and sexy, then that's a huge bonus.

Unfortunately any couple involves two independent beings who have their own beliefs and desires.

If one of these girls successfully passes your criteria, coming from a third world land where it's a national ambition for single women to climb out of their poverty by securing a relatively wealthy falang, you have no way of knowing whether it's for you or the status you bring.

Sorry to sound so cynical but the only way to be sure, is to date women who are wealthier than you.

The countryside is littered with many cases involving falang/thai divorces, at the other end of the process.

Over 100 Thai Women File For Divorce With Foreign Husbands In Khon Kaen In 3 Months - Thailand Forum

If there are children involved, God forbid.

What I would do is meet women the natural way, and if something develops then go with it.

The way it works is you meet women and one day you'll fall for one. If she feels the same way you'll live with each other and your relationship will grow. In time you will develop a strong feeling of being inseparable. At this point you might start to consider marriage.


Having said that, I believe your betrothed is already out there waiting for you to find her.

CM

Thank you what you have wrote is truthful and honest, without the need to ram it down my throat. It is the closest to what is now, reluctantly also my own views from the experience i have had.

[LivinLOS]

With no desire to try to do any 'told you so' crap.. After all you still may meet someone you click with.

If its really your goal, then try to engineer a long stay, try to get time from work and actually live here even briefly. If your not a bar type person then use the dating sites etc. But trying to click in such a sort period of time is not an easy proposition. Being resident gives them more idea about you also its real life v holiday life.

[sledge038]

Originally Posted by Nanook

Craig, Probable a brand new BMW 645 CSi!!!

oh my buddha
she must play the game well

[FlyFree]

Originally Posted by kathleenbilly

OK Flyfree thanks for the clear advice i will write off the money and stop seeing girls through the agency. Happy Landings again for me

Now that you have told me it is near zero chance i can move on and so can everybody else on this thread.

you all take care and thanks for setting me straight,

Regards,

KB

Virtually every poster here has given the same advice to you, going into lengthy detail about the why's and wherefores. Thought it's time someone said it straight, without repeating all the motivations as you seem to totally ignore everybody despite the fact that you asked for advice in the first place. Maybe you are just looking for justification. Doubt you'll find it here.

OK, great idea. Go for it. Truly, you have my best wishes.