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12-10-2007, 07:09
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And you think you have the rep of a saint???  5555555
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12-10-2007, 07:11
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Agree with you there Nicke. I also think that you canbe happy togheter with that girl and be happy with her. But dont trust her blindfully when you suport\sponsor her from another country.becouse there are money to earn and money are a big issue here. But at last its when you staying with her you and her will feel if this is something to build a future on! If you are in another country and try to suport her you will never know.
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12-10-2007, 07:14
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DIS, I guess I don't fully understand, what your proposition is, with (your) young lady.
Are you saying, that you are inclined to offer her enough money, to keep her from "working"? If so, do I understand that you would be OK with her, remaining in Patong? The usual (proclaimed) scenario with BG's is, that they're working to support their family. (Mom & Dad, kids left from deadbeat Thai father, etc.) If that's the case, they most usually are anxious to quit the bar scene, and return to living at home, with their family. If your "sponsorship" is given, in that context...then I think that it is a good thing. (providing that you and the lady are serious, about a LT commit) Otherwise, it's my opinion, that giving money to a BG and leaving her in the bar...or, even in Patong (bar scene) with all the bars, girlfriends, ex BF's, customers etc., could be a mistake. Too many "temptations", shall we say. Either way, I wish you both the best of luck and a happy future.
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12-10-2007, 07:16
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Agree entirely, going into any relationship blind is a death blow to it. The responses are fascinating so far. Thanks guys.
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12-10-2007, 07:16
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Many years ago, one of my girls went back home to her village as she got a sponsor/boyfriend. She was 30+ and not that attractive anymore. What I heard was that she used her money to have fun with young handsome karaoke boys, the kind of boys she would otherwise not attract anymore without the money. As a note to those thinking that their girls being home in village is safer than being in Patong/bkk/pattaya. Also most girls have ex boyfriends or husbands in their village, or fathers to their childs.
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12-10-2007, 07:18
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Call them "Giks" don't they ?
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12-10-2007, 07:24
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Excellent points Pablo. She is presently back home and will be going back to Patong in about 3 weeks. At the moment my support is for that scenario whilst we both decide where we go next. When she returns to Phuket she will be looking for a house to rent LT which I will pay for as I want a base in LOS anyway. Thanks for the good wishes m8
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12-10-2007, 07:25
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Ok so she used her money to have fun with karaoke boys.So she used her money on thai men to show that she had money or did she use money on farang karaoke men? Maybe not so smart because she probably had some more years in her?? Maybe all the cash made her blind for a while?
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12-10-2007, 07:26
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One of the scenarios we have no control over and must take at face value I guess. An attractive woman is safe from temptation nowhere.
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12-10-2007, 07:28
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What she did sounds a lot like what a lot of farangs do to get a woman. Still cant judge them, we are as bad!! One thing is for certain and not just in LOS: The more money I earned, the more handsome I became to women.
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12-10-2007, 07:35
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Jesus, I would hate to find out what the girls call me!!!!! As for sponser's, Im always available............. Call it 70,000 a month and you can quarentee that I won't work and I'll stay at home.............  Little chance of a sick Buffalo too
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12-10-2007, 07:37
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Yes agree.I think that money make us all blind.Only that for some 100000 baht is the future.
It sounds like a lot but when you start to party with it....then it wouldnt last as long as it was supposed to. But as your question i hope you follow your heart,and i know that you will see her alot,so i know that you will have your answer at last,and again i hope and think you will do the right thing. The only person who can know is you 
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If you are 5'6", slim, brown skinned , with a cute a*se, themost beautiful smile in the world and other attributes not for general knowledge, Im already bloody sponsoring you, if thats not you, beggar off !!!5555555
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12-10-2007, 07:43
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Thanks m8, at the end of the day it will work or it wont. Worth the effort, I reckon.
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12-10-2007, 07:54
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Yes i think it worth it. If you will sponsor her it`s(as you heard before..its up to you) I will never judge anybody that do what they feel is the right thing to do.Because i think almoust everything we do is the right thing to do.i think that you know what to do. If it feels right then do what feel right. Ok not everything you hear about your issue is happy but alot of it truly are!!
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12-10-2007, 07:56
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Thanks Tex, eyes open and prepared to suffer or enjoy.. whatever..
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12-10-2007, 07:58
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Rather than give you my opinion I can give you a BG's view of sponsorship. Background: Rai was a BG I knew for several years in Pattaya. Having learnt fairly early that the best way to have a hassle free night on a bar crawl was to have a girl with you already I fell into a relationship with Rai that was more social than physical - I would bar fine her from whatever bar she was working at, pay her for her time and use her local knowledge on happy hours etc. She had three or four serious sponsors during this time but always ended up back in Pattaya. These were what I would call "Rai's Rules on Sponsorship": (The words are mine the meaning is Rai's) Rule 1 - Until you have sent me money for at least 3 months I will not believe you are genuine, lots of guys promise to send me money but never do, those that do only send it for a month or two and then the money stops and they forget about me. Why should I tell someone else not to send me money if I am not sure that you will continue to? Rule 2 - Leaving any job, even a good one, is easy. Getting back to a good job, a good bar is not. Even if I do, I have slipped in the bar's "pecking order". Leave your job and then come back because your plans failed - where does that leave you in the eyes of the people you work with? Rule 3 - If I go home to my village then I have lost my job, my things and my room. If the money stops then I am upcountry, no job, no money and now nowhere to live when I come back. This means I must incur debts, money and favors just to get back to where I was when I met you. Enjoy. __________________ "Heaven holds a sense of wonder...and I wanted to believe..."
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12-10-2007, 08:07
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Yes its thousends of theese.We all know. but who are we to know tha dennis`es girl are not a genuine.of course we dont know.Myself have met a girl 2 years in a row that never asked for anything... Ok if she asked for some suport i dont know(Never did)Of course i know what she do for a living.but when i se\saw her again after some mounths we where in love like the first time. Its all what you make of it.And im shure that Dennis knows to.
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