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dennisinkamala · #**106** 16-10-2007, 14:22

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Originally Posted by zarf

Sir

How dare you assume i'm a slut, you don't know me so you can't..alright who's been telling tales?

hey if you've got a good thing, spread it around!

I think you have your eyes open Dennis and as you say it's money you can afford to give. You give her the option of leaving the bar or not which suggests you can handle it if the situation stays the same for her and at the moment your feelings for her are not too deep rooted.
However as time passes and your feelings for her grow will you still be happy sending her money whilst she is humping for Thailand? Will it be brought up in any arguements by you?
While others may have a more romantic view of it all at least you will know when enough is enough and be able to walk away with only a little bit of a broken heart

So yes go for it the way you want and if it doesn't work out at least you won't be hurt financially and not too scarred emotionally.

You are correct, eyes wide open and I am not the type who will throw up the past in an argument, no pojnt history cannot be changed so we have to deal with it or move on.
Im prepared for any scenario and am not broken hearted so easily, I would have regrets but I would certainly survive.
At the end of the day, its a hedonists paradise, I WILL GET OVER IT!!!!

dennisinkamala · #**107** 16-10-2007, 14:24

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Originally Posted by nelsonone

WOT I do!

Yea right!!

Your glasses might be rose tinted but you look over the top of them.

dennisinkamala · #**108** 16-10-2007, 14:26

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Originally Posted by ub2yoo

He thought he had them open before, he thinks he still does afterwards but I would bet some money he's on the road, it's not up to him where this goes, is it Dennis ? 5555

Well, I am going with the flow at the moment so I guess you are right but, if things go in a direction I do not want I will take control. Trust me!

Mav · #**109** 16-10-2007, 15:31

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Originally Posted by kathleenbilly

You read the thread but choose to not give an opinion? You now within this thread feel i have trouble dealing with reality. That's interesting from all the replies i received both positive and negative you are the only one that has interpreted it as this.

The reason i started my thread is to hear all sides, negative and positive just generally what people feel and your remarks will now be included in this.

However when i start a thread or reply i try to give some weight or substance to validate my views on a post or reply i give.

On this thread for example,

Although my reply was harsh and negative it was validated by real experience which is why i posted. For that reason it should carry some weight and be more useful for this person who asked the question.

I gave what i thought the answer based on personal experience to what i believe is the downside to being a sponsor. Again I never said i am right or wrong it's for the person to take all view points and make of them what he will.

Now i do not know you personally, you could be a respectable guy with both successes professionally and socially. Or you could be a guy whose reality is sitting in a bar staring into the bottom of a pint glass. Either way i don't know and for that reason I don't make comments to that effect.

In summing up i never insult anyone who i have not personally met or knew through direct contact. Further to this to do so within a forum is neither constructive nor necessary.

Regards

KB

Ok...have given an opinion in the other thread now.

My "clueless" comment was made in response to your amazement of some girl you met in Samui who was fcuking farangs and getting sponsorship money (Hardly a rare occurrence in LOS).....then your offering wordly advice to the OP whilst in another thread asking BM's if a Introduction Agency is a way to go....or at least asking for feedback......l guess going through the Introduction Agency gave me the impression that the working out of Bar Girls was too hard for you and that you have gone down the Agency path as it was easier with less pitfalls.

The above is where l was coming from....and l admit l was a bit harsh.....but l can be a blunt cynical cnut sometimes, so don't take it personally.

As l said Good Luck with your project.

PS...l am a very respectable guy as every BM here will testify, with ample social skills (except for my personal hygeine issue) and many successes in life, like being arrested at airports and losing wallets whilst on holiday.....and l dont stare at the bottom of pint glasses.....unless it's a plan to get someone to buy me a drink.

dennisinkamala · #**110** 16-10-2007, 20:45

MAV, a blunt cynical cnut????

Nooooo, surely not

Glad you guys worked it out.

IRISH JONNY · #**111** 16-10-2007, 20:59

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Originally Posted by Mav

Ok...have given an opinion in the other thread now.

My "clueless" comment was made in response to your amazement of some girl you met in Samui who was fcuking farangs and getting sponsorship money (Hardly a rare occurrence in LOS).....then your offering wordly advice to the OP whilst in another thread asking BM's if a Introduction Agency is a way to go....or at least asking for feedback......l guess going through the Introduction Agency gave me the impression that the working out of Bar Girls was too hard for you and that you have gone down the Agency path as it was easier with less pitfalls.

The above is where l was coming from....and l admit l was a bit harsh.....but l can be a blunt cynical cnut sometimes, so don't take it personally.

As l said Good Luck with your project.

PS...l am a very respectable guy as every BM here will testify, with ample social skills (except for my personal hygeine issue) and many successes in life, like being arrested at airports and losing wallets whilst on holiday.....and l dont stare at the bottom of pint glasses.....unless it's a plan to get someone to buy me a drink.

jees..........not sure about that ...5555555........

leave the gezzer out of this.....55555555.........

ij

kathleenbilly · #**112** 16-10-2007, 23:03

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Originally Posted by Mav

Ok...have given an opinion in the other thread now.

My "clueless" comment was made in response to your amazement of some girl you met in Samui who was fcuking farangs and getting sponsorship money (Hardly a rare occurrence in LOS).....then your offering wordly advice to the OP whilst in another thread asking BM's if a Introduction Agency is a way to go....or at least asking for feedback......l guess going through the Introduction Agency gave me the impression that the working out of Bar Girls was too hard for you and that you have gone down the Agency path as it was easier with less pitfalls.

The above is where l was coming from....and l admit l was a bit harsh.....but l can be a blunt cynical cnut sometimes, so don't take it personally.

As l said Good Luck with your project.

PS...l am a very respectable guy as every BM here will testify, with ample social skills (except for my personal hygeine issue) and many successes in life, like being arrested at airports and losing wallets whilst on holiday.....and l dont stare at the bottom of pint glasses.....unless it's a plan to get someone to buy me a drink.

Hello Mav,

Now I'm not nit picking here honest but just a couple of pointers if i may,

you said,

My "clueless" comment was made in response to your amazement of some girl you met in Samui who was fcuking farangs and getting sponsorship money (Hardly a rare occurrence in LOS).....

I never said i was amazed in my post about it lol. For the record I have know this girl in Samui for years now always spend time with her when i go there. We are very close she has a man in Germany a sponsor good guy if i'm honest probably better for her than i would be. But back to the post what i'm saying here is there is a very big chance if you sponsor a girl she will still sleep around. If you can accept that then all good and dandy. Myself i would feel like a prat if i was sending money, in my mind what if she used that money to buy nice clothes to look sexy for the next man?

For that type of reason i could never do it myself but that's just me and not a view shared by everybody.

Secondly Mav you said,

then your offering wordly advice to the OP whilst in another thread asking BM's if a Introduction Agency is a way to go....or at least asking for feedback......

Well which one is it Mav you don't seem sure yourself here lol

I never asked if a Introduction Agency is a way to go ?

That would indicate i am unsure and in need of advice, the thread was to let people know what i had decided to do and to welcome debate so i could hear the pro's and con's.

You can't make it up or chance people's words to work into your replies.

Now feedback I did ask for

so that was correct

Not being a **** but don't want to be mis-quoted on what i'm saying !

If you feel that you need to reply fair enough, i will not answer back i promise lol

dennisinkamala · #**113** 16-10-2007, 23:09

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Originally Posted by kathleenbilly

Hello Mav,

Now I'm not nit picking here honest but just a couple of pointers if i may,

you said,

My "clueless" comment was made in response to your amazement of some girl you met in Samui who was fcuking farangs and getting sponsorship money (Hardly a rare occurrence in LOS).....

I never said i was amazed in my post about it lol. For the record I have know this girl in Samui for years now always spend time with her when i go there. We are very close she has a man in Germany a sponsor good guy if i'm honest probably better for her than i would be. But back to the post what i'm saying here is there is a very big chance if you sponsor a girl she will still sleep around. If you can accept that then all good and dandy. Myself i would feel like a prat if i was sending money, in my mind what if she used that money to buy nice clothes to look sexy for the next man?

For that type of reason i could never do it myself but that's just me and not a view shared by everybody.

Secondly Mav you said,

then your offering wordly advice to the OP whilst in another thread asking BM's if a Introduction Agency is a way to go....or at least asking for feedback......

Well which one is it Mav you don't seem sure yourself here lol

I never asked if a Introduction Agency is a way to go ?

That would indicate i am unsure and in need of advice, the thread was to let people know what i had decided to do and to welcome debate so i could hear the pro's and con's.

You can't make it up or chance people's words to work into your replies.

Now feedback I did ask for

so that was correct

Not being a **** but don't want to be mis-quoted on what i'm saying !

If you feel that you need to reply fair enough, i will not answer back i promise lol

In Mavs defence (not that he asked for it) and in fairness I would say that his apology was comprehensive and showed good character.

Its a bit unreasonable to be so pedantic regarding specifics.

Time to accept to differ I think.

You both raise good points and that is appreciated.

ub2yoo · #**114** 16-10-2007, 23:41

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Originally Posted by dennisinspain

In Mavs defence (not that he asked for it) and in fairness I would say that his apology was comprehensive and showed good character.

Its a bit unreasonable to be so pedantic regarding specifics.

Time to accept to differ I think.

You both raise good points and that is appreciated.

Wooopss...soapy slippery here lately 5555

But a lovely Happy Ending

landofsmiles · #**115** 17-10-2007, 00:43

Haven't read the whole thread but if it's your prepared to sponsor her that is indication that you want to be with her but can't all the time so you're prepared to send her money for the periods that you are not...and if you don't send her enough then she is almost certain to carry on working. Then how would you feel? You'd be sending her money but she would still be sleeping with other customers.

So you are going to be here 6 months of the year...spending the whole time with her? yet you live only an hour away in Penang which is easy for Thais to go to, so if you really want to be with her why don't you take her to Penang for much of the other 6 months?

If it were me, unless it was my intention to fully commit to her I wouldn't send her any money.

dennisinkamala · #**116** 17-10-2007, 01:28

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Originally Posted by landofsmiles

Haven't read the whole thread but if it's your prepared to sponsor her that is indication that you want to be with her but can't all the time so you're prepared to send her money for the periods that you are not...and if you don't send her enough then she is almost certain to carry on working. Then how would you feel? You'd be sending her money but she would still be sleeping with other customers.

So you are going to be here 6 months of the year...spending the whole time with her? yet you live only an hour away in Penang which is easy for Thais to go to, so if you really want to be with her why don't you take her to Penang for much of the other 6 months?

If it were me, unless it was my intention to fully commit to her I wouldn't send her any money.

You are spot on, Im procrastinating regarding the full commitment but am ensuring that what I send is sufficient.
Once I get my head around the one woman thing and sort out the other complication then I can forsee her and daughter doing the return journeys with me, or even living in Penang most of the time.

Its early days yet, thats why the lack of decisiveness, I aint used to it!!

ototto · #**117** 17-10-2007, 01:47

Originally posted by Dennisinspain
"You are spot on, Im procrastinating regarding the full commitment but am ensuring that what I send is sufficient.

Sufficient to do what?
Don't forget that Chris88 is still around. 55555555555555

dennisinkamala · #**118** 17-10-2007, 02:42

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Originally Posted by ototto

Originally posted by Dennisinspain
"You are spot on, Im procrastinating regarding the full commitment but am ensuring that what I send is sufficient.

Sufficient to do what?
Don't forget that Chris88 is still around. 55555555555555

Damn...is he???

nelsonone · #**119** 17-10-2007, 06:41

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Originally Posted by dennisinspain

Yea right!!

Your glasses might be rose tinted but you look over the top of them.

more of a comment about the size rather than the colour of my bins Denis....55555

BusyBee123 · #**120** 21-02-2008, 07:13

well i read through quite a few replies before i saw it was going around in circles. Fact is you went to to have sex with a prostitute and now you want to know if she is worth paying money too while you are not there!!! come on you know the answer. Why so many posts. Yes thailand is different on the bar girl scene but only so far as they are better at sucking money from you. I f you want her then keep going back and screwing her while you are there and no more. When you get to live there (which is the only way you will ever get some reality to the situation then go for it, but the odds of a sucess are still massively against you) have a go, but beware i've known plenty of girls get married and their partners be cynics for years and refuse to buy a house... just to test the waters but still give to the family and as soon as the house it bought bye bye farang, hello new farang. If you delve in ****** waters expect the worst thought the same can be said for any girl or guy.

Dupree00 · #**121** 21-02-2008, 07:23

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Originally Posted by BusyBee123

well i read through quite a few replies before i saw it was going around in circles. Fact is you went to to have sex with a prostitute and now you want to know if she is worth paying money too while you are not there!!! come on you know the answer. Why so many posts. Yes thailand is different on the bar girl scene but only so far as they are better at sucking money from you. I f you want her then keep going back and screwing her while you are there and no more. When you get to live there (which is the only way you will ever get some reality to the situation then go for it, but the odds of a sucess are still massively against you) have a go, but beware i've known plenty of girls get married and their partners be cynics for years and refuse to buy a house... just to test the waters but still give to the family and as soon as the house it bought bye bye farang, hello new farang. If you delve in ****** waters expect the worst thought the same can be said for any girl or guy.

5555555

There you go Dennis. Please proceed. But be vary careful.

zarf · #**122** 22-02-2008, 02:56

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Originally Posted by Mav

PS...l am a very respectable guy as every BM here will testify, with ample social skills (except for my personal hygeine issue) and many successes in life, like being arrested at airports and losing wallets whilst on holiday.....and l dont stare at the bottom of pint glasses.....unless it's a plan to get someone to buy me a drink.

Hmm i think that is called ' testing a friendship to it's limits'

maybe these free samples of RTGs which you never passed on to certain BMs can now be distributed and people will lie... i mean, agree with the above!

Frode10 · #**123** 22-02-2008, 04:22

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Originally Posted by Nicke

While I am at it, many of those sponsored girls may have quit the bar they used to work in as she promised. What she dont tell you is that once in a while or few times a week she is stll around Bangla, Taipan etc and go with men she like. Its very common.

That said, once the guy is comitted and they live together they may be a perfect, happy couple. Here is the problem with Private Investigators or other people telling the truth, but once you live together she may still be a perfect wife or girlfriend.

She is cheating you, the sponsor, but I still think you can be happy as I have seen many examples of this too. So for those wanting to check your girls, you maybe better off not doing it. As a lot of girls are cheating their sponsors but still become a very good wife or gf later on.

After all, we men are not better either.

I am little bit slow, too much red wine

but I just read this now and it is so true.

My wife and I are a perfect example that it can go from bad to good, and you can have a very good life together even if she cheated the sponsor, me.

F

dennisinkamala · #**124** 22-02-2008, 07:07

Having done the sponsorship thingy to a level many woul say is asking or trouble I am now cohabiting with the skinny wench and enjoying every moment. Weve probably spent more time together during the sponsorship tan most ouples as I wa able to be here a great deal.

Its my considered opinion that the purchase of the specil RTG's ( solid gold with buddah earpieces) has a great bearing on success.

At 150k bht fter discounts thy ae a rwal bargain. Please contact Mav to have yours expressed tyou