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And looking for someone taking care of them for the future too, for many girls is a kind of dating and finding the one who will take care of them (and family).
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I agree.
Spoke with TGF yesterday and she was saying all that she wants to do for me(clean house, cook, take care of dog, cat etc(which I don't have) to come and be wife in USA. She wants to be taken care of, but also knows that she has to reciprocate.
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28-10-2007, 07:27
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I agree.
Spoke with TGF yesterday and she was saying all that she wants to do for me(clean house, cook, take care of dog, cat etc(which I don't have) to come and be wife in USA. She wants to be taken care of, but also knows that she has to reciprocate.
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28-10-2007, 07:33
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No "w" at this point. 5555
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28-10-2007, 07:37
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Everyone is missing a huge component here to do with western women. They live for drama and conflict. Novels and dramatic soap operas are pornogrophy for western women. if the relationship is too smooth, they will try and inject some conflict.
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you've hit the nail on the head there mate.. they cant go on without causing a bloody fight with you, you come home from work and just want to relax by the time you put your feet up and crack that first beer she's lost it for some stupid reason again!!! F**king mole!! i hate em
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Everyone is missing a huge component here to do with western women. They live for drama and conflict. Novels and dramatic soap operas are pornogrophy for western women. if the relationship is too smooth, they will try and inject some conflict.
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Agree absolutely. Daytime talk shows and reality shows as well. I hate the drama.
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28-10-2007, 09:36
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Maybe if society could revert back to this life all the problems we have with our kids could be sorted!
I know it's simplistic (as are the best ideas) but look at the Thai family unit, how loving they are with each other and respectful towards their elders.
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And what are the kids here doing? Taking drugs and shooting each other!
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And what are the kids here doing? Taking drugs and shooting each other!
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But isn't that only in Kamalalala land.......5555555555.....
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28-10-2007, 12:42
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But isn't that only in Kamalalala land............
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And here I thought she was talking about California? 
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28-10-2007, 13:41
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And here I thought she was talking about California? 
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My point exactly...
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I never said my arguement didn't have any holes in it. I guess the rot has set through the world..if armageddon is coming i want to be in Bangla Rd when it happens
One thing i can't understand is people saying they ONLY find Thai women attractive. Yes they are, and are more available to the older men but i would still hump a n attractive European girl if i got the chance.
Sure there are some out of Jerry Springer but to exclude them because of a bad few experiences?
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And what are the kids here doing? Taking drugs and shooting each other!
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Its all the cool factor. Now re-hab is the next cool thing. I heard this stupid f*cking song in a club about re-hab. i think this next generation of western women are gonna be the worst yet. Mabe it will bottom out like brittany or anna nicole smith. haha
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Its all the cool factor. Now re-hab is the next cool thing. I heard this stupid f*cking song in a club about re-hab. i think this next generation of western women are gonna be the worst yet. Mabe it will bottom out like brittany or anna nicole smith. haha
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For 23 you are amazingly bitter! 
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20 year gap in a serious relationship with a girl from any background is not on for me. Would feel unatural. But thats just me!
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My my, there are some fussy buggers on this thread.
If you don't like farang women, please toss some my way.
I was married to a German woman, she was the best thing that ever happened to me and I'd still be with her had she not died far too young.
I'd have backed her against any Thai women as a fundamentally decent, undemanding and sweet natured person.
And there are lots more decent farang women for the taking but you probably don't know that if you're all just mongering round Thailand's bars.
BTW, I've nothing against Thai pu55y either but it's not the be all and end all and it's just another paid ride at the end of the day - unless you're going to commit yourself to a meaningful relationship with a decent woman.
And if you are considering that, remember this - Thai women come with baggage too and are no less complicated than farangs.
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Its all the cool factor. Now re-hab is the next cool thing. I heard this stupid f*cking song in a club about re-hab. i think this next generation of western women are gonna be the worst yet. Mabe it will bottom out like brittany or anna nicole smith. haha
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You mean this one:
They tried to make me go to rehab 
I said no, no, no.
Yes I been black, but when I come back
You wont know, know, know.
I ain’t got the time
And if my daddy thinks im fine
He’s tried to make me go to rehab
I wont go, go, go. 
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You mean this one:
They tried to make me go to rehab 
I said no, no, no.
Yes I been black, but when I come back
You wont know, know, know.
I ain’t got the time
And if my daddy thinks im fine
He’s tried to make me go to rehab
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My Thai g/f get quite upset when I tell her I do my own washing, ironing and cleaning and tells me she will do everything for me when we live together long time - judging by the amount of cleaning up she does in out hotel rooms I actually believe her.
Both of my farang wives (twice divorced) didn't seem to know what any of these thing meant, plus the boom, boom I got (occasionally) from them was bl00dy awfull - even a starfish would have moved better....5555555555
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i believe for them its not a big deal,thais don't seem to have the same hangups on sex as western girls do.after been to thailand a few times i believe tgs are looking for a "financial providor",no different to western girls,but i don't think you can compare them to prostitutes in oz.I think they want to improve themselves financially by hooking up with a farang and offer sex as a "dowry" no different to oz girls in a round about way.I was watching the australian cricket awards the other day,and every single player had a gorgeous partner by his side,you cant tell me if those guys were digging ditches for the local council,that those girls would have anything to do with them..i dont know if i explained myself right..but any thoughts from other bms
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NoMarriage.com - honest marriage and relationship advice for men.
Not necessarily my views but very interesting.
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Well I've got a lot to say about this topic. I've had my heart seriously broken 3 times by western women. The one thing that I can say they all had in common is they had no idea what love is. Now, when a woman tells me she loves me I head for the nearest exit...quickly. A lot of women think that love is a feeling...the feeling eventually goes away...as all infatuations do...and when there is a bit of work to be done...they run away to find that feeling again with another guy. That's my experience with western women. They go through people; or I should say that they did with me. I know it is a huge generalization but that is my experience...I find them shallow. I haven't gone near one for years...I avoid them like the plague. I actually think they are evil.
On the other hand. A Thai woman has a sense of duty that most western women don't know. Take my Thai girlfriend for example. She works a normal job. She works 12 hours a day 7 days a week. She makes ~5000 Baht a month. She sends 2000 Baht home every month to her parents. That's 40% of her miserable income that she gives to her parents out of a sense of duty and commitment. That's something I would venture to say you wouldn't see very often in the western world. I watch her at work...I'm amazed how she always has a genuine big beautiful smile for every customer who walks in the door. I say to her "You work a lot." She smiles and says "Yes, I work work work." and she giggles. She doesn't complain.
I remember the first time I visited Thailand a few years ago. My first LT BG...we are at my hotel and she is clipping my fingernails. I remember thinking WOW...I didn't even ask her...she just picked up the clippers and did my nails. It was a small thing but it meant a lot to me. For some reason western women think that doing their man's nails would be demeaning. What the hell happened to the western women? I am more feminine than a lot of the women I see in Canada but I'm not effeminate.
Another mistake I made with western women was treating them kindly and trying to establish a connection mentally spiritually emotionally and physically. I actually enjoy going to an emotional level with a woman and find them very interesting to talk to on that level. What I should have been doing was treating them badly. When western women say they are looking for a nice guy they are definitely lying. They really want someone to treat them badly...if only I had known this when I was younger. Now I can see that the "bad" guys get the girl...the good guys get ****ed and don't even get a reach around.
My Thai friend and I go for dinner every night together. We sit and eat slowly...for hours...we talk a little...then there are the long comfortable silences. She is such a pleasure to be with. It is so nice to be back in LOS.
Those are my thoughts at the moment.
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Well I've got a lot to say about this topic. I've had my heart seriously broken 3 times by western women. The one thing that I can say they all had in common is they had no idea what love is. Now, when a woman tells me she loves me I head for the nearest exit...quickly. A lot of women think that love is a feeling...the feeling eventually goes away...as all infatuations do...and when there is a bit of work to be done...they run away to find that feeling again with another guy. That's my experience with western women. They go through people; or I should say that they did with me. I know it is a huge generalization but that is my experience...I find them shallow. I haven't gone near one for years...I avoid them like the plague. I actually think they are evil.
On the other hand. A Thai woman has a sense of duty that most western women don't know. Take my Thai girlfriend for example. She works a normal job. She works 12 hours a day 7 days a week. She makes ~5000 Baht a month. She sends 2000 Baht home every month to her parents. That's 40% of her miserable income that she gives to her parents out of a sense of duty and commitment. That's something I would venture to say you wouldn't see very often in the western world. I watch her at work...I'm amazed how she always has a genuine big beautiful smile for every customer who walks in the door. I say to her "You work a lot." She smiles and says "Yes, I work work work." and she giggles. She doesn't complain.
I remember the first time I visited Thailand a few years ago. My first LT BG...we are at my hotel and she is clipping my fingernails. I remember thinking WOW...I didn't even ask her...she just picked up the clippers and did my nails. It was a small thing but it meant a lot to me. For some reason western women think that doing their man's nails would be demeaning. What the hell happened to the western women? I am more feminine than a lot of the women I see in Canada but I'm not effeminate.
Another mistake I made with western women was treating them kindly and trying to establish a connection mentally spiritually emotionally and physically. I actually enjoy going to an emotional level with a woman and find them very interesting to talk to on that level. What I should have been doing was treating them badly. When western women say they are looking for a nice guy they are definitely lying. They really want someone to treat them badly...if only I had known this when I was younger. Now I can see that the "bad" guys get the girl...the good guys get ****ed and don't even get a reach around.
My Thai friend and I go for dinner every night together. We sit and eat slowly...for hours...we talk a little...then there are the long comfortable silences. She is such a pleasure to be with. It is so nice to be back in LOS.
Those are my thoughts at the moment.
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Try Soi Crocodile you'll have plenty of takers !!!!!! 5555555
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Do you mean that Soi Crocodile has takers who want to be treated badly?
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That sounds interesting...maybe I'll check it out.
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