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Old 27-10-2007, 11:33
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I was having a debate about thai girls with a mate the other day.He was saying that bgs are just prostitutes looking to hook up with any farang for money.My argument was the girls we meet at bars in oz are after the same thing.If i didnt live in the right area,had no job or an "unsexy job" i wouldn't have a chance.ok we know bargirls sleep with farangs for money,but i believe for them its not a big deal,thais don't seem to have the same hangups on sex as western girls do.after been to thailand a few times i believe tgs are looking for a "financial providor",no different to western girls,but i don't think you can compare them to prostitutes in oz.I think they want to improve themselves financially by hooking up with a farang and offer sex as a "dowry" no different to oz girls in a round about way.I was watching the australian cricket awards the other day,and every single player had a gorgeous partner by his side,you cant tell me if those guys were digging ditches for the local council,that those girls would have anything to do with them..i dont know if i explained myself right..but any thoughts from other bms
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Old 27-10-2007, 11:41
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I was having a debate about thai girls with a mate the other day.He was saying that bgs are just prostitutes looking to hook up with any farang for money.My argument was the girls we meet at bars in oz are after the same thing.If i didnt live in the right area,had no job or an "unsexy job" i wouldn't have a chance.ok we know bargirls sleep with farangs for money,but i believe for them its not a big deal,thais don't seem to have the same hangups on sex as western girls do.after been to thailand a few times i believe tgs are looking for a "financial providor",no different to western girls,but i don't think you can compare them to prostitutes in oz.I think they want to improve themselves financially by hooking up with a farang and offer sex as a "dowry" no different to oz girls in a round about way.I was watching the australian cricket awards the other day,and every single player had a gorgeous partner by his side,you cant tell me if those guys were digging ditches for the local council,that those girls would have anything to do with them..i dont know if i explained myself right..but any thoughts from other bms

One thing I found in the West, UK, Aus, Spain and US, (all places I have lived for varying lengths of time) is that the more successful I became (ie more cash I had) had a direct correlation o how handsome I appeared to the wenches.

So, as far as the difference between a BG and a woman going to a club to sek out her provider either for the night or longer, as they say in LOS same same.

At least BG's are up front about what they want.
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Old 27-10-2007, 11:53
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I was having a debate about thai girls with a mate the other day.He was saying that bgs are just prostitutes looking to hook up with any farang for money.My argument was the girls we meet at bars in oz are after the same thing.If i didnt live in the right area,had no job or an "unsexy job" i wouldn't have a chance.ok we know bargirls sleep with farangs for money,but i believe for them its not a big deal,thais don't seem to have the same hangups on sex as western girls do.after been to thailand a few times i believe tgs are looking for a "financial providor",no different to western girls,but i don't think you can compare them to prostitutes in oz.I think they want to improve themselves financially by hooking up with a farang and offer sex as a "dowry" no different to oz girls in a round about way.I was watching the australian cricket awards the other day,and every single player had a gorgeous partner by his side,you cant tell me if those guys were digging ditches for the local council,that those girls would have anything to do with them..i dont know if i explained myself right..but any thoughts from other bms

of course your right. your western mate will never get it through her head. If she suddenly realizes that you are right she will try and bury that thaught in the back of her head and you will never know. and life will go on in her western woman crusade against the your very point.
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Hi dennis,yes at least you know the deal upfront,the other thing i noticed with the thai girls i have "dated is they don't seem to be nasty like western girls,i remember vividly a lovely thai girl i spent some time with stopping to smell flowers and watching birds flying in the sky,and when me and my mate ignorantly pointed fun at ladyboys she just looked at me with bewilderment,i guess being bhuddists they accept ppl for what they are...certainly taught me a valuable lesson
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Hi dennis,yes at least you know the deal upfront,the other thing i noticed with the thai girls i have "dated is they don't seem to be nasty like western girls,i remember vividly a lovely thai girl i spent some time with stopping to smell flowers and watching birds flying in the sky,and when me and my mate ignorantly pointed fun at ladyboys she just looked at me with bewilderment,i guess being bhuddists they accept ppl for what they are...certainly taught me a valuable lesson

untill i went to asia, i thaught maybe trannys were the only answer. haha
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Most women out there, farangs or Thais are out to get what they can from a man. Its a womans world because us guys are so naive and cant help being controlled by the pu55y, the women are just taking advantage of what God gave them !!!!
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Old 27-10-2007, 12:02
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Most women out there, farangs or Thais are out to get what they can from a man. Its a womans world because us guys are so naive and cant help being controlled by the pu55y, the women are just taking advantage of what God gave them !!!!

Yeah, but atleast in asia they admit it!
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Most women out there, farangs or Thais are out to get what they can from a man. Its a womans world because us guys are so naive and cant help being controlled by the pu55y, the women are just taking advantage of what God gave them !!!!

Ahhh, ya gotta admit the Thai girls have very beautiful pu55ie5.

This kinda control, I will suffer gladly.
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Old 27-10-2007, 12:19
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Hi dennis,yes at least you know the deal upfront,the other thing i noticed with the thai girls i have "dated is they don't seem to be nasty like western girls,i remember vividly a lovely thai girl i spent some time with stopping to smell flowers and watching birds flying in the sky,and when me and my mate ignorantly pointed fun at ladyboys she just looked at me with bewilderment,i guess being bhuddists they accept ppl for what they are...certainly taught me a valuable lesson

The main thing i find so damned attractive is that they are FEMININE, in the true sense of the word.

Certainly in the UK and, sorry guys, US and Aus, many, many females are more manly than the men.

The mercenary cultures of one upmanship in those countries have made them competitive to a fault.

Its a big subject so Ill leave it with that precis.
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I was having a debate about thai girls with a mate the other day.He was saying that bgs are just prostitutes looking to hook up with any farang for money.My argument was the girls we meet at bars in oz are after the same thing.If i didnt live in the right area,had no job or an "unsexy job" i wouldn't have a chance.

When did a bg ask you what job you did before deciding whether to go to your hotel....never! so if you are saying if you don't have the right job a western girl wouldn't look at you twice, your mate is spot on with what he is saying then.......!!!

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I think they want to improve themselves financially by hooking up with a farang and offer sex as a "dowry" no different to oz girls in a round about way.

Sorry Bgs do not offer sex as a "dowry" initially they offer sex for money, when was the last time you went to a local bar in oz and had the pick of as many girls you wanted but you have to pay them when they leave in the morning.

I just want to point out that i am not saying anything against the op or bgs what i am saying is that the op has contradicted nearly everything he says instead of just saying YES to his mate that he is right but pointing out that Thai girls are far more beautiful than western women and also know how to take care of their partners far better and i don't just mean in the bedroom i mean in general.
Just my oppinion though...
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Old 27-10-2007, 14:29
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Back here, I don't feel that money has that much to do with getting women. I think it's because most of them makes almost as much money as we guys do. Of course it can help sometimes, but looks and attitude is the key.

I'll agree though, that a guy who is REALLY rich will have no trouble attracting beautiful golddiggers...

About femininity, I'll certainly agree. Western women are a lot more like western men in attitude. TGs express this view also.

About TGs being more beautiful, I'm not sure (might get a bashing for this view on this board...). If I go to a club in Sweden, I think the average is better here than on say, Tiger, Tai Pan or Seduction. The difference for me is that in LOS I'm the one that always gets the real stunners. Also I have this thing for asian women in general, and TGs in particular...

I think the real kicker in LOS is that in the beginning of the evening, you don't have to wonder "-Gee, I wonder if I'll score tonight?"

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Back here, I don't feel that money has that much to do with getting women. I think it's because most of them makes almost as much money as we guys do. Of course it can help sometimes, but looks and attitude is the key.

I'll agree though, that a guy who is REALLY rich will have no trouble attracting beautiful golddiggers...

About femininity, I'll certainly agree. Western women are a lot more like western men in attitude. TGs express this view also.

About TGs being more beautiful, I'm not sure (might get a bashing for this view on this board...). If I go to a club in Sweden, I think the average is better here than on say, Tiger, Tai Pan or Seduction. The difference for me is that in LOS I'm the one that always gets the real stunners. Also I have this thing for asian women in general, and TGs in particular...

I think the real kicker in LOS is that in the beginning of the evening, you don't have to wonder "-Gee, I wonder if I'll score tonight?"

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i've been to clubs/ bars in stockholm...it's true, you get right stunners but unfortunately they think their pussies smell of roses! it is funny tho watching them dance with one eye in the mirror checking their look every second!
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i've been to clubs/ bars in stockholm...it's true, you get right stunners but unfortunately they think their pussies smell of roses! it is funny tho watching them dance with one eye in the mirror checking their look every second!


Ill go with that George, not exclusive to Sweden though, my times in Moscow remind me of same same. However in Novosibirsk (Siberia) the women are more beautiful and without the hangups of the moskvites.
Tall, blonde(ish), steel grey eyes and feminine.
Mercenary b*sta*ds too, had one for some time now!!

Thai has it by a mile for me, natural, gentle, soft, warm, caring, passionate and those smiles...

Oh yes, and they are mecenary b*sta*ds too, must be a woman thing.
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Some very good points made here, but could I also just throw out a little thought. Could tg's be more attractive and feminine to us guys because the majority of us are slightly older (ie not 20 anymore). They look better longer or younger, whichever way you take it. But is one of the main reasons because they look after their man the way western women used to, ie more the way us older guys like?

They are not trying to compete with everything we do, they get actual enjoyment about looking after you, cooking, cleaning etc. Sex is something they feel they should offer their man to please him, when he desires it? how many guys in thai relationships have ever had their advances turned down? 'not to night dear got a headache' I've never heard a tg say that.

Its not all about sex, so I nearly didn't put the last bit, but it is a biggish part of the appeal?

But do not be fooled, they are as in control of the relationship as any western girl would like to think she is, but they just for me do it in a better way.
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In the UK we say - If you see a beautyful lady in a very nice sprots car or jeep you will always see a wedding ring on her.

There is no difference between a thai girl and falang girl except you have better boom boom with thia girl. just my thought.

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Back here, I don't feel that money has that much to do with getting women. I think it's because most of them makes almost as much money as we guys do. Of course it can help sometimes, but looks and attitude is the key.
It is important to women that a man is successful in his chosen pursuit. They don't want to hook up with a loser.
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About femininity, I'll certainly agree. Western women are a lot more like western men in attitude. TGs express this view also.
Agree 100%. This is my biggest beef with US ladies.
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About TGs being more beautiful, I'm not sure (might get a bashing for this view on this board...). If I go to a club in Sweden, I think the average is better here than on say, Tiger, Tai Pan or Seduction. The difference for me is that in LOS I'm the one that always gets the real stunners. Also I have this thing for asian women in general, and TGs in particular...
I happen to think that young farang women are much better looking than Asian women. The girls I see every day in the shops and on the streets around where I live, blow my mind!! But they are only interested in guys their age, more or less. Unfortunately, as farang women age, most become more demanding, too much attitude, and pick up bad habits. They think 20 lbs overweight is normal,(average or medium, they say), and they think 40 lbs. overweight is curvy and voluptuous. If they are 60+ lbs overweight, then they say, "I feel very comfortable and confident about the way I look, it is more natural for me" and they call themselves BBW(big, beautiful women), as if it was somehow more beautiful to be fat.
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I think the real kicker in LOS is that in the beginning of the evening, you don't have to wonder "-Gee, I wonder if I'll score tonight?"
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Some very good points made here, but could I also just throw out a little thought. Could tg's be more attractive and feminine to us guys because the majority of us are slightly older (ie not 20 anymore). They look better longer or younger, whichever way you take it. But is one of the main reasons because they look after their man the way western women used to, ie more the way us older guys like?

They are not trying to compete with everything we do, they get actual enjoyment about looking after you, cooking, cleaning etc. Sex is something they feel they should offer their man to please him, when he desires it? how many guys in thai relationships have ever had their advances turned down? 'not to night dear got a headache' I've never heard a tg say that.

Its not all about sex, so I nearly didn't put the last bit, but it is a biggish part of the appeal?

But do not be fooled, they are as in control of the relationship as any western girl would like to think she is, but they just for me do it in a better way.


Last sentence the most important and 100% on the button.

The age thing Im not so sure about as my western gf's tend to be 20 years or so younger than me (including the long term ones!!) and my Thai gf is a bit younger than that but not really something I think about.

Maybe its my rugged good looks that sets me apart. Whadya think Dodger??
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I'm glad someone else came out and said it,i find 20 to 30 yr old girls in my own country more attractive than thai girls,the difference is they don't like me................................................ ...................
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if you have a good tg she wont care about ur dosh, but only your looks and your bedtime antics. if you have teeth and a good ryhthem your in.


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Geez! I thought this thread was about a scheduled boxing match between TG and WG. I love Thai pussy
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