Love story with a BG : Happy end !

[domifletch]

Hi everybody,

I have a Canadian friend who spent 3 months in LOS from March till June and staid with the same BG/GF. Their relationship was not always easy as he had fallen in love deeply with her but she needed to see an ex BF one week at the same time, to not close the door to anything, I think.
When he came back in his country, he couldn't wait to come back so he was back at the beginning of July and lives with her in an appartment.
We speak everyday together but for 4 days I didn't get any news of him. I had begun to worry a lot about him, but today, he tells me that he got married yesterday in BKK with his GF. Happy end can happen!

It's good to hear so good news. I am happy for both of them and also happy to see that a relationship with a BG can lead to something strong

That proves that, if you can stay in LOS a very long time, if you are patient and let the time to the TG to trust you enough, if you don't care too much of what she did in the past and with a lot of mutual respect, a great love story is possible between a farang and a BG.

I hope the best for them.

[JayBee]

It is very refreshing to hear a happy story. Nothing like a good love story to make the heart feel full of hope. Best of luck to your friend and his new missus.

[mlay]

Originally Posted by domifletch

Hi everybody,

I have a Canadian friend who spent 3 months in LOS from March till June and staid with the same BG/GF. Their relationship was not always easy as she had fallen in love deeply with her but she needed to see an ex BF one week at the same time, to not close the door to anything, I think.
When he came back in his country, he couldn't wait to come back so he was back at the beginning of July and lives with her in an appartment.
We speak everyday together but for 4 days I didn't get any news of him. I had begun to worry a lot about him, but today, he tells me that he got married yesterday in BKK with his GF. Happy end can happen!

It's good to hear so good news. I am happy for both of them and also happy to see that a relationship with a BG can lead to something strong

That proves that, if you can stay in LOS a very long time, if you are patient and let the time to the TG to trust you enough, if you don't care too much of what she did in the past and with a lot of mutual respect, a great love story is possible between a farang and a BG.

I hope the best for them.

Hmm....
Not sure if it was the right title for this topic : " happy end "
The best IMO is " happy start "
because in 90 % the end is a pain in the ass for almost all farang married with ex BG ! !
Wait and see...
But i wish him good luck !

[Werwolf]

That’s a good love story.
I know also some friends who are married with a Thailady and stay in Europe. One is now married since 5 years and they are lucky.
I wish also good luck for your friend and his wife.
Perhaps he can share his story to the forum.

[mikegb]

Originally Posted by mlay

Hmm....
Not sure if it was the right title for this topic : " happy end "
The best IMO is " happy start "
because in 90 % the end is a pain in the ass for almost all farang married with ex BG ! !
Wait and see...
But i wish him good luck !

Hi Mlay,

You have said it all for me
Im with you on this one.

Good luck to your friend Domi. Just be there for your friend incase the shit hits the fan (thats what my money is on. I hope im wrong)

[richie007]

Originally Posted by mlay

Hmm....
Not sure if it was the right title for this topic : " happy end "
The best IMO is " happy start "
because in 90 % the end is a pain in the ass for almost all farang married with ex BG ! !
Wait and see...
But i wish him good luck !

Not trying to be negative here...but the statistics speak for themselves especially after knowing a BG for a relatively shortperiod of time.......just remember you can take the girl from the bar but....................

Anyway I hope it does work out well for him, but I would advise him to have fun, be happy....but be catious and street smart....otherwise he might be making a trip to "heartbreak hotel"

[andy50]

tell him to hide all the cutlery!

[twisted_wrist]

I would like to say good luck, because I to married a BG and we are really happy together with no problems so far.

[JayBee]

Two things:

1) Nice to see and count TwistedWrist among the happy couples. On the Board there is also Nicke, Geir, Geespot, and Skorpionen plus Heywood(TG not BG). So there is hope and sometimes success. We hear our share of horror stories, which is good, too, because there is no point is being naive about it. But just the same, when two people find love, it is cause for celebration and high hopes. And a challenge to prove the naysayers wrong. Best of luck to all the lovers!!!!!!!

2)I don't know the statistics for other countries, but I think the divorce rate in the US is over 50%. The county I live in it must be 80%, 'cause it seems like every one has been divorced. The breakups can be pretty darn nasty, and from what I see the ladies can be just as avaricious as any BG, when it comes time to settle. But that sure as hell doesn't keep people from getting married!!!!!! (Except me, so far, anyway)

A toast to the happy couples ! .

[Allybabba22]

Ive just got back from los yesterday, And the girl i stayed with for 8 days told me she has 6 different boyfriends counting me thats 7,
So i would'nt keep my fingers crossed on living happily ever after with her.

The funny thing is though 3 of her boyfriends come at the same time in december, And the other 3 plus me come back in april lucky for me she said she'd stay with me in april, But when i told her i might come in december she told me that if i did she could'nt stay with me because there's a guy from holland that was bringing her to holland for a holiday for 3 months and thats why she'd stay with him, But she said that ill be promoted to boyfriend no2 (ahh how sweet).

I guess what im trying to say is they always have a backup plan, So you can never be to sure, But at least she was honest with me so ill definatly go back and she her in april, But after that if im still 2nd best ill have to find me self a new lbfm, Its not like there is a shortage

[Bafana]

Screw happy couples...

I have never had a relationship end nicely so why should anyone else (Does that sound selfish to anyone else but me...)

I believe that true love can happen to anyone, even TG LBMF's who have been fcuked seven ways from Sunday since they were 15 years old and had more boyfriends then can be fully listed in the Sydney White Pages.

How many time do you think they have fallen in love with their punters to have their hearts broken again and again and again.

Do you think they can really fall deeply in love with someone so quickly as to fit into a couple of weeks vacation???

Though then again I have always been sucker punched by love at first sight and loving the wrong person.

I think that when u marry a BG you have to hope that they will grow to really love you more and more every day you are togethor and that in the end you will really trust each other because trust and love is the only way to sustain a happy marraige. It is naive to believe that instant long lasting love between a monger and a BG is possible without the need for taking a gamble and investing some real effort.

(AND it does take a lot of effort)

[Allybabba22]

Originally Posted by Bafana

Screw happy couples...

I have never had a relationship end nicely so why should anyone else (Does that sound selfish to anyone else but me...)

I believe that true love can happen to anyone, even TG LBMF's who have been fcuked seven ways from Sunday since they were 15 years old and had more boyfriends then can be fully listed in the Sydney White Pages.

How many time do you think they have fallen in love with their punters to have their hearts broken again and again and again.

Do you think they can really fall deeply in love with someone so quickly as to fit into a couple of weeks vacation???

Though then again I have always been sucker punched by love at first sight and loving the wrong person.

I think that when u marry a BG you have to hope that they will grow to really love you more and more every day you are togethor and that in the end you will really trust each other because trust and love is the only way to sustain a happy marraige. It is naive to believe that instant long lasting love between a monger and a BG is possible without the need for taking a gamble and investing some real effort.

(AND it does take a lot of effort)

I agree with you bafana, As i said she was really honest with me.
She has a tattoo on her left arm of the last falang that broke her heart
he was from america and he promised her the moon and the stars and
then all of a sudden he stopped calling her and the next time she saw
him he was with a good friend of hers, Which broke her heart.

So the anwser is yes of course they can fall in love, But the thing is can
you really trust them from the other side of the world knowing what they
do?.

[BANGLA]

Hi to everyone on this thread

I only want to say that all you guys seem to be very sensible and clever.

I agree to all what is said.

[twisted_wrist]

I just want to say thanks, and to tell everyone it has worked for me and my wife, coz I lived in Thailand for a year so this is not a week or two relationship. But even then you guys can still fall in love with one of these girls.