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Old 28-03-2008, 23:59
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mhhh, that's why I said my uneducated guess, I haven't got a clue;-)

I'm off to the nightclub now

enjoy your last night of freedom
even though i know you happy missus on way home too

best of both worlds
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Old 29-03-2008, 00:00
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mhhh, that's why I said my uneducated guess, I haven't got a clue;-)

I'm off to the nightclub now

York Club?
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Old 29-03-2008, 00:07
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Nope, Panorama. Need to give the York a natural break for the moment;-)
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Old 29-03-2008, 00:12
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Old 29-03-2008, 00:14
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enjoy your last night of freedom
even though i know you happy missus on way home too

best of both worlds

That should be allright;-) Just got a text she's back in Pat's on Walking Street today for a good-bye party before she goes to BKK tomorrow.
I'm gonna have my own now
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Old 29-03-2008, 15:12
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I`m sure the other " customers " won`t lose any sleep, plenty more girls to go around.

And if you`re happy to pay over the odds for a bg then you`re a ldop in everyones, inc your girls` eyes

And bm`s are wondering why girls want 2000 now lt ? Jeez


2000 ????? bit of a cheap charlie price isnt it?
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Old 29-03-2008, 16:03
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but why would i want my gf, who i intend to be with, live a shitty lifestyle?
should i be proud of myself by keeping her in a small room to share with 6 other people? or make sure she only has a certain amount of money in her pocket
you keep talking about these girls you meet in a bar, great they can get by on 6k/mo
i dont expect my future wife, who i have known for 4 1/2 years and spent considerable time with to live with no money. i also am not going to let her and her son go without insurance and i am actually proud that i pay her sons school, because it is a very good school
i waited until i was 36 years old to decide to settle down. now that i found someone i want to give it a go, should i just keep her poor until we get the visa we've been trying to get?

Well said Paulie..

I have had mates break up with thier LT girl.. And still sort them out for a long while even after.. The way people talk on here that would be viewed as a 'sucker' but the fact of the matter is, they had a relationship and even if it didnt work out the guy doesnt want her to suffer. Those guys got my full respect.

of course some guys get taken for a ride, many guys have unreal expectations and many girls are scamming the guys purely as an income without feelings. But if you feel your trying to do a long distance relationship, do you really want your loved one to scrape by at poverty level ??
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i think it's pretty obvious there's 2 types of sponsorship. marc26 type where he's involved in a relationship and plans for the future etc..also paying for the g/f's sons school is commendable, will undoubtably change the kids life for the better. anyway..he explained his position (not that he has to) very well earlier.

i think the guys who put themselves up for ridicule are the ones sponsering an obvious hardcore player, and are being screwed over every which way but refuse to listen. ok...it's there money ..up to them etc etc. but as a fellow male i just think sometimes.."what the hell is going on in your head"???

there's a guy in my local bar. retired, bit of money in the bank. he went to pattaya last year for first time..met a girl working in a gogo. he started sending her cash almost immediately.
we sitting havin a beer other week and he decides to ring her. the phone is off!
"her bloody phone is always off" he says.."you think she's messing about"?
good god man, you really need me to answer..what you think?

some guys they a lost cause. 55555!
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i think it's pretty obvious there's 2 types of sponsorship. marc26 type where he's involved in a relationship and plans for the future etc..also paying for the g/f's sons school is commendable, will undoubtably change the kids life for the better. anyway..he explained his position (not that he has to) very well earlier.

i think the guys who put themselves up for ridicule are the ones sponsering an obvious hardcore player, and are being screwed over every which way but refuse to listen. ok...it's there money ..up to them etc etc. but as a fellow male i just think sometimes.."what the hell is going on in your head"???

there's a guy in my local bar. retired, bit of money in the bank. he went to pattaya last year for first time..met a girl working in a gogo. he started sending her cash almost immediately.
we sitting havin a beer other week and he decides to ring her. the phone is off!
"her bloody phone is always off" he says.."you think she's messing about"?
good god man, you really need me to answer..what you think?

some guys they a lost cause. 55555!

Yes mate i totally agre with you.... Marc26's relationship with his TGF is respectable and everything he is spending his money on is benefiting him for his future also,
as for the other blokes like you mentioned and Nicke in an earlier post well what can i say but you learn from your mistakes and hopefully most catch on before the y are scraping the bottom of the barrell for $$$.....
Personally i would do the same as Nelsonone and rather give to the poor and look at the smile on their faces which i think is priceless!!!!!
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Old 30-03-2008, 14:14
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but why would i want my gf, who i intend to be with, live a shitty lifestyle?
should i be proud of myself by keeping her in a small room to share with 6 other people? or make sure she only has a certain amount of money in her pocket
you keep talking about these girls you meet in a bar, great they can get by on 6k/mo
i dont expect my future wife, who i have known for 4 1/2 years and spent considerable time with to live with no money. i also am not going to let her and her son go without insurance and i am actually proud that i pay her sons school, because it is a very good school
i waited until i was 36 years old to decide to settle down. now that i found someone i want to give it a go, should i just keep her poor until we get the visa we've been trying to get?

Good Post Paulie....................So what are you waiting for now? Too long my friend..............Get yer ass into gear. We need a good wedding to go to! 55555555555

Perhaps you need a kick in the butt and get over here and marry the girl! 4 1/2 years, come on Man!
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Good Post Paulie....................So what are you waiting for now? Too long my friend..............Get yer ass into gear. We need a good wedding to go to! 55555555555

Perhaps you need a kick in the butt and get over here and marry the girl! 4 1/2 years, come on Man!

my situation is a little hard
being an American on a work permit in Canada
my 1st 15 months was just a temporary job
i decided to keep the job Jan/2007 and applied for tourist visa dec 2007, which got denied
i am in LOS in May, and hopefully all will be settled

i have started my diviosn at work from scratch, so the last 2 years has been tons of travel so wasnt really conduscive to having her here in those 2 years
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55555555 Not bad after eight Tigers! Punctuation, spolling..........the lot!

I stand by my guns though..............I just don't get the sponsorship thing.

The RTG returns hotline is on permanant hold.............Again! What's becoming of our service industries...............Poor.

I agree with you. We gotta try and put an end to the sponsorship thing. All the sponsoring just curupts the girls even more. Once they have multiple sponsors then they are perminantly damaged.

All i tell a GF, if i live here i stay with you or you come live with me. If everyone said that i think there would be some more serious thinking done. Guys complain about how all the BGs and TGs are fraudsters but that is what we make them by giving them money.

If you cant have your girl in your own country in less then 3-5 months then dont sponsor. Move to thailand if your in love. Otherwise dont make promises you cant keep and dont send money.
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Well said Paulie..

I have had mates break up with thier LT girl.. And still sort them out for a long while even after.. The way people talk on here that would be viewed as a 'sucker' but the fact of the matter is, they had a relationship and even if it didnt work out the guy doesnt want her to suffer. Those guys got my full respect.

of course some guys get taken for a ride, many guys have unreal expectations and many girls are scamming the guys purely as an income without feelings. But if you feel your trying to do a long distance relationship, do you really want your loved one to scrape by at poverty level ??

If you cant get them home in 6 months then you should not sponsor. I think allot of these girls are true to thair first sponsor experence but then the sponsor doesnt show up and she cheats a little bit. That just gets the snowball rolling.
I think sponsoring does more harm then good because the girls eventually have a frozen heart.
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Old 01-04-2008, 13:15
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my situation is a little hard
being an American on a work permit in Canada
my 1st 15 months was just a temporary job
i decided to keep the job Jan/2007 and applied for tourist visa dec 2007, which got denied
i am in LOS in May, and hopefully all will be settled

i have started my diviosn at work from scratch, so the last 2 years has been tons of travel so wasnt really conduscive to having her here in those 2 years

i heard that tourist visas are the hardest to get in canada. is that true? If you didnt get one then who the hell can?
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If you cant get them home in 6 months then you should not sponsor. I think allot of these girls are true to thair first sponsor experence but then the sponsor doesnt show up and she cheats a little bit. That just gets the snowball rolling.
I think sponsoring does more harm then good because the girls eventually have a frozen heart.


I thought they eventually got a black heart.
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...the last 2 years has been tons of travel so wasnt really conduscive to having her here in those 2 years
That was my problem when I was living in the UK, I was working in places like Amsterdam, Moscow, Warsaw, Zurich etc all the time and it wasn't worth getting Noi over to the UK if I was only there from 10pm Friday night through to 5am Monday morning.

Now that I am living and working in Singapore and not currently travelling, things are a lot better and she's been spending a lot of time here with me.

I hope the same happens for you and your TG when the travelling stops. Sure there has been up and downs, but overall it has been great fun.
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