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Old 21-08-2004, 03:11
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Hello Guys,

I think a lot of us share the same feeling after returning from LOS.
I feel sort off depressed and want to go back to LOS as soon as possible.

I just came back three days ago from a three week holliday, and I was wondering what you guys are doing to make you feel a little bit "back in Phuket"? I'm just following this forum and some other site's related to Thailand. And watch my picture's off course...

I hope you've got some good idea's!
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Hello Guys,

I think a lot of us share the same feeling after returning from LOS.
I feel sort off depressed and want to go back to LOS as soon as possible.

I just came back three days ago from a three week holliday, and I was wondering what you guys are doing to make you feel a little bit "back in Phuket"? I'm just following this forum and some other site's related to Thailand. And watch my picture's off course...

I hope you've got some good idea's!


Start saving for the next tour , that's about all you can do
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Two more hours and I'm there again ! I know no one really cares but I just had to make the comment ! LOL
p.s. Only way I know to get over it is to start saving for the next one and the next one etc....
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Two more hours and I'm there again ! I know no one really cares but I just had to make the comment ! LOL
p.s. Only way I know to get over it is to start saving for the next one and the next one etc....
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Have fun Jaws. I agree, just try to work hard and arrange everything so you can stay a littlebit longer next time. For me, Los is everything, and everything I do, I do it to spend more time down there.
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Have fun Jaws. I agree, just try to work hard and arrange everything so you can stay a littlebit longer next time. For me, Los is everything, and everything I do, I do it to spend more time down there.

Ha ha!

You have got the 'bug' big style now amigo. Welcome to the club
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Have fun Jaws. I agree, just try to work hard and arrange everything so you can stay a littlebit longer next time. For me, Los is everything, and everything I do, I do it to spend more time down there.

Yes ! Welcome to the club ,

Its amazing what some trips to Thailand can make !!!!
Now my life to only circulate for LOS and look forward for next trip
read this great board everyday .....

so i belive that the only thing is to save money for next trip !!!!
and work my ass of me between this trips ....
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work my ass of me between this trips ....
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Yes ! i can only agree ....a lots of work .

Hmmm , wondering how many ours you have to work for your as ???
What do you say ......5 kg up
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Hello Guys,

I think a lot of us share the same feeling after returning from LOS.
I feel sort off depressed and want to go back to LOS as soon as possible.

I just came back three days ago from a three week holliday, and I was wondering what you guys are doing to make you feel a little bit "back in Phuket"? I'm just following this forum and some other site's related to Thailand. And watch my picture's off course...

I hope you've got some good idea's!

Hi Kasperb,

You've got a bad case of Post-LOS Syndrome. This web site is about the best treatment for it. It is about communicating with others who have been or are in the same place as you. We have all felt the bad blues after tours. This forum is group therapy and we help each other get through the rough spots. When we read the posts from the guys over there now w/ pics of the BGs and keep up w/ local Phuket news, then we are living vicariously and get a little dose of the high that makes being there so great. It's like a contact high, if you know what I mean. No substitute for really being there, but better than nothing.

The first couple of weeks back home are the worst, and the whole first month is bad, but then you start to adjust as the mind-blowing contrast between the warmth, beauty, and sensuality of life in LOS and the stark cold reality of life in Farangland begins to fade. Getting used to sleeping alone again is the first step!!

Then you've got to learn to stop talking incessantly to your friends about how great LOS is, (and by insinuation, how much your homeland sucks). People will never understand what you are going through, and they think you are a bore. I have lost friends over this(who needs friends like that!). This is where the forum comes in handy. Tell us your stories. Share your thoughts and opinions with us. We understand. We care. We have the same kinds of feelings you do.

Finally, at the about the one month mark, if not before, you've got to put the pictures away. At first they are a consolation. But eventually, you are just torturing yourself to keep dwelling on the past. Looking at the pictures brings back the pain of separation. Time to look ahead. Time to start planning for your next trip. Time to share in the excitement of those who are there now or are soon to depart!!!!!
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Been back in sweden for 2 weeks now and the blues has hit me pretty bad as well. 6 great weeks in phuket and pattaya now i am paying the prize sort off. Do you guys bother going out to clubs back in falangland or you reckon it is just a waste of time and money? I went out with a few mates this friday first time since i came back and it was pretty depressing talent was bad and most of the women I talked to pretty bad personality, attitude. Do you guys bother telling your mates that nightlife back in your cities are pretty crap, or you just play along pretending this is the way it should be. Trying to explain to your mates what you have experienced in LOS i feel is pretty pointless alot of times. From now on I will avoid clubing and drinking over here because I feel it is simply not worth it. I rather save my money, work hard, go to the gym a little bit, and stay updated on this forum and plan for next trip.
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Andre,Now your getting the right idea. Forget everything but getting back to LOS some people would say that's funny attitude to life but you can also bet that those same people have NEVER been to LOS !!
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From now on I will avoid clubing and drinking over here because I feel it is simply not worth it. I rather save my money, work hard, go to the gym a little bit, and stay updated on this forum and plan for next trip.

ITS NICE TO SEE THAT YOU ARE TAKING MY ADVICE ANDRE............
FARANG LAND..........IT SUCKS.........FARANG WOMEN...THEY SUCK........BUT NOT YOUR COKC......
MOST OF US ON THIS FORUM ....WORK HARD SO THEY CAN GET TO LOS AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE..ITS HARD TO MAKE THE SACRIFISES.LIKE STAYING OFF THE DRINK.BUT ITS WORTH IT WHEN YOU GET TO LOS FOR 2 WHOLE MONTHS EVERY YEAR...............BUDDA BLESS THIS FORUM BECAUSE IT KEEPS MY MIND OCCUPIED .WHILE I COUNT DOWN THE DAYS TO MY NEXT TOUR..........BTW..........18 WEEKS OR 126 DAYS !!!!!!!!!!!
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ITS NICE TO SEE THAT YOU ARE TAKING MY ADVICE ANDRE............
FARANG LAND..........IT SUCKS.........FARANG WOMEN...THEY SUCK........BUT NOT YOUR COKC......
MOST OF US ON THIS FORUM ....WORK HARD SO THEY CAN GET TO LOS AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE..ITS HARD TO MAKE THE SACRIFISES.LIKE STAYING OFF THE DRINK.BUT ITS WORTH IT WHEN YOU GET TO LOS FOR 2 WHOLE MONTHS EVERY YEAR...............BUDDA BLESS THIS FORUM BECAUSE IT KEEPS MY MIND OCCUPIED .WHILE I COUNT DOWN THE DAYS TO MY NEXT TOUR..........BTW..........18 WEEKS OR 126 DAYS !!!!!!!!!!!
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C'mon Johnny, not all farang sucks!

I had manny farang girls, in the time I was handsome (long, long time ago!)

I loved manny of them! My preference went to...Norvegian girls! pretty, a good laugh and ...great sex, open minded and sometimes more into then Bg's!

You can't generalize like that! I had rotten bg's too! The difference is that for bg's you are the meaning to get income. A regular TG, would very dissapoint you!

For us, farangs, it is nice to scre* a nice young TG, every night a pretty peach, and you wonder what you can do to her! Thrill excitement, yes! Better? If you have a farang gf, who cares about you, who is pretty too, well who takes care of you and your kids, has to live with YOUR fantasies and temper everyday, well that excist (not talking about mine!)

And also with TG, when the well is dry, then they are not so in love and kind anymore!

Los IS like Disneyland, lots of fun for grown-ups, but it iS also a bit fake!

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I had manny farang girls, in the time I was handsome (long, long time ago!)

You can't generalize like that! I had rotten bg's too! The difference is that for bg's you are the meaning to get income. A regular TG, would very dissapoint you!

If you have a farang gf, who cares about you, who is pretty too, well who takes care of you and your kids, has to live with YOUR fantasies and temper everyday, well that excist (not talking about mine!)

Yes, Tintin, all farangland sucks. Maybe not if you are young and handsome, charming and witty, and maybe have money, too. If you never noticed, farang women are very impressed with money, too. Not too many of them lining up to date poor guys!!!!!!

But that's not the point. The point is that the young handsome guys with pockets full of money can get pretty girls anywhere in the world, even a few girls who will treat them good , maybe. But that is not me. That is not most of the BMs. If you didn't have a wife and money, how do you think the women would be treating you? Wake up! Get real! If I and others could get the same kind of treatment in Farangland as in LOS, would I be flying for 25 hours to the other side of the world for the 4th time. No!!!!!!! I would say that I am not doing it for my health, but I am doing for my health; my mental, psychological and physical health, because I can not afford that kind of treatment here.

I was scanning the local paper yesterday, and came across the ******s' section. Dozens of beautiful girls at my beck and call if I choose. If I had a billion dollars, would I need to go to LOS. No!!!!!! But it would cost two or three thousand dollars to have one of those girls for the evening, night and morning! Thousands of dollars versus 1000 Baht. Gee, that's a tough choice.

For the average guy, FARANGLAND SUCKS big time.
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I loved manny of them! My preference went to...Norvegian girls! pretty, a good laugh and ...great sex, open minded and sometimes more into then Bg's!


tintin can you tell me where you find this norwegian girls hehe, non of thoose i meet on friday and saturday night was open minden, insted a litte bit porsh, and going with their nose up in the sky.
When you live in norway, after a time norwegian girls is booring you. But we have many cuties hehe
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I had manny farang girls, in the time I was handsome (long, long time ago!)

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HI TIN TIN..........
BELIEVE ME.I HAVE HAD QUIET A FEW AS WELL...........AND IT WAS THE SAME WITH ALL OF THEM.........IT WAS ALWAYS ME ME ME.........
MAYBE I JUST MET THE BAD ONES...
BUT AFTER ALL THIS IS A FORUM AND EVERY ONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OPINION........
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HI TIN TIN..........
BELIEVE ME.I HAVE HAD QUIET A FEW AS WELL...........AND IT WAS THE SAME WITH ALL OF THEM.........IT WAS ALWAYS ME ME ME.........
MAYBE I JUST MET THE BAD ONES...
BUT AFTER ALL THIS IS A FORUM AND EVERY ONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OPINION........
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True jonny, but going to Los isn't that always ME Me mE for you?

I had a Norvegian girl, that when I became very ill, went to work in cinema to sell chocolates, just to come to Belgium to see her Bf, sick and dying in a hospital! She was and is still a cutie, and almost sending mails every day!

Yep we stayed friends, got kids of her ownand even visited here with my wife some years ago!
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Thumbs up I still have hope in falang girls

I have to say i agree with what tintin is saying, Los is paridise and there's nothing like the women in los and i cant wait to get back over there but ive met a few really nice falang ladies who treated me just as good, Ive had others who treated me like shite but i bet if you look hard enough in los you'll find them aswell, At the end of the day los is just a holiday for me, When i came back i had a plan to cut out the drinking and the weekends out with the lads and save every penny for my next trip to los, But that lasted all of 5mins and i was straight out with the lads i just cant stay in at the weekends id end up really depressed and losing a lot of friends which for me just isnt worth it, Maybe this is because im only 22yrs old and look on life a little different than a lot of the older bm's who have experienced a lot more falang b*tch's than i have, And just cant be bothered with them any more and all the shite that comes with them, But for me ive always wanted to find a nice irish girl who i could settle down with and have a few kids with and hopefully live happily ever after, And im 99% sure thats not going to happen on a holiday in los, Maybe its just a dream and im being stupid but thats what id like to have 10yrs down the road, So i still have some hope in falang ladies but until that time comes the LBFM's aint a bad substitute
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C'mon Johnny, not all farang sucks!

You can't generalize like that! I had rotten bg's too! The difference is that for bg's you are the meaning to get income. A regular TG, would very dissapoint you!


Why do you say a regular Thai Girl would dissapoint you? Did you ever have a long relationship with a regular Thai girl? Tell me, what were your good/bad experiences?

I've had a relationship with a Regular Thai girl for a while, and believe me, she was great! You really can't compare them with farang women. Much more kind, interested and helpfull. She was working in a five star hotel on the island, so deffinitely no BG. I have been working with a lot of normal Thai girls as well, and really... no bad words about them at all. The only difference is that they behave a bit young for their age, but that's all!

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Why do you say a regular Thai Girl would dissapoint you? Did you ever have a long relationship with a regular Thai girl? Tell me, what were your good/bad experiences?

I've had a relationship with a Regular Thai girl for a while, and believe me, she was great! You really can't compare them with farang women. Much more kind, interested and helpfull. She was working in a five star hotel on the island, so deffinitely no BG. I have been working with a lot of normal Thai girls as well, and really... no bad words about them at all. The only difference is that they behave a bit young for their age, but that's all!

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GREAT POST KASP !!!!!!!!!!
WERE YOU WITH THIS GIRL FOR A LONG TIME OR WAS IT JUST A COUPLE OF WEEKS? WHERE DID SHE WORK?
WAS SHE A RECEPTIONIST OR A GENERAL CLEANER?
AS FOR FARANGS VERSUS THAI GIRLS...........
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU.......GIVE ME A TG OVER A FARANG ANY DAY.......ALWAYS KIND,ALWAYS LISTENS AND VERY CARING...WELL MOST OF THEM ANYWAY...IVE BEEN WITH QUIET A FEW AND HAVE ONLY COME ACROSS A COUPLE OF BAD ONES..
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Hi Johny,

I've been with her for about two months, after that I had to go back home. She wasn't either a receptionist, nor a general cleaner. She was working for a part of the sales departement of her hotel.

Nice to hear you've the same experiences. It's only quiet hard to find non-working girls in Patong... That's the reason why I also like to go out in Phuket town ;-)
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