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your tg's head
i read on another thread that a bm accidentally touched his tg's head and she went berserk. i know that touching a thai's head is strictly taboo, but how aware do you have to be of your hands with respect to your tilac's head during a night of bedroom olympics? evski.
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Originally Posted by Evski
i read on another thread that a bm accidentally touched his tg's head and she went berserk. i know that touching a thai's head is strictly taboo, but how aware do you have to be of your hands with respect to your tilac's head during a night of bedroom olympics? evski.
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I touch my bg's as a please and if she dare don't like it I'll give her the boot and throw 10 baht at her for her stupidity. it hasn't happened yrt but thats what i would do
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It is OK for some girls but for some others NOT. It is due to their religion.
You have to respect it.
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I touch my bg's as a please and if she dare don't like it I'll give her the boot and throw 10 baht at her for her stupidity. it hasn't happened yrt but thats what i would do
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It is OK for some girls but for some others NOT. It is due to their religion.
You have to respect it.
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Try to avoid it!!
But generally with the younger generation its no issue at all but with older people you must pay them due respect and never touch their head
My GF is forever punching me on the head, shows how much respect she has for me
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I always show her respect and I don't place my hands on her head...As the head is considered as the highest valued part of the body, heads should not be touched except for children....But Ears are fair game...so just call me an ear grabber 
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We were told when I was stationed there in the military what Nicke said that the head is the most sacred part of the body and your feet were the lowest.The worst thing you could do was to have your feet come in contact with a Thai persons head.So becareful in the 69 postion.........
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Respect
hey dudes.....
Nicke basically summed it up,defintely feeling what he said there....
i think some one needs to show some F**king respect !
DO WHAT U WANT TO DO,AFTER ALL,IT IS UP 2 U!
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Respect
Two years ago in the hotel I was staying there was a guy who didn`t show respect to his TG. Kicked her out naked in the night, didn`t pay her and called her names. Went on for couple of nights with other TG`s. Many people from the hotel complained with the owner for the rumours in the night. The hotel manager told us that he would look at it for another night and if it was still terrible he would ask the man to leave the hotel.
Fortunately or not he never had to ask it. The man had done the same thing again with a lady but this time he had bad luck. She went to tell it to her brothers and older sister. I guess al you members know what happened overthere. Once he came down from his room he was kicked the living sh.t out of him. I never saw somebody leave Phuket that quick.
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Two years ago in the hotel I was staying there was a guy who didn`t show respect to his TG. Kicked her out naked in the night, didn`t pay her and called her names. Went on for couple of nights with other TG`s. Many people from the hotel complained with the owner for the rumours in the night. The hotel manager told us that he would look at it for another night and if it was still terrible he would ask the man to leave the hotel.
Fortunately or not he never had to ask it. The man had done the same thing again with a lady but this time he had bad luck. She went to tell it to her brothers and older sister. I guess al you members know what happened overthere. Once he came down from his room he was kicked the living sh.t out of him. I never saw somebody leave Phuket that quick.
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We were told when I was stationed there in the military what Nicke said that the head is the most sacred part of the body and your feet were the lowest.The worst thing you could do was to have your feet come in contact with a Thai persons head.So becareful in the 69 postion.........
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19-10-2004, 23:57
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great feedback
great feedback so far. to get even more specific: how careful do you have to be when your tg is going down on you? do you just resist the urge to touch her head? do you just caress her face, keeping your hands completely away from her head? or say you're hittin it from behind? is hair pulling gonna offend if you're bumping uglies from behind your lil tilac? keep the responses coming, fellas. thanks a lot. evski.
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I always show her respect and I don't place my hands on her head...As the head is considered as the highest valued part of the body, heads should not be touched except for children....But Ears are fair game...so just call me an ear grabber 
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i would have thought that the fanny was the highest value part of their body !-- after all they are sat on a gold-mine!--one solution to the problem --why not ask them to wear a m/cycle crash helmet to bed ?
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great feedback so far. to get even more specific: how careful do you have to be when your tg is going down on you? do you just resist the urge to touch her head? do you just caress her face, keeping your hands completely away from her head? or say you're hittin it from behind? is hair pulling gonna offend if you're bumping uglies from behind your lil tilac? keep the responses coming, fellas. thanks a lot. evski.
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Its not a sign of disrespect if you dont know or understand there culture? And especially if you dont practice the same religion. How are you to know?
Dont get me wrong i dont go around the pathing thais on the head but when im in bed with a girl i find it difficult not to touch there head, And no girl every complained either or looked upset, But i guess when your out in public they would probably get upset by losing face etc....
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Originally Posted by beuk
Two years ago in the hotel I was staying there was a guy who didn`t show respect to his TG. Kicked her out naked in the night, didn`t pay her and called her names. Went on for couple of nights with other TG`s. Many people from the hotel complained with the owner for the rumours in the night. The hotel manager told us that he would look at it for another night and if it was still terrible he would ask the man to leave the hotel.
Fortunately or not he never had to ask it. The man had done the same thing again with a lady but this time he had bad luck. She went to tell it to her brothers and older sister. I guess al you members know what happened overthere. Once he came down from his room he was kicked the living sh.t out of him. I never saw somebody leave Phuket that quick.
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What gets me is that why do some people act like this in the first place!!!!!
We're in their country after all....
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it all depends on the girls religion and beliefs. i know that when i was there in july i kept on touching ead's head because shes so short, and she would politley tell me to not. she was a great sport and eventually i didnt do it. i wasnt trying to be a jerk, and i think she knew it, sh was very nice about it
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Two years ago in the hotel I was staying there was a guy who didn`t show respect to his TG. Kicked her out naked in the night, didn`t pay her and called her names. Went on for couple of nights with other TG`s. Many people from the hotel complained with the owner for the rumours in the night. The hotel manager told us that he would look at it for another night and if it was still terrible he would ask the man to leave the hotel.
Fortunately or not he never had to ask it. The man had done the same thing again with a lady but this time he had bad luck. She went to tell it to her brothers and older sister. I guess al you members know what happened overthere. Once he came down from his room he was kicked the living sh.t out of him. I never saw somebody leave Phuket that quick.
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I think he is a lucky man. Others get knifes for behavior same this....
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This guy wasn`t lucky. He got was he deserves....
German dies from knife wounds
RAWAI: Hans Jurgen Ottmar Bayer, 37, from Germany, died on Monday night from knife wounds sustained in a fight with his live-in partner, Nakorn Koipud, 25, at their home in the Happy Home housing estate.
Pol Capt Chana Sutthimas, of Chalong Police Station, said that Nakorn told police she was slicing vegetables in the kitchen at about 9 pm, when Mr Bayer began hitting and kicking her. He frequently beat her when he was drunk, she told police.
He said that Nakorn claimed she used the knife in her hands to defend herself, before running out of the house. “Her conscience later got the better of her and she returned [to the house] to take Mr Bayer to the Phuket International Hospital,” he said.
Mr Bayer died in the hospital at 10 pm.
Nakorn was charged with unintentional homicide. She was released yesterday on bail of 100,000 baht.
Capt Chana said the couple had lived together for about six months.
The Gazette learned late this afternoon that the German embassy has requested that Mr Bayer’s remains be sent to Bangkok for autopsy.
Phuket, Thailand
18:56 local time (GMT +7)
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Don't Mess With The Force!
What I was told is that the reason that Thais believe it is a bad thing to touch a person on top of the head is that they believe that this is where the life force, or life energy enters into the body and where they are connected to what we might call God, although they don't because there is no God in Thai Buddhism. To put your hand on top of a person's head is to cut off the life force, or spiritual power from entering their body, which is, of course, a very bad thing to do, sort of the spiritual eqivalent of sticking a gag in a person's mouth and thereby cutting off the flow of oxygen, except that even then you could breath through your nose, but the life force won't enter through your nose. Even in the West, you wouldn't be received kindly if you went around putting your hand over people's mouths and blocking the flow of their breath.
As we sometimes say, "May the Force be with you." That is the force they are talking about, which is where George Lucas got the idea for his movies, by studying Eastern religions BTW. To put your hand on top of a person's head is like saying, "Here, let me prevent the force from being with you."
However, I think that it is a little different when making love, at least with the girls I have been with. They seem to understand intuitively the difference between a gentle loving caress and a careless gesture. To use the an*logy I used above, think of how different it is to shut someone up by putting your hand over their mouth, as opposed to, in a delicate, sensual way, tracing a lover's lips with your fingertip. So I wouldn't grab a girl by the top of her head or place my hand there in a way that was less than loving and sensual nor just put it there and hold it there.
One great night after lying in bed with a girl for perhaps an hour as we rested, then I began to caress her and kissed her on top of her head gently as I caressed her beautiful silky hair.  She responded with a very sensual, sexy sigh, and I felt her body tremble a tiny bit. I proceeded to kiss her hair and every part of her face. Eventually I worked my way to each part of her body until I finished by kissing her feet. When I kissed her feet, her breathing became heavy, she moaned ecstatically and tears came from her eyes, as she reached a sort of emotional climax. The rest of the night was fantastic. 
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One great night after lying in bed with a girl for perhaps an hour as we rested, then I began to caress her and kissed her on top of her head gently as I caressed her beautiful silky hair.  She responded with a very sensual, sexy sigh, and I felt her body tremble a tiny bit. I proceeded to kiss her hair and every part of her face. Eventually I worked my way to each part of her body until I finished by kissing her feet. When I kissed her feet, her breathing became heavy, she moaned ecstatically and tears came from her eyes, as she reached a sort of emotional climax. The rest of the night was fantastic. 
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Hi Jonny,
Seriously, do you ever work? I thought they paid you for showing up, sitting down at the keyboard, punching up phuket-info,and reading all the posts and replying.
I am sure that you have a big sign on your desk that says, "V.P. , In Charge of Phuket Relations." And your picture  in the company brochure that says, "Here at XYZ Company we take great pride in keeping up with the very latest news of events in the isles of Southern Thailand. We couldn't be more happy with the splendid performance of V.P. Jonny, who expertly does the job for us. We are proud and ever so fortunate to have him on our staff."
So, what's this crap about having to work?
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Hi Jonny,
Seriously, do you ever work? I thought they paid you for showing up, sitting down at the keyboard, punching up phuket-info,and reading all the posts and replying.
I am sure that you have a big sign on your desk that says, "V.P. , In Charge of Phuket Relations." And your picture  in the company brochure that says, "Here at XYZ Company we take great pride in keeping up with the very latest news of events in the isles of Southern Thailand. We couldn't be more happy with the splendid performance of V.P. Jonny, who expertly does the job for us. We are proud and ever so fortunate to have him on our staff."
So, what's this crap about having to work?
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What I was told is that the reason that Thais believe it is a bad thing to touch a person on top of the head is that they believe that this is where the life force, or life energy enters into the body and where they are connected to what we might call God, although they don't because there is no God in Thai Buddhism. To put your hand on top of a person's head is to cut off the life force, or spiritual power from entering their body, which is, of course, a very bad thing to do, sort of the spiritual eqivalent of sticking a gag in a person's mouth and thereby cutting off the flow of oxygen, except that even then you could breath through your nose, but the life force won't enter through your nose. Even in the West, you wouldn't be received kindly if you went around putting your hand over people's mouths and blocking the flow of their breath.
As we sometimes say, "May the Force be with you." That is the force they are talking about, which is where George Lucas got the idea for his movies, by studying Eastern religions BTW. To put your hand on top of a person's head is like saying, "Here, let me prevent the force from being with you."
However, I think that it is a little different when making love, at least with the girls I have been with. They seem to understand intuitively the difference between a gentle loving caress and a careless gesture. To use the an*logy I used above, think of how different it is to shut someone up by putting your hand over their mouth, as opposed to, in a delicate, sensual way, tracing a lover's lips with your fingertip. So I wouldn't grab a girl by the top of her head or place my hand there in a way that was less than loving and sensual nor just put it there and hold it there.
One great night after lying in bed with a girl for perhaps an hour as we rested, then I began to caress her and kissed her on top of her head gently as I caressed her beautiful silky hair.  She responded with a very sensual, sexy sigh, and I felt her body tremble a tiny bit. I proceeded to kiss her hair and every part of her face. Eventually I worked my way to each part of her body until I finished by kissing her feet. When I kissed her feet, her breathing became heavy, she moaned ecstatically and tears came from her eyes, as she reached a sort of emotional climax. The rest of the night was fantastic. 
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On this subject, personally speaking I have never placed my hands on top of a thai persons head for the obvious reasons , nor lifted my feet over their heads etc...
I was slightly paranoid the 1st time i went with a thai woman as I like to express my feeling through sex and love to caress a woman in every way possible, including caressing her face while kissing.
I wasn't 100% sure at the time of this would cause offence but has never seemed to in my experience so i'm thinking that this respect for the thai's beliefs of not touching the head is literally meaning do not touch the top.
I also wondered if thai men caress the womens faces or is it just us farang ? Does anyone know anything about this? As it's not something you ever see due to thai conservatism in public places.
I think generally the thai women may understand it is the farang way of expressing emotion and feeling so may simply put up with it to keep us happy or it may be that they generally don't mind these kinds of actions as long as it is kept respectful.
1 lady i knew before liked me to kiss her many times in a row, either cheek first (on the face...i mean) and then on the forehead, always felt like i was paying respect to Bhudda when i did this. 
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This thing is bound to go off subject a little here..but oh well life goes on.
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