Phuket

joe418 · #1 26-11-2004, 03:08

What would happen if you told a thai girl you 'loved' them?

Joe.

dawsey · #2 26-11-2004, 03:15

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Originally Posted by joe418

What would happen if you told a thai girl you 'loved' them?

Joe.

Get ready for a visit to the jewellers

joe418 · #3 26-11-2004, 03:23

Met a girl in phuket,in a bar owned by a freind,he told me she work's,but not all the time,and if she dosent like a man,she won't go with him.Spent 2 weeks with her,diddn't pay her for sex,just for food etc,and i also used to slip off to see another girl in the afternoon etc etc.

This girl rings me,i don't ring her every day/night,and it must cost her a fortune.I took her for sometgin to eat with bar owner,and his thai girl of 11 years,and she rings me tonite and tells me she 'loves' me.Obviously i didn't tell her the same,and im due to go back in december.

She is a nice girl,but obviously a working girl,as and when she chooses,and she's been in phuket for 4 months (confirmed by my freind who owns bar)

Thoughts please gents?????

Joe.

butterflyblonde · #4 26-11-2004, 03:36

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Originally Posted by joe418

Met a girl in phuket,in a bar owned by a freind,he told me she work's,but not all the time,and if she dosent like a man,she won't go with him.Spent 2 weeks with her,diddn't pay her for sex,just for food etc,and i also used to slip off to see another girl in the afternoon etc etc.

This girl rings me,i don't ring her every day/night,and it must cost her a fortune.I took her for sometgin to eat with bar owner,and his thai girl of 11 years,and she rings me tonite and tells me she 'loves' me.Obviously i didn't tell her the same,and im due to go back in december.

She is a nice girl,but obviously a working girl,as and when she chooses,and she's been in phuket for 4 months (confirmed by my freind who owns bar)

Thoughts please gents?????

Joe.

Just think about the fact she's saying that she loves you after only 2 weeks.

Alarm bells are ringing all around.

joe418 · #5 26-11-2004, 03:59

Hence why i didn't tell her the same,i was just wondering why she's ringing me from her mobile to my landline (not costing me),from thailand,e mails every day etc etc.

I told her i was a butterfly when i first met her,and she knew i was seeing another girl,but my friend who owns the bar said that she's a genuine girl,and advised me that there was no point trawling different bars every night and paying 500 for short time every night etc.

bit of a strange one?

Joe.

LivinLOS · #6 26-11-2004, 18:20

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Originally Posted by joe418

my friend who owns the bar... advised me that there was no point trawling different bars every night and paying 500 for short time every night etc.

bit of a strange one?

He sure sounds like it

Hookey · #7 26-11-2004, 18:40

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Originally Posted by butterflyblonde

Just think about the fact she's saying that she loves you after only 2 weeks.

Alarm bells are ringing all around.

I told my (now-ex) wife I loved her after two days! And I meant it too. The probability is that alarm bells should be ringing; the possibility is that she's on the level. Only you can decide that.

butterflyblonde · #8 26-11-2004, 23:21

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I told my (now-ex) wife I loved her after two days! And I meant it too. The probability is that alarm bells should be ringing; the possibility is that she's on the level. Only you can decide that.

On the contrary, only he can decide what is best for him.

If he feels she's speaking true then go for it and i wish him good luck.

But i would like to remind you that she works as a prostitute for a living and no matter how sweet and genuine they always seems to be (and believe me i know) you sometimes have to remind yourself of this fact.

But at the end of the day - it's his decision

r3aps · #9 27-11-2004, 03:11

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Originally Posted by joe418

She is a nice girl,but obviously a working girl,as and when she chooses,and she's been in phuket for 4 months (confirmed by my freind who owns bar)

Thoughts please gents?????

Joe.

yes she has been working his bar 4 months,and many others for the past 2 years.
why is 2 and 4 the magic number for the amount of months bg have been working,there the only 2 figures i ever hear.
steve

mikegb · #10 27-11-2004, 03:24

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Originally Posted by joe418

Hence why i didn't tell her the same,i was just wondering why she's ringing me from her mobile to my landline (not costing me),from thailand,e mails every day etc etc.

I told her i was a butterfly when i first met her,and she knew i was seeing another girl,but my friend who owns the bar said that she's a genuine girl,and advised me that there was no point trawling different bars every night and paying 500 for short time every night etc.

bit of a strange one?

Joe.

Hi Joe,

I just want to know why you didnt pay her. You cant tell me you 'fell for her', because you have already told us you were butterflying. Would you like it if your boss just paid you in rice and potato ?

butterflyblonde · #11 27-11-2004, 04:24

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Hi Joe,

I just want to know why you didnt pay her. You cant tell me you 'fell for her', because you have already told us you were butterflying. Would you like it if your boss just paid you in rice and potato ?

Thanks for saying what i was thinking, there seems to be a lot of guys who seem to talk about freebies in los (this ain't a flame to those who do)
I have never had a freebie, not because i haven't had any opportunity for that because i have had many ladies tell me they genuinely like me but i always pay - it's their job and our money is their wages.

stevem · #12 27-11-2004, 12:55

Guys, just a word of warning about not paying for services rendered. I have heard of stories of punters deciding not to pay after the event, and the girl returning with brothers and other reinforcements. Now just use your imagination.

If you think you are a so called player, or in my books, an idiot, then good luck to you.

mikegb · #13 27-11-2004, 19:42

I can honestly say that in all the times I have been to LOS I have never had trouble with regards to payments.

I have sent a few girls home because they got back to the room and wouldnt do what they said in the bar, but this was always before the 'nitty gritty' started.

The last thing I want is grief from a thai girl or 'the family' just because I was too tight or stupid not to pay them.

joe418 · #14 27-11-2004, 20:06

It was a genuine question,and as i've stated,it is a freind who owns the bar,he told me sometimes she works,other times she dosen't,he says its up to her,even though she 'works' in his bar.

I've by no means 'fallen' for her whatsoever,i'm going back in december,and my freind has told me she dosen't want to work until i come back??

Regarding payment,i never actually 'paid' for sex as such,i just used to give her money for food,t shirts etc,and take her for a meal etc etc once a week.

regards,

Joe.

Allybabba22 · #15 27-11-2004, 20:31

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Originally Posted by joe418

It was a genuine question,and as i've stated,it is a freind who owns the bar,he told me sometimes she works,other times she dosen't,he says its up to her,even though she 'works' in his bar.

I've by no means 'fallen' for her whatsoever,i'm going back in december,and my freind has told me she dosen't want to work until i come back??

Regarding payment,i never actually 'paid' for sex as such,i just used to give her money for food,t shirts etc,and take her for a meal etc etc once a week.

regards,

Joe.

But why exactly did you not pay her when you payed the other girls? I think thats what most BMs cant understand, And i think you will have problems with this girl when you go back because by not paying her for services rendered, She maybe now think of you as her "boyfriend" and it could get a little bit messy when she finds out that you dont feel the same way, She might get the idea that you were using her for sex

Just my opinion, Hope everthing works out for you, And good luck

joe418 · #16 27-11-2004, 21:24

She just said 'up to you' so no price was agreed,i've told her when i come back i;ll want to go with different women,and she said again 'up to you'.

The mad thing is she hasn't worked,and dosent want to work until i come back,and my mate has rang me and told me????

Don't understand it myself if i'm honest.

Joe.

Allybabba22 · #17 27-11-2004, 21:43

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She just said 'up to you' so no price was agreed,i've told her when i come back i;ll want to go with different women,and she said again 'up to you'.

The mad thing is she hasn't worked,and dosent want to work until i come back,and my mate has rang me and told me????

Don't understand it myself if i'm honest.

Joe.

Thats what they all say mate because some girls dont like to ask for money but they still expect it, When i was there none of the girls ever talked to me about money but i always left 1000baht under there bag in the morning unless you picked up a go-go girl which i did once and gave 1500baht to.

As i said in the other post it sounds like she see's you as her boyfriend because you never paid her, Which could get messy when you get back to los and she realise's you dont feel the same, What i suggest you do when you get back is, Pay her for the nights you spent with her on your last trip(1000baht a night is cool) and then just buy her a drink and sit her down and explain to her your a big butterfly and you want to see other girls, And then hopefully she will get the hint without losing to much face, Again hope everything goes well for you mate, Good luck

butterflyblonde · #18 28-11-2004, 01:07

Hi Joe,

To be honest you hear this stuff and sometimes things don't add up.

Your mate tells you she only works occasionally as a bg - ie: goes with men for money and is highly selective ? so turns men she don't like away , it's true that some do this but not that often.
Has she got another job - therefore another source of income away from bg work ? Sleeping with guys she likes for free isn't actually the wisest way for a bg to survive - let alone send money back to her home village usually supporting many family members.
Often a ploy of bg's who fcuk for free is to get the guy hooked 1st then reel him in like a big fish, they are usually looking for a longtime sponsor who is stupid enough to send monthly payments to her bank account from back home - all the time telling him she stays back in her village and don't work nor more - this is often a lie.
I only give you this gentle warning to the things that go on from one guy to another. If she isn't looking for a long term contract with you and is only with you for her own pleasure then i would also be suspicous that she may have another boyfriend or 2 tucked away somewhere that are sponsoring.

After all, how is she paying the bills ?

Food for thought my friend, be careful. Personally speaking - I like to pay upfront with all bg's and move on to another - this way you both know where you stand. Business relationship

joe418 · #19 28-11-2004, 01:27

roughly what i was thinking myself,i gave her money when i left for rent/motorbike etc,and i'll only be home for 4 weeks before i go back,so i guess the money will cover her costs whilst im away.

I'm under no illusion that she may well have other men sending money to her,and if she plays the game well,then good luck to her,although my mate tells me that she dosen't want to go with anyone until i return,even though i've told her if she wants to work,she can...........up to her!

Joe.

butterflyblonde · #20 28-11-2004, 01:30

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Originally Posted by joe418

roughly what i was thinking myself,i gave her money when i left for rent/motorbike etc,and i'll only be home for 4 weeks before i go back,so i guess the money will cover her costs whilst im away.

I'm under no illusion that she may well have other men sending money to her,and if she plays the game well,then good luck to her,although my mate tells me that she dosen't want to go with anyone until i return,even though i've told her if she wants to work,she can...........up to her!

Joe.

Your'e more than welcome , by the way, I'm not saying that all bg's are dishonest as there are good and bad everywhere - some seem to be very genuine and true indeed.
Just want you to know that all is often not what it seems over in los.

steven eleven · #21 28-11-2004, 03:00

None of them do not ask for it (only dancing girls in gogos ask for it, up in front), but all of them expect it. That's my personal theory.

One holiday I stayed two weeks at the shitty room of a Phuket girl on Pisit road in Patong, and believe me ...they do it for money and nothing else. Each evening you will see a lot of girls "investing" at beauty saloons (barbers) trying to look their best for the evening. You really should take a walk on Pisit Road(=non touristic area of Patong and you will see what I mean.)
The only difference with us going to work is that they not bring lunch to their job but a tootbrush and a new pair of undies.

All what these girls seek is: social security for them and their family and somebody who treats them with respect and who takes care of them.
It's quite logical that they prefer good looking younger guys, or guys who now how to make them laugh, but normally in Thailand: "no money, no honey".

The strange thing with this one girl in Patong who I know "quite well" (at least I think but I'm not sure), is that she likes to have money for it (it's her job after all). But she does not like it when I give it to her when she's in the same room. So when she is taking a shower or combing her hair I allways put some money 1000 to 2000 Bht in her paints or in their tiny little handbags. Sometimes it looks like she does not want Buddha to see that she's going with guys for money.