Phuket - The homecoming-post Los blues

tintin · #1 04-12-2004, 16:09

Well I thought it wouldn't happen to me. I was happy to go home and see my family.

Tik stayed with me until the last minute. Even took her to Bangkok, after Ayuttay! So I skiped the famous "Eden-club" again and some BKK hoties.

Well I did not care. Although Tik is not the prettiest BG, she is certainly the nicest I ever had. What is fun to have another, maybe prettier girl with you, when you get along so well with one. I had so much fun with her, humouristic, nice carrying (she carried the heavy Nikon, so nothing could happen to it), good hearted.She never, ever asked me for money or something special, she really seemed pleased with my company.

Now I know some girls are very good actresses. And Tik, plays her role very well. When you see her at the bar, she acts as the hottest in town. So different from the girl I had as company. She never drank, was sometimes even quiet, romantic and carrying.

I always thought that a BG NEVER falls in love.I was proberly wrong. Because Teek was, I am sure of that. I loved this girl but was not in love. What I appreciate the most, was although fighting her tears going to the airport, she did not shed a tear when we parted, she wanted to be strong. Her body shivered against mine though.

Second thing, I could never understand BM's taking girls to their home-country. Would you marry a ****** at home? Well I do now. Such a sweet girl MUST find a farang to take good care of her! Not me, but I pray that somebody day, somebody will. I had also, really egoistic girls too on my trips. But Tik is a girl, even without falling in love, who want her customer to have a good time, I saw that the first days, when we were not so close as in the end. She is not the girl that likes kinky stuff, but a good fuc*, she rides you as she was on a horse.

Although her enthousiasm in the bar, she doesn't like being a BG, but you could never tell!

Back home, only 2 healthy people now. My eldest daughter and myself. I have to cook, clean, wash dishes, because my wife is too ill to do anything. I did not had the warmest welcome this time, but of course that is normal to her condition. My 16 months-old son did not recognize me and cries everytime he sees me. That is fustrating, as specialy, because at home, I always put much energy in him!

Well I hope I do not get the flew! But anyway, although the trip, was different then I thought it would be, I enjoyed it. Normally I will be back in February-March. No bg that time, my wife needs to get spoiled now! But, if she is around, I just say hello to tik!

Btw, I was very suprised, that I was NOT the only married guy between the Bm's! Some hide their matrual status really well!

I thought it was 50/50!

And if you ever meet Pen, avoid her. She want to get married badly, only reason she went into the bar. She is maybe easely in love, but she is a lazy girl! Not only would she do everything to avoid the "deed", but she did nothing for me. Not going to the beach, sleeping, never cleans the house, bed etc. I still believe in the "virgin" thing. Tik told me that her first time was with a customer too! First time, or not this girl doesn't perform. I even think, that she doesn't send anything to anybody and that being an only child, she has been spoiled. Tike had nothing, this girl, although recently in the bar, had quite some...

Hope some of you enjoyed my trip-reports. I am what I am, don't try to make myself better. I do some stupid things and some clever ones.

I got only one message, Be yourself, take you like you are, even when they are flaming you, and most of all have sanook, life is too short!

Coolhand · #2 04-12-2004, 17:43

Well, I am glad you enjoyed yourself Tintin.
Shame we didn't meet up - missed you at MTB by 10 minutes.
Thanks for the reports and the photos!

butterflyblonde · #3 04-12-2004, 17:48

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Originally Posted by Coolhand

Well, I am glad you enjoyed yourself Tintin.
Shame we didn't meet up - missed you at MTB by 10 minutes.
Thanks for the reports and the photos!

Yes, I would like to say the same, glad you enjoyed yourself considering at one point you was not sure if you could go due to your health.

I just wish you had stayed in Mai thai the night i had turned up as i would have genuinely liked to meet you and have a drink & a chat.

tintin · #4 04-12-2004, 18:19

Me too! But the problem was often : the trip back to Kata§ With a girl on the bike, I could not afford to drink too much.

Planning allready the next trip, but I don't understand, why I miss Tik so much.

butterflyblonde · #5 04-12-2004, 19:00

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Originally Posted by tintin

Me too! But the problem was often : the trip back to Kata§ With a girl on the bike, I could not afford to drink too much.

Planning allready the next trip, but I don't understand, why I miss Tik so much.

You miss her because like all good tg's, she knows how to treat a man well.
The difficulty in the los experience is having the ability to shut off from feelings and treat it as holiday romance/sex/business - or whatever people want to call it. Not easy but something we all have to do.

Time is a great healer - eventually

r3aps · #6 04-12-2004, 19:09

Quote:

Originally Posted by tintin

Well I thought it wouldn't happen to me. I was happy to go home and see my family.

Tik stayed with me until the last minute. Even took her to Bangkok, after Ayuttay! So I skiped the famous "Eden-club" again and some BKK hoties.

Well I did not care. Although Tik is not the prettiest BG, she is certainly the nicest I ever had. What is fun to have another, maybe prettier girl with you, when you get along so well with one. I had so much fun with her, humouristic, nice carrying (she carried the heavy Nikon, so nothing could happen to it), good hearted.She never, ever asked me for money or something special, she really seemed pleased with my company.

Now I know some girls are very good actresses. And Tik, plays her role very well. When you see her at the bar, she acts as the hottest in town. So different from the girl I had as company. She never drank, was sometimes even quiet, romantic and carrying.

I always thought that a BG NEVER falls in love.I was proberly wrong. Because Teek was, I am sure of that. I loved this girl but was not in love. What I appreciate the most, was although fighting her tears going to the airport, she did not shed a tear when we parted, she wanted to be strong. Her body shivered against mine though.

Second thing, I could never understand BM's taking girls to their home-country. Would you marry a ****** at home? Well I do now. Such a sweet girl MUST find a farang to take good care of her! Not me, but I pray that somebody day, somebody will. I had also, really egoistic girls too on my trips. But Tik is a girl, even without falling in love, who want her customer to have a good time, I saw that the first days, when we were not so close as in the end. She is not the girl that likes kinky stuff, but a good fuc*, she rides you as she was on a horse.

Although her enthousiasm in the bar, she doesn't like being a BG, but you could never tell!

Back home, only 2 healthy people now. My eldest daughter and myself. I have to cook, clean, wash dishes, because my wife is too ill to do anything. I did not had the warmest welcome this time, but of course that is normal to her condition. My 16 months-old son did not recognize me and cries everytime he sees me. That is fustrating, as specialy, because at home, I always put much energy in him!

Well I hope I do not get the flew! But anyway, although the trip, was different then I thought it would be, I enjoyed it. Normally I will be back in February-March. No bg that time, my wife needs to get spoiled now! But, if she is around, I just say hello to tik!

Btw, I was very suprised, that I was NOT the only married guy between the Bm's! Some hide their matrual status really well!

I thought it was 50/50!

And if you ever meet Pen, avoid her. She want to get married badly, only reason she went into the bar. She is maybe easely in love, but she is a lazy girl! Not only would she do everything to avoid the "deed", but she did nothing for me. Not going to the beach, sleeping, never cleans the house, bed etc. I still believe in the "virgin" thing. Tik told me that her first time was with a customer too! First time, or not this girl doesn't perform. I even think, that she doesn't send anything to anybody and that being an only child, she has been spoiled. Tike had nothing, this girl, although recently in the bar, had quite some...

Hope some of you enjoyed my trip-reports. I am what I am, don't try to make myself better. I do some stupid things and some clever ones.

I got only one message, Be yourself, take you like you are, even when they are flaming you, and most of all have sanook, life is too short!

are you on about pen from mtb?if so i thought she was married in switzerland.when she come back??maybe western life has ruined her,she was a great laugh when i met her.
steve

tintin · #7 04-12-2004, 19:47

Noop, onepen, from Sydney's bar, I talked about her in my tripreport

r3aps · #8 04-12-2004, 19:47

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Originally Posted by tintin

Noop, onepen, from Sydney's bar, I talked about her in my tripreport

ok,now you say onepen i remember,i misread when you only said pen.
steve

DonRoberto · #9 04-12-2004, 20:11

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Originally Posted by tintin

Btw, I was very suprised, that I was NOT the only married guy between the Bm's! Some hide their matrual status really well!

I thought it was 50/50!

Hi Tintin

I am married too ( already for 30 years, 2 kids ) and we never had any problem in our relationship.
I go to Phuket once a year for 3 weeks since 15 years.
The difference between you and me is, my wife let me go without any problem, but does not want to know what I'm doing exactly there, and I'm not telling her details.

I used to always butterfly because I do'nt like the BG's to touch my heart. But this year (Okt.-Nov. ) was the first time I went with a FL for 1 week ( 2 weeks butterfly ). I had a great time, but I think its not as easy when you are back home, because you have this girl more in your mind as if you only would butterfly.
So, may be the next time I will be butterflying again, and if not, then I think I'm getting old !!!

Mav · #10 05-12-2004, 07:51

Thanks Tintin for your great trip reports & pics....really enjoyed them. Tik sounds and looks like a real sweetie......what a body, l love the little petites ones like that

steve w · #11 05-12-2004, 15:12

hiya tin tin ,imet you a couple of times in mtb ,nice to put a face to all the posts i have enjoyed the lest couple of monthes. only 2 morer days for me now and i am really not looking foward to the long flight home but it was really worth coming again .see all you bms next year !

tintin · #12 05-12-2004, 17:27

Yep difficult to be home! I never thought it would be this time.

I am suprised I miss Tig so much! Would fly back immeadetely! My wife is not much fun for the moment. Of course she is ill, but still it is a contrast with that lively sweet young girl, who could not do enough for me!

dawsey · #13 05-12-2004, 21:20

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Originally Posted by tintin

Yep difficult to be home! I never thought it would be this time.

I am suprised I miss Tig so much! Would fly back immeadetely! My wife is not much fun for the moment. Of course she is ill, but still it is a contrast with that lively sweet young girl, who could not do enough for me!

Hi tintin
I'm not surprised your wife is not much fun at the moment.She has the flu for heavens sake.No doubt ,you will be no fun either if and when she passes it on to you.
As for Tig,she was holiday fun,forget her and concentrate on rebuilding your relationship with your wife.You know I am right

tintin · #14 06-12-2004, 13:56

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Originally Posted by dawsey

Hi tintin
I'm not surprised your wife is not much fun at the moment.She has the flu for heavens sake.No doubt ,you will be no fun either if and when she passes it on to you.
As for Tig,she was holiday fun,forget her and concentrate on rebuilding your relationship with your wife.You know I am right

Yes you are right! But that doesn't make it easier. I do not complain, as long as that panicdisorder leaves me alone!