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[Allybabba22]

Originally Posted by tintin

Thanks for the nice feed-backs! I know they are all constructive in a certain way!

But the problem, as I said lies deeper then LOS! We had no fight but talked!
We both do not work and we are looking on each other all year long! She has things I don't like or getting on my nerfs and vice-versa.

She has no time "to come to herself" as I am always around. Living in provence is nice in summer, but sometimes in winter it sucks! In Belgium I had some friends, we went to the movies, a concert, a restaurant, sometimes a city-trip. Here our only friends are couples, yes seeing people together again!

No movie-theaters, around, no shoppingmalls, except a small one, an hour from here. No nice pub, jazz-café to spend some nice time, nothing! Except maintaining the house, taking care of the children and all th etime together in this house, not much distraction.

With a fllee-epidemie, children sick while I am gone, again she had no time for herself. In winter she goes skeing with friends, while I stay home! But when she comes back she again, has no time to be for herself!

That is why you cannot blame LOS! She is very happy, that normally she has some time for herself here! What does she cares if I scre* some asian girls.

Of course I would not spoil this x-mas for the children, wich could be the last one for the family. If my wife wants a divorce, and after talking she wants to get through with it, I will NOT start a war. She has also been reasonable about financial matters, so, even if I have to sell this house, there is always a solution!

We will see what the future will bring! This is a reply to your gentle posts, but I will not discuss this matter on the board anymore! I seem to get better and better without the pills, so I will manage.

Althoughy I will not be planning trips to Los for a moment, you are not rid of me.

Tintin, Now this might be a bit of a long shot, But did you ever think of moving somewhere else If what you said in the above post is true then maybe you dont need a divorce, Maybe you need to move back to belguim to where you both have some friends and dont have to look at each others mugs 24/7

[butterflyblonde]

Originally Posted by allybabba22

Tintin, Now this might be a bit of a long shot, But did you ever think of moving somewhere else If what you said in the above post is true then maybe you dont need a divorce, Maybe you need to move back to belguim to where you both have some friends and dont have to look at each others mugs 24/7

Well said Ally, also - to find other interest / hobbies / pastimes for both partners as it would get boring for anyone see their spouse every single day 24/7

[Robo(sydney)]

Originally Posted by ihavefun

I am a single guy, so i cannot give you the opinion of a married man, though i was only 6 months of marrige a few years ago.... I do agree with you a little as to say a ****** in Ausralia is straight out a ******, cause they have choices here to work or get education and receive government funds. In Thailand i do not know the full situation with thier system or idividuals choices , but not sleeping with a bar girl yet i spent a lot of time hanging out with them and learned that are nice ppl and did not have much choice in los , i don't know how true it is but that's what i was explained...

As for your marriage i wish you the best. I don't agree with what you have done i think you are totally selfish and a bastard in my opinion.Im i correct HELL NO that is just my ideals, I would do almost anything to a beautiful wife and a family and to ruin it with cheating is no excuse,ONCE AGAIN THEY ARE MY IDEAL'S. There are so many open relationships these days and marriage isn't what it usrd to be, you might have had that with your wife i not sure....

Not having a go at you TIN TIN but i think if you in a relationship you make the most of it,if you don't want to be there get out...

I really hope things work out for you... GOOD LUCK

If thats not having a go("selfish and a bastard"), I'd hate to see you giving it to someone.