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07-12-2004, 16:41
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For the married guys only!
Yep, I am a bit suprised!
As I was in Mt-bar, I saw that there were more married guys then I imagined.. I think we are at an age that our family -life is a bit boring and want to have something else, while we still can, just as a holliday. When I was in Los, I was thinking, that I had my pleasure now and it would be my last trip alone. I am only back 4 days, and.... My wife is getting terribly on my nerfs. Strange, although it is a good woman and I missed wy family in Los, i am only regretting that I cannot take a plane right back!  I have been so spoiled by my last Teerak, that I am only thinking about that. In comparason, my wife takes maybe well care of the family, but being spoled: naaaah! She has been acting sick, since I am back, but tonight she goes to her volleyball repetition! I was not in love with my last Teerak, but liked her very much. How do you guys in this situation adapt to the real life? I wonder if we by having a family not spoil a part of our lives! I would appreciate your feedback, but I noticed that not every BM is outing hiself as being married!  
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#2
07-12-2004, 17:04
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She is no doubt giving you a little grief, as she knows what you have been up to......your lucky it's only a little.....if your wife was Thai, you may be a couple of bollocks short of being a LB (pre-op that is)
 Time will slowly disolve your lust for Tik TinTin........just keep busy, and you will be closer to your next trip.......otherwise Prozac is good
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07-12-2004, 17:16
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Oh no I am happy to be off that kind of pils!
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07-12-2004, 19:20
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Sorry..please don't include me or even Bafana   Malaysian
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07-12-2004, 19:20
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Ha.. Not us lucky ****ers that refuse to leave :p !!
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08-12-2004, 03:31
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well your heading got me to have a look wondered what info
could only be for a married guy !!  bet plenty of non married people such as my self have a look.
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08-12-2004, 04:34
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Tintin I do feel a little for you in the fact that you had a great time with a great girl whilst in LOS and you miss her.But,and its a big but, you say "I wonder if we by having a family not spoil a part of our lives!" You cant have it both ways tintin.You are married with a family full stop.Either you accept this,forget LOS for now, start to enjoy your life with your family again, or leave your wife and children,get a divorce and go to live there.She already gives you plenty of slack by letting you indulge in your $ex with BGs.Give her a break,no wonder she is pi$$ed with you showing her your latest girl on webcam.You are lucky she is not leaving you.Most women I know given that situation would have gone while you were still in Thailand
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08-12-2004, 04:44
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i agree with you dawsey i think tintin is very lucky.i am not married but was seeing a girl here,just for going to los that relatioship is over,to think what would of happened had it been a serious relationship and she saw me on a webcam with another girl does not bear thinking about. tintin,only you can decide what you want.i can see the spoils you have and 99% of married men would be very envious of you.but i think everyone here can also see you wifes point of view.you are just lucky she is still around.would you be so happy if you had stayed at home with the kids and just watched you wife on a webcam with a 20 year old man just before going home to get the servicing of her life?i think not. steve
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08-12-2004, 04:58
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 Not flaming you TinTin but i think you should know yourself that what Dawsey & R3aps have said is spot on
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08-12-2004, 05:14
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Maybe tin tin you could be less selfish and think a bit more about how much you are hurting your wife by sleeping with prostitutes rather than feeling sorry for yourself because you think you may be in love.
The best thing for you and for her is to get a divorce so your wife can find a man who really cares and loves her and won't leave her to have sex with other women. I do feel sorry for tin tins wife Last edited by dude : 08-12-2004 at 07:51.
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08-12-2004, 06:19
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Be a player and she'll never leave ya
Sorry Dude , i donīt get it .. heīs following every rule and you feel sorry for his wife ??
 Who saidīs this in every post? --->**Be a player and she'll never leave ya ** cs// Quote:
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08-12-2004, 09:31
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Getting it Out of Your System
I wish I could help you Tintin but I can't. Once the magic of Thailand has grabbed you it is difficult to readjust to the hum drum of daily life. Nevertheless this condition does fade with time and while you may have a very fond affection for Tik at the moment this is infatuation and not love mon cher. Look inwards to your family and put Thailand in its proper place.
Mac
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08-12-2004, 12:48
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Hey folks, that is what I said "for married guys"!
Just want to know how others are feeling after a few weeks in Los alone! Of course Dawsey & R3aps are absolutely right!!! But I am the first to be suprised, that this trip had so much inpact on me! Dude, who think you have to respect the girls and is a "player", has to use the word "prostitutes" again. Yes technically they are, but calling them like that, is not nice! They are more then that! In the Western world these are most of the time cold hearted women,as these girls are at least "acting" as your girlfriend! That is proberly the reason why we have the "post-lost-blues!". And again, the guys who I asked their opinion, the married ones, seems yo be hiding! 
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08-12-2004, 12:52
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unless there arent many married ones,i certainly can only think of dawsey and cannot think of any that i personally have met. steve
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08-12-2004, 13:00
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Well I was suprised, beeing in MT bar and the bar-crawl, that quite some people were married! I don't give their names, because I had the impression, that they did not wanted everybody to know!
These were by the way nice guys, also looking for fun, now they still can! Not all that old btw! So, I really wonder, how they are coping with this situation. I guess they didn't all moved to the guestroom, like I did! 
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08-12-2004, 15:03
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Tough choice..but it's gotta be made friend.
TinTin..I'm not married but I can understand your dilema....
before my last trip in early Nov..I was seeing this girl for about 3 months... After she found out that I was going to Thailand...she decided to walk...she wasn't prepared for the extra competition... You need to make the decision quickly because your family has to come first in this case. Whatever you decide, make sure 100% that you will go through with it because the worst thing that can happen is you run away with your tail between your legs. Good luck with the choice...make it quick...the waiting around is like a disease eating through you.
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08-12-2004, 15:41
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08-12-2004, 16:22
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Well Diver, you saw Tig, not the prettiest, but so....nice!
But I did not see any of your Teeraks! Even not a picture? Btw, did you sleep with Tig, that first night when I had her ST? Not that it matters, but I always wanted to know! As you saw later I kicked Onepen out and went back for her 2 days later! 
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08-12-2004, 19:10
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Sorry to burst the bubble, but any woman or man or lb who sleeps with someone for cash is in every sense of the word...a PROSTITUTE. Perhaps if you came to terms with this you wouldn't suffer as much when you go home. I go to Thailand to enjoy the beatches er.. beaches and escape the everyday drab of life..the routines, the deadlines, the squabbles with my gf (coming up on 2 years). But Thailand is a HOLIDAY, not a way of life. Enjoy your holiday, be depressed as hell when the alarm goes off at 6 on your first day back to reality, but by the time you get to work on that first day you have to shake back to reality. Separate life and holidays. Or like liveinlos said get on with it and move there. After 3 months i guarantee you will be longing for your loving family after the 10 day relationship goes long term, and you get raped out of every dollar, and are left a sad, lonely man. Treat everyone you meet with kindness, but only a fool falls in love with a ******.  Robio
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08-12-2004, 19:16
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Great post
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08-12-2004, 20:03
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I DONT think it is a great post
These are sometimes great girls and are not a bargirl for the same reason as ******s over here! Sometimes it is not only about cash. You do not have just sex for an hour, you spend if you like a girl, quite some time with them. Like I said every girl is different, but they are human beings and believe sometimes they can fall for a "customer"! Sometimes, certainly long-term, you can be 2 human beings, enjoying each other company, in a way that se* is not the most important anymore! Tig and I had a strnge kind of chemistry. She knew I was married, but believe me the last days, without any words, she was sad that the seperation would come! I was very clear with her from the start, and even till the last minute, I never thought that I would miss her so much at home! I just liked the girl!
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