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Well a bit hard Mike, anyway! But I can have that from you!  The truth is not always black or white . I forgot that I gave Tig my e-mail, did this the first day, when I took her ST. Writing her as a lover, was not on my list because, I don't see the point, maintaining a relationship with her! I give my E-mail rather easy. I like when girls write about LOS. Yes! I had planned to have a ST with her, this girl has an amazing body and for "good-time" sake! How many BM did the same, when they were on holliday with a partner! This is called LUST not love by the way! As I said, I am not willing to discuss further the evolution of relation/divorce with my wife! You know that this is on our list that is enough! About being stupid, thinking girls fall for me.... I only been stupid with one, my dear friend and I admit it! On my second trip I banged quite some girls, who forgot about me, as soon as I got home! And for me there were just a good memory! And why shouldn't Tig fall for me. I am 45, but quite above average. There was chemistry between us that grew. And I have to admit I also have "my box of trics" to make a girl like me! I am a daydreamer, romantic, but a tricky one! Same thing with African W's girl, that girl iS really in love with him!!!!! And you forget one thing Mike, what did she gets as a "extra" for falling in love? Nothing! No extra money (even less, because she did not wanted to get payed to go to Ayuttaya with me), only heartache, because she knew I would not come back for her! Read her letter! And the next day she has to be back in that bar, taking out another customer..... I am just giving my point, Mike, not flaming you, or any other BM, who believes to hold the truth! If you think I am wrong "up to you"  
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10-12-2004, 19:15
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Tintin you should stop now before you make yourself look even more stupid  It is not just tig that fell in love with you  It was cherry and onepen aswell or are you forgeting them because at the time you posted about them you said they loved you, Your words not mine How on earth do you think any BG could fall in love with you after a few wks? Especially a working girl, No matter what way you try to dress it up there prostitutes, End of story! And you then go on to say that you forgot that you gave tig your email  How did you forget? And then you say she knew you were not coming back for her? But you were going back to her for ST as you say, So she must have made a big impact on you, Because before you went on your tour you said you were going to take your loving wife who put up with all your shite for god knows how long(She deserves a medal) to los for a special holiday were you would spoil her and not even look at another BG, And remember this is the same wife who lets you go to los alone and all she wanted in return was for you to take her away and spoil her like a loving husband should do, And what were you going to do? You were going to cheat on your wife and go behind her back to go ST with a girl you dont even think about Yeah right And you keep going on about African Ws girl? About how you know that she is so much in love with him? How do you know? And please dont tell me you asked her and she said oh yes i remember him "I miss him so much blah blah blah" and you believed her because she put a sad face on and maybe shed a few crocadile tears like a true actress would if she taught you were his friend?, And maybe just maybe you would tell him and she would get a return customer or a knight in shining armor to take her away from working the bar? You have a lot of issues you need to deal with, You blame this need to fu*k young girls on your illness because you lost your youth and this is some way of trying to regain it, But you never can So deal with it and stop all this self-pity bullsh*t, You are lucky you still have a life, There's other people out there that are not as lucky as you. Even though i have never met you i can also see you lack a lot of self confidence in yourself, Example's of this are in your treads about your weight and your statements like "Why could she not fall in love with me" like you need to believe that a young girl could still love you?If i was you i would get down on my knee's and beg and grovel until your wife changes her mind and gives you another chance, Because if you lose your wife and kids, You will loose the only people who "TRUELY LOVE YOU".
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10-12-2004, 20:34
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SOLID my friend...very SOLID. Be real tintin, Me thinketh its time for a REALITY CHECK. Go to the Doc Tintin, ask to get your head removed from your **** then take ally's and a few others advise...Promise your wife that was your last trip to los and never I mean never treat her with disrespect again...if you care then you will have no problem with this, if not then say so. At least then this woman can have a shot at having someone truely love her, its sh1t or get off the toilet time for you. If you didn't enjoy all the attention, you would have kept your mouth shut on this forum about what was going on, sorry if dady wasn't there...or whatever the problem is or was, your 45 for christ sakes.....its time to be a man and live your life with some convection, if not then enjoy your misery as it is yours to bath in. I would not normally bash  as most other bm's, but you have taken all of this to another level by bringing so much of your life to bear on this forum, so like it or not but deal with it regardless!The first thing to start with is shut the FU(k up about the women in los, leave this fantasy life your living and don't look back, if your really want things to be different...then do something different. I just can not believe you did what you did....You had your fun and that just wasn't enough for you...Like the spoiled child who gets what he wants but wants more and more....I for one have enjoyed some of your crazy post, but you have officially crossed the line into the land of get what you deserve with this kind of behavior. These girls don't love you, they might be in love with the idea that some stupid farrang will get them out of there situation, but none...I mean none love you.....Why can't they?? Because you are not all there in the head if you believe for one second that love just happens to fall into your lap as easily as it seems to with you, You are no prize of a man as you have said before, take a step back and look at this from any other perspective other than your own twisted view, its like mike said and your standing in the middle of a forrest and yet blind to the trees. Congrats you have become the poster child for what not to do when going to LOS. Sorry about unloading, but christ you need a good flogging.
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10-12-2004, 21:11
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Well even after these flaming posts I don't loose my cool!
 Everybody their opinion, why not! One thing you are forgetting, is that I am not in love! I really enjoyed Tig, I really did! Great as company, but to make me crazy and let everything fall down, of course not! First take it like you want, in my life many women fell in love with me! I said many, not all of course. I am the type, if a girl likes me, she has difficulty to let go.... And don't thing I am Dude 2, cause I am not every womans type! I had an Italian girl, who wrote me for 20 years, I am still writing at least once a week to my Norvegian girl-friend, I met.......25 years ago! Of course I don't look, like I did when I was 20. If I control my weight, I look much better now. At 20 I had a baby-face, almost a David Cassidy clone! Don't believe me, look at the picture! Now some wrinkels and a bit less hair are not that bad! My father met my mother at this age. She was 18! Ha-ha so you see I got future! My father lived till he was 90, so I intend to make fun for a few years to come! If you think i am stupid, do so please, I don't mind! I am an open book, and a strange reading some times! What you call stupid is my strongest point: I don't care what males think about me! I am like I am, a strange, not every day individual! That's what I like anyway! If everybody was the same, you could not read my post, nodding your head. How stupid the posts may been in your eyes, I am sure that it is sometimes also fun to read! For me, as long as the panic-disorder leaves me alone (it seems to lately btw!) everything is ok!
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10-12-2004, 21:23
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Are you taking your wife and kids to meet Tig and her other boyfriends?
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10-12-2004, 21:53
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Ok TinTin
I've worked you out mate. There is no wife, kids or divorce is there!!!! You live alone in a windowless, basement apartment with a computer and an imagination that is spiralling out of control. This is all just one big elaborate fantasy story that you have been dreaming up and you are now acting it out. I'm kind of scared because I'm not sure how this will end for you. Please seek some professional help before you take all of this to the next level.
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10-12-2004, 22:03
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You mean a 2 nd basement? Ooh god Ragga you are taking this too seriously! I don't care what you believe or not, at least my posts keep you bussy! You want to know if I really live in an basement? ok, not only do I write on this and other forums, but I keep a photobook with the images of my life on the net! Much less interesting by the way, as these pictures are more for the family!. All these pictures of my invented life here! Have fun! http://www.pbase.com/indieke/root
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10-12-2004, 22:19
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I would love to check out your website but unfortunately I have something far more important to do like watching paint dry but thanks for the offer.
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11-12-2004, 01:09
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You should look at your website
There are pictures of beautiful children along with a Thai *****. It's alarming to see that you would put pictures of your dirty life so close to pictures of your NORMAL life. It looks like you have a wonderful family Tin Tin. Many people would be envious of you. It is sickening that you are willing to throw it away so you can pleasure yourself with ******s. Sad really. Think think think.
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11-12-2004, 02:33
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I understand your comments Robio!
First the TG's are never introduced as "girlfriends". They are guides, Thai-girls etc! There is one thing that you have to understand! I have no secrets to you! ! I have many faults! But I am honnest to you! I am not the perfect man! I think I am better to average men! Ok my wife knows I need some time off, with Tg's! But .. They got everything what children/wife can wish for! Here in France, there are more men cheating on their wife, then there are who doesn't! My best memory of my last trip? I was having dinner with Tig. The table next to us, a handsome man in his fifties, with a beautiful Thai lady. A bit younger man with his TG too! They were french, so I talked to this obvious happy man! He told me he had a good time! I asked and your friend too I presume? He answered "my son", first trip is turning out OK! And your wife? Well he said"waiting for us to get home"! You see, a married man can still have some fun! Why not! You only live once, and as long as your family has all it needs! That's why, when I stayed cool, and opened my box of tricks, was very glad to have a great "****", being the only one I love! And forgot very fast why she should get a divorce!  Vive la France et...la Belgique!
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11-12-2004, 05:21
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Hi Tintin, I think your thoughts are so very different from most of the other people on the forum - this is maybe why a lot of people dont understand you. I can go along with the idea that you SHOULD be able to have fun even when you are married, and if your contact with others is only physical, and there is no love attached then it should be ok, but in REALITY this very seldom happens. If you believe that your wife wanting a divorce has nothing to do with you messing around with girls on the other side of the world, then I will be even more gobsmacked than normal ! At the end of the day, what happens to you will make absolutely no difference to my life, but I think that Thailand is a dangerous place for married men. The temptation is too great. Do you think your wife wanting a divorce has anything to do with you screwing around in Thailand ?
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Very nice pics, TinTin. You are a very good photographer. Good luck with all of your problems! JayBee 
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11-12-2004, 10:59
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Look Tintin I dont want to be another one on your case during this time of strife but...
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I would have to say, especially once you have a family, that what wives and children might wish for is a loving faithful devoted father and husband. My father could not keep his **** in his pants either, lead to the breakup of my family which was probably the second most painful (plus long and drawn out) thing I have ever had to go through (second only to the death of my soulmate).. Hated my father for years and even now dont respect him half as much as a 'man'.. And as to while I was with Kim (the person I lost) while I was with her, in Europe and Thailand, living among all manner of crazy sex options, I never once touched another. Probably an an@lyst would tell you it was because of knowing the repurcussions of those actions having to live with and go through them in my own family. Often you dont make the same mistakes as your father, you make all new and improved mistakes. Anyway I hope that the last line means you may now be saving your marriage and more importantly the psychological makeup of your kids. Suggest you stop thinking about thailand, stop thinking all these girls are in love with you, stop the White Knight syndrome, and get on with being a father and build on that. No flame intended.
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11-12-2004, 11:05
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Ohh and without wanting to pour more oil on the fire.. How precisely is you you think you are better than average men ???
You cheat on your wife. You are not decrete about this. You have (self confessed) mental issues. You dont work (please tell me you have retired from your own hard efforts and are not livving off the massive social security payments available in mainland Europe). You seem to accept no personal responsibilty for anything, its all XXX fault. I will try to stop there before I dig too deep.
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11-12-2004, 11:53
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Hi lil!
Appreciate your post! I don't mind at all getting feedback like yours or mike! Always interesting things to think about! As long as the flames do net get obssesive, like the 2 guys I banned, its ok!  There is a lot of truth in your words. I am also aware that putting some strange things on paper, might be disturbant for some, as they only see the words, not the character! The thing i heard the most in Los from Bm's , is that i was soooo diferent then they imagined. I think when you meet me, I am a happy man, very nice to people and very entousiastic! I am the last man, you should suspect of having problems! And...for the moment my biggest one is gone, maybe for a while! As long as that panicdisturbance is not there, I feel really great!  As for your personal questions: I cheat on my wife! No! I am not discrete about it, but I have her blessing, as long as....I pay! I have no mental issues at all. Panic-disorder is more physical, because it is only a matter of serotonine, not mental illnes, like shizo's! I don't work,because I don't have to! And that the panic-disorder doen't seem to like it! I sold my house and land for a fantastic price in Belgium. I am not discrete you say, then here we go : 1.300.000 €. Now I will get flamed  I also sold my company, for much less and bought a house for a fraction of the price I sold my old one. I invested in to appartements, I am building together with my partner 5 houses, after the sale, we be both one house richer, that we will sell or rent! So if you think that I am a fustrated, man, with a lot of problems,no! But the panicdisorder, can be bad sometimes, nothing is perfect! As a young man, things were different! Between 20 and 25 I was between life and death in a hospital. Had a bad heartdisease that was almost impossible to cure! Only one specialist would do this risky operation! He succeeded. After a long revalidation (could not even walk anymore!) I managed to get a normal life, except the panicdisorder, but that is possible to get under control, when it is bad! All this to say, as your life has been upset by your fathers behaviour and the death of your partner, every soul has had his pain! Life can be a bi*h, but if things are going well, you must LIVE and take and enjoy it! I like very young girls, but isn't that a bit of compensation for the 5 years of my youth being spoiled? And again Belgian/French are a bit of special on "the women" departement! I think nowhere in the world people are so "open minded"! We had BB, the first topless beaches, naked tities on posters in the street etc. The French President, Mitterand had two families, both standing by his grave! But....by interacting about the TG's here, I also learned a couple of things from BM's like yourself, I don't hold the truth! Indeed Tg's are dangerous! They make you sit on a cloud and you have to come off this cloud in time! It is NOT good that back home you miss the girls too much. Now it is better, but the first days I wanted to take a plane and get back!  This is the reason, that I have to think about it to do a solo-tour again! Although I am enjoying tg's, my family-life IS important to me!Another thought, if I can't leave the tg's alone, indeed I should be more discrete. I always have the habit to tell my wife everything, and maybe it is sometimes better to be more discreet. Of course then I feel really like cheating, but maybe it is best not to confront her to much with my adventures in Thailand! As I said I am an open book and myself! Forgive this strange character he doesn't mean anything wrong! I do hope that some bm's find this amusing as I know some get irritated!
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This is the last time im going to comment on this, But you say you dont cheat on your wife, Well what would you call going behind your wife's back without her permission to have ST with a certain BG I think most people would call that cheating even your wife, And they would call that being dishonest  You say your better than the average man, Well from what i can see your not, Actually your not even close because the average man can accept the consequences of his actions but you just blame it on anything or anyone but yourself. And one last thing you say that when BMs actually met you they thought you were a nice guy, Well maybe you just put on a show for them BMs so that everyone would just say "Hey actually that tintin fella was a nice guy?". But i just can't see it, To me your still the same guy who cheats on his wife and kids and blames it on everything and everyone except him self
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Hey tintin, I know that there is a type of men in this world who is always very nice and kind with their neighbors, their friends - even friends they just meet in street for a short moment, and the outsiders.. but they are horrible men in their family: selfish with their own people, treat their family like the hatred.. For example, he runs quickly to his friend's house to help his friend's wife wiping butt for her new kid. But he kicks stuff in his house and gets angry when his wife asks him to help. Or like someone, they can't even deal with their own problem in their family: conflicts, daughters have troubles, sons have troubles.. and they keep complaining about how stress they are, but don;t want to deal with it. But they immediately open their arms to help some strangers. Yes, outsiders will think that "wow, he is wonderful man" because he helps other people. But your people.. do you know how they think? Except the family i told above which want to be in drama situations and complain about things, i think all other people - the insiders - will be very upset because they see the real man in the "good-man-in-street" that they are with. Someone told me that in the forum, all people become aggressive. NO! We are all hiding behind the monitor and we are more opened-minded about everything and hence, we tell things from deep in our heart without a limit. A reason? Well, even though you know my nickname, you still don;t know me in reality - I am still an anonymous to you. Therefore, I feel more confidence to tell you what I like, what I want, and what I hate - and you feel that way too. Tintin, you are too proud of yourself and you forget who you truly are. Like a song Frozen: "you only see what your eyes want to see - you are frozen when your heart's not open." With money, you will still have young bgs when you are 80 or 90.. they will still be with you because you are their ATM. But the happiness you have - is the happiness you have to pay |
