bg taking care of you?

[marc26]

whats your take on a bg taking care of you, like fixing your food, drawing your bath, just really fussing over you? im not too big on that. some guys like it. last nght in hong kong, i stayed with a tg and this morning she was fussing all over me. then fixing my food at lunch. i get uncomfortable. i also dont like to hold hands, which she trid to do also. ive never been a hand holder, even with farang girls. i also hear alot of bm's calling their tg teeerak. i guess i have intimacy problems! i just wanted to know what you guys like. it seems the older guys, like jaybee and tintin, to name a few, appreciate a tg fussing over you. i guess im just use to high maintenance new york *****es!

[IRISH JONNY]

I Wouldnt Consider Myself In The Old Bracket At 37 ...
But I Love When A Tg Fussies Over Me........it Makes Me Feel Good And Her Feel Wanted.........
I Also Like The Hand Holding..........im Just A Big Softie At Heart......
Jonny........

[Josssie]

They can take care of me in my room ...
Outside my room I TAKE CARE

[Hookey]

Originally Posted by marc26

whats your take on a bg taking care of you, like fixing your food, drawing your bath, just really fussing over you? im not too big on that. some guys like it. last nght in hong kong, i stayed with a tg and this morning she was fussing all over me. then fixing my food at lunch. i get uncomfortable. i also dont like to hold hands, which she trid to do also. ive never been a hand holder, even with farang girls. i also hear alot of bm's calling their tg teeerak. i guess i have intimacy problems! i just wanted to know what you guys like. it seems the older guys, like jaybee and tintin, to name a few, appreciate a tg fussing over you. i guess im just use to high maintenance new york *****es!

Think its nice myself. One of the differences between tg's and the rest, part of the charm of the whole experience tbh.

[ancientmariner]

Think depends on the individual, and if I get that particular feeling toward the girl, or whether she can arouse the affection desire in me. I guess it can be a chemical thing.

Human touch is a delicate thing, and even the most beautiful girl who doesn't do it the way that matches my needs, then I would probably feel strange about her fussing over me.

I probably wouldn't like a stranger whom I've only just met to fuss over me, but if the feeling is right after a while, once the strangeness has gone, and when I start to get comfortable with her, and her with me, then I think a little affection is only natural.

[marc26]

first off, im writing so many posts today because im terribly hung over in hong kong and didnt go out. there is 2 english speaking channels on the tv. i think they do that on purpose so us westerners have to buy the pay per view movies!
i think to each's own, whatever you like. im just, by nature, not an affectionate person. the hnd holding thing has drivn many ex-gf crazy and not to mention one little lady in patong who says i "no care her, many farang hold lady hand!"
tarzan said something funny in july in MTB. he was staying with his tg, a very nice lady, and he woke up nd just wanted to sit and drink his coffee and his tg was trying to stir it for him. he was funny trying to explain to her that it was his "alone time"
the tg i stay with is not the type of girl that fusses over me, but it was funny, when i stayed in her village in july, she was trying to fuss over me. like she was showing off for her family, i thought it was funny, completely different from when we are in patong

[MisterFun]

I guess I must be one of the "oldies"...and a softie. The GF and I do the hand holding, and now that I think about it, there is much affection displayed between the two of us. It just flows and is natural for us. She does the hand feeding me, putting clothes away, taking off and putting on my shoes, makes sure I have a cup of coffee first thing in the morning.....she does the whole enchilada.......and I am very appreciative for it. At first her getting on her knees and taking off my shoes made me uncomfortable (getting on her knees is okay.. ) but I have adjusted. It makes her happy and she seems to enjoy doting on me.......so what the hell, it makes me happy too!!

[aussie dollar]

think those things cleaning up etc are nice and a bit different
to most "working" girls in other countries.
thats what is special about LOS
But the holding hands etc. is a bit to much but everyone is different
each to there own.

[marc26]

again, im not knocking anyone. we all have our preferences. all i want is a bg thats fun and sexy. even in the US, i tend to have problems because alot of girls cant undersatnd that sometimes, i just want to be alone. i have no poblem in LOS i the tg i sty with most of the time sleeps all day, id prefer to go out and explore on my own. but like alot of these guys said, a big attracton of LOS is that GFE for some guys.

[Chiggerz]

I love it when a BG or FL provided the GFE. It makes it feel like it is ore then just sex and that the experiance is ore meaningful... even if it is only for 1 night.

I love the hand holding, hugging type of thing, and i am only 26, so i am not sure its fair to say some of the older BM like it only.

13 days to go until LOS

[marc26]

i wasnt saying just the older ones like it, i was just saying it seems some of our more mature bm's, my buddies tintin and jaybee, seem to appreciate it more.

[limonadovy_joe]

Originally Posted by IRISH JONNY

I Wouldnt Consider Myself In The Old Bracket At 37 ...
But I Love When A Tg Fussies Over Me........it Makes Me Feel Good And Her Feel Wanted.........
I Also Like The Hand Holding..........im Just A Big Softie At Heart......
Jonny........

absolutely
with any lady, not only TG...

[tintin]

Like you said Marc, I love it!!!

But not because I am a BIT older! Always liked that, even better then sex!

Do not take Tig out, after saying hello to my account, she is all over you, in love or not!!!