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10-01-2005, 22:30
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My story.. once again..
I dont; want to make this site as my private place for my bad story of love. So sorry all memberboards here about my story again since i don;t know what i can do to this man - magnusvv - since he put my pictures online with his *****.
So i am very angry and hurt because my ex bf cheated on me, didn;t respect me and until today, he again hurts me and tells me: no, it isn;t purposely. That's why i am posting like this - like a crazy person because i don;t know what i can do to this man so that he could show me a little bit respect. A good man had changed completely once he got his foot in thailand. In the second week of Nov, I was at home, bought phone cards from here and sent him with a hope he would call me since he told me that internet and phone cards were so damn expensive in thailand - and he is a cheapy charlie. He called me sometimes and told me he couldn;t wait to come back and getting married. And the fact was that he took prostitutes for fun there and told me - no, that's not his type of love. While staying at Patong, Phuket, he took a ***** name Jip.. took the Maithai bar and showed up there as i was at home and watched him. And it is ironical that now his family think that i was crazy jealous because i watched him that night - they don;t think that their son hurted me so badly and it's my fault to do that. At the night i watched the webcam, some memberboards gave me the phone number of his hotel so i could call him. And I did. I asked him not to take that girl, and he told me he didn;t take any girl. Some days later, when i had already known that he spent all his time in Patong with that *****, he wrote me an email and told me that he stayed with that ***** that night.. and told me don;t fall apart here. And he spent all his time in Thailand with that prostitute in all places that he had told me he would want to be with me. When he came back here, he even called that ***** in front of me and told her how much he missed her, how much he loved her when i was crying.. About his family, no one talked to me nor helped me. His mother cried a little bit, and then she immediately asked her son what she could do if they all travel to thailand.. when i was still crying because of hurt. And today, two months later.. I had thought that all my hurt had gone away.. but he posted all pictures of me with his ***** online.. and that hurts to think that all i had done was to treat that family as good as i could, and they paid me back with hurt and more hurt.. I am not a *****, i am not a prostitute.. and i always good.. so why there are some people just try to hurt me more?? I really don't know what to think.. i know i am hurting myself and i am putting myself down when i post this. 
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#2
10-01-2005, 22:39
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what do i want from here? I don't know.. I want him to be bad in other people's thinking because he always wants to be good with strange people. He shouted at me when i asked you memberboards here about what he had told me about prostitutes in thailand - because he wanted to convice me that he would be good in thailand.. and only other memberboards are bad when they took bargirls and paid for sex. He doesn;t want that his story with that w-hore in thailand open to other people as he wants to be a good man, and he wants other people know that he broke up with me because he doesn;t love me anymore.. but not because of his disrespectful things that he had done.
I am sad. I know other people here might think that i am crazy.. i am hurt, that's all. I;ve never expected to have someone cheated on me..
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10-01-2005, 22:57
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What do i really want from my story? I want that no woman has to be in the situation that i was in. And i wish that all the men in this world will not act like my ex bf - and no one will be hurt.
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#5
10-01-2005, 22:58
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Hmmm ..... I remember that night well when we and some other b.m.'s were looking at the cam. I still owe you an apology for some remarks I made back then.
Your former boyfriend doesn't show a lot of respect to put the pictures on internet and it doesn't improve matters much by putting his picture on internet either as a revenge. I think you should let the subject go .... how hard it may be to you. Try to stand above it, as you probably will get hurt more while discussing this openly on this forum. Wish you well.
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#6
10-01-2005, 23:11
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Move on gal.
Cadia,
I know you think you've been shit on but that was a while ago and i think you need to accept your lot and move on. Maybe soon you could be writing a thread about the wonderful guy you just met and should you send him money. ( just joking ) Lifes a ***** only if you let it get you down. As the saying goes, plenty more fish in the sea. Time to get your tackle out & get casting.
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#7
10-01-2005, 23:21
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hi cadia, there is not much advice that anyone can give to you i dont think,
all you can do is forget the relationship you had, and move on with your life,im sure you will find a nice man if you look a bit more!
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#8
10-01-2005, 23:23
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I don't get the picture completely!
Ok, he went to Thailand, where I met him btw. A thai girl, bg if you prefer, makes him crazy, happens all the time! But he comes back, if I understand well? Then he phones to her and put her picture on line. Now are you still living with him? If yes, you should have discussed this situation many times! If he is gone for ever, well you have to put a cross over your relation, how sad as it is! If he is still living with you, you should like my wife finally did, say what he does to you! Now if you cannot live with it, if he is not out yet, kick him out. If you you want to stay with him, and he worship you the whole year and think a bit about your feelings, let him have his fun,once a year, that is the only way. He can grow tired of it, but it is a bit early to have a midlife-crissis at 25! I am 45, and at a age that I am a bit too attracted to young women! Now these TG/Bg's turns a man crazy! I have seen it with myself! And maeculpa, I was the first to put his picture on line! But he never told me he had a gf in the States! http://www.thailand-photos.net/galle...cat/500/page/1 But I think you cannot go on hurting yourself! After 18 years, I can still talk with my wife and I WANT her to put the limits straight and I will hold to it! I would never even tough a TG if she is really against it! But again, the reasons are not the same! You certainly are still a young woman, so same-same but different! Keep your head up girl, crying will not help, but acting will....  Last edited by tintin : 10-01-2005 at 23:27.
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10-01-2005, 23:35
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Tintin, i don;t live with him. We are not with each other anymore since he came back. I am moving on as I told other memberboards here last month. And i had thought that everything has gone away. Just this morning, one of my friends found his new website with pictures about me and also the ***** he had in thailand, my friend told me about that..
One thing i want to tell you: he told me that he told other people at the maithai bar about me as his gf in States.. and his situation.. and people told him that he could do whatever he want to do.. that;s why i was mad with the moderators here when they deleted my posts about him and blamed people about not encourage him to be faithful. That's the picture you took at the night he showed up at the maithaibar with his w-hore, and i was at home watching him. I saw someone took a picture of him there, didn;t know that's you. When i told him that one day his picture would be online, he told me that no one took his picture with his prostitute.. still a liar to me.. I am hurt today..
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#10
10-01-2005, 23:42
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I'm not trying to be cruel to this young lady. I think she's got some serious issues with letting things go, and no I did not post pictures to torture her, I just posted them on my site along with all my trip photos, I never sent her a link and the address has even changed recently. I mean it has been 2 months already.
 I figure getting my personal info spilled onto the board like this is probably just a bit of a payback for screwing up like I did. However, I don't think that this board is an appropriate location for these types of discussions. To clarify I broke up with this girl the second I got home, and I had told her everything clearly. She is just having a very difficult time letting go, and apparently she has been getting a lot of bad advice along the way lately.
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#11
10-01-2005, 23:45
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cadia (9:27:48 AM): you disrespected me and still hurt me
cadia (9:27:55 AM): and then told me that not on purpose magnusvv2 (9:27:58 AM): you want to learn disrespect?? magnusvv2 (9:28:06 AM): i can be much more disrespectful if you would like
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10-01-2005, 23:54
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Andy, i have enough hurt from one man in my life who i had thought that i could believe in and went on with my whole life. I don;t need any other hurt from people who don;t understand me.. just think if you were me, and were treated good here, and were biten at the back.. then you would understand how much hurt a person could take and couldnot take.
I dont ask for any other hurt. I want to let things go silently, but one man in this world wants to dig it up and hurt me more as he had thought that he didn;t hurt me enough.
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11-01-2005, 00:04
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One thing I do agree with him!
This is not the place to wash your dirty laundry! I am sorry that you got hurt! Also you proberly post this here, because he is a boardmember and certainly would read it! A very good advice go to a more specified women forum to cry your heart out! Here most uf us are just TG's lovers and don't think it is appropiate to look down on Thai girls!
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#16
11-01-2005, 00:16
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I understand tintin. As i wrote before, all i want here is that no woman has to be like me in my old situation, and no men will act like my exbf. As this is a forum for all the happy things about thaigirls, thailand.. i just want that when people want their happiness in thailand, think of what they might give hurt to other people first and consider their own respect to themselves.
And why i brought this back here.. I talked to brion before i posted here of course, but he didn;t act "cool" like he did here and that;s why i was hurt and posted my feeling here. I will no more telling about my story again. Done. I am sorry other memberboards.
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11-01-2005, 04:45
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He sounds like a total jerk, good that u leaved him, hope u find a better man, in a way maybe it was better it happened sooner than later so u didnīt married and have kids!
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11-01-2005, 05:04
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Exactly, Its just not worth giving yourself even more heartbreak over, Just get on with your life cadia, Your better off without him, Guys can be "Bastards"(And girls can be right B*tches also) at times but were not all like that, Just move on and find someone else who deserves your love....
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#20
11-01-2005, 05:17
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Got 1 word for you...
NEXT!! A vast majority of men don't get the desire to settle down until their 40's. I wouldn't recommend anyone settling down with a bf/gf until mid 30's, and make sure you do a lot of traveling and have every experience that you ever wanted to before settling. I was married at 33 and it was still too early, I am now very happily divorced. Just my experience, take what you want & leave the rest!
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#21
11-01-2005, 05:40
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Uuummm ... We can read on this board so many stories about BM's and TG's .... why not about BM, TG and his wife, narrated by his wife. It is a strong story too and I think her words have their place here. Cadia, I know it was not easy for you, unfortunately that's life. It is not about Thai girls, it is about your life together, things are not always endless, for me too and for many of us. Just hope the best for you 
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11-01-2005, 05:52
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 Agree on that. Maybe get some guys to think over their behavior, or at least do it smarter then sitting in front of the cam.... 
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#23
11-01-2005, 06:27
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... iīm so happy my swedish g/f donīt even own a computer
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11-01-2005, 07:34
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"A" men to that mate (& likewise for me - but without the 'Swedish' element) driv. |