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Old 10-02-2005, 21:33
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Sometimes the bg's are too much!

As you know I am going with my wife to Phuket next month! So no kinky business!

But as Tig became a friend, and my wife does understands that, she agreed to have an evening out with Tig! Just friendship, dinner, a cocktail...

Although Tig has written me several times to "be good for the wife " and not making her jeaulous, her last e-mail was strange!


She loves to have an evening the tree of us, but sex with 2 women is great!

Well I am a bit shocked! Ok, it is the wet dream of every man, but that is a no-no for my wife and Tig's knows!

As I don't want Tig to loose money that evening I will pay her bf and 1000 bath.

Is it because she wants to do something in return, but I am dissapointed!
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Old 10-02-2005, 22:07
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Whats surprising..

Remember what she does for a living !!
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Old 10-02-2005, 22:45
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Ask yourself who will see themselves as benefitting most if they can engineer your divorce?

Sound like you're mixing petrol and nitroglycerine...
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Old 10-02-2005, 22:46
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Yes that is true of course!

But still I am a bit suprised, because she understood and cared that I was good for my wife.

Knowing the girl and in opposite of many bg's, she always think she has to deliver, if somebody hands over some money!

She did not like wanpen, not because she was jeaulous, but because in her eyes, she did not deliver for the money!

Nevertheless, I think i will cancel this little evening of friendship!
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Old 10-02-2005, 22:50
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tintin tell you what man talk about beening up front with your wife
so you are going to have dinner with your tg and your wife
tell you what man if that was me i would t not be eating it i be wearing it
why dont you go all the way man let tig do your wife you have come this far
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Old 10-02-2005, 23:21
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But still I am a bit suprised, because she understood and cared that I was good for my wife.
Nevertheless, I think i will cancel this little evening of friendship!

Now you are talking sense tintin. Cancel any plans you have to meet this girl,and tell her not to email you again.And I would not be paying her barfine and 1000bht just to take her for a meal anyway.In spite of your wife's agreement to have a meeting/meal with this BG it is a bad bad idea and will possibly cause you more trouble at a later date. This holiday should be spent exclusively with your wife and I wouldnt even mention the word bargirl if I were you.You have a second chance remember,use it wisely
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Old 11-02-2005, 00:06
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Dawsey, you are absolutely right!

I am just a stupid man who wants to please to many people and maybe please less the people around me!

Anyway I had no other intentions then some friendship between people, forgetting for one night what they are actualy doing!

Thought it was possible because my wife doesn't care, but Tig is thinking too professional!

Although I like to have se* with Tg's, i also care about something else!
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Although I like to have se* with Tg's, i also care about something else!
I HOPE THATS YOUR MARRAIGE............
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Old 11-02-2005, 00:15
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Ooh, yes, but I meant friendship

18 years is a long time to caress the same puss*!

And like I said many times before, everybody deals differently with their midlife-crissis!

About Tig I had about 10 diifferent TG's Th last year, this one was jus symphathy!

I never was in love, so that is why my wife feels confortable about her!

But if I never see her again, ok for me! Next solo-trip different girl anyway!
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Old 11-02-2005, 00:24
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Can't fault you for doing it Tintin, you only live once, so make sure your happy. Not so sure about your wife meeting a TG though, Solo trips fair enough, but a friendly meal for three spells...TROUBLE
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Old 11-02-2005, 01:11
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Yep and three is a crowd!

Would be no problem, really, but if Tig, although our friendship, thinks about threesome, then it is off!

It is strange, she was very happy to meet my wife and spend some time with us, understanding it was more as a gesture of friendship!

but once I said i would pay her not to loose her earnings, something switched in her mind and she thinks she got to deliver!

My wife has a good heart and did not mind that the girl had a good evening with us. Just because she knows, that although I had her as a bg, it is not a tread to her.

Again, I will not break my rule, never se* with the same girl, different trip. But if you like somebody, you can have a drink wit her!
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Old 11-02-2005, 03:51
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My view is if you're married to someone you shouldnt be having sex with anyone else or doing anything like that, its just very very wrong and disrespectful to your wife.

I dont know how anyone can say they really love there wife if they feel the need to go and do this sort of thing.
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My view is if you're married to someone you shouldnt be having sex with anyone else or doing anything like that, its just very very wrong and disrespectful to your wife.

I dont know how anyone can say they really love there wife if they feel the need to go and do this sort of thing.

Good point.

I dont think Tintin would like it if he came home and his wife said "Oh, I got fcuked really hard in the back of a car last night. He was only 20 year old and had a huge c0ck. But I feel nothing for him. It was just sex".

How many times could she do this to YOU before you get sick of it?

Sometimes I wonder how much further your stupidity can go? A nice candlelit dinner for 3?
Thoughts like that shouldnt even be entering your head if you truly value your wife.
From the outside, and the way you behave, it looks like mentally, you treat her like shit.
Sorry for the strong words, but if you share it with us, then you dont make it private business anymore.

Fcuking grow up. All this shit about 'mid life crisis' - you have had your fun as a young man. Every person on this planet is getting older as we speak. Now accept your responsibilities to your wife and children and make them the focus of your life .
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Old 11-02-2005, 04:24
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55555 ...... Sometimes it's really hard not to respond to these kind of posts of stupidity. Cause that's what they are in my opinion.

Sometimes entertaining ..... other times I think does the man never get it.

Today you made me laugh though.
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Old 11-02-2005, 04:56
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My view is if you're married to someone you shouldnt be having sex with anyone else or doing anything like that, its just very very wrong and disrespectful to your wife.

I dont know how anyone can say they really love there wife if they feel the need to go and do this sort of thing.

Ooooh Jezus, there we go again!

I met many people on my trips that were MARRIED!! Maybe more then you can guess, and who do NOT say anything about bg's to their wife! They are golfing, going to Thailand for culture etc, etc!

From all the pople I know, in real life I am one of the few who is still married after 18 years! If you can do better, be my guest!

I am going to the wrong side of the 40 now, and I love young girls LIKE MOST OF YOU!

Well I am honnest about my fantasies at least, wich cannot be said about all!

Everybody his choice! Although I am enjoying life while I still can, I do much better things to people then some critisising me here! If I have to be a liar about my fantasies, cheating like you call it on a forum, with guys living to fuc* Thai prostitute*, then i think some guys here should better look in the mirror!

It has been a problem from day 1, that I am honnest about my situation!

I love my wife, I love my family, and when I am not in Thailand at least I take care of these people! Not like some guys, who only live for themselfs, cannot commit to anybody!

Who is the more egoistic in this picture.....

I am not even mad, but I do not think that I always have to eat this shi*

None of us is perfect!Why should anybody critisize me! I live for my family all the time I am not in Thailand! bring kids to school, cleaning their shi*, be there when they are feeling bad or sick!

It is always from the "bachelors" where I get the those negative opinions!

I am getting old, and I want some fun before I die! i try to spare my family, without being perfect! At my age it is now and not tommorow!

I never, ever had a relationship with another woman , here in Europe.

In Thailand I pay, girls deliver and that's it! If I have symphathy for a person, that's ok, but it cannot replace my family!

I am NOT mad about this, but I just want to say this, because some comments are unfair, and I hate this towards me, but also towards the other married men who enjoy life and have a good time at this forum!

I am very happy that I have some pleasures, that now without pills, a miracle has happened and feeling damn good! Never as good as ever! Also thanks to my passion for Thailand, Thai girls, massage and the support of the people around me!

And that is all I want to say about that......
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Old 11-02-2005, 05:04
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Btw fellows, my wife is also going on holliday in May with a friend to Spain!

Should I be jeaulous and let her stay at home?

Naaah! The girl can also have a time away from kids , husban etc! I will take care of the children, while she is having fun!

That is a relation ; you give and you take!
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I dont think that it is the fact that you have sex with other women Tintin. Like you say, lots of people do that.

You call it 'being open', but i think a lot of people here look at the things you do and say to your wife as cruelty, and not open.

Do you really think she wants to have dinner with other girls you have fcuked?

Its things like that which make people have a go at you.
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tin tin that is amazing, you shagged a girl in thailand and remain 'friends' with her out of sympathy. i think maybe you have it a little mixed up slow down on those pills pal!
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Tintin maybe you can get Tig to France on a holiday visa to babysit the children, while you and your wife are entertaining yourselves in Thailand.

Every evening the two of you can wave to your children at the webcam at your home in France, knowing they are been taking care of by a caring friend.

One happy family

But you are right, what do I know about your private life and how your wife feels about it. All up to the two of you. As long as the two of you are happy screwing around. I Just wonder sometimes how your children experience the whole thing. They don't know anything about this of course, cause the two of you keep it well hidden from them.
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Now you are talking sense tintin. Cancel any plans you have to meet this girl,and tell her not to email you again.And I would not be paying her barfine and 1000bht just to take her for a meal anyway.In spite of your wife's agreement to have a meeting/meal with this BG it is a bad bad idea and will possibly cause you more trouble at a later date. This holiday should be spent exclusively with your wife and I wouldnt even mention the word bargirl if I were you.You have a second chance remember,use it wisely

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tin tin that is amazing, you shagged a girl in thailand and remain 'friends' with her out of sympathy. i think maybe you have it a little mixed up slow down on those pills pal!


Ha ha! Liam read my posts more carefully!

No pills! 7 months without it!

Ok, I drink way too much, but with pills same-same but different!

And I understand some comments! But I liiiiive!

If you been through some shi*, then you breath life in!

And if some think, that my life -style ain't no good, ok...up to you

But again, if I was so bad I would not be with the same girl, who is 9 years younger btw for 18 years!

I like to scre* young TG's or better bg's! But behind the whor* there is a person. And if that person is nice, why should there be no friendship!

I am only a bit dissapointed, that Tig found it necessary to offer her services also to my wife! When I just wanted to show her that I also liked her as a person, not only a great fuc*!

But hey I agree, i am not the common BM! Proberly that is why some bm's really hate me!

I don't care, I just say:

"Do what you think is good and let them talk!" and be yourself!

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TinTin......good idea to cancel dinner.....although l was looking forward to reading about the event.

At least you are not a hypocrite like a lot of other married men who say they are faithful to their wives, and are not. And you have stated that this trip will not include sex with bg's, so you are at least going to spend ALL your time with your deserving wife......well that's the plan anyway !
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tin man i dont understand why you are in shock about tig come on man was you in shock when you fcuk her ass come over her face when she sucked your nuts off now she want to do your wife you are a bit disapointed wake up man your in thailand remember
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Old 11-02-2005, 14:16
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