Phuket

tintin · #1 25-03-2005, 00:38

Well it has been on my liver for a while.

It is great to have a sexy lady in your bed, young; beautiful and ready to give you all the pleasure in the world.

But..before during or after the deed, the sad stories begins!

Husband dead, working for the family, don't like job, babys to care for etc!

Well, that and the drinking, smoking, is a big turn down. Ok, some of these girls are lazy, some do not care being in the bar, but then the others....

What pleasure do you have of being with a girl that is claiming to have such a sad life! Oh yes they are all exagerating! You know that is not true! How professional they are, sometimes it is not easy to have another pointer breathing above your body.

I had only one girl last time! Prettiest ever! But that young girl seemed so sad. Oh not by me, I think she got worse, but strange enough,all these stories of bg's, I am a bit tired of that! There is always something!

And I see around me that most bm's are having a better time at the bar laughing then the time spent with the girl!

How pretty the cutie, sometimes I do not like to be part of their misery.

It is that mae culpa, I like young girls, but sometimes I feel a bit tired of the scene! Am I the only one???

marc26 · #2 25-03-2005, 02:54

no, i myself get tired of the drama. and you havent even got involved like myself, and sometimes its a pain in the ass. but then butterflying can get exhausting too. i just try and make my trip not to be alll about the girls

Baltic · #3 25-03-2005, 08:09

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Originally Posted by marc26

no, i myself get tired of the drama. and you havent even got involved like myself, and sometimes its a pain in the ass. but then butterflying can get exhausting too. i just try and make my trip not to be alll about the girls

Marc26 and TinTin, there was a nice evening in MTB on 12.03, we had lot of fun (just remember about talking in total Soi Eric heavy disco sound

)

I hope Your problem is not so serious (at least it was not so at the time of our nice meeting 12.03 night

)

Waiting for my next Phuket visit, but this will be only on year 2006

Gildas · #4 25-03-2005, 20:52

I thing we need to keep in mind that the bar girls are all individuals. I am sure a fair number of them will, and do, resort to any means to get money out of their boyfriends, though as there is serious poverty in parts of Thailand this really should not come as a surprise to anyone. I am equally sure that many of the girls do, to some degree or other, emotionally commit to their boyfriends, even if after only a very short time together. After all, surely even a one night stand is not devoid of some degree of emotional interaction by both? Following on from this, if the bar girl in question does have a real problem, who will she turn to? Her most recent boyfriend.

Not every sob story is a con and deciding which is which comes down to a man's ability to judge human nature, notwithstanding the language & cultural barriers involved.

tintin · #5 26-03-2005, 00:26

All this very well. But if I come to Thailand to have fun and forget MY everyday worries, I think these stories and sadness doesn't really turn me on!

mikegb · #6 26-03-2005, 06:34

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Originally Posted by tintin

All this very well. But if I come to Thailand to have fun and forget MY everyday worries, I think these stories and sadness doesn't really turn me on!

Well Tintin, you know that sometimes I totally disagree with some of the things you say, but this time I think you make a very good point.

If somebody I choose to be with starts to moan and make me unhappy, then they are history. I dont take any shit from them, because even though it may be true, I dont want to hear THEIR problems on MY holiday. Its very selfish, but I dont work hard just to put up with shit from somebody else.

I have been very lucky with the people that I have chosen. This is also another reason as to why I like the ladyboys. You dont get as much of the 'emotional rubbish' that the girls throw at you.

I always tell the people I am with "if we have fun, then you can stay a long time. If you are miserable and moan, then its goodbye".

I NEVER have someone with me for all the time. They get bored, I get bored, and its shit (only for me. Other people will be different).

Works for me.

Good point Tintin.

fun2have · #7 26-03-2005, 08:40

well boys us good hearts cop the sob stories, why because we are good people who the BGs know.

TinTin how many have you helped in little ways eg buy them lunch ?

How many have we helped in other ways with little cash loans ?
The BG grapevine is village based and phuket amongst the BGs is a transplanted issan village.

They know the good hearts and yes due to familiarity they will always try their luck or unload their problems on some one not to connected with their world.

IRISH JONNY · #8 26-03-2005, 14:24

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Originally Posted by mikegb

I NEVER have someone with me for all the time. They get bored, I get bored, and its shit (only for me. Other people will be different).

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I DID IT ONCE............NEVER AGAIN...........YOU GET TO EMOTIONALLY ENVOLVED AND SUFFER FROM THE BLUES BIGTIME..ITS BUTTERFLYING FOR ME ..ALWAYS AND FOREVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IJ

tintin · #9 26-03-2005, 15:36

You can butterflyas much as you want, that doesn'tleave you out of those situations!

My last BG in bed WAS st! it was the onlyone I had, because as you know, was not alone in Los!

It was not fair to have ST, but I got my night out the last day. Just to be confronted, with a sad girl with a deadwish!

Instead of having a nice time and enjoy the se*, you get confronted with a girl, obvious having a sad life. And then it makes you feel rotten that you have kind "abused" this girl, what takes the pleasure of the encouter totally away!