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05-05-2005, 14:09
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What about Thai-Ladies...?
Hello and good morning everybody,
only 10 days to go till LOS, can't wait anymore and now a start thinking about something... Somedays ago I ask about some bars where also couples are wellcome because I don't want to spoil the party for my darling... I looked around on several homepages, forums, threads and photos and see all the happy guy and start wondring what it is all about. So tell me guys why do you love this Thailadies? Is it really only about "fast, cheap sex" with "pretty young ladies" maybe some of you would not get back home -like a lot of ladies and even men here home told me? Or is it even more? I can't believe that it is only sex. So what is it about? Greetings from terrible cold, rainy Germany but only 10 days to go... 
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#2
05-05-2005, 14:31
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Its more... Much much more..
Looks... Attitude.. Carefree characters.. Climate... Take care of thier guy feeling... Strong family devotions (this is a plus and minus as a breadwinner).. I have yellow fever so I am biased but since my first Asian girlfriend I have had no other type (and used to have many girls back in Euroland prior to that).. Theres great girls the world over, as despite what my sig says I dont rule out relationship with women from anywhere but for me these slim attentive girls of Asia do tend to win as GF and as a long term partner.
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05-05-2005, 15:55
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I think you will find out for yourself when you get there. Maybe it is best that we do not spoil your surprise !! 55555
I hope you have a good holiday and enjoy Thailand Cheers Diz
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Only a woman can break his spell. Pure in heart who will offer herself
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06-05-2005, 11:06
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@LinvinLos
thanks for your answer, see I am a "black german lady" and a lot of "white german boys" tell me "nearly" the same you tell about the ThaiLadies... it's because of the skin (I understand: I'm black and I want my boys white,white,white as they can be  ), because of the hair, "Exotic Ladies" seem to know how to treat their men much better than "white ladies" know/do...Of course the LOS itself makes everything brighter than it maybe would be in "cold Europe". Isn't it a illusion the men use to see in an exotic lady? I often thought the men see more their dreams in me (or other different women) than reality. Off course my skin is "like silk" my darling says (I hope so, I use an expensive body lotion every day twice), my teeth are whiter than this of the white ladies (not a miracle, my face is brown...so white looks whiter than normal)... But in the end the greatest different between exotic ladies and what you call "Farang Ladies" is the behavior of the guys! If they are smart enough to to talk to you they treat you like a lady (or like a b..., but let's not talk about that) and if you are threaten like a lady.... it is easy to behave like that! That's what I tought while reading all the posts! Are the most of you catching a dream?  Please excuse my english and the lot of mistakes....
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06-05-2005, 11:22
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[quote=alavivre]So tell me guys why do you love this Thailadies? Is it really only about "fast, cheap sex" with "pretty young ladies" maybe some of you would not get back home -like a lot of ladies and even men here home told me? Or is it even more? I can't believe that it is only sex.QUOTE]
As LivinLos says,it is much more than sex, and it is much more than beautiful young girls. Sex and youth is the starting point, since we all love the sex and the pretty young things. But it is the warmth, the heart, the soul of these women that is a factor, too. The way the girls in particular and the Thai people in general want to have joy in their lives every day. It is sanuk, which means fun. The Thais are a fun-loving bunch, and to them, having fun every day is just as important as drinking and eating every day! It is something you have to experience. It is an inspiration. In addition to that, the attitude of women towards men is still what would be called in the West "old-fashioned." The women want to find a man they can devote themselves to, and who will take care of them. You take care of them and they will take care of you. That is the traditional attitude there, and I hope it doesn't change any time soon. I have seen some of the young BGs there who chase after the young men, and will not consider a man over 35. But for most, age is a secondary factor, as is looks, because the primary and overriding factor is a man's willingness to commit to being the one who will take care of them(and that includes their families, since it is the Thai way for the children to support the parents, and the successful sibling to help the others). This means that there is more opportunity for a guy who is older, more unattractive, fatter, or duller personality-wise to find an attractive woman to lhave a relationship with. In the West, age, looks, and personality are the dominant factors and money is more secondary, since most in Western countries, most people are not poor, except for the immigrants who tend to stick with their own kind. The Thais remind me of the Cherokee Indians. In America, many people will say, "I am part Indian." If you ask them what tribe, 90% of the time they will say Cherokee. The Cherokees were not a particulary big tribe and were only located in a few Southern states*. But many Cherokee women were attractive and they were only too happy to marry white men with money. Consequently, there are lots of Cherokees and part-Cherokees in this country today, long after most of the other tribes were decimated, many tribes became extinct,and the few that remain live in poverty on reservations. Well, that may seem a bit off the subject, but the point is that I think that the Thais are smart to be open to letting farangs marry into their families, because in the long run they will come out way ahead! So whether a person is looking for fun and a quick shag, or looking to find a woman to forge his future with, the Thais are there, willing, ready, and able to help you do your thing! How many other places in the world could you say this about? JayBee  * footnote: the Cherokees originated in the South, but later were driven out by the whites, and forced to move to Oklahoma. This forced emigration was quite brutal and the march to Oklahoma is known in history books as "The Trail of Tears." That did cause a rift within the tribe, but the majority faction still maintained the policy favoring intermingling with whites. Some Cherokees became quite successful. One of the most famous and popular entertainers of all time, who was quite revered in his day, was Will Rogers, and his witticisms are still often quoted. He was, IINM, a full-blooded Cherokee. He entertained people by doing rope tricks, but then started talking while tossing the rope around and people laughed at were intrigued by the wise things he had to say, and that made him famous.
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Last edited by JayBee : 06-05-2005 at 11:54.
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06-05-2005, 11:28
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You have some ideas that are right.. For example I am actually attracted to colored and hispanic girls also more than white caucasion girls, so obvioulsy I have some attraction that is towards the 'exotic' or different from the start.
However with Asian girls its a lot more than physical.. It is not considered PC in the post equality world but asian girls do have the attitude that it is thier responsibility to look after thier guy in turn its our responsibility to provide for them and thier families, some may call this sexist but I see no reason why the division of labour in a relationship is a bad thing, it is certainly no mark if disrespect but it may be thought of that way back in the west. Is some of it an illusion ?? I suspect for most on vacation yes it may well be, some of those illusions end up shattered and you can read the stories on any forum that deals with Thai girls. Of course some are able to forge relationships and move her to thier home or come and live near hers, with that effort many are catching thier dream. Your covering a lot of ground so I am not really sure how to answer you in detail but there is much more appeal to asian girls than simply thier availablity..
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06-05-2005, 11:38
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I have been with all kinds and colors of ladies. The color of the skin makes almost no difference to me. I prefer Asian ladies(because of their attitude, not because of looks). I also prefer white skin. But if a black woman is more beautiful and treats me better, then I would prefer her to any Asian or white woman. So in the end, it does not matter which race or color I prefer, because I will always take the girl who makes me feel better, as long as I find her reasonably attractive to me. That is why I say the color of the skin does not make much difference to me. My eye will be drawn to the white skin first, but if I talk to the lady with brown or black skin and I like her better, then she is the one I will choose, and be happy to be with. In the past, I have had white GFs, black GFs, and Asian GFs. When I think about the GFs I've had, I think about them as individuals first, and as black or white or Asian last. JayBee P.S. One other thing that is very important to me is how a woman takes care of herself. If she lets herself go, and does not concern herself about how she looks, that is a big negative. And that is an area where a lot of white women really lose points with me.
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06-05-2005, 11:56
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well for me skin colour is not a factor,dont even think about it.
but exotic looks,great smile,not as much bulldust as western ladies,family values more stronger,yes the me man ,you girl ,which livinlos mentions availablity doesnt really come into it either ,if i cant find a girl I "connect" with anywhere not just LOS I find its just not worth it. (try sex with somebody you like or have feelings for its different sex to one night stands).
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06-05-2005, 12:14
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Thanks Jaybee and LivinLos, „you saved a bit of the reputation of the guys that go to LOS, to me“.I already wondered if it was a good idea to go to Soi Eric with my boy… not because of being afraid of geeting ride of him… but I’m true I don’t want to spend my holiday with lots of the guys I get known to in Germany… the one you call an “ugly, fat sweety olf farang” going for “sweet, little nice young ladies”… I know these guys by myself a lot and I don’t want to spend my holidays with them… Of course they will be there, I’m sure
I hoped to hear something like you said, for a lot of the men down there it is something like the global search for the right one… in fact, maybe at a strange place (sorry guys), an in a strange way (again sorry), but if you look deeper, it is the search for love and fun… Very pathetic and romantic… not at all belive me. Me too would shoose the goodlooking, long haired, white, skinny young man, with wonderful tattoos and wearing an earing (if I think it over that’s exactly what I have choosen) than an fat, smelly much older black guy…I’m a sexist and even a rassist, too…  But I’m also something like an old fashioned woman and I’m sorry gentlemen: if you would threat your ladies back home the way some of you threat your thai ladies, they would be much nicer to you than they are now! I know a lot of men back home that want to be cared of like a king but they don’t give a damn about the girl! I think it’s always a deal, with money or other things and of course with all the love he has to give. Of course I’m not payed with money, but if my darling doesn’t treat me right and cares for me I also wont do! This doesn’t meen he has to cook or clean the house, that’s my job. But if my car broke down or there are big things to carry, it’s his job! And if he want’s a nice night and a….. he has to carry me a drink, talk to me and be nice… Any other lady here to post her thoughts? Just a “little joke” because I seem to get to serious…. Therefore I think I have to ring the bell at Mai Thai Bar when we are around…. Hope there are not all of you down there if we are coming! I know I have to pay the drinks if I do so… but that is something I wanted to do for all my life! Go to a bar and ring the bell… Think about a lady doing this in “Good Ol’ Germany”.... Have fun, hope to see you
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06-05-2005, 14:42
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Well said! That is a sentiment you don't often hear on the Board, but I think it is so true! 
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#12
06-05-2005, 17:49
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alavivre, Good for you. You are normal. A few prejudices, a desire to enjoy yourself whilst understanding others. Good post Steve
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