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05-05-2005, 16:39
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strange, but I am hesitating...
As I have by miracle found a solution to a part of my financial problems, going to Phuket in November comes back to the picture...
My initial plan, was to go 3 weeks like last time, and go back with my partner in March. But the partner, who is a nice but do not take much initiatives, came up with a proposition that I was very suprised with. She sat down next to me and say, as you rent your house for only 15.000 b/month, why don't you go for 2 or even 3 months this year. I did not understand this proposition and found it too long to be away from home and family. Yes she said, but I can come during x-mas holliday with the 2 girls (leave my son 2 year old with her parents), so the girls can also discover LOS and have a holliday. You can then still stay a month after we are gone. My first reaction was, that this was great! But the more I was thinking about it the more it scared the shit out of me! Like I said, I hate the idea not seeing the family so long. 3 weeks is nice but2-3 months? I am also scared to miss my little habits from home, like my movies on big screen, my music, my walks with my dogs etc. Now most of you will, again, ask why she wants me to do that! And so did I! Although the relation is running fine, she want to enjoy a period with more time for herself. as I don't work, neither does she, we are together a lot. when she gets home from shopping, sports, social life, IAM ALWAYS THERE. No quitness, a moment for herself, always someone around in the house. I do understand this, because I am always happy when she is having voley-competition, that i have an evening for myself! But for 3 months, why isn't 3 weeks enough? So I am hesitating, but cannot wait that long to decide if I want the house in December. I am also afraid that such a long time without the family will make me homesick. For me bg's are nice for 3 weeks, but after that I am always happy to find my family back! I see guys like marc, who spend a long time in Phuket. do you never get tired of , not working? I thinkthat after 3 weeks, I would be tired of the beach and maybe even the nightlife. One hand it is a great opportunity to try this, but on the other hand...I am a bit scared!  
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05-05-2005, 17:23
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2 things spring to mind...
By the time you have been here a month or more do you really think you can NOT have girls turning up at the doorr sometimes ?? Perhaps drunk often nuts sometimes at fcuk knows O'Clock in the am ?? Now thats one thing with another TG around, could be really problematic with your wife around and disastorus with your young daughters !!! Can you manage to seperate enjoying the Thailand life and then turning it off for the period when family are here ?? Its not just you controlling that but girls you may meet. Secondly and more importantly every tyime you come here you seem to find some special (virgin) that gives you shivers and makes you say 'this one' could risk my family etc.. Can you handle 3 months without falling for someone and risking it all ??
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05-05-2005, 19:16
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Gosh 3 months is a long time to be offerred to go wild by your wife!!!! i've never heard of a woman giving her husband such time away........... tin tin maybe she is testing you.....or has some other agenda??? I'm not trying to be negative but this offer just doesn't seem right or should i say the whole situation seems quite odd...................I've got some very liberal minded married friends and couples but this even by their standards would be stepping way of the boundaries of a normal relationship. Maybe i'm being to old fashioned but if you want to maintain a strong relationship with your wife then you should take her across like Dawsey does with his wife to enjoy LOS together and just with eachother. The only other thing i can think of is that your wife wants some "time out"........................??
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05-05-2005, 19:30
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I know it's a synical way of looking at it, but who holds the purse strings ?? That is to say, neither of you work but you obviously have money. If she's the wealthy one, then I would suggest you play it carefully, however if you the rich man, then it's your call !!
Sorry Tinman, only joking, pulling your leg old bean. Surely you have been together long enough to know your own wife ? You should be able to tell what's going on and if not, why don't you ask her ?? Perhaps my innocence is lost on the last suggestion as I have never been married. You probably know her better than anyone else, so you should be able to understand why she's said this. Try looking on the good side as well as at the "what if's" and then make your decision. After all, if you were given a cast-iron guarantee that she was not "up to something", would you really turn down 3 months in LOS ?? Tough decision, and I don't envy you at all. Good luck Diz
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05-05-2005, 19:53
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Tin Tin get your butt over here and drink red wine at Silk every night.
Then go to Mai Tai and the drunk scots bar Love something or other I can't remember. Then go find either a virgin or LB on a bike. Do not buy them a motorbike. Do give them 1000.bt to go away. Start again the next day and repeat these steps. Marc is now the little entreprener (spelling?) now and is involved in more things than just BG's. Cheers!
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05-05-2005, 21:17
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spending a long time here without working can defintely get boring, and thats partially why ive been doing what ive been doing, and there is very little money associated. however, ill tell you, after not working for so long, you get tired just having to od the littlest things. i would say book the 3 months, its such little money you could always cut your holiday short and cahnge your return home
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06-05-2005, 03:05
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Eh, I follow you on some points.... But, it is not that because I like the girls quite young, that I am looking for virgins! If you read my posts lately, I said that was somthing I was not looking for. Not one BG could risk my family.Period. But a regular girl, would (you are refering to the waitress I guess. So that is why I keep my hand s off them. The only trouble i really had, was my firt time foot loose, and did the mistake of dating a regular TG. But that mistake I only made ones. I had nice bg's, like Tig, and much lesser nice ones like Apple, but although some fun was made, I never ever saw them as a tread! On the contrary, i think that I get bored after such a long time from Bg's, and that is maybe a way to finish the little escapades after such a long time.... But maybe in 2 weeks when she gets back, she want to move to Spain, when SHE comes back from her solo-trip! Kidddiiiing! 
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06-05-2005, 04:42
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I did not understand what you have been doing! Heard about a little business, but what? You mean the party's at wet willys? I try to talk to Nadia about it. Maybe the best thing is to come begining of December, wait till the 17 th to the arrival of Nadia and the kids, and stay 2 weeks longer. That would be alone for for a big month, I can handle that and the girlms could finally discover Thailand! But it is weird, although I enjoyed the fun of bg's, now that I had these experiences, i do not find it as trilling as before... But maybe that will be until next time in Los! 
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06-05-2005, 06:20
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Hey Tin some might call it 'La Joie de la vie' but I think 3 months is a long time. You can put any kind of spin on it, but the end result is not favorable. In my opinion, it's like a trial separation. I am pretty sure after several long discusions on the topic with your wife, she'll modify the lenght of time.
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06-05-2005, 09:04
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[quote=tintin]But maybe in 2 weeks when she gets back, she want to move to Spain, when SHE comes back from her solo-trip!QUOTE]
I hate to be the one to say it, but two weeks solo in Spain, then she wants you to go to LOS for 3 months. I would be a bit suspicious. There comes a time in life, when an attractive woman wants to know that men still find her attractive, and at any time of life, there nothing like a little excitement and novelty in one's life, and for a woman that often means romance. As Eurogirl pointed out in one of her old threads, the days when the men were the ones with the wanderering eyes and the women were happy to remain faithfully in the kitchen, worrying aobut the whereabouts of their hubbies, are gone. It is said that nowadays, the women are as likely to cheat as the men, if not more so. Is that volleyball team co-ed? JayBee 
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06-05-2005, 10:14
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Don't mean to sound nasty but it sounds like your wife either has or wants to meet someone else.
I think its time you owned up and show some respect and dedication towards your wife and family
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06-05-2005, 13:14
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Oh no not again! I will not answer that, and as a punishment you have to read all my posts! 
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06-05-2005, 13:17
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06-05-2005, 13:37
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I was just joking IJ!
It is just when you are devoted all year, that you want to have a bit of fun on your own! That the misses goes to Spain is fine for me, she is in other fun then myself!
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06-05-2005, 13:51
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They say what's good for the goose, is good for the gander. So if that doesn't bother you, then it's no problem! 
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07-05-2005, 01:52
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Wel , I will see many Bm's!
I made a decission: I proberly come a bit later to Los, then the family comes over the 17 th December and I will stay 2 weeks longer.... That means a total of about 6-7weeks, that will make everybody happy and the kids will love to go to Phuket-fantasea! But I keep in mind livin in Los wise words: I get girls from Patong, not Kata. as many Bg's are lazy, they will not bother me as easy as girls nearby and they will have enough to do during season!
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07-05-2005, 02:03
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BTW Tintin, I forgot to say it, but I believe that Congratulations are in order on your financial miracle! Congratulations! 
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07-05-2005, 02:42
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A thought...
To be honest all I could think about when I read this was how fortunate a man Martin is, for a partner to even make the offer of trying to allow him to experience something he would not have a chance to experience if he was with what some people would call a normal partner. If the Missus goes off and has her fun what's so wrong with that? I for one think he's living life the way that he wants and that's a pretty good way to go about things in my book. P.S...just no more lb stories from you and I'll be fine..
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07-05-2005, 13:11
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Do I sence a bit of jeaulousy? I do not talk about drama, dear friend, but experiences of life! I know some do not appreciate my stories, but you have to admit that at least although sometimes weird, it gives sometimes some spice to the board. If a few are amused, I am ok. Not everybody likes the "adventures of Tintin" (ten-tein, not tien tien), but that guy has only his dog and a strange captain to do it with!
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07-05-2005, 22:25
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If i would stay in LOS for 3 months, chances are that i would never return home again, yet i would never pass on the opportunity, who knows when you will get the chance again?
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08-05-2005, 07:23
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08-05-2005, 12:23
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When you stay three months,it does make it hard to leave, and there is always some period of adjustment when you return home, what with getting your ego disinflated and remembering the fact all young womendon't love your ass! But I would think that having a wife and small children waiting for you would make it a lot easier!  JayBee
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08-05-2005, 13:49
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