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06-05-2005, 10:06
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Falling in love with bar girls
How many times have you fallen in love with a bar girl and are you prepared to admit to in a public forum? It would seem that most BM's have fallen in love at least once with a BG and it seems that the BM comes off second best
Do you feel that is a fair assessment of what happens?? 
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06-05-2005, 10:48
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Many..
One of them became my 1st wife, a better woman I have never met the world over, trustworth, intelligent, extremely beautiful, street smart, vivacious, able to fit in the world over.. Your point ???
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06-05-2005, 10:52
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I've fallen in love with TGs three times, but only one of them was a BG. One was a certified public accountant, the other a supervisor at a big hotel. Every time I got my heart broke, although the first time it was certainly my own fault, and that was the time I fell for a BG. It was no fault of hers! I am a lot more careful now. It is not that I would not be open to falling in love again, but a girl has to prove herself to me without a doubt before I would let myself go completely. That certainly doesn't mean that I don't have feelings for a girl, if I spent more than a few days with her. But liking a girl, even a great deal, and giving her your heart is two different things. But I speak only for myself, and can not speak for others. I have heard the horror stories, but have heard some very heartwarming success stories, as well. For each man, the ladies of LOS are an enigma that he must solve on his own, if that is what he wants, and he is up to the challenge! JayBee 
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06-05-2005, 13:25
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I recently returned from my first trip to Thailand and I am not afraid to admit that I got a major crush on a BG now.. We just had a fantastic time and she was such a nice person..
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07-05-2005, 04:32
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IT happens to alot of travelers.Thing is you want to help them out of a situation.From the west you would think only girls that are addicted or worse,have funny for money.Now you have funny and the next day you connect,it's not hard to feel something.Or what do you all think?Good ladies are everywhere,in los!
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07-05-2005, 04:44
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Yep, me too, been that soldier. I have no real method for dealing with it, I just go with the flow and then go home. I think being honest with them helps; don't bullshit and start telling them that you love them, just treat them well, smile a lot, spend your money and go home on time.
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07-05-2005, 19:24
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Hi
My name is herman (in Patong none as Spiderman) I am just returnd from Patong and bin there for just 10 days this was the 18 th time i bin there. the last 4 days i bin falling in love with a girl and her name is XXXXXXXXXXXX (Kitty)we had a great time ( the best in my live) i dont no wat to do Herman  Last edited by stevem : 08-05-2005 at 18:15. Reason: Edited to remove name
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08-05-2005, 04:47
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Good advice, Kiwi. Been there also. Didn't get stung, but only escaped by sheer luck. Keep up with the emails or phone calls to her, Herman. Usually, they will butter you up for a few weeks with the talk of how much they miss you, how much they care for you, how they have no one to take care of them, etc.  But after about a month, then usually comes the sad story of how they are not making enough money, sick relative, lost job at the bar, don't want to sleep with men anymore, etc.  This is accompanied by a request for financial assistance.Here is a typical example: "I have to pay for my room in two days but I don't have enough money and please help me. I feel very shy to tell you this but I don't know what can I do really and I know you're very kind person also you I think you can help me. But I will pay you back very soon. And I hope that you will help me."  That is excerpted from a real letter. This is what you can expect. If you don't get these kinds of requests for money, then you may really be onto something with a good girl who is sincere.  JayBee
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Last edited by JayBee : 08-05-2005 at 05:02.
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12-05-2005, 22:06
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Bank account details or Western Union Girl 1 in Pattaya 2 months after i came back Girl 2 in Bangkok (see Same old story thread) 5 months What you say is good advice.
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12-05-2005, 22:32
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A girl I was with in the Philippines for 1 night started off her first e-mail to me asking me for money to buy her a plane ticket from Manila to Hong Kong so that she could go to work in Hong Kong and make more money as it was heading towards the off season in Manila. So sometimes it does not even take a few months.
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12-05-2005, 22:44
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I can remeber one time i was chatting to some girl from Manila on face-pic.com i was telling her i was thinking about going there, well within a few minutes she was asking me for $200 US to payoff her cell phone bill & telling me that she will marry me when i got there. I went along with it for a while, she gave me her details so i could send the money via western union.
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13-05-2005, 04:55
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well it might seem a strange thing to say ,but once in a while you might find a good one.
G im still waiting for the invoice by the way, no signs of one yet 
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13-05-2005, 09:06
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Me,too! Love pretty girls and sex, sex, sex. But I did get talked into buying a girl a new cell phone. Not cheap! Ouch!!! 
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13-05-2005, 11:11
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Yeps...
Been there, done that... Fell for a BG, big time, and got burned; again, big time. But, live and learn
-- Will it happen again?  I sure hope not... I have a few scars of wisdom now, but I won't say I'm invulnerable... They're just too sweet, sexy, fun and attentive.... difficult to say no... 
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13-05-2005, 14:43
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So true, Krowdon. But I don't think that I ever want to be invulnerable. As you say, it's too much fun! BTW, Nice avatar. What is it?
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13-05-2005, 16:52
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Not really sure what the avatar is.. I found him online, recolored him and gave have used him in forums and MySpace for a while now. I catch a lot of hell from those who are "too cool" to have a little purple dragon as a representation, but I'm comfortable enough with myself to not worry about my image too much...
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13-05-2005, 17:01
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I feld for a Thai girl that was not a BG. I knew something was wrong when i asked her after the Tsunami if i could do something to help her. She asked me for money and although i never heard of Western Union , she knew exactly how it worked. After that many other things that she told me got a whole different meaning to me. So although i am sure there are many good ones ass well, my advise is don't fall in love if your not gonna stay in Thailand the rest of your life.
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13-05-2005, 17:18
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Aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh a BG's best friend...............Western Union
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14-05-2005, 22:57
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For the first time when ı was falling love with a BG , it seemed me real.But when i call BG after came back , it had became the real experience.You can guess what bg would say on phone. Whenever i get phuket i know that i will falling love with a bg.Because i predict the final that doesn't hurt me anymore.
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15-05-2005, 06:31
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That pretty much sums up the way I am feeling these days, as well. Although that doesn't mean that I am giving up hope that someday I will fall in love and that it will be real and lasting! BTW, Siam, welcome to the forum. Good to have you on board! A very thoughtful post! Thanks for taking the time to let us know how you feel!  JayBee
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