Hi AM,
Good to see you posting. I owe you a PM. Will do it later today!
In the instruction I have had, they always teach the upper class dialect, which is the official correct Thai language. The fact that relatively few of the Thai people speak Thai that way seems not to matter. Even when I heard the teachers talking, often they did not pronounce words the way they taught us to.
But, as Schmeen pointed out to me previously, it is best to learn the correct Thai. If you learn it correctly, then you can always adapt your speaking a bit when in other areas of the country. As he said, if you do find yourself talking to an educated or high class person in any setting, but particularly in a business setting, you don't want to sound to them like a poor Isaan rice farmer.
This week at a Thai restaurant, when I ordered Pra Ram, I pronounced it correctly. The waitress then referred to that dish as "Pla Lam." Then last night at a night club, I was talking to a lady in Thai, and she corrected me when I substituted the "l" sound for a "r" in one word. I joked, "Oh! You're high class," and we both had a good laugh! Interestingly enough, neither of those women were Thai. They were both Lao, from Vietiane.
In travelling around LOS, I have noticed differences in both word selection and pronunciation. In Chiang Mai, they use a lot of words different from the ones used in the South. In BKK, you get a mix, since people are from all over the country.
Lessons are the best way to learn, I think. But for you, it is probably much easier to learn Thai then for me, since you speak a language with a tonal system already. So maybe just a CD course will be adequate for you. Pimsleur is the one that seems to be most widely recommended, although some like Rosetta Stone.
JayBee
