Her Love Comes Cheaply

[Bafana]

I dont like cut and paste poster but after I read this I thought it was good and should be shared (Especially with the femmenazi lurkers in the forum)

see it at:
http://sarongpartygirl.blogspot.com

Her Love Comes Cheaply.

There are some men who react very violently when you mention the word slut in their presence. I love men like that. They are considerate, and more importantly, know that having sex does not demean a person.

Everyone has different intentions each time they have sex, and satisfaction from sex is the most price discriminate good you can purchase, and the price cannot possibly be set on dates, flowers and a promised eternal loyalty. Sometimes you just want to have sex for fun, and I cannot possibly see how that should make you any cheaper.

Some people say it cheapens the sacredness of sex. Well, it’s been proven that people can love in an infinite number of ways (the economist has classified it into three), in which case it would also mean that people can have sex, and feel a different emotion, each time, and with each different person. Sex does not have to be sacred all the time for it to fufill it's function, althought it does have to be satisfying. It's at your disposal for you to use in order to attain satisfaction, not something to taunt and torment you; Money is for you to spend, not keep for Kingdom Come and your children to burn on the seventh month when you've gone to hell.

<>I believe in knowing what I want from each endeavor as an individual, and knowing how I can get the exact price in satisfaction paid. It’s the same for everyone, it just requires different combinations in uh… the basket of goods you wish to trade (dinner, wine, prior relationship with the person or how well you know each other etc. The good is not sex, it’s satisfaction, and sex is one of the ways through which you obtain it. As in the case of the acquiring of anything, there are ethical ways to do it, and therefore intents that can be spawned of either selfish or compassionate thought.

Well, here’s a thought: ‘Smutty’ people are more capable of compassion simply because they’ve been blessed by so many other people that they have more to give. Poverty is not holy, and maintaining celibacy, even though it may be a torture, and it makes your mind sick, is not noble. But it must be noted that there is a difference in the genuine conviction of wanting to keep yourself pure for the right one and a blind devotion to something you don’t quite understand yourself. Aside from the fact that it sometimes makes you feel superior to the people who lack self-control. (Ahem, and you lack commonsense)

Of course while thinking about the price of the sort of satisfaction you wish to acquire through sex, I always thought, well, what about the prostitutes?

Firstly, I do not think anyone that sleeps for money is cheap. In fact, I do not think anyone is cheap at all. No one has the right to judge another person’s self-worth. You CAN have pity for them, if they have a lot of mindless sex for the sake of reaffirming their self-worth, or have to do it to live; in either situation, they just need someone to come in and help them out. But you’ve no right to value them, even if you do know them. It upsets me sometimes, that some people can separate sex from their emotions, and will do it, even if it disturbs them.

I do look at some girls and think that they ARE cheap. But then, that’s what a lot of people think of me too, and I don’t think that way of myself, obviously. Not anymore, anyway. Perhaps I’ve just lost the reservations I’d used to have years ago; which is to me, a good thing. Since I’m a lot happier now that I’ve stopped thinking of sex as wrong. I was going to have as much of it as I wanted, regardless, anyway.

And the truth is, even after I’ve slept with a number of people, I’ve still managed to have sex and feel intense love, and a passionate sense of self-sacrifice. Self-sacrifice is a terrible word to use in this case, it’s something more like, a passionate spiritual, sexual moment. Think an eros-agape emotion. Sex, for me, has not loss any of its meaning. It’s just acquired more then one.

Without meaning to go into theology; but I am very Christian in my beliefs and thoughts, if everyone was precious to Christ, then no one can possibly be cheap in his love. The little ***** selling herself for the newest Nokia phone might look cheap to you, but she’s precious to someone else, so don’t go trying to value her worth.

Besides, valuing something as intangible and more then anything, grounded wholly in emotion as satisfaction is, is simply impossible. And honestly, the best investment (note I did not use payment) any one can put into sex is emotion, because it’s what it’s all about in the first place. Tangible commodities are certainly important to any female, because it’s biological to be attracted to providers with the capability to provide, but it’s more then that. There is a criteria, a minimum price for sex in each female individual, but after that has been met, what matters is the generosity of spirit that is revealed.

As long as I know that spirit exist within the other person, he doesn’t have to be showing it to me all the time.

Honestly, the whole idea of labeling someone as cheap is just extremely antiquated, and completely callous.

Men who do it are prone to rape, and not necessarily the sort that’s not condoned by the law. They are those that go, ‘She’s a cheap slut, lets just **** her’. They clearly lack maturity, and obviously do not get laid enough.

Women that do it are the worst sort of feminists possible. They are so edgy, **** and materialistic they feel the need to humiliate women who understand that there’s more to sexual satisfaction then just the tangible basket of goods they demand. Because they are clearly a threat, when in reality, they are their own adversary. But what I feel most ironic about women like these is that, on the one hand, they are pimping girl power, screaming, you’ve got pussy so subjugate the men with it; on the other, they criticize people when they use it. Because it’s always ‘too cheap a price’. But it’ll never be the right price, because you’ll never see what was really exchanged. All this while feeling very violently about how sex should be extremely sacred to a woman, and only given in the face of promised eternal loyalty (oh, but also along with the basket of good, of course).

Sacredness my ass.

Because it is pretty enough for you to worship.

xoxox


posted by Party Girl at 3:30 PM

[Coolhand]

For a blog that started out as a joke, she does writ with a certain clarity, .... and she certainly knows what she wants!

[LivinLOS]

Yeah I actually read through a lot of her pieces.. She seems a smart sexy funny confident and intelligent girl..

[butterflyblonde]

Pretty good reading...& nice to see you around on the board Baf

[river]

Sarong party girl is one cool chick I like her no bull*hit style.

[JayBee]

Originally Posted by Bafana

honestly, the best investment (note I did not use payment) any one can put into sex is emotion, because it’s what it’s all about in the first place.


it’s biological to be attracted to providers with the capability to provide, but it’s more then that, what matters is the generosity of spirit that is revealed.


Honestly, the whole idea of labeling someone as cheap is just extremely antiquated, and completely callous.

Men who do it are prone to rape, and not necessarily the sort that’s not condoned by the law. They are those that go, ‘She’s a cheap slut, lets just **** her’. They clearly lack maturity, and obviously do not get laid enough.

That was a f*cking awesome rant. I love the way that girl thinks. Her mind is f*cking beautiful!! Her words are sexier than a bar full of gogo girls.

The part about putting emotion into sex, and the generosity of spirit involved in that is something that I could not agree more with.

The statement that it is biological to be attracted to providers with the capability to provide is an insight that so many people, women and men, just don't get, when they say a BG can't be attracted to a much older man. I believe that she is right, not in the case of every BG, but in the case of many. The women who say, "Oh, that is so disgusting to see a young lady with that dirty old man, who is old as (or older than) her father," they don't get what she is saying. And a lot of the young men say the same thing, because they don't want to believe that a young woman could prefer an older man to them. But I think she is one smart lady, who knows the score, and is not afraid to speak the truth, even though it is very politically incorrect.

The part about labeling girls (wh*res or otherwise) as cheap, and the statement that the attitude that "they are just cheap sluts," ( "f*ck and forget 'em" attitude) is tantamount to spiritual rape, even though it is not technically rape, is a very keen insight, which goes right to the core of farang/BG interactions, but is applicable also to man/woman relationships everywhere.

Like a full round tone from a silver flute, echoing through a vast temple, her words ring with the sound of truth!

JayBee

[marc26]

Originally Posted by JayBee

That was a f*cking awesome rant. I love the way that girl thinks. Her mind is f*cking beautiful!! Her words are sexier than a bar full of gogo girls.

The part about putting emotion into sex, and the generosity of spirit involved in that is something that I could not agree more with.

The statement that it is biological to be attracted to providers with the capability to provide is an insight that so many people, women and men, just don't get, when they say a BG can't be attracted to a much older man. I believe that she is right, not in the case of every BG, but in the case of many. The women who say, "Oh, that is so disgusting to see a young lady with that dirty old man, who is old as (or older than) her father," they don't get what she is saying. And a lot of the young men say the same thing, because they don't want to believe that a young woman could prefer an older man to them. But I think she is one smart lady, who knows the score, and is not afraid to speak the truth, even though it is very politically incorrect.

The part about labeling girls (wh*res or otherwise) as cheap, and the statement that the attitude that "they are just cheap sluts," ( "f*ck and forget 'em" attitude) is tantamount to spiritual rape, even though it is not technically rape, is a very keen insight, which goes right to the core of farang/BG interactions, but is applicable also to man/woman relationships everywhere.

Like a full round tone from a silver flute, echoing through a vast temple, her words ring with the sound of truth!

JayBee

i think its totally true that a young girl can be attracted to an aolder man because of security and stability. although the age differencre is not that much, 33 to 22, i think a major reason why my old gf likes me so much is because i was the 1st one who taught her english, took her on a plane, stayed in a real big fanct hotel, taught her alot of thigs, showed her things, i think that is a huge reason why

[ashley]

I have read a bunch of her stuff and she seems like a very interesting individual. She also makes it seem like being a white expat in Singapore is a very favorable thing to be. I am thinking of moving there for work. Is it really as good as it sounds. Your insights would be greatly appreciated.

Cheers,

Ashley

[Allybabba22]

Sorry to say guys but I just got bored reading it, It just goes on and on, But then again im not really into reading story's or books unless its really interesting and unfortunatly for me she is not

PS: But I would like to fu*k her, The slut...55555...

[Bafana]

Originally Posted by ashley

I have read a bunch of her stuff and she seems like a very interesting individual. She also makes it seem like being a white expat in Singapore is a very favorable thing to be. I am thinking of moving there for work. Is it really as good as it sounds. Your insights would be greatly appreciated.

Cheers,

Ashley

It can be great mate - So good you need to go to Phuket to have a break from all the action

[ashley]

Originally Posted by Bafana

It can be great mate - So good you need to go to Phuket to have a break from all the action

Same same in Japan!!

Gotta love the Asian persuasion!

Cheers,

Ashley