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05-08-2005, 22:11
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BMs with GFs/wives back home
How do you cope with single trips to thailand. How do you cope with her suspicions about what you`re up to?
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#2
05-08-2005, 23:46
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YOU can TAKE the GIRL out OF the BAR, but YOU can't TAKE the BAR out OF the GIRL !!!!
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09-08-2005, 04:49
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A good plan is all it takes
I do it all the time. I usually spend two weeks per year travelling alone. Got a job that involves a lot of travelling so while on my way home from HK, Tokyo, etc. I pop in for a quick visit to BKK. Other times I officially "go" on trips elsewhere such as one year when me and my buddies where skiing in Austria (it ws a pain in the ass though to drag skies all the way to LOS but it made for a good laugh at Don M when our skies came out on the luggage carousel). The ideas are endless and I usually travel to LOS during low season to avoid to good weather that will ruin the cover......
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09-08-2005, 05:14
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Maybe you have different fares, but from belgium, a one way trip is often more expensive than a round trip... don't know why. So I will get the second option.
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09-08-2005, 05:57
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I have a Thai ex-wife who is back living with me. I plan a holiday in Phuket for early September. Her take on it, which is a view I have warmed to, is that I can have a lady from the bar for a night because I am on holiday!
The downside is that if I spend more than one night with the same girl this will constitute a relationship, for which she will cut off my best mate and feed him to the ducks! 
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09-08-2005, 07:04
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Never knew ducks liked "spotted ****"
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09-08-2005, 07:15
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One more thing I still don't understand in Thai culture... so, if you are on holidays, you can bang another girl and she doesn't mind? Sure that if my GF did the same thing, I wouldn't take it so easy  Well, I have still many many things to learn... but good deal for you Steve 
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09-08-2005, 14:27
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Hey, I never mentioned spots...
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09-08-2005, 14:30
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her indoors
I don't make any big lies up really !
I just say I went to Thailand before we was together and you new I went when we first started going out so if it was a problem maybe you should have said something at the start ,. now iron my t shirts iam off to the land of sluts  Job done o yeah I bring her back a few tops /handbags etc that keeps her quiet she must no what us lads get up to out there she's watched Bangkok bound enough calling her from BGs mobiles at all times of the day must be a giveaway 
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09-08-2005, 14:40
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They are a funny breed Domi. I don't understand it myself I just take what I can get. I think being a little like Darbs helps, if you don't like it you know where the door is. I take care of business here though, and she does not have a bad life.
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10-08-2005, 10:56
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10-08-2005, 13:14
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Before i told her storys about where i go, but she find out and now after all these trouble i just tell her i need a time off.
She knows i go to thailand and what i probably do there... She just told me not to speak about it. She don`t want to know. In my hometown i am honest and don`t cheat her. On holiday with my mates i can do what i want (so can she, if she goes on holiday alone)... And i don`t want to know "same, same" what she does there. I know a lot of people think what we do is wrong and we wouldn`t love each other, but thats not true. Everytime i come back from LOS i am happy to see my wife again. For us this is better than make lies and all these crap.... But each to its own.. And yes we are married now since 8 years and i don`t want to break with my wife.... Hugo
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10-08-2005, 13:24
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I agree with you. Every lie will come out one day or an another.  It is always better you say the true. ...and I donīt think what you do is wrong
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10-08-2005, 13:40
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the big lie
This can allways be a tricky subject... I live in hawaii and work for a large hotel chain with hotels all over the world fortunatly...I occasionally have to make trips overseas ie europe ,south america,asia ect for a few day's........... but play it off for much longer...I am not won who has to be in daily contact with my gf when on these trips....and that is the key...My last two trips to los got a little tricky but planning is everything ...allways go for the big lie when boxed into a corner..it's the only way out .. best of luck
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10-08-2005, 20:47
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YOU can TAKE the GIRL out OF the BAR, but YOU can't TAKE the BAR out OF the GIRL !!!!
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#18
10-08-2005, 21:17
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And who appointed you as the conscience of the board?
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10-08-2005, 21:54
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Or was it Nanaplaza?
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11-08-2005, 02:26
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OK then, lets introduce some new terms to the board:
Doing a ''Richie'' - setting up as a new member under a different name  Doing an ''Imagine'' - bringing up very old threads  Doing a ''Nanaplaza'' - talking absolute nonsense Doing a ''Dude'' - getting banned.  The best that can happen is that someone does a ''Dawsey'' on the lot of them 
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#23
11-08-2005, 02:45
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Well said Gez, I love a good ruling. But what will the Chief Inspector say?
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