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19-08-2005, 19:54
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age gaps
just been thinking what sort of age gap do bm's think is ok between blokes and the bg's. personnaly i find it quite sickening to see a 65 year old man groping away on an 18 year old especially when the girls dont like to be part of public shows anyway. just wanted to get a few views on it.
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19-08-2005, 20:07
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just been thinking what sort of age gap do bm's think is ok between blokes and the bg's. personnaly i find it quite sickening to see a 65 year old man groping away on an 18 year old especially when the girls dont like to be part of public shows anyway. just wanted to get a few views on it.
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Maybe when you are 65 you will have a different point of view
My general rule is always go for something younger. I go for one night stands, so I'm not looking for a ''partner'' therefore 18 years old upwards. It is easy to mistake the age of some of these women especially when you have had a few drinks and you are in a dimly lit night club.
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19-08-2005, 20:07
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If you don't like what you see Liam, you can always look away.
I think many guys, myself included, go to Thailand in part because people there are not so judgemental on this sort of subject. Just because you get older does not mean young girls become less attractive.As far as I'm concerned, live and let live. If a girl is happy to hold hands with a bloke old enough to be her grandad it's none of my business.
Personally, I hear this '65yo bloke with 18yo girls sickens me' stuff quite a lot, and I have honestly never seen it. I'm not denying it exists, just that it is not as prevalent as people may think.
And before anyone starts, I've never been to Pattaya!

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19-08-2005, 20:16
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cheers diz but i read that but was wondering about the age gaps. i have no doubt that when your old young girls will still be attractive but just wanted to know when there is such a big gap in age say 35-40 years does it not make them feel a bit disgusted (probably too strong a word but cant think of the right one at the moment) when in fact they most probably have a granddoughter the same age or even older than the girl they are with.
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19-08-2005, 20:17
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Maybe when you are 65 you will have a different point of view
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It was exactly what I thought about, Gez 
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19-08-2005, 20:21
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This is not about age gap but about education. So you mean it is OK for young guys to fondle girls in public, but not for old ones, I find it sickening in general, even if the guy is 25.
I hate public shows, be them from 65 year olds or 20 year olds. I even don't like walking, or see them walking, hand in hand. I will never do it. I suppose I am getting old, but then even as a young guy I did not like it.
What I know is that in places I often come like Rock Hard all girls have no problem sitting or drinking with me as they now I don't touch them and only pay a drink. They even come to tell me that they don't like a customer, young or old, as he can't help keeping his hands home. I don't take advantage. I even pay barfine and go drinking with them (also in MTB), don't touch them and say byebye at the end of the evening (well, not to all).
I suppose if a girl let a guy grope her she expects to grope his wallet.
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19-08-2005, 20:23
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Liam, you don't look at your GF and think about your own children, or grandchildren I assume. You look at your GF and think 'wow', and when you stop thinking 'wow' you trade her for another one if you can.
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19-08-2005, 20:25
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Great post Captain, says it all.

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19-08-2005, 21:18
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What do i think of 65 year olds with 18 year old girls....I think they're LEGENDS!! Your looking at it from a young mans point of view Liam. If you come to LOS when your 65, i expect you'll be doing exactly the same. Your only as old as you feel, and if the older generation want to spend time with an 18y/o who in return wants to spend time with them (whether it be money orientated or not) then so be it.
Like its already been mentioned, I always look at LOS as being as place where your not judged. We are all out there to have fun.
What do the girls think about it? Well i've spoke to quite a few girls who said they prefered older men because they take care of them better. Maybe some girls are attacted to the older man, maybe they are just in it for the money, but aslong as its good fun between two consenting adults/OAPS then who cares?
Live and let live.
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19-08-2005, 22:36
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Personally, I hear this '65yo bloke with 18yo girls sickens me' stuff quite a lot, and I have honestly never seen it. I'm not denying it exists, just that it is not as prevalent as people may think.
And before anyone starts, I've never been to Pattaya!

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55555555 You've just reminded me of the first night I had in Pats. As I left the hotel a guy (probably about 80), was being helped up the steps by a TG (probably 18). Never saw him again. 
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19-08-2005, 22:46
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Like its already been mentioned, I always look at LOS as being as place where your not judged. We are all out there to have fun.
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Shouldn't that be - Your only as old as the girl you r feel ing

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19-08-2005, 22:56
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1 word... envious... i wish i could do that when i am 65yrs old 
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19-08-2005, 23:07
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 shouldnt that be... we are in los for a hard-on time ?! 
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19-08-2005, 23:09
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What is the difference between 45 and 65? If the girls should live on youngsters of their age, pattaya and Phuket would be empty!
So at what age it is sickening? 30, 40, 50 etc?
My father was 24 years older then my mother, and they were both happy with the situation. My mother was a judge! So she even did not need my fathers money!
You know what is sickening and even more injustice done, that we ARE GETTING OLD. We did not ask for that either.
So it is a give and take! We have to live with the idea we do not look like we would it anymore, they that they have to fuc* older men, from whatever age!
They get their money, we still some fun. But we stay old anyway!
Just what, not everything is idealistic in the world! Better to go with an old man, then to starve like they do in some countries!
And, you know even once and a while, these girls have some fun! 
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19-08-2005, 23:29
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I don't feel old (yet), except in the morning after a night of boozing...
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19-08-2005, 23:35
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all i think he was asking the original poster, was what you think is suitable. as a 33 yr old man, i can say now, should not be more than 10 years, but thats for me. when i get older i am sure i will change my mind,
but if you are talking about a serious relationship, i think there will usually be a bigger chance of success with a smaller age gap. again, there are exceptions to that. but if i was to get serious i would comfortable with 10-15 yr difference, not much more
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Shouldn't that be - Your only as old as the girl you r feel ing

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Or in your case :
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20-08-2005, 00:12
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20-08-2005, 00:13
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I was thinking what most of you were, first I don't care about public display..but I've been known to get mao and loose my senses...so what.
Second, when I have seen this I think lucky bastard...we should all be so lucky as to be able to expeirence a young woman when we become part of the over 60 crowd...hell you lucky to even reach 60 with most of our habits.
Just let go of what you think is right and let be what is, thailand is a wonderful place because of the way of looking at things...Don't forget..your not at home anymore when your in los.
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20-08-2005, 00:13
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55555555 You've just reminded me of the first night I had in Pats. As I left the hotel a guy (probably about 80), was being helped up the steps by a TG (probably 18). Never saw him again. 
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20-08-2005, 00:47
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I'm 30, but still highly fashionable, so I consider myself young
I thought it was really cool to see the older guys still walking around with hotties, it encouraged me that I will be able to find cute 18-30 year olds for boom boom for the rest of my life, and certainly changed my perspective on marriage (still single, thanks LOS likely stay that way). Anyhow, the two topics up for discussion:
1) Public displays of affection - not cool, specially with some chick you just met- but actually, sometimes think it's sexy in the confines of a gogo to see some heavy petting *voyeur alert* - holding hands? meh, seems ok
2) I feel more of a reaction from seeing a fat, gross 30 year old with a hot 18 year old than a fit 50 year old with the same girl- I think it's a normal reaction to be somewhat taken aback by gross differences in attractiveness, but I don't judge- I think, congratulations, that's what LOS is for. LOL
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Met of zonder kater? 
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age, so called gap?
as far as im concerned, in this discussion/thread, the only age gap problem lies in the age gap between the board-members on here!
some of us are 50-plus(me included) and some of us are 20 !this is a huge range of us members to all "gel"together!
when you are 20you are ---mere boys who know jack-shit (omho)to us old farts its vertually impossible to relate to a 20 year old(young)and conversly vis- a -versa
having said that i see only joy when an old man walks/limps by-- with a young lady on his arm ,good luck to him --do i get a red star ?
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