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Old 02-10-2005, 14:34
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how do you deal with the embrassment when you are with one girl when a different girl whom you were with from previous nights calls you on the phone?

yes i know girls do it all the time in front of us, even talking to boyfriends as if it's nothing unusual, but i don't believe the same logic could be accepted by them.

so what do you tell them?
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Old 02-10-2005, 15:43
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How do they know it's another girl? And why let them have your 'phone number if it's likely to cause you problems?

If my phone rings when I am in a bar I excuse myself and step outside to take the call. If anyone asks who called just say 'business' and leave it at that.

My girl at home used to root through my text messages and call register all the time and get into a terrible hissy fit when she found anything she did not like. I would just shrug my shoulders and say 'if you don't want to know don't look'

It might be a bit tricky if you are in bed though.
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Old 02-10-2005, 16:51
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how do you deal with the embrassment when you are with one girl when a different girl whom you were with from previous nights calls you on the phone?

yes i know girls do it all the time in front of us, even talking to boyfriends as if it's nothing unusual, but i don't believe the same logic could be accepted by them.

so what do you tell them?

I just say its an old friend. So i don`t tell a lie to her.
No need to look for an apology.
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Old 02-10-2005, 23:42
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since getting so much shoit from these docile little thai girls(complete bull**it!) i have taken a stance that i will tell them whatever im up to. if one asks me if the other one called me, i tell her yes, and tell when the last time was.
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how do you deal with the embrassment when you are with one girl when a different girl whom you were with from previous nights calls you on the phone?

yes i know girls do it all the time in front of us, even talking to boyfriends as if it's nothing unusual, but i don't believe the same logic could be accepted by them.

so what do you tell them?

Not sure if other Bm's will agree with me on this but this question has arose here before.

Simply don't give out your contact details to any bg. I don't and therefore don't have this problem.

''Can I have your phone number tirak?'' NO
''Can I have your email tirak?'' NO
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Old 03-10-2005, 03:04
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Not sure if other Bm's will agree with me on this but this question has arose here before.

Simply don't give out your contact details to any bg. I don't and therefore don't have this problem.

''Can I have your phone number tirak?'' NO
''Can I have your email tirak?'' NO

good advice. but sometimes i am lazy and just want to call someone. And i only give my thai number. (which changes every holiday)
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how do you deal with the embrassment when you are with one girl when a different girl whom you were with from previous nights calls you on the phone?

yes i know girls do it all the time in front of us, even talking to boyfriends as if it's nothing unusual, but i don't believe the same logic could be accepted by them.

so what do you tell them?

Easy......just say "You must have the wrong number"..........hang up.....turn the phone off.
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Ok.. well personally I have no problem if one BG calls while I am with another BG.. So what ?? theres no cliams of exclusivity on either of us and so I talk to who I damn well please..

That said, I have a LT GF and thats a bit different.. Sure Girls call and talk but she gets crazy jealous.. So in the interests of a happy home I take some defensive measure.. Let me show you how a pro does it.. So without further ado here is how to use a chick sim..

First buy yourself a Ghost sim like this (read the instructions)..

http://cgi.ebay.com/Twin-Dual-Double... cmdZViewItem

Set up 2 sims inside your phone.. Can help to use 2 providers like AIS and DTAC that way its clear on the screen which one it is (as it deiplays network name) and you dont screw up.. also you might want to pin protect the b1tch sim if you have a nosey GF that plays with your phone while your in the shower etc...

So now you have 2 lines.. Normal life line and chick line..

They both cant be active at once so what you do is set up a standard GSM forwarding code when you want..

http://www.geckobeach.com/cellular/secrets/gsmcodes.asp

So by going into the chick sim (the best ghost sims now do this through a simple menu option) and setting *21*[My normal number]# it sets a redirect.. Using cancel and retain #21# and resestablish *21# network codes you can simply and easily set the redirect from chick number active or not (send to voicemail).. Of course if your memory is no good you can store these codes in the sim card memore as 'divert active' 'divert deactivate' etc (in that case use the full long code GSM to clear and store full number instead of the shortcut reestablish codes)..

So now you have a second chick line that turns on and off at will.. The only other things to remember is to A) always store the girls you meet onto the chick sim not your phone memory.. B) always turn the phone onto the chick sim prior to calling a chick then return it to the 'home' sim after the call..

It really is simple and effective.. You have a 'private' phone book.. You have a private line for outgoing calls, you have a second line active when you want only for incoming calls.. I just turn 'Chicks on' as I leave the house and 'Chicks off' when I return home.. Simple and effective..

The only thing I have not solved is redirection of SMS's.. Shame but never mind can live without that..

Does this officially make me the Don ??? !!!
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Forgot to mention.. the newest ghost sims have an option to auto switch between lines every xxx amount of minutes for xxx amount of minutes.. This is a way to sort of use 2 lines at once.. I dont like this as it uses more battery (searching for network) and people would get a lot of unreachable messages.. Plus it would be hard to know what line was active at once..

However IF you set one to every 3 hours go on the other line for 2 mins I am guessing that it would collect your SMS's for you.. The ghost sim I use is a generation older and this feature is noit available.. I will nab a new one from HK and report..
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Ok.. well personally I have no problem if one BG calls while I am with another BG.. So what ?? theres no cliams of exclusivity on either of us and so I talk to who I damn well please..

That said, I have a LT GF and thats a bit different.. Sure Girls call and talk but she gets crazy jealous.. So in the interests of a happy home I take some defensive measure.. Let me show you how a pro does it.. So without further ado here is how to use a chick sim..

First buy yourself a Ghost sim like this (read the instructions)..

http://cgi.ebay.com/Twin-Dual-Double... cmdZViewItem

Set up 2 sims inside your phone.. Can help to use 2 providers like AIS and DTAC that way its clear on the screen which one it is (as it deiplays network name) and you dont screw up.. also you might want to pin protect the b1tch sim if you have a nosey GF that plays with your phone while your in the shower etc...

So now you have 2 lines.. Normal life line and chick line..

They both cant be active at once so what you do is set up a standard GSM forwarding code when you want..

http://www.geckobeach.com/cellular/secrets/gsmcodes.asp

So by going into the chick sim (the best ghost sims now do this through a simple menu option) and setting *21*[My normal number]# it sets a redirect.. Using cancel and retain #21# and resestablish *21# network codes you can simply and easily set the redirect from chick number active or not (send to voicemail).. Of course if your memory is no good you can store these codes in the sim card memore as 'divert active' 'divert deactivate' etc (in that case use the full long code GSM to clear and store full number instead of the shortcut reestablish codes)..

So now you have a second chick line that turns on and off at will.. The only other things to remember is to A) always store the girls you meet onto the chick sim not your phone memory.. B) always turn the phone onto the chick sim prior to calling a chick then return it to the 'home' sim after the call..

It really is simple and effective.. You have a 'private' phone book.. You have a private line for outgoing calls, you have a second line active when you want only for incoming calls.. I just turn 'Chicks on' as I leave the house and 'Chicks off' when I return home.. Simple and effective..

The only thing I have not solved is redirection of SMS's.. Shame but never mind can live without that..

Does this officially make me the Don ??? !!!

Did you get that gear from Miss Moneypenny or what?
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Old 03-10-2005, 14:17
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Nope ebay actually..

Anything that keeps me one step ahead of the bamboo network is good..
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lol - u sly fox :P

I never give out my number anymore - learnt from that mistake a long time ago. Didn't get hassle from girls i was with when i got a call as such (just told 'em I can talk to who the fk i like ) but I could not get any sleep with my phone ringing at 3-4am every night as the girls came up short on a customer for the night!
that and just general calling ALL THE TIME like 10-20 times a day, "what do u want I would say"......I miss you / want to hear your voice / prove to my friend I know u and so on....

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Nope ebay actually..

Anything that keeps me one step ahead of the bamboo network is good..

Damn I always thought you were a smart bastard, now I can see your a smooth operator

I think this is really a matter of who and what your dealing with, its situational...as LivinLOs is in a different situation and I can understand keeping the peace aka saving face, but if its just a girl who knows your just another punter then it shouldn't pose a problem...being upfront I think keeps em keen....Seems to me the more you treat them like a real GF the worse things get...but hey it all depends on your situation....when it doupt deny.
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how do you deal with the embrassment when you are with one girl when a different girl whom you were with from previous nights calls you on the phone?

yes i know girls do it all the time in front of us, even talking to boyfriends as if it's nothing unusual, but i don't believe the same logic could be accepted by them.

so what do you tell them?
I just turn my phone on a few times a day to see if I have missed any calls or receive any texts that might be in the system. As for the girls phones, I just ask them politely to switch them off!
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on the subject of phones .I know its probaly been posted a 100 times .If I take my phone from aus, the sim cards you by in patong once you put them in ,does that mean you get a new number just for los and you can load in any amount of call credit you like..Im only there for 3 weeks but like to be able to make local calls in los ..I have never worried about it before I wasnt sure how they worked ...Floppy,,, sorry if its a dumb question..
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Thats about the gist of it yeah..

Standard GSM phone + thai pay as you go = thai number..
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how do you deal with the embrassment when you are with one girl when a different girl whom you were with from previous nights calls you on the phone?

yes i know girls do it all the time in front of us, even talking to boyfriends as if it's nothing unusual, but i don't believe the same logic could be accepted by them.

so what do you tell them?

as the guys said previous,,i never give out my number,,but normally take theirs?one night when alone and fancy some play,,into the adress book i go,,bingo,,everyones a winner!!!
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I have never actually owned a mobile phone and I am probably the only person in the UK never to have one, although I did once hear about a 82 year old man living on the Isle of Skye who also never bothered with these damn disruptive things. (I think his name was Fred)

So when asked for my number I always laugh when I tell them I don't have a phone...the looks of bemusement from the girls that somebody doesn't actually want one makes me smile. I tell them ''I have a TOT card & I'll phone you''

If anyone does need to contact me while I stay in Patong, you can reach me on 0 76 3470 42 which is a small telephone box on Nanai rd which smells of wee. It is within spitting distance of my usual hotel, i usually listen out for it to ring, please ring 3 times for 5 seconds each time before finally ringing agan until I pick up...(so I know it's you) Thanks
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I have never actually owned a mobile phone and I am probably the only person in the UK never to have one, although I did once hear about a 82 year old man living on the Isle of Skye who also never bothered with these damn disruptive things. (I think his name was Fred)

So when asked for my number I always laugh when I tell them I don't have a phone...the looks of bemusement from the girls that somebody doesn't actually want one makes me smile. I tell them ''I have a TOT card & I'll phone you''

If anyone does need to contact me while I stay in Patong, you can reach me on 0 76 3470 42 which is a small telephone box on Nanai rd which smells of wee. It is within spitting distance of my usual hotel, i usually listen out for it to ring, please ring 3 times for 5 seconds each time before finally ringing agan until I pick up...(so I know it's you) Thanks
You didn't pick up! I could smell the wee through the phone though!! Phew!!
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You didn't pick up! I could smell the wee through the phone though!! Phew!!

I'm not in patong right now, but I do have a personal secretary that answers my calls while I'm away.

She is a ladyboy, 6'3'' tall, of muscular apperance, has a slight moustache and goes by the name of frank.
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I'm not in patong right now, but I do have a personal secretary that answers my calls while I'm away.

She is a ladyboy, 6'3'' tall, of muscular apperance, has a slight moustache and goes by the name of frank.
I think I've met Frank, Butterflyblonde. Slight moustache and over 6' - Here she is on her bloody phone again taking more of your un-ending calls. Not sure of that Jello LB wrestling will ever take off but you may just have something!
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