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Old 16-01-2006, 07:26
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John Here for Australia

After my wife left me for a ounger enlgish backpackerafter 16 years together,I decided live out my fantasy of visiting thailand and Phuket.

Well all ican say is I can not wait to shat the englishmans hand.

It was the best time of my life.

I now have joinedmAsia friend finder to find a beauitufl thaibride. Not a bar girl even thought they are all beautiful.

have met a most beautiful lady ,and will visit her im March.

But she asked that when i meet her to give her a ring ?

I have seen something about this posted berfore, can anyone give me advice ?
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Old 16-01-2006, 07:31
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But she asked that when i meet her to give her a ring ?


Of course you should give her a ring......how else is she going to pick u up from the airport !

Seriously be careful sometimes those "non-bargirls" can be the most dangerous, and by asking for a ring straight away the alarm bells would be ringing in my head..........l suggest u get 2 know her b4 u start forking out $$$$$.....maybe a hello gift is more appropriate at this stage.
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I second that, be very careful. If you say or promise anything, you will be expected to keep your word. Things are taken very literally, and not sometimes as is the case with us Aussie's in jest.
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did you want to shiyt in the english mans hans or shake it ?
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Old 16-01-2006, 10:38
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did you want to shiyt in the english mans hans or shake it ?

Boy, the spelling could sure improve in this thread......am l the only one that's posts whilst sober ?
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Old 16-01-2006, 10:48
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After my wife left me for a ounger enlgish backpackerafter 16 years together,I decided live out my fantasy of visiting thailand and Phuket.

Well all ican say is I can not wait to shat the englishmans hand

The very first thing you should do, and the most important thing,....is to,
get a photo of you and your new asian queen sitting on patong beach with sun going down........and then send a few copys to your old girl friend.
But dont write anything, the photos will do just fine.


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Old 16-01-2006, 17:48
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you will thank the ex

thank your ex, mate when you look at the beauty of the girls in los.

justing seconding what the other BMs said be very careful.
if your girl is asking for a ring already and not from the airport be careful
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Old 17-01-2006, 17:59
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be careful the moment they say you must respect thai tradition and pay sinsord run like hell
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I would suggest trying to get over to LOS first before meeting her. See what life is like first before getting involved and of course there's no guarantee that the girl is actually a "clean living" girl anyway. She could very easily be a bar girl looking for a way out, so don't believe that going through a dating agency/website means you're going to get someone pure
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Old 17-01-2006, 19:25
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at the airport about to go to los from oz, there was a tg struggling with her suitcase so i carried it up to the check in for her.

she smiled thanked me (bg alert signal 1, diamonds in teeth)

bg alert 2 asked if i was travelling alone and where to in los.

bg alert 3 asked if we could change seats to sit with each,because she is nervous to fly.

good trip nice girl to talk to 37 years and small shop in the udon.

saw her in patong she was in harness very quickly with a farang at a bangla bar.

no problem, but about 7 weeks later saw her on a chat room for a thai dating agency, i clicked on her to chat, and she quickly went off line.

so one case of bg trying her luck on dating sites.
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Hi All

John Here for Australia

After my wife left me for a ounger enlgish backpackerafter 16 years together,I decided live out my fantasy of visiting thailand and Phuket.

Well all ican say is I can not wait to shat the englishmans hand.

It was the best time of my life.

I now have joinedmAsia friend finder to find a beauitufl thaibride. Not a bar girl even thought they are all beautiful.

have met a most beautiful lady ,and will visit her im March.

But she asked that when i meet her to give her a ring ?

I have seen something about this posted berfore, can anyone give me advice ?

How can you make a commitment like that without spending any time together? Sounds like her motives for this may be a little different than yours.
I would ask her to forget about the ring for a while and allow for some introduction time, if she refuses move on. Your feeling really bent about the wife and that is to be expected but brighter days are ahead my friend. Millions of gorgeous women out there, get out there and enjoy yourself.
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Old 17-01-2006, 23:49
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Stay cool man

How naive can a paleface male from the " rich " world be.
Stay in the kingdom for a while as a polite and high spending guest
then look around and make up your mind
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Classic...
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How naive can a paleface male from the " rich " world be.
Stay in the kingdom for a while as a polite and high spending guest
then look around and make up your mind

Couldnīt agree more... why such a hurry? Go to LOS first, walk around, smell it, taste it.
Maybe then itīs time to make up your mind. But donīt commit already now.
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I would suggest trying to get over to LOS first before meeting her. See what life is like first before getting involved and of course there's no guarantee that the girl is actually a "clean living" girl anyway. She could very easily be a bar girl looking for a way out, so don't believe that going through a dating agency/website means you're going to get someone pure
hi milch.get your own opinion of los and then make up your mind.listen as far as I am concerned Diz is a wise guy,so take is adivice
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I also sugest to have a pic along with your future thai lady taken,send it to your fomer wife,and tell her to thank her english boyfriend.
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Can anybody help me? i had same situation but at my last day in LOS. After being at her home and on the way back to my hotel by taxi, she suddendly told the driver to stop at a jewelery shop. she asked to buy her a ring. ok, as i allreasy heard it the girls ask for instead giving money to them , i agreed. in the shop she spoke to the staff and the lady showed us some rings. i am not a complete fool, maybe 90%, but i know what means to give a ring of gold to a girl in our culture, but i still thougt its different there. i got irritated as the staff gave us to rings, one for her and one for me. that was the time my stomach started to rumble. i told her to buy only a ring for her because have not enough money left in my pocket. after a short smile she agreed.
I told it my friend coming back to the hotel and told me to take it easy, lately next day she sells it back to shop.

BUT NOW THE SITUATION: i am still in contact with this girl and i am going to see her again asap going back to LOS. and what makes me more nervous is that she still has the ring, as i saw it many time meeting her in the internet over the cam.

Any advice of the bmīs?
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Old 22-01-2006, 15:14
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sorry for the typoīs , but get really nervous thinking about that!

am i running into shit? thanks for any advice
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Can anybody help me? i had same situation but at my last day in LOS. After being at her home and on the way back to my hotel by taxi, she suddendly told the driver to stop at a jewelery shop. she asked to buy her a ring. ok, as i allreasy heard it the girls ask for instead giving money to them , i agreed. in the shop she spoke to the staff and the lady showed us some rings. i am not a complete fool, maybe 90%, but i know what means to give a ring of gold to a girl in our culture, but i still thougt its different there. i got irritated as the staff gave us to rings, one for her and one for me. that was the time my stomach started to rumble. i told her to buy only a ring for her because have not enough money left in my pocket. after a short smile she agreed.
I told it my friend coming back to the hotel and told me to take it easy, lately next day she sells it back to shop.

BUT NOW THE SITUATION: i am still in contact with this girl and i am going to see her again asap going back to LOS. and what makes me more nervous is that she still has the ring, as i saw it many time meeting her in the internet over the cam.

Any advice of the bmīs?


They dont just immediately chop it back in.. Gold is a store of wealth, like having a bank account etc.. They know its money in the bank and they also know the gold price has risen and so holding it is no bad thing..

The fact she marched you into a gold shop without your permission or knowledge (at least discussion) strikes me as being funny tho.. Girls trying that wouldnt get a chance personally..
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thank you livinglos, but what can i do to cool the thing down without the risk for her losing her face? and as i am probably the biggest fool in town, i developed strong feelings for her. calling her sometimes, lets say not more than 5-7 times a week. but been divorced only just 4 month ago i would like to turn the wheel more slowly.
1. am i allways in the trap?
2. is my new residence somewhere in the middle of nowhere of LOS,
no not the isaan
3. my new profession at the paddyfields , washing the water buffolo, feeding it,
and finally give it a kiss at the **** for sleep, so the buffolo feels allways
well? yes, iīve heard the stories about how expensive it is if it get
sick!

thanks for any advice

did i mentioned i am a 42 year old adult, feeling like four now, not knowing what happens
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