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10-04-2008, 22:12
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Help Im Depreszsed
just got back from karon beach after nine months
my gf is making up for lost time on the bar england in cold and really boring im skint need a job need to stop thinking about bar girl i ended up staying with for 8 nmonths any advice PLEASE 
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#2
10-04-2008, 22:16
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welcome to the club!!!!, ,,,,,spent 1/2 the day at work here looking at flights, didnt press the button yet..........the best thing to do is get a ride!!! 
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10-04-2008, 22:23
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Yeah cheers its a rite bugger i promised myself i d never get involved with someone out there, i mean i spred the loving out a bit but now im missing a bargirl think ive turned into a nutter
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10-04-2008, 22:25
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8 months is a long time, just concentrate on what you need to do to get back out there, works for me.
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10-04-2008, 22:30
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yeah good advice she s actually a top lass never pais all the time i was with her, well after the first week she paid for half of everything and even bought my bike of me when i came back she s dead honest about what she does, think id prefer it if she lied she really does seem different if i can get over the hole job thing which is daft cos i take girls from bars all the time which makes me just as bad as them i know everyone says there gf different but after 8 months and living out there for nearly year its not like im a two week thailand expert
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11-04-2008, 00:26
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Life would be boring if you wouldn't think that all you do or the people you share it all with wouldn't be different! As they all say, it's only you who can make a difference in your life, right?:-)
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Last edited by ub2yoo : 11-04-2008 at 00:29.
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11-04-2008, 00:31
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i ve paid for worse advice than that cheers
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11-04-2008, 00:37
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Don't need to pay for that, although it was a real honest reply really. You mentioned the word "but it's different" a couple of times, so I say YES, if you feel it's different, go for it, no advise from my side ... different is different, if you're happy with it, all good, unless you have doubts of cause.
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Last edited by ub2yoo : 11-04-2008 at 00:39.
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11-04-2008, 00:50
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doubts are i never thought id get involved with a bargirl one or two nights always did me, untill i met her with her 2 months on and off then 5 solid everyday feel like my right nut has been chopped of the fact shes now sleeping with customers again does nt bother me that much(course it does but not that much)(i know why she s doing it and i understand) but actually im just really missing her funny thing is i used to tell all my mates they were nuts staying with a bar girl
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11-04-2008, 00:54
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well, i actually think you are doing the right thing in being secure in what she does i think too many people that rush into sponsoring without knowing the person and i think the grinding in your stomach you feel right now by her working in the bar will reduce by the day
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11-04-2008, 00:59
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cheers good stuff id never sponser a girl, not a chance, one needs to save up for there next trip fact is she pays for everything herself even helped me out with my flight home she says she wants to work hard and save up and come to england to see me, (work hard, how messed up does that sound)
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11-04-2008, 01:11
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She wouldn't be a cashier by any chance........ would she ???
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11-04-2008, 01:31
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hey i never said that she was nt a working girl she works her tits off i know she s a popular girl with the customers and i can remember my first night with her, she s pretty accommodating i ve said i can get over that but i am actually just missing her, mental i know, its just mental to think of a girl working hard(on the bar)to save up and come and see you, just wondered if anyone had any tips or advice for getting over, prob a big slap round my chops would help
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11-04-2008, 01:51
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Yeah, take it easy buddy, chill, we're just helping;-) Last edited by ub2yoo : 11-04-2008 at 01:53.
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11-04-2008, 01:53
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just go back to enjoying your real life doesnt sound like you are too flush get a good job
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15-04-2008, 21:01
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Sounds like you have met a great girl,that's what it's all about to meet someone you can have a good time with, the fact that she is still working should at least tell you that she's being genuine with you.
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16-04-2008, 02:12
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Good post Lazer, sounds liked you've got thailand sussed!!!!! Whoops is this not the reality thread????? sorry!!
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17-04-2008, 14:21
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yep been going for years, now married to a beautiful thai girl and have a 17 month old son, met her in patong and now lives with me in the isle of man.she now has more thai friends than i have local ones and has a great life.
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18-04-2008, 07:02
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Lazer i think we met over in november. My girlfriend was a friend of your wife.
Are you the guy who works at the airport on the Isle of Man? Forgot your name though 
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18-04-2008, 07:46
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So I know how hard it is to get back to the reality of working everyday, and not having your little brown lovebug there when you roll over in bed at night! Fortunately for me, I broke up with my BGF 5 days before I left LOS, so I don't have the added pain of missing her. But the hard fact is that you are in England, not LOS, and there you'll be for quite some time, by the looks of things. If you are really crazy about the girl, then start making plans to import her. You have to decide whether it is really the girl, or the easy life in LOS with a girl, that you are missing! If it is the girl, then bring her over! IF not, move on with your life, saving $ for you next tour, and next girl. There will always be another to take her place, you know!
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07-06-2008, 04:58
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Thinking loudly
Man, it seems that you're really hooked up.
I know that when feelings are involved, it's really difficult to manage that kind of story. And that you wanna hear from others what you would like to hear. I mean, for that kind of story no one can tell you what to do, cause every story is different for everybody. The only advice that people would give you is: "be careful" Mostly if she a bg. But then, you also have a lot of happy ending stories with farangs who marry bg and that live happily. So either take your chance, or live it. But take your time mate.
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