 |
|
|
#1
04-05-2005, 22:23
|
|||
|
|||
|
Chatbabes...your experience?
Hi,
I'm from Austria in good old Europe  and big thailand-maniac since first visit last year.So I started to find out an place where people share the same interests - and now being really happy that this forum exist! Hope it's ok when I get in the forum with " asking for your help/long experience": After my los-trip last summer (where I had only bg) I searched in the www for something else and got over facepic (now the profiles seems to have moved to faceparty?) in closer contact with 3 thai-girls (age 22+28) from bangkok. We are chatting, they call me sometimes and telling me "miss you, will be your gf when you visit...". I just would like to know what kind of experiences you've made with "these kind of thaibabes". Are they really willing to meet and is it possible to have real-fun or serious relationship with them or are things like these just a waste of time and money, because they are playing with me in the same way as with 50 other guys else? Thanks Anton Last edited by anthonysome : 04-05-2005 at 22:27. 
|
| Guest Info |
|
+:+:+ Forum Headquarter +:+:+ |
|
#2
05-05-2005, 00:05
|
||||
|
||||
|
Just be careful and don't get too drawn in. I personally don't have anything got to do with BG's and probably never will but from reading through various message boards I would say be very careful as they can come across as great actresses.
|
|
#4
05-05-2005, 08:28
|
||||
|
||||
DUDE you are wasting your time with these girls. I met one back in 2003 on worldmatch or was it yahoo, that use to call me at night to say "good night sweet dreams", bah, bah, bah. Then we became boyfriend/girlfriend. Sometimes we would chat online & she would get mad at something i said, at first i was thinking that she misunderstood what i had said but in the end it was her way of getting me in & keeping me on her hook. When it came time to meet her in Bangkok we only spent a few days together, my gut feeling was that something was not right, i asked when we would meet her family & friends & got no reply from her about this. I was a fool, it was my first trip overseas, i had beleaved that i had found love & i got her a 24crt gold chain from China town (15,000baht) & she asked to keep the sale's docket which i let her keep, then i get a call from her 2 days later about 11:30pm saying that she lost it. I knew right away what she had done, but she still had me hooked
 but she didn't want to spend any time with me, so one phone call & it was over & i started hanging out at a beer bar met a bar girl there and had fun for the rest of the trip. I went on www.faceparty.com a few months ago & was checking out some chicks from the Philippines and started chatting to one that was asking me for money after 10 minutes, i went along with it she even gave me her bank account details before i pissed her off. Another one was so hot & i was chatting to her for a while and then one day she had her web cam looking at her short skirt  loved the view then she asked me for money. Be careful about there age also i think the last one i was chatting to wasn't 20 y/o looked much younger.Look the bottom line is you are a fool to fall for these women, i was a fool & got hurt big time, so stick with the bar girls, don't spend more than 2 days with the same one or you will fall in love with them (read my thread "same old story") like i did spent 10 days with one in Bangkok and was coming back to see her this year to ask her to marry me, then a few weeks ago i get an email from her asking for 20,000baht coz her clothing shop is not doing well, that's left me fcuked up & confused about what the hell am i doing, but i have had some good advice from board member here, but i still fell lost about my feeling for this girl. But i know that once i get to Phuket i will forget about her & party hard this year, do the same Anthonysome & forget about these chat girls. Sorry guys i took there photos off, best for me just to forget about them and finally move on. Last edited by too cool : 05-05-2005 at 20:55.
|
|
#6
05-05-2005, 09:16
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
Good stories and good advice. That was a really tough way to start out your first trip, getting ripped off for the costly gold chain. You sound like a good guy, with a trusting heart, and that makes it so easy to fall into the trap. The 20,000 Bht for the clothing shop is hard, too, since you obviously felt real love for that girl. I don't think that all TGs are mercenaries in the struggle to find love in this cold world of ours. I think that there are some good ones out there, too. But trying to separate the wheat from the chaff is a job that, unfortunately, many of us are not well-equipped to do. I think that it all goes back to the advice that the most experienced BMs here will give you: you either have to be willing to A) take the girl with you, B) move to Thailand for a good portion of the year, if not year-round, or C) be well-prepared for seeing your money go bye-bye, and getting a broken heart to boot, if you trust your heart and go the sponsor route. Anyone who goes option C had better be well-heeled enough that the money means nothing to him, because that route is a big gamble with odds heavily stacked against you. Most, if not all, will come up losers in that game. So I can well understand why someone with your experience would adhere to the 2-day rule. However, that has never worked long for me. Maybe because I usually spend over a month, and last tour was there for nearly 3 months. Being a butterfly really can get to you once in a while, and then it is great to find someone you enjoy spending your time with, and really getting to know her better. You might fall in love, and you might have a lot of heartache to leave her behind. But that is a chance I am willing to take. For me, it is a matter of "I'll cross that bridge when I come to it." I am a firm believer in the verse that says,"Tis better to have loved and lost, Than never to have loved at all." E.Barrett Browning, IINM. And some will say that it is unfair to the girl, because she will fall in love with you, and then you leave her. I say, then be careful not to to make promises or tell a girl you love her, if you are not willing to back it up. Given that precaution, I don't think it is unfair at all. Because she is much better to spend the time with one man, and to share warm feelings with him, and make steady pay, than to go out to the bar every night, not knowing where she will sleep that night, who she will sleep with, or how he will treat her. She may end up right back where she started after you leave, but for some period of time, there will be some stability in her life. And if she forms relationships with several men, each of whom comes to spend a a few weeks here, a few weeks or a month there, again and again, then her life has a little predictability and it is not quite so much like she is being a wh*re, but a little more like a kept woman, except that she is kept by several men instead of one. And if you get lucky, who knows? I say, "Give love a chance." But, as in any game of chance, you can win big, or lose big. So when playing the game, it is best to keep a firm grasp on your wallet! JayBee 
__________________
LOS is warm, soft, smooth, and brown. 
Last edited by JayBee : 05-05-2005 at 09:33.
|
|
#7
05-05-2005, 13:11
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quite a few of my mates use AsianEuro, Thailandfriends, BKKChat etc etc to find hookups.. They are only looking for a laugh and make contacts with girls looking for farang boyfriends or booty calls..
The idea of asking someone to marry you after 10 days and knowing the girl before rips you off.. Why would you do that shit ?? take it slow.. There are some real gems out there but you dont meet (many) of them in Cowboy / Nana / Pong / Etc..
__________________
Men have only 2 emotional states, hungry and horny.. So ladies, if you see me without an erection, make me a sandwich.
|
|
#8
05-05-2005, 16:03
|
|||
|
|||
|
@too cool
Your story really sounds hard. But maybe everybody of us has to make this kind of experience... "My" 3 girls should be no bg. 2 are students and 1 is working as receptionist in the middle of bkk. Dont know why, but I believe them. Also thanks for the pics. Cant see one of mine and would say that the girl on the second pic (with the red shirt) is bg. She looks too friendly to be a nice girl.... Maybe we should create a site, where we post pics of all the fake-girls from facepic, faceparty and sites like these to help us avoiding bi mistakes. Or is there still a page like this? Anyway- here are some information of "my" girls- when somebody thinks that he could know one of this babes please let me know. You can contact me also over pm. I will send you the pics then. No.1: 22 years, student, from bkk, long black hair, very slim figure (165cm+42 kg), forgot her facepic-username, but she calls herself "cutebaby", nickname is nok, at first she was little bit shy, but after a while starting me showing a lot of things on webcam ...C-:, hotmail-adress No.1:26 years, student, from bkk, long black hair, slim figure (160cm+43 kg), nickname on, still shy, yahoo-adress No.3: 28 years, receptionist, from bkk, long black hait, medium figure (160cm+45kg), calls herself also "cutegirl/baby")...., hotmail-adress Many thanks for your help! Anton
|
|
#9
05-05-2005, 17:48
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
ha ha ha Pic one is a girl who looks topless in see through knickers and pic three is in her Bra.. and the middle on is 'too nice' not to be a BG... Cant say I agree with your logic.. Just bear this in mind.. One of my (sicker) friends is larking about, puts a pic of some Thai bird online and starts talking in tinglish on a chat room.. really over the top pretend thai... The joke went too far when he told some fella to send him money and he was going too.. As the T Shirt on TShirtHell.com says "I was that teeange girl you wanked over in the chatroom" !!!
__________________
Men have only 2 emotional states, hungry and horny.. So ladies, if you see me without an erection, make me a sandwich.
|
|
#10
05-05-2005, 21:58
|
||||
|
||||
|
Bottom line is i was a fool for thinking that i could find someone on the net, she sucked me in and got what she wanted.And i was a fool for thinking that after 10 day i had found true love with the girl i was with last year, i was waiting for that phone call or email asking me for money & when i did happen i was hurt. I am a good guy, with a trusting heart, thats my mistake & these girl can see that and take me for a ride, so i have to change on this trip or it will happen again. All this has left me a bit jaded & somewhat wiser, i hope. Maybe this is why some guys treat the girls so bad, who know. But that not the kind of person i am...yet.
|
|
#11
05-05-2005, 22:24
|
||||
|
||||
|
takes time... Gee runs a scolarship in Bastardoligy..
Not sure which course is harder.. Bargirl 101 or Bastardoligy; early lessons and theory.
__________________
Men have only 2 emotional states, hungry and horny.. So ladies, if you see me without an erection, make me a sandwich.
|
|
#14
06-05-2005, 10:03
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
Give me her name and the bar she works at and i'lltell you how good and honest she really is 
|
 |
«
Previous Thread
|
Next Thread
»
| Thread Tools | Search this Thread |
|
|
Similar Threads
|
||||
| Thread | Thread Starter | Forum | Replies | Last Post |
| This story comes from real experience... | doublejack | Newbies area | 24 | 08-02-2008 01:25 |
| Wife wants to experience BG!! How and where? | fleetz | General | 8 | 09-06-2004 15:37 |
All times are GMT +7. The time now is 02:47.
| Hotel Guide |
