Phuket Thailand

toolie · #1 07-08-2005, 05:03

hi all just got back from patong , took the wife had a great time , sortof ! . we were looking for girl to share . eg threesome. but as we sitting there as a couple outside on the chairs, in front of the mai tai bar noone paid us any attention . is it because we sat there as a couple ? .

steve@thaib · #2 07-08-2005, 05:10

Hey bloke,

There is no point just sitting there and hoping. Everything is up for grabs in these places but you need to make yourself understood.

Thais are so polite that none would dream of interrupting your night out with your good lady. If you were to get a little more involved at the bars and tell them what you are looking for you would not be disappointed.

You went to the right place, just got it wrong a little when you were there. What you should have done is post the question here before you arrived. What you should do now is hurry back and not be so shy.

Talbotman · #3 07-08-2005, 05:12

Patong same as kho samui differs from Pattaya in the respect that it is fairly common to see farang couples together on holiday just enjoying the sun and the food and nightlife , i am afraid if you wanted a threesome you would have to put some effort into it by initiating a conversation with the girls they are not mind readers so how are they supposed to work out what you were looking for ,But it is strange that no girls came to talk to you because the girls are usualy friendly and talk to anyone

toolie · #4 07-08-2005, 05:35

thanks for the reply , yes we were a bit shy ,ok a lot shy but we didnt find this posting place till the day before we left home so it didnt get activated in time . we ended up being called muma and papa why dont know . we arent old only 42

louiswhitehouse · #5 07-08-2005, 05:36

you goto get stuck in and amongest it, you know how the old saying goes, 'if you don't ask you don't get' you would of found bar girls up for it everywhere for the right price. i hope you had a good holiday anyway!

domifletch · #6 07-08-2005, 06:08

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Originally Posted by toolie

we ended up being called muma and papa why dont know . we arent old only 42

and your mama and papa didn't tell you that there was no threesome allowed before 70 y/o ?

Just joking Toolie. Now, you know this board, and you will be able to meet Nicke at MTB, Geir, Geespot, Livinlos and so many other BM's living in Phuket or just on holidays on your next trip. Never mind to ask.

You just need to book a flight back to LOS and enjoy

JayBee · #7 07-08-2005, 09:25

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Originally Posted by toolie

hi all just got back from patong , took the wife had a great time , sortof ! . we were looking for girl to share . eg threesome. but as we sitting there as a couple outside on the chairs, in front of the mai tai bar noone paid us any attention . is it because we sat there as a couple ? .

Out of common courtesy, BGs assume that if you are a couple, that your wife would get real pissed, and then you would leave the bar, if they came on to your husband. That is why they ignore you.They don't want to be rude and lose business for the bar. Farang women are often a little touchy about the whole ladybar scene, so they want to make a good impression, and like to see everyone having fun. But it is their mentality to assume that when a guy is with a woman, be she farang or Thai, that he is taken. You will not see them compete with each other for guys, and they give farang ladies the same respect that they give other BGs and TGs in that regard.

Therefore, if you are a couple, and you want to pick up a girl for a threesome, the farang lady has to start in with the BG. She has to make eye contact, flirt, and show that she is interested, and sexually attracted to the girl. They see that you are with a guy, but that you want them, too, and they get the picture. Then if they are not into it, they will be friendly, but not too friendly. If they are into it, they will be very friendly, start checking you out, and see how you react to their flirting with your husband. When you show them that you pleased by them coming on to your husband, then they know that they have the green light. When you find one that seems interested, then buy her a couple drinks, and after that, just tell her that you want her to come with you. Call for your tab, and tell them to put her fine on your tab. Then off you go, for an evening of fun and games!!

It is really just a game of red light and green light. A man is a green light, but if a woman is with the man already, then the light changed to red. If the woman shows the girl that she is hot to trot with the girl, which is mainly a matter of eye contact and smiles, then the light turns back to green. Not all girls will want to drive through that intersection, but the ones that do will know that they have the green light to go for it. It won't be hard to find one who is up for a 3some. It is not so odd any more to see BGs walking down the street, holding hands with a farang woman, so there are some who go for it, that's for sure!

Have fun, and don't be shy!!!

JayBee

P.S. Age is not really a factor, once that they know that you are up for the game! Which is not to say that some of the hotties are not interested in older men. I have known some BGs who will not go with a guy over 35, and one 20-yr old girl I went with, usually wouldn't go with guys over 30. Boy, was she surprised when I told her how old I was!!! However, the majority of BGs will go with a guy of any age, although some might charge an older guy more, especially if he is over 60 and out of shape!

Tyfon · #8 07-08-2005, 09:32

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Originally Posted by domifletch

...you will be able to meet Nicke at MTB, Geir, Geespot, Livinlos and so many other BM's living in Phuket or just on holidays on your next trip. Never mind to ask.

Steady on... they only wanted a THREEsome, not the entire board...

LivinLOS · #9 07-08-2005, 09:40

Jaybee has the dynamics of the bar scene pretty much right I would guess...

If all that seems a little daunting you could walk into pretty much any gogo and ask the mamasan if any of the girls like couples.. many will.. In fact a couple in a gogo will create the assumption the woman is fairly liberated already..

me123 · #10 07-08-2005, 11:16

i woulda helped you out....

Werwolf · #11 08-08-2005, 13:25

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Originally Posted by JayBee

.... It is not so odd any more to see BGs walking down the street, holding hands with a farang woman......

...and the farang man walkes behind both......

aussie dollar · #12 08-08-2005, 13:36

More Traffic Lights In Jaybee Post Then The Whole Of Phuket

Captain · #13 08-08-2005, 16:02

They often call people Mama and papa. I think it is a polite respectfull name.