Phuket Thailand

videolover · #1 05-10-2005, 16:56

Hello Folks

As I read a lot in the Forum, it seems that most of you Barfine the Girls during the Night, but keep on drinking and dancing till 02.00 or later in the morning before go to the hotel and get some relaxing pleasures.

I do not fancy very much staying out late and drinking till the morning. I would prefer leaving the Bars round 22.00 and have my private party with 1 or more BG's in my hotelroom.

How do the girls think about that? Do they prefer going first to all the discos?

greets

vlover

LivinLOS · #2 05-10-2005, 17:28

They prefer to go to the disco and get drunk and party on your tab.. But without being hard about it.. If your paying then you control the situation..

Sorry babe.. I want to go now.. You dont need to be a prick about it but its your time if your paying..

Give them and inch and they will take a mile. One disco turns to another and the next thing you know your in Safari, drunk as a skunk and its 7 am with little hope of performing or perhaps even finding your way home

You need to learn the firm but fair approach.. Take no cr@p..

Mav · #3 05-10-2005, 18:36

Once l hear the birthday song, l usually decide to BF the girl l am talking to, or pay my bill, and start looking seriously for the lucky one that will get to be with me for the nite..........that is lucky 4 her, if l fall asleep during her one hour shower that is !

Latino4life · #4 05-10-2005, 18:39

Hmmm if the girl in question is desperate to avoid the moment of "love" and intimacy then perhaps getting drunk and arriving to the hotel ready for bedtime (as in for sleep) is not such a bad alternative

There are a million and one thing I would like to ask and it seems that for every answer I get a new question araises

I have read a few hints about how to dish a bg and the guy asking got flamed

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Nevertheless I'm certain I'll find my self in a situation wishing I was with "that other girl" instead... And specially if I'm in the company of a girl that wants to party on my funds and nothing more

If she's a terrible player then of course I'll just and much rather wanna get drunk and forget the whole episode...

But on the other hand, why be a victim, why not remedy the situation and take my chances with another girl, after all, things can't get much worst. But first I've to get rid of the first one and I wonder if simply given her the amount agreed and a have a great life-hug will do the trick or will that cause trouble...? I gues if everything is handled with the outermost discresion the losing face part won't be notorious and everything will be cool...

Latino4life · #5 05-10-2005, 18:41

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Originally Posted by Mav

Once l hear the birthday song, l usually decide to BF the girl l am talking to, or pay my bill, and start looking seriously for the lucky one that will get to be with me for the nite..........that is lucky 4 her, if l fall asleep during her one hour shower that is !

Do they oppose if you want to join them in the shower....?

I mean that will save precious time....

faultytowers · #6 05-10-2005, 18:45

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Originally Posted by Latino4life

Do they oppose if you want to join them in the shower....?

I mean that will save precious time....

Some are "shy" and will not want to join you , others are really up for it and you can have a great time. First night may be a no-no , but if they get on well with you , you can usually presuade them the second night to have some fun.

Sirgezza · #7 05-10-2005, 19:02

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Originally Posted by videolover

Hello Folks

I do not fancy very much staying out late and drinking till the morning. I would prefer leaving the Bars round 22.00 and have my private party with 1 or more BG's in my hotelroom.

This sounds exactly like me. I don't drink and drive, and I don't drink and fcuk. An early barfine with an agreement to staying until the morning can lead to the problem of them wanting to leave at about 2:00 am (chance of another customer or wanting to spend the cash you just gave them). Most times there was no problem. I always had one night stands, maybe things would be different if you were with a girl for longer periods of time.

Latino4life · #8 05-10-2005, 19:17

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Originally Posted by faultytowers

Some are "shy" and will not want to join you , others are really up for it and you can have a great time. First night may be a no-no , but if they get on well with you , you can usually presuade them the second night to have some fun.

Hehehe actually I do love taking a shower with a girl, I'm not just trying to squeeze the most posible of the situation

I think my self as quite good in presuading however I doubt I'll be going for longer than just a night with anyone

and if the girl in question kicks me out of the bathroom then it just means I drew a blank

If anything it'll be fun....

Dodger · #9 05-10-2005, 19:28

Never really got to understand the shy bit. Some of the most active and least inhibitive girls in bed have pulled the shy routine about showering or keeping the towel on until the last minute or not taking it off until under the covers. Some of the nicest tg girls I have been with that do not like holding hands, signs of affection in public etc have been the least inhibited about nudity in the bedroom. You just never seem to be able to tell, was with LT 9 months 4 trips and she still put a towel on to come out of the bathroom and didn't remove it until under the covers, 2 seconds later the covers were completely off so didn't ever understand that bit. When ever I asked about it just got "I shy, I thai girl"

Captain · #10 05-10-2005, 19:58

How about gogo-girls dancing nearly naked (and a few years ago naked) dancing before 100 guys and coming into your room going into the I'm shy routine

LivinLOS · #11 05-10-2005, 20:11

Still happens.. Gogo girl I was with recently is always mad in the club, very 'forward' girl to say the least.. Back at my house she got shy at being topless in the pool cause my buddy was there and I figured public pool sex was off the cards.. Then in the bedroom she got 'dressed' more by putting a towel on than she had been walking round the house...

Go figure...

Another one I know is barely a BG (she works FL but only goes with guys who she likes and its only 50/50 for the money) yet she has been a mad good time girl in the pool all night with lots of people all involved and walks happily around the house like Lady Godiver in the mornings..

Again go figure..

videolover · #12 05-10-2005, 20:45

Thank you for the lots of answers. Up to now i figured out that I have to make clear 2 things to a BG before I BF her:

1. I will pay only in the morning (so she won't leave at 2 am)
2. Ask her if she is a Shy Girl and wont bother showering 2gether

Maybee I will let those 2 phrases translate into Thai and show the girls the paper first.... *LOL* I could as well let them sign it... so the contract is done! STOP don't blame me... was only kidding (about the contract thing)!!!!!

LivinLOS · #13 05-10-2005, 20:53

The problem is girls will agree to a lot in the bar..

A common one is this.. You agree an all nighter (LT) and 1000 you go home early and shower and hit the sack.. Lets say a couple of hours and your done.. Its not uncommon for her to get a phone call (they are on the phone all the time) and suddenly theres an emergency, her mates had a bike crash, her friend has problem with a punter, any one of 20 things that are commonly used (what it means is I want to go back to the disco with some money and enjoy with my mates)..

Now are you going to refuse to pay her ?? Cutting that price down is tough (have you ever met a ****** that had change ??).. Of course your well within your moral ground to argue it down to a short time but then your gonna have a pissed of girl (acting)..

Going home early can have its issues is all I am pointing out.. I dont usually go out until 11 or later unless its a pub sports night (pool / darts / etc).. I never get home before 3 or 4 at the absolute earliest..

videolover · #14 05-10-2005, 21:44

@LivinLOS

seems you're on the internet the whole day, as I am as well ;-)

But maybe thats an possible answer to the girl if she's got an "emergency" and wants to leave... "ok you can leave now, but I dont have the money here. I will have to go to an ATM 2morrow morning. You can come here to get it then...."

I am pretty shure she won't take the risk.... or does she?

How about asking her to turn off the celphone till morning?

wakeboycam · #15 05-10-2005, 21:51

The worst part of taking a girl back home from a bar here in Holland is waking up next to her the next morning and trying to get her out of my house without my phone number as quick as possible. Her getting out of bed and leaving right after sex sounds pretty good to me

marc26 · #16 05-10-2005, 21:56

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Originally Posted by LivinLOS

They prefer to go to the disco and get drunk and party on your tab.. But without being hard about it.. If your paying then you control the situation..

Sorry babe.. I want to go now.. You dont need to be a prick about it but its your time if your paying..

Give them and inch and they will take a mile. One disco turns to another and the next thing you know your in Safari, drunk as a skunk and its 7 am with little hope of performing or perhaps even finding your way home

You need to learn the firm but fair approach.. Take no cr@p..

im usually the one taking a mile. they are usually askign me to go home. im telling them 1 more hour!

faultytowers · #17 05-10-2005, 22:22

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Originally Posted by wakeboycam

The worst part of taking a girl back home from a bar here in Holland is waking up next to her the next morning and trying to get her out of my house without my phone number as quick as possible. Her getting out of bed and leaving right after sex sounds pretty good to me

I have never gone to bed with an ugly woman ..........
.................................................. .............but I've woken up with a few.

Denver · #18 05-10-2005, 22:44

I like having my botty washed in the shower........................

Sorry!! Just thought I'd share that one with you!

faultytowers · #19 05-10-2005, 22:46

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Originally Posted by Denver

I like having my botty washed in the shower........................

Sorry!! Just thought I'd share that one with you!

Is that why you have to take 3 girls back with you ,big boy

videolover · #20 05-10-2005, 22:46

and even more useful answers to my questions... thanks a lot

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Latino4life · #21 06-10-2005, 03:55

That's not a bad idea hahaha and a poor excuse such as "you go and help your friend and then come back and you'll get your money" sounds great... If anything just to have a good laugh

Then perhaps a price cut would be in order and if she has no change it would be possible to go with her and buy some food (e.g. at Mc Donalds if it still exist...) and get some change at the same time....

Nevertheless I do agree and I would sleep alot better alone than with someone I have just met... Afterall the love part is the main course of the meal thou it would be nice with a morning snack too...

Dojoden · #22 06-10-2005, 07:31

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Originally Posted by marc26

im usually the one taking a mile. they are usually askign me to go home. im telling them 1 more hour!

Im Like Marc and Livinvg LOS man the girl has to drag me out of Safari then after Safari they have that shack at the top of the hill. I dont get home till 8am or so. Im always like You go Ill stay. Plenty of pickings BG or FL there.

So I just keep going, but usually have trouble with the little guy playing ball. I still let her try though. The next morning is like game on though. Extra innings.

The shower thing.. I have yet to take one with one of those girls. Ill put that on my "to -do " list.

rockstar! · #23 06-10-2005, 11:50

My preference is to BF LT, disco, gin cau, boom boom, nuon, boom boom, then pay out or go back to bar & BF again if she is good and has no kids. I had sabai mak mak doing this for song sapda and even kept a few for 2 days.