Well I managed to get up to Laem Sing for the party yesterday and have to report that a fun time was had by all.
It was pretty quiet when we got there at 4:30pm, so sat next door to the bar in a restaurant and had some grub waiting for the action to start. The booze ban was certainly not in force as everybody had a beer in hand (which was a relief!)
It stayed pretty quiet until about 7:30 ish but then a few more people turned up, some ladies

and also quite a large gay contingent - no problem, and if anything it guaranteed a lot of dancing later on.
We eventually moved up into the bar and got ever so slightly drunk and danced like sweaty maniacs on acid for the next hour and a half. Lots of fun and being on a dancefloor barefoot on the beach felt just great.
Music was cool, a few classics thrown in which always helps, and not too loud.
Almost became a statistic at one point though, went up the trail for the loo, but the toilet was being 'used' by two ladies (1 Thai/1 Farang), so ended up against a tree out back. suddenly this massive ttthhhhhuuuuummmmmpppp!!!!!! a coconut (huge!) had dropped from the tree I was next to, missed me by about 3 feet - scared the crap out of me too.
Not sure what time we left, but staggered back to Bangla later on and couldn't figure out why everyone was sober
WIll definitely make it back for a return soon, maybe even next week as it's a nice change to Bangla on a weekend. Would be cool to hook up with any others that go over.
Attached some pics, although I was in no state to be taking photos at that point. Much too dark for decent pics but you get an idea of what it's like.