Stupid Farang ?

[FrankZ]

Oh Man, my first vistit to Thailand / Phuket. Not as a sex tourist, believe me. Met several times with a girl at Tiger (one of the more quit bars in the back on the right side). She was very nice, although not looking like a BG (no make-up, no fancy clothing).

At one night she wanted to join me. I told her that I'm not a sex tourist, I will not pay for her but she wanted to come with me only to have some fun. We just drank some beers with friends at the beach. But again, for some personal reasons I wasn't interested in the sex thing (maybe you judge me an idiot, but I don't wanted to support this industry). Only hold her in my arms and kissed her. And she started crying softly, stating: "when you like me, you will sleep with me". I refused...arrgh, next time beeing there I will think different.

Again, it was my first time in the LOS and didn't and still don't know the rules. What the hell is going on ? To be honest: I really lost my head a little bit (actually to much). But right now an thinking of her, miss her. She is sending me mails, SMS, tried to call me. Telling "I'm missing you, love you etc.". But haven't asked for any money (so far).

So again, what is going on ? I really like her (ok, this normally is a no-go , but I'm a stupid farang first time in LOS, so please forgive and don't call me a dumbass, I'm pretty aware of that) and my feeling are with her. On the other side my head is still working, saying "you bloody asshole, come down to earth, she is sending these messages to 5 people in parallel - and maybe it's not her, who is sending this stuff..."

Anyway. Hey, all you well experienced Patong visitors out there: Any advices or any experiences with the girls at Tiger, last open bar near the restrooms, at the right side ?

[kiwi steve]

of your post correct.
Number one how do you know that she is a girl? Take it from one who has been fooled. Now if you had slept with her you would know for sure.
But seriously if you had personal reasons that is understandable why you did not sleep with her.
I have read many stories about bar girls who e-mail many guys but then again there is always one who is genuine although the odds make it a risky bet that this girl falls into that group.
It all depends on what you are looking for and whatever that is just remember 'If you don't go into the cave of the Tiger how are you going to get it's cub?

[FrankZ]

OK, I saw her naked (that's not a sure proof, ok), I haven't see an adam's apple (that's maybe more a proof) and hopefully I can devide a girl from a boy. But ok, you are never shure. But I don't believe she was ladyboy...

LOS is a phantastic, but also very confusing...

Originally Posted by kiwi steve

of your post correct.
Number one how do you know that she is a girl? Take it from one who has been fooled. Now if you had slept with her you would know for sure.
But seriously if you had personal reasons that is understandable why you did not sleep with her.
I have read many stories about bar girls who e-mail many guys but then again there is always one who is genuine although the odds make it a risky bet that this girl falls into that group.
It all depends on what you are looking for and whatever that is just remember 'If you don't go into the cave of the Tiger how are you going to get it's cub?