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10-01-2007, 06:29
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thai girlfriends
dos anyone get a thai girlfriend to stay with them for the whole time that they are out there?
would this be a good idea?
what would you pay?

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11-01-2007, 00:17
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I can see that I'm different to most of the other posters.
2 years ago I found a very sweet bg, she stayed with me for the 6 weeks i spend in Patong, she's good company and I'm getting to an age where sex isn't that important, I keep her for good company, have her checked in to the hotel, and it's nice to have her there, for company, it's great to have this warm soft little body next to you when you wake up, and then we play tourists for the rest of the day, ending with a nice dinner at Chiang Rai Seafood, then back to the hotel ( Phuket Palace Resort ) for a couple of drinks in the bar and enjoy the band playing.
The only time I have to send her away is if my wife decides to come down from Bangkok, the girl knows I'm married to a Thai, no problem.
That's the way I like to spend my vacation.
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11-01-2007, 00:57
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los is so full of gorgeous girls...spending time with just one when so many others are available to you is not my thing. but its personal choice at the end of the day...and personally, i try and shaag as many as i can when there!
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11-01-2007, 02:56
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C'mon guys, We don't need this flaming nonsense. It makes for funny reading but you know it will be removed so why bother.
Out of 40+ replies, only 2 give any advise
Please stick to the topic
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11-01-2007, 03:28
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Each to his own.
Trouble is some time they stay on a very permanent basis.
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11-01-2007, 04:58
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Disappointed so many posts have been deleted ....... IMHO overmoderatrion (new word!)
In a word, yes - can be very nice to have a girl for the whole time. Doesn't mean you can't have some variety but should tell her/hide it well - most ST girlfriends won't mind.
Pay the same as LT in my opinion, so 1k - 1.5k a day in patong
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11-01-2007, 05:20
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Disappointed so many posts have been deleted ....... IMHO overmoderatrion (new word!)
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How do you know what was deleted?? How do you come to the over moderated conclusion?? You have no idea what has been removed, so why say this??
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11-01-2007, 05:25
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Personally i find these questions strange
1. Some people do
2. If thats what you want..... No one can answer that apart from you. Some people are happy with one girl.... Some people prefer more than one girl during there time... This is only something you can answer but going there thinking i WILL have a girl the whole time is wrong and you will end up disapointed. Only after spending time with any girl will you know the answer and even thinking about it before you go there could cause you major disapoinment.
3. How long is a piece of string? You can be with a girl for a week spend a lot of money on her (shopping, eating out etc) and put, say for arguments sake, 7000+ Baht and that might be ok. Perhaps speak to the Girl and see what she says after a night or 2. Again this is something you need to decide and should not really plan.
Just my 2 cents here.
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11-01-2007, 05:40
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The last two occasions in Patong, yes
Saves making the three oclock in the morning dash around the Soi's searching for a night buddy run
As already said, work on around 1000 - 1300 a night for her time, plus all expenses of food, drink, clothes - gold if your really sucked in and dont forget the 30 or so thousand for that motorbike that she kept mentioning she was going to buy from her sister, just as soon as she can save enough money...55555555555555555
seriously, it is really down to the individual. depends what you like, some guys may look around for a while until he finds one he likes and then decide to keep her for the remainder of the trip, or you may be lucky and find one the first night, whatever happens don't ever forget that the girl has almost as much say as you...? if she no like you, she won' stay....
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11-01-2007, 05:42
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I think it is a good idea if you like the girl and having fun together.
What I have seen, is that people butterfly but once they find someone they really like they stick to her.
First time girls may be an disappointment, starfish, money hungry or whatever, so once you have a good one you connect well with, why dont stay with her.
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dos anyone get a thai girlfriend to stay with them for the whole time that they are out there?
would this be a good idea?
what would you pay?

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11-01-2007, 08:09
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Nicke you know my story. I was in Patong last month for 3 weeks. I met a very nice girl that I really got along with. She ended up spending the entire trip with me. As I was traveling alone it was nice to have someone to spend time with during the day. Seeing the sights , going to beach out to dinner... Worked for me but everyone is different. Just have a nice trip and enjoy
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11-01-2007, 09:17
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Originally Posted by Nicke
I think it is a good idea if you like the girl and having fun together.
What I have seen, is that people butterfly but once they find someone they really like they stick to her.
First time girls may be an disappointment, starfish, money hungry or whatever, so once you have a good one you connect well with, why dont stay with her.
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I agree with you Nicke as I 'butterflied' during my first 2 weeks but ended upi with Nee, from your bar, for the last 2 weeks and now I see her every 2 to 3 months and we go everywhere together.
If your happy and have good fun with one girl....the old saying is.......if it aint broke then dont fix it - in other words be happy with what you have - I am.
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11-01-2007, 11:15
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wow-i should have read these posts before i started goign to thailand
i went with the 1st bg i ever met and then proceeded to go with other bg's while still with her
guess i did it the wrong way!!
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11-01-2007, 11:58
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Quote:
Originally Posted by marc26
wow-i should have read these posts before i started goign to thailand
i went with the 1st bg i ever met and then proceeded to go with other bg's while still with her
guess i did it the wrong way!!
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we all learn from our mistakes,,,
2nd thoughts, was it a mistake???
did you enjoy yourself, 555555555555

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11-01-2007, 12:03
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we all learn from our mistakes,,,
2nd thoughts, was it a mistake???
did you enjoy yourself, 555555555555

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im just being an ass
i enjoyed myself
but didnt think my gf did
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11-01-2007, 12:17
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Quote:
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im just being an ass
i enjoyed myself
but didnt think my gf did
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11-01-2007, 15:35
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Quote:
Originally Posted by marc26
wow-i should have read these posts before i started goign to thailand
i went with the 1st bg i ever met and then proceeded to go with other bg's while still with her
guess i did it the wrong way!!
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lol thats the way mate! you did the way every felang should do it, enjot the best of both worlds..
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11-01-2007, 15:48
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Disappointed so many posts have been deleted ....... IMHO overmoderatrion (new word!)
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Stop picking at the mods...
The posts that was deleted wasnt going to change the world. Just the same silly flaming from me on  klav. 
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11-01-2007, 16:40
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I agree with you Nicke as I 'butterflied' during my first 2 weeks but ended upi with Nee, from your bar, for the last 2 weeks and now I see her every 2 to 3 months and we go everywhere together.
If your happy and have good fun with one girl....the old saying is.......if it aint broke then dont fix it - in other words be happy with what you have - I am.
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I agree with Les and Nicke. Same for me with my GF who also comes from MTB. She made (and still does) me very happy and we had a wonderful week together last November. In about 6 weeks I will see her again at her place. Can't wait to see her again.
Bottom line is, that you shouldn't plan for it, but just take it as it comes. That will give you the best experience in my humble opinion.
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11-01-2007, 17:39
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I agree with Las and Nicke. Same for me with my GF who also comes from MTB. She made (and still does) me very happy and we had a wonderful week together last November. In about 6 weeks I will see her again at her place. Can't wait to see her again.
Bottom line is, that you shouldn't plan for it, but just take it as it comes. That will give you the best experience in my humble opinion.
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This thread reminds me of a story my father used to tell me:
A father bull and his son were standing up a hill... beneith them were a bunch of cows.
Then the son turns to his father and says: 'Come on dad, let's run down and **** one of them cows!
The father replies: 'No son, let's walk down and ****'em all....
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11-01-2007, 18:01
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Quote:
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dos anyone get a thai girlfriend to stay with them for the whole time that they are out there?
would this be a good idea?
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at the first time I decieded to take a bargirl for more than just one night, this was also because I was a bit of lonely the hole day... it was very nice for me but I think I would not do it again, because there are a lot of other girls to try... I will see at the 5. march 
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12-01-2007, 03:27
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Nice one guys,
you have been very helpful! cant wait to go. will be going MTB my first nite!

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12-01-2007, 05:26
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