Phuket Nightlife - Luck Getting Non-BG's To Your Hotel?

ahyes · #1 14-04-2004, 13:36

How about the local, non-BG talent? Thailand has thousands of beautiful women. What about picking up on one not from a bar? Discos, stores, street markets, wherever? Anyone have some great luck? Of course, sex with a girl who's interested in you and not for your money is the best. It's just harder to get.

Let's hear those great pickup, f---ing them in your hotel stories!

M_X · #2 14-04-2004, 19:11

The notion of a farang tourist, who is viewed as an ATM and is there for a short visit before disappearing to some remote part of the globe, speak little or no Thai and has almost no concept of the local culture, getting a girl in Thailand who would be interested in YOU and not your MONEY is an amusing one.

I think you should put your ideas of what you know as a normal relationship with the opposite sex on hold before you leave. You will be entering a "Adult Disneyland" a "Sexual Twilight Zone" something like no other place in the world which has already developed it's own ideas, rules and customs as to what role the "single male farang tourist" plays in these "entertainment areas".

Provided your not stingy and you have an open mind, you will be given the opportunity to live like a king, even if only for a short time. I suggest you don't waste that precious time on some "ego trip" trying to bag and then brag about the "free sex" you THINK you have gained yourself. Your efforts would be better directed towards drinking until you fall down and hopefully fall down on a pile of little brown fannies who are there to cater for your every need.

I remeber asking Jaws on New Years Eve, what he was planning for the night and he simply said " No different to any other night". Point being every night in Thailand can be what most "farangs" strive for as the perfect New Years night back home. Don't waste your valuable time because as soon as you get back home it'll hit you, and it won't be pleasant.

domifletch · #3 14-04-2004, 19:29

Hi Ahyes,

How long do you stay in LOS to spend your time to find a "real girl" ?
May be if you stay long enough, you can meet someone, know her, appreciate her and build a relationship if her fellings are the same for you ... this can happen in your country too, no ?

I wouldn't like to wait an hypothetic relationship when I go in Thailand for my precious holydays before to meet a girl who really likes me ... sure it would be better, but except if you can stay there for a very long time, why to wait something that has 95% chances to not happen.

So easy to find a girl who will say you "yes" immediatly if you stay 1,2,3 or 4 weeks ... they are really lovely, they take care of you ... all the advantages without problems you can meet with a "normal" woman.

Bafana · #4 15-04-2004, 06:49

Last trip it became obvious that there are plenty of ex BG's or reformed BG's in and around Phuket working in places like hair dressers, etc...

Maybe these could be a fertile hunting ground for more decent or born again girls that have gained the real world mentally of "Strike whilst the iron is hot" and might consider getting involved with a tourist

As for the otehrs I think you need to either get in before hand via the Internet or stay on the ground for a period of time to have any luck...

BTW a friend of mine who maintains he will not pay for sex(He has and does - But trys hard not to and can be a real pain the **** when goin out in such places as LOS) trys to line girls up via the internet...

He has a very bad hit and miss ratio as when he arrives in the country even though he has agreed to meet them they either don't show or pull his chain with promises of showing and only make an appearance towards the end of his stay - I supposes its the oldest method of birth control known and good girls are not stupid, they know what a man really wnats and if they are truely good they are not goin to hand it out on a platter...

By observing my friend I would advise you not to come ST to a place like Patong, Pattaya or Bangkok for any other reason then as a normal tourist - You are just goin to waste valuable time and effort chasing pipe dreams when you could be having the time of your life as a true hedonist

Remember good girls are the same in most countrys around the world - How many girls in your home country will grab a Thai tourist in a nightclub and bang them senseless knowing that they are not going to be around for long - Some maybe in the big cities but not that many I think...

ahyes · #5 15-04-2004, 11:29

but I wasn't thinking of falling in love and running off to never-never land with them. I was thinking more of one-night-stands. I know that Asian women, especially in their traditional native countries and with men not from their culture, are typically very sexually conservative. However, I thought maybe in a place known for its sexual tourists that some of you lucky few out there may have scored on a non-BG at a regular bar. The one fella who suggested meeting the ex-BGs had a good idea.

When I do get my opportunity to travel to Phuket, Bangkok, or wherever the hunting is good, I don't intend to spend my time hunting for the rare meats (the non-BGs). For about 1000-1500 baht, I am dying to dip the stick into as many beautiful Thai girls as humanly possible or impossible. Maybe I'll even find that I can spread my wealth multiple times/night/session/act/position/hour/minute!!! :p

IRISH JONNY · #6 15-04-2004, 13:48

HI GUYS.....
IVE BEEN OUT WITH A FEW "NON BGs "...........AT THE MOMENT I STAY IN CONTACT WITH ONE OF THEM ..SHE IS A RECEPTIONIST IN A WELL KNOWN HOTEL...
THE TROUBLE WITH THESE "NON BGs " IS THAT THEY BECOME VERY POSSESIVE.EVEN MORE THAN A BG........I THINK ITS NOT WORTH THE HASSLE SOME TIMES.......BUT ITS FREE SEX..SO I STAY IN CONTACT....BUT IT CAN BECOME DIFFICULT TO BUTTERFLY AS SHE HAS CONTACTS EVERYWHERE !!
JONNY

Apollo · #7 15-04-2004, 16:04

Ahyes, I think you've started an interesting discussion, and have already received valuable feedback (as an aside, I think this topic is yet another sign that Nicke's board here is truly coming of age). I plan at some point to detail a story of mine which fits in quite well with your question. I've still yet to figure this girl out so I was hoping my story would be well received by the board (comments here?).

Sounds to me you'd might like something "in-between" a bg gfe and a true gfe, is that correct? If so, I too would like that type of scenario, and wouldn't mind kicking the lady a few bob anyway, if I lucked into such a situation. I don't need nor want "free" sex in LOS (if such a thing really even exists).

geespot · #8 15-04-2004, 18:33

Bafana

Come to Glasgow, Scotland UK, in my experience through extensive observation; if you've got the looks and style you're in, simple as that. No cultural divides with these women, they take what they wan then spit you out!! ladism!!

Bafana · #9 15-04-2004, 19:56

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Originally Posted by geespot

Bafana

Come to Glasgow, Scotland UK, in my experience through extensive observation; if you've got the looks and style you're in, simple as that. No cultural divides with these women, they take what they wan then spit you out!! ladism!!

Same in Australia too mate - Must be a shared genetic heritage - Funny how it don't work that way in Ireland but

ahyes · #10 16-04-2004, 11:10

no strings attached, yet the time together is a GFE. I remember the good days when I was much younger and had a few Filipino babes that were just that. Dippin' the stick without the commitment.

I'd like to hear your story...and I wouldn't worry about the other board members. It as simple as this: if your sex partner is willing, AND you don't have to pay for it, then that means that she is liking the sex (and you), not for your money. Then on top of that, if she's a hot Thai girl then there's a paradise on earth after all. As long as you,re upfront and not leading them on, though, girls get their hearts involved with sex. Men can disconnect and just go for the sex.

Plus, who knows, maybe you've found that one gem that may just be a keeper. The "keepers" are not in the bars, but in the regular Thai world. But really, who of us goes to Thailand to find that gem? All us men on this website are only going for the cheap sex with hot Thai girls!!! Me included. I can't wait to go, yippee!

Apollo · #11 17-04-2004, 01:36

a true GTG, and money was involved (not that I have a problem with that; I don't). OTOH, she was NOT a FL or BG...

I'll get round to that story, probably in "nokna-like" installments. I'll also post it over on nanaplaza--that seems to be a very active board.

Cheers

Andi · #12 17-04-2004, 18:32

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Apollo · #13 18-04-2004, 11:55

Firstly, my above reply should have read "NOT" a bg or fl--since changed.

Secondly, Andi, you and I are alike--whether they are formally a bg etc. or not, they get the 1000 in the a.m. Seems that we are also alike in the amount--I believe giving too much is bad for everyone, especially the other punters.

Lastly, as for as giving an allegedly GTG a bit of cash in the morning, she of course has every right to refuse it. I've yet to have that happen, and would in fact be UNCOMFORTABLE if she didn't accept it (what's her agenda then, I would think?).

Cheers

ahyes · #14 18-04-2004, 13:05

defeating the whole purpose of meeting the non-BGs. Maybe it may seem like a nice gesture to you, but could you imagine offering money to some girl you met at a bar in your country after a great one-nigh-stand? She might slap you. I'm surprised these non-BGs you boys shagged didn't do just that. That makes them really no different from the ones you're meeting at the go-go's...just that you didn't have to pay a barfine. If you met them outside a bar then they were just ******s or freelancers.

Wouldn't it have been better to maybe buy them a gift, nice breakfast, or some flowers? We all know, there's no free pussy. But when they didn't ask for the money or there was no expection of money, then they shagged you because they wanted to, right? Adult, consentual, casual sex. That's what I'm talking about...sex with a hot Thai girl that wanted it, not for money!

ahyes · #15 18-04-2004, 13:07

Need more abbreviations defined.

geespot · #16 18-04-2004, 15:48

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Originally Posted by ahyes

defeating the whole purpose of meeting the non-BGs. Maybe it may seem like a nice gesture to you, but could you imagine offering money to some girl you met at a bar in your country after a great one-nigh-stand? She might slap you. I'm surprised these non-BGs you boys shagged didn't do just that. That makes them really no different from the ones you're meeting at the go-go's...just that you didn't have to pay a barfine. If you met them outside a bar then they were just ******s or freelancers.

Wouldn't it have been better to maybe buy them a gift, nice breakfast, or some flowers? We all know, there's no free pussy. But when they didn't ask for the money or there was no expection of money, then they shagged you because they wanted to, right? Adult, consentual, casual sex. That's what I'm talking about...sex with a hot Thai girl that wanted it, not for money!

Sorry mate I am not trying to be cheeky here but have you been to LOS before?

I know many Thai lady BG & non working, if you offer them money they will take it, believe me!!!! Know a very fine looking lady who is a lawyer in Patong, she accepted money no problem - help me here guys explain to this gent.......... THIS IS NOT THE WEST, THIS IS NOT THE WEST............

Apollo · #17 19-04-2004, 06:32

Terrific thread going here, guys.

GTG = good Thai girl

Ahyes, I respectfully disagree with your ****ogy to West. Far too many reasons to detail them all here. Suffice it to say, we're ON HOLIDAY, we're farangs, they know how things work in the scene, and last but not least, they're not stupid--they know what's on our minds.

I suggest you hookup with a non-bg, slip a 1,000 baht note into her purse in the morning, then see what happens. I promise you she'll gladly accept!

Cheers!

MiniMaker · #18 19-04-2004, 16:28

On my first tour, about 5 yrs ago, I became friendly with a waitress who worked in a german run coffee shop on the beach in patong.
I'd already had a few LT sessions

and was not looking 4 a GF. I went to Shark Club every night as the music and girls were 2nd to none, and it stayed open till 5am

I saw her in there many times and one night chanced my luck, especially after she had spent the better part of the night dancing with her cheeky little bum rubbing against my throbbing crotch

. After eating noodles outside the Shark club I suggested we go back to my room

(I was staying at Didi's) No money was ever mentioned and we hadn't talked dirty at any time.

BTW her english was very good.

After some preliminary range finding sorties, I made a full advance

. We engaged in a varied program of mutual pleasure but there was no way she was letting me in the 'hunny pot' with the little general (wrapped or not!!!) without me knocking her the f*** out.
I accepted defeat graciously and we slept.
We arranged to meet up on her next day off and see the Island. She only had 2 days off a month and worked 11am-11pm, then went out and partied 3/4 times a week.
I became distracted by the overwhealming number of the LBFM on offer and stitched her up

When I did see her again it was in the coffee shop some days after I'd stood her up. I went with with some of my mates because the coffee was outstanding. Boy did the staff there give me some s***
I was a little p***** off by that but f*** it, I was on holiday and I never went there looking for a GF in the 1st place. I'm certain at that time she wasn't a working girl. I can't say she hadn't ever been a working girl. Who knows now though, eh!!!
I tried to explain myself to them and learnt it's best not to. I was just another typical farang butterfly as far as they were concerned.

If I'd wanted her to be my GF then I should've been prepared to wait as long as necessary, as a GTG doesn't give it up very easily (so I've since been told)

My supportive mates laughed their t*** off at my expense though!!!!

I'd prefer to pay everytime, as at the first sign of any hassle, they're gone. No second chances.
I don't work my balls off in a crap job, to save up all year and go all that way, only to be bossed around, spoken badly to and get s*** . I can stay here in England and get that any time.

If the sex was soooo good that I'd have to have another go, then there'd be no illusions 2nd time around. They know that if they don't behave, don't try to keep me happy and we don't have a good time then they won't get their shoe money.....

Andi · #19 19-04-2004, 20:56

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mikegb · #20 19-04-2004, 23:56

Hi all,

My outlook is this -

If any of you guys out there are looking for 'love' a 'wife' or 'lifelong companion', then good luck to you.
I don't want to spend my holiday looking for any of those things, so I 'rent' somebody for the evening to fulfil whatever I am looking for.

If it is clear what you want before you go, then no problems.

I think some guys come to LOS when they are maybe in a low point in their life, after parting with girlfriend or wife. Before they know it WHAM! they have been reeled in llike a big fish.

Bottom line - whatever you do, make sure it makes YOU happy, as long as you dont harm anybody else.

Oh, one other thing to Andi - QUOTE "I dont force the money down there throat in the morning."

So what is it you are forcing down their throats in the morning ???

steven eleven · #21 20-04-2004, 01:39

Ahyes

Very interesting point you made there.

I met a FL on my first trip and went 3 times back to Patong to see her since.
I spent a lot of nights in her room and allthough most of the girls are wearing very fancy clothes and take very good care of their skin and use quality make-up. i do not think they are living in one or two room shitty appartments because they really want to.

All the money i gave her i never felt bad about, she deserved every single penny I gave her.

During the holidays I spent with her, I met a lot of her friends as well, some of them do not look that good as other girls, and besides working as hairdresser or nail-painter during the day, they also freelance almost every single night as well.

Maybe some good advice if you are really looking to **** non BG's go to Koh Samui and party with the tourist girls over there ... a lot of English and Scandinavian girls looking for pleasure overthere.

ahyes · #22 20-04-2004, 05:57

and all are very good to be heard. If you boys are giving money because they "hint" that they need something, clothes, whatever, cool.

Also, because they know that we are there for paid sex or "rental" of the BGs then with some of them it may be cool to pay them. Since I have never been there, my western thinking is different from the reality of what's happening there. Given the area being a sex tourist haven, world renown, then the girls there must know whats going on if they sleep with one of us farangs.

Maybe part of that unspoken knowledge of paid sex depends on how far out of the red light district you meet them. I mean, there must be some very good girls that have nothing to do with the BG girls. If you meet a girl at a non-sex bar, and its only a mile/kilometer away from the main action, then she might expect $$ in return for sex. If you meet them in a more family/residential, or business area, quite separate from the red light district, their thinking is very different I'm sure. I can't see paying them for it.

Any other thoughts?

Apollo · #23 20-04-2004, 12:27

Ahyes, for a guy that's never been to LOS, that's spot-in. I agree that a girls perspective is directly related to HER proximity to the scene. As such, that's why I'd never think twice before throwing a bit of cash their way after some late-night sanuk. A girl truly uncorrupted by the scene, OTOH, may well be another matter altogether (never met one--in LOS--though, so cannot say!).

Andi, your input on this board is welcomed. Not sure whom you felt was mean about it but it certainly wasn't me, and I'd hate for you to become discouraged from further posting.

Cheers