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Old 24-06-2007, 08:25
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Talking I didn`t paid the BARFEE for her

I did not paid the barfee for her.





She spoke no english and said 2 days to me: pay bar pay bar pay bar

I thought she wants that I buy her a drink and I told her allthe time:

I dont want a drink pay at bar bec. I dont want take a drink now.

After 2 days I left her and she went back to her bar.




I must admit: It was my first visit in Thailand and my first BG and I had no clue how this stuff works.

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Old 24-06-2007, 08:35
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Well I hope you paid her well as she would have been responsible for paying it herself when she returned to work.
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Dude,

I said: I paid her no BF!

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I did not paid the barfee for her.





She spoke no english and said 2 days to me: pay bar pay bar pay bar

I thought she wants that I buy her a drink and I told her allthe time:

I dont want a drink pay at bar bec. I dont want take a drink now.

After 2 days I left her and she went back to her bar.




I must admit: It was my first visit in Thailand and my first BG and I had no clue how this stuff works.

What you want to tell us exactly with that post ?
How cool you are not paying and getting away with it or what ?
And why you are posting a picture from that girl at the same time with that post, what are you trying to prove ?
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Old 24-06-2007, 08:54
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thats great, and something i never achieved on my trips to thailand, talked to a bg and never paid a barfine.

when you are a handsome man, with all the cuties wanting you and all the oldies remembering their halcyon days when they could pull any man, and the stunners dumping their meal tickets for a man that wont pay a barfine, we read it here first.
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Guys,

I want to say with that post:

How green I was at first arrive and handle this.

I was one of these boys which arrived there and thought it runs like in U.S./Europe on a normal bar

Really!
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Old 24-06-2007, 09:04
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Fair enough to be green and if you now see the mistake fair enough to admit it. I think your consistent choice of smilies (ROFL) make it appear as if you are laughing about the whole matter, when in reality it should be 'poor girl', because she likely had to pay the BF for you!
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Old 24-06-2007, 09:13
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You meet the point, MrDK!

Maybe she had to pay maybe not...

I don`t know.

After I understood the game - because all the girls after her asked for the BF - I went from green to mature :-)
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I did not paid the barfee for her.





She spoke no english and said 2 days to me: pay bar pay bar pay bar

I thought she wants that I buy her a drink and I told her allthe time:

I dont want a drink pay at bar bec. I dont want take a drink now.

After 2 days I left her and she went back to her bar.




I must admit: It was my first visit in Thailand and my first BG and I had no clue how this stuff works.

Look at the girl's right hand in the pic.

It shows what she was thinking about you.
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Methinks he's trying to get back the face he's lost guys - not sure how smart he's become because he was pretty dumb then - pic looks like a Polaroid from 1970s???

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Guys,

I want to say with that post:

How green I was at first arrive and handle this.

I was one of these boys which arrived there and thought it runs like in U.S./Europe on a normal bar

Really!

So you are then saying that you went with the girl for two days and gave her nothing? There isn't anything funny about that. You should be ashamed to admit that.
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No point in having a go at the guy.....how can you be expected to know what a barfine is if you've never heard of one or the concept?!

In these cases someone at the bar should explain......
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sorry boy but to treat a girl who cannot afford to pay your bills like that just proves what a real skank you are.
when you found out "how it works" you should of been straight round to reimburse either her or the bar!
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sorry boy but to treat a girl who cannot afford to pay your bills like that just proves what a real skank you are.
when you found out "how it works" you should of been straight round to reimburse either her or the bar!

That may have been months later though.....
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No point in having a go at the guy.....how can you be expected to know what a barfine is if you've never heard of one or the concept?!

In these cases someone at the bar should explain......

Read the first post on this thread again. The OP tells us that the girl kept telling him to ''Pay Bar''. He chose to ignore this. Troll alert???
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It would be advisable for him to pay up asap, not for ethical reasons but if he don't then it doesn't matter how cute or naiive she looks her mates will take the law into their own hands and one night he'll feel the broad end of a Heineken bottle connecting sharply with the back of his head.
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Hey guys,

you have really funny comments!

So: I guess you understood my situation:

I came green to Thailand and did not know anything about the barstuff because I did not read anything about and did not know anybody which was in barstuff involved.

So: In Europe/USA it is normal to catch a girl on a bar and try to bring her in bed. FREE of course (maybe a few drinks involved).

Same in Thailand: I went to a bar - huged a girl and said to her: Come with me.

She came immediately.

I took her to a calm place and we did nice things :-)

We were happy.

After this she started to talk about pay bar pay bar pay bar.

I said: No drink and showed with my hands (gesticulation). Look her face at the foto: She liked me :-) We had also a dance in a disco! She rubbed all the time her ass on my d..k :-)



We kissed on and did stuff for two days.

After second night I told her I want to see some stuff and she said she needs to go back to the bar.

LOL

It was years ago.

So: Nice adventure for FREE.

I think she did it voluntary (FREE) with me because we had a nice time and she did not thought about on to get what she needs (BF), because I did not understand her.

:-)

This means: It was not intention!


Everything it was: Handled it like a NEWBIE - fresh arrived in LADYLAND :-)

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I think she did it voluntary (FREE) with me because we had a nice time :-)

Don't worry about it mate, we're all jealous because you're so hansum and fun that you can get it for free
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Old 24-06-2007, 23:06
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:-)

Yeah - my intention to make you jealous...And I know you are :-)

LOL

Sometimes it is better not to know to much about a country...like in my case.

So - better don`t read to much in FORUMS!

:-)

Greets from a handsome one :-) LOL
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Yeah - my intention to make you jealous...And I know you are :-)

LOL

Sometimes it is better not to know to much about a country...like in my case.

So - better don`t read to much in FORUMS!

:-)

Greets from a handsome one :-) LOL

Maybe you had an excuse of not knowing that the girl is working when she goes with you. But now that you do know, you should feel bad about cheating her. The fact that you think it is great that you cheated her out of her just compensation means that you are a big asshole, and a mean bastard.

She did not go with you because you are handsome. She went with you because that is how she makes her living. You are not only a bastard, but, apparently, a stupid bastard, as well.

Jealous of you? Never in a million years! Someone as stupid as you should be jealous of people who have a brain that works.
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Guys,

I want to say with that post:

How green I was at first arrive and handle this.

I was one of these boys which arrived there and thought it runs like in U.S./Europe on a normal bar