Set the Scene

[Nanook]

Thanks Les and Erik1. You exactly wrote how I feel.

A few BM's may know/have seen my GF. For me all that matters that she and me can have a good life together in due course and Buddha permitting! So far, so good.

I never had and will have any problems with sharing my experiences on the board. There are many stories of success but also of failure. I think I took some wise lessons from those and maybe some other people can learn something from mine. Isn't that also what this forum is about as well?

As long as one is open to learn and take it step by step, it should be fine. As long as you know when to hold them or fold them. Wasn't there a song with a line like this?

[thaitan]

Originally Posted by erik1

Insulting and unasked for. You do not know his gf and therefore can not say anything about his relation.

Not everyone is as unfortunate as you in relations. Sofar it seems Nanook is happy and to me that is all that counts

I was not trying to insult him I was trying to help him. But you are right i do not know his gf so i should not have giving him unwanted advice. As for me i am not unfortunate. I have a thai gf that i meet in Issan working in a shop and i see her 4 times a year and stay at her village with her family. I have offered to send her money but she says "no no me hab money you save money come back quickly Thailand me want see you too much". And every time i leave she offers me money to make sure i have enough to buy something to eat. But i will admit when i see her i take care of her and the family very good.