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25-08-2007, 09:06
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I guess I don't know what you were asking, because I looked at your previous posts, and you already were doing the parsing, just as I explained it.
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25-08-2007, 09:08
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Sorry. I was one of the American servicemen in the 70s. I also took the long course (married a TG and divorced 4 years later). She had me totally bewitched, but as far as washing me, you have to be kidding. The girls and the GIs were fully capable of treating each other like shit in 1975. And in case it's your criteria of quality, finding a girl who would administer a BJ, even in a soapie, was fairly rare. Now the 100 bht LT was great, but don't believe everything you hear.
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25-08-2007, 09:11
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It must be a computer glitch then :-) Some things I never mentioned before, i.e. about segments. But it's okay, I'm just happy you like to quote in response to posts just like I do 555
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25-08-2007, 09:11
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You've shattered my illusions!  I'm going home.  I'll get my coat now.  .
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25-08-2007, 09:17
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that's truely a sad story.
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25-08-2007, 10:15
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This made me laugh, was out in Bangla only a few days ago with some friends and went into a bar beer as it had some nice eye candy, only for look as we all have tiraks. Got chatting to this girl and her question delivery was straight off the crib sheet
1. What yr name ........ 2. Where u come from......... UK 3. How long you stay in Phuket...... 3 years 4. Do you have house........ Yes She's happy smiling cos i think the answers were good so far 5. How much did you pay for house ........ however many million Steps closer smile from ear to ear 6. Do you have Thai wife.......... Yes Backs off, looks p1ssed off....a split second change from last answer ok YOU BUY ME DRINK !!! Hence why i dont like these kind of bars because of the same mundane approach and questioning but some of my mates do like, so it keeps everyone happy
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25-08-2007, 11:53
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i like your story and got a chuckle out of it, but what are these girls to do if they work in a bar quote shakespeare?
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25-08-2007, 12:12
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Just to change the script a little and have a more soft approach.... i.e how are you, would you like a cold towel (or some powder) ! its just too robotic i guess, but yes i agree the topics of conversation with a new face must be limited.... i suppose its more the attitude rather than the questions asked.... I prefer the style of the older ones who have learned over the years through vast experience, "Hello Sir would you like me to wipe your face with a cold towel before or after i sh#g your brains out"........ "sorry Sir didn't catch your name" !
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25-08-2007, 12:29
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.....to boom boom or not to boom boom; that is the question............. Last edited by bayleaf : 25-08-2007 at 13:57. Reason: poetic license
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25-08-2007, 13:10
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i would have answered "no i dont have thai wife" and played along with her. would have been intresting her next set of questions
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25-08-2007, 13:51
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My first trip to the LOS was in 1985 and my latest was April 2007. In the 22 years in between, i really haven't seen a lot of change in attitudes of the girls regards their interaction with the farang.
Back in 85 there were girls who would wait on your every move so as they could serve you and pamper you if that is what you liked. Additionly, there were girls who were as obnoxious and venemous as the worst of the girls you will find today. This phenomonen appears to me at least, to have stayed constant throughout the last 22 years of visiting LOS. These observations are not only related to bar girls but also Thai girls in general. I just really haven't seen any dramatic character changes in the last 22 years apart from the run of the mill changes that fit most categories of people. Things such as being busier with their lives and therefore having less time for small talk and frivolities and the fact that the world is a much smaller place now with the internet, sattelite media and bigger faster planes all contribute to makeing the farang, less of a novelty. I also don't agree with the sentiment that the girls have finally worked out that we (farangs) are soft or stupid and that they don't have to pamper us to get our money. I hate to shatter the illusions of some, but many of the girls have thought of us as soft and stupid for decades. In my opinion, if there is a notable change in the girls attitudes towards us (which i haven't seen) it would be no more of a change than is evident in all walks of life as time goes by. I remember my old man would bring mum flowers or a present every Friday, wouldn't swear in front of her and opened the car door for her and other little things like that, but that just isn't something i would see as a priority in my approach to a relationship. The Thai girls are no different to anybody else, time will change the attitudes of all. In April, i met girls who would have done anything for you and saw others that would have slit your throat rather than say g'day to you. In my opinion, if you want to be pampered and treated like a "king" (not my word) then you can still find that just about anywhere in LOS, but you will also come across some that will treat you like a farang that is paying a prostitute for sex and will simply provide the service and get out of there to find the next customer. Same same in 85...Same same anywhere in the world.
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25-08-2007, 16:31
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what i have noticed then as the main is that the farang male now has shall we say a younger age group being able to afford to come to LOS .
now some of these lads are shall we say the Majorca/Ibiza/benidorm type crowd and as such behave in that manner basically,so the girls now react to the manner in which they are presented. well it makes sense to me .
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25-08-2007, 16:44
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OMG ! Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear, this is just awful ! That means that in five years the trend will have spread to Europe ! Do you think that if all the men in the "west" moved to the Far East it might sink ? And when the trend reaches there and takes hold, where do we go then ? Andy Cap P.S. Mrs Cap cooks (just looked in the mirror - she cooks too well), washes, irons, does the shopping, trims my body hair and still finds time to do a full time job so when I move east she's coming with me - just in case.... Last edited by capdagde : 25-08-2007 at 16:46.
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25-08-2007, 16:45
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Last time I was in Patong I reversed the tables on the BG's and hit them with the questions, hHello welcome, what your name, how old are you , where you stay, then I really confused them I said. "Where you come from? wait dont tell me I think you come from (pause) Indonesia or Issan (particularly if they were pale" got some great laughs and good conversation starters. Try it, they really get stumped.
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25-08-2007, 16:52
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Thank Buddha for that - someone who was really there and has left his rose-tinted specs in the drawer. Thanks for the sanity AC P.S. To return to the OP, I was just hunting on another forum for a truly excellent and well-written post I read (and should have copied) where some chap was underlining the SYMBIOTIC (as opposed to idiotic) nature of the farang/BG relationship. They are giving us what we can't get at home (party atmosphere, human contact, lots of appreciation and and and and - at whatever age/shape we are in). We are giving them a reasonably easy (as opposed to back-breaking agricultural work or being exploited by N*** and the others) way of ensuring that their extended family lives happily. As the post-Victorian taboo about P4P is not dominant in LOS this relationship flourishes. So the answer to the stony-faced farang lady who says under her breath "He's only with her because he can't get that at home", is YES, YES and YES ! As a farang just don't bring the equally post-Victorian ethic of "I've got to save this girl from her miserable life" gameplan with you, because, truth is, we've never had it so good - us AND them... IMVHO Last edited by capdagde : 25-08-2007 at 17:05.
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25-08-2007, 21:30
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This is one of the best posts I have read for a long time. There is some truth in this. Do any of us really wants a girl that does everything for us.... One of my ex-girlfriends did and to be honest we split -up because I found her more of a mother than a gilrfriend... But do half of us deserve girls that will really take of us in this way.... To be honest no, half of us expect the girls to be faithful but how many of us cheat on them? What we want and what we deserve are two different things.
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25-08-2007, 23:28
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I thought this thread was about Farangs and Bargirls. But as what always seems to happen on this forum is that BG morphs into GF. The jury is still out on that debate.
If you prefer a pampering GF experience i think you can get it if you can communicate that to the BG.  What we deserve and how unattractive we are should have no weight in this arrangement. As far as a real GF goes. Rule #1: Never let a GF know that you don't deserve her. You will lose value.
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Indeed, indeed, symbiotic relationship.... (a few for me in six weeks time!) AC
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Years later, she became quite accomplished in her field, and matured into a confident, independent, and assertive woman......who didn't have the time to spend taking care of my needs. Then I was doing my own laundry, half the cleaning chores, and preparing my own meals, in addition to doing all the traditional guy's duties. And sex? She didn't seem to have the time for that, either. I was reminded of the words of Dr. Frankenstein, "I've created a monster!" Quote:
But what happens, and this is why I love LOS, and love TGs, is that they convince me that, in fact, I am thoroughly deserving of their attentions. In life, it is all how you look at things. And I prefer to adopt their point of view in this matter. It may not make all the sense in the world to some, but it sure works for me. Thanks, girls!  I won't argue with them. If they say so, then I DESERVE IT! 
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