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19-09-2007, 13:31
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Letters To A Bargirl
“Letter writing is the only device for combining solitude with good company”
Lord Byron Letters To A Bargirl (part 1) March 2007 Dear T**, I’m in the Phuket airport, writing to you while waiting for the boarding time. We said our goodbyes only one hour ago and I’m already starting to miss you, I’m still full of you, I want to go back to Patong. Our farewells have been quite short, sorry, I don’t like so much the outpouring of the hearts, and I hope you didn’t find me rude. But now I can see you again in my mind, walking away with your Mickey Mouse grey shorts, blue T-shirt and assorted flip-flops; and I would like to be able to run after you, stop you and hug you one more time, I would like to see one more time your eyes closing and feel your breath becoming short when I kiss you. I enjoyed every minute I spent with you, and I’m not thinking only of what happened many times in the bed. Even watching TV with you was good, or having som tam lunch with your friends at your home was great also… I may have been unlucky with the different bar games but I have been so lucky to find you. In my life I have never had such great holidays with a woman. I will never forget. Again, thank you. ---
De : GoP@gmail.com À : T******@hotmail.com Date : jeudi 22 mars 2007 22:15 Objet : Hello Hello T**, how are you? I hope that your eye is better now. Please find in attachment a photo of my favorite super star from the **** Bar! Take care, GoP De : T******@hotmail.com À : GoP@gmail.com Date : mercredi 28 mars 2007 11:11 Objet : Hello Hello Gop How are you doing? I'm fine. Thank you for sent your e-mail and photos to me. I very like it and very beautiful. How are your work is o.k.? I'm very glad you don't forgot me. Take care of yourself T** De : GoP@gmail.com À : T******@hotmail.com Date : mercredi 28 mars 2007 14:47 Objet : Hello Hello T**, I'm OK and busy at work. I will send to you the other photographs I have made, one per day if I can, like I promised. Cheers! GoP To be continued... 
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19-09-2007, 13:35
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Letters To A Bargirl (part 2)
Letters To A Bargirl (part 2)
April 2007 Dear T**, Each time I'm thinking of you I'm smiling. Until now there are no dark clouds to cast shadows over the sweet memories I have of you. It makes me happy. In your room I checked the books and the magazines you had, I know that you may read this letter even if it is an unusually long one. I’m so happy and as you are responsible of this I think you should be the first one to know about it, right? I said to you many times the appreciation I had for you. You replied I was “sweet mouth”. But I want badly you to believe me that I have always been sincere. In my memories as well in my camera there are the pictures of a beautiful young woman, and I won’t let anybody says otherwise. I have already sent some to you, and you told me you liked them. Phew! I did my best, but my skills are still too poor, I know I haven’t been able to fully give back the mystery that makes you so attractive to my eyes. This is the bane of many farangs; we are striving for perfection, even with relationship with people, most of the times that makes us unhappy and unsatisfied. You argued that you are not stunning, that if you didn’t push me a little bit to come to your bar you may have never caught my eyes. But do you remember I didn’t resist? Many times in my life I have stumbled across something and I told myself “oh, just what I need”. You were exactly what I needed and I have been immediately under that so elusive spell that my poor words fail to explain it. And can you tell me why you chose me, and not someone else, in the crowd of punters? Also, did I tell you that back then it has taken me three days to find you? There are many ways to be beautiful, you are one among many. And don’t call me “sweet mouth” again, as I’m not! I’m far away now, and I may never see you again, so what do you risk in accepting my praises? Around me, in the newspapers, and even on the Internet, so many people are grumbling and only a few can speak about what they like. When I don’t like something I shut up and keep it for myself. You did a good job, I have to congratulate you, and you deserve it. And if I find you are beautiful, I can’t help but to tell you. I didn’t attempt to persuade you that your dark skin and small frame is very attractive to everybody but me because I have the feeling that I can’t. My opinion may not count for you, and you may have heard it too many times already from other farangs before. Each time you watch TV, each time you read a magazine, each time a rich hi-so Thai man looks at you, I’m proven wrong. But it may surprise you; I don’t like these Thai women who modify their body to look more western, I don’t like the faked boobs and the whitened skin that is displayed in the media of your country. These perfect beauties are insipid. And I don’t understand why women want to look like only one same ideal woman. If women looked like all the same this world would be very dull! I like the real stuff, the arms and legs darker than the belly, the scar that tells something about your past, the rebel little toe that doesn’t want to stick together with the other toes, every so-called imperfections that make each of you different and so interesting. You used so little make-up, isn’t it a proof that you have an attraction that doesn’t need any enhancement at all? I found you funny with your good girl underwear and yet still very attractive. In my country, many women are wearing lingerie to be attractive and to feel confident, but you, you don’t need, and with your large striped cotton panties, you are just irresistible. When you removed it, I liked the mark made by the elastic on your skin. This is how I know I’m not dreaming, that what is going to happen is for real. But what make the most for me were your brown tits. I just can’t explain why, but I liked so much your “milk” as you said. Your breasts, they have just the right size as I can hold one my hand, no need more and believe me, it is an advantage you will appreciate in the future as they are less likely to sag. Sorry for being so crude but after all I’m only talking about what nature gave to you. Do you remember how I liked to kiss you? I nearly couldn’t control myself! Ah, I remember very well our first kiss… In the bar, after having drunk, played, sang and laughed; it was around 2 am, the closing time. I arrived quite early at your bar, yet you took your time with me. I couldn’t believe it, no groping, no “handsome man” bullshit; just a relaxed fun attitude and I have had to win at the Shut the Box dices game to be allowed to kiss you on the cheek! Hour after hour I was growing fonder of you and I was still not sure your were barfinable when I finally asked you to spend the rest of the night with me. It was like waiting for the Christmas night, when deep in your heart you know that there will be a gift under the tree, because you deserve it, but until you see it you are nagged by waves of doubt that make knots in your stomach. It was the right way to behave with me, I appreciated you waited I took the initiative. Even your answer to my proposal for further activities in my room was unexpected: “are you really sure this is what you want?” Were you so surprised? Or did you want a confirmation as you were afraid to have misunderstood me? Also, we didn’t discuss about payments issues, you didn’t bring the topic, and I didn’t ask. I’m wondering if it is your usual method or if you adapted to me? This first kiss… I can tell right away if I will have a good time or not with a girl by a single kiss. Your was sweet, wet, refreshing at the same time; your breathe was slightly smelling of garlic, and I knew that you would be very soft and tasty. I haven’t been disappointed as making love with you was delightful. You were obviously a little bit inexperienced, sticking to the basics I would say, so I believed you when you said that you lost your virginity only four years ago and that you are working in the bar for only one year. It is pity I couldn’t stay longer, otherwise I would have been your teacher! You didn’t tell me overtly, but I have the feeling that your first boyfriend broke your heart and that’s because of him you lost confidence in your fellow countrymen and decided to take your future in hand. I hope no farangs will break your heart because you may become as sour and as cynical as your roommate. How did you guess that I have several girlfriends? I agree that I’m a butterfly, I like women and women like me, including girls like you as I got to learn only recently. It is my fate, and sometimes I think it is a curse, because I can love only one and there is no way we separate. That’s why I didn’t make any promises to you. But most of all, I remember a very charming woman that has enough wits to sustain long and interesting talks. Frankly I wasn’t expecting this from a bargirl. And you cheered me up too with so many stories you know! I liked the one about you chasing the crabs in the rice fields and how you cook them. If only I could do this with you back there in your home village near Udon Thani! It would be fun! And your anecdotes about your work… Some guys know you from only a few hours and they say “I love you”. You are right, they are out of their mind, but I repeat what I have already told you, if for fun you answer something as crazy as “I love you too”, they may believe it! And after, when the party is over, they will accuse you of lying. This is because some farangs are fed from their youth with love at the first sight stories. But we French people may be closer to Thais than you think. One of our poet said that “there is no love but only proofs of love”. I understand that you have far more fun now than before when you were working as a waitress in Koh Phi Phi. But the downside is that now you see life and Thailand no more in a biased way. Because you have had some many contacts with farangs, you may have now a different perspective. You told me you don’t like to go back to your hometown and that you get bored after a few days with your family. I’m sorry, but you may already know that, you will never be able to resume your previous life. You are like a ghost, somewhere between two worlds. Sometimes it is better not to know too much. You can sing, you can dance, you made me laugh, even losing at Connect 4 against you or doing some small shopping with you was a delight, you are a pleasure giver, a superstar. The problem with the stars is that they are far away and that you get burned if you come near them too closely. I also appreciated your easy going behaviour, never pushing me for drinks or money, or anything. I have already a boss at home; I don’t need an other one. You are smart, and your plan of attack toward me was the correct one. I can only approve your sensible approach to this dangerous job you have, of not smoking or taking drugs, never taking more than five ladydrinks per night and taking some days off every month, practicing safe sex and praying weekly to Buddha. You had reasonable expectations. In those conditions it was really a pleasure to try making you happy with good meals at restaurant and some small gifts (what would you have thought of me if I had bought to you an expensive watch or some jewelry?). You seemed to be still able to enjoy simple things of life and you still know how to say “thank you”. At 26 you still have a future. Sorry for so many words. But I’m not in equal terms with you. Those four days we have spent together were very special for me, but for you it may have been daily routine. Nevertheless, I hope you have enjoyed also some of the time we have spent together. Best wishes. To be continued ...
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19-09-2007, 14:02
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whens the marriage then?
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19-09-2007, 14:22
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is this serious? if its a joke i dont get it.
if not - well, i couldnt be arsed to read it all but how is a bargirl supposed to understand all that? PS - you left her e-mail address in so we can all mail her soppy drivel too?
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19-09-2007, 14:34
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she hasnt said anything about her motorbike being broken etc yet...to be continued im sure.
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19-09-2007, 15:02
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god knows, i found it hard going and i'm apparently fluent in the langauge. the girl probably just scanned it for MTCN ********** and left it. 
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19-09-2007, 15:10
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Another soul lost until his next trip.. 
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19-09-2007, 15:34
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This is such a cynical place. Have you no romance in your souls? There's this poor guy pining for his lost love and the best you can do is make fun of him. Shame on you all. I am though pleasantly surprised no one picked up on the big stripey cotton knickers and took the p**s out of that. It shows there are some standards remaining.
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19-09-2007, 16:12
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1) Yes i like taking the p!ss out of bar girls panties ...... 2) the BG will take 2 years to convert that to thai using her little book... dont expect a reply soon 3) GoP at gmail is the dudes email addy not the BG ?s Peace out H3X
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19-09-2007, 17:05
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Clever move if you ask me, by the time shes translated that book he'll no doubt be back in Patong!!
Cant see myself publicising love letters to someone I really care about so.. perhaps it is a joke.. not funny though
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19-09-2007, 18:18
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Never EVER write more words than is found in the Thai comics (approx 100 words tops) that the BG's so love to read .... to them such a letter is about equivalent to deciphering the DNA of an alien!!
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19-09-2007, 20:48
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This new story is only a tribute to one of the working girls from the nightlife scene of Phuket.
Life is full of surprises and this girl was simply outstanding. This can happen when being curious and open minded instead of being judgemental.
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19-09-2007, 20:58
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soooo many beautiful girls and not enough holiday time!
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19-09-2007, 21:06
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So this is your open letter to a BG you met for 4 days ? very romantic, but thats all in your head dude. Heres one reply I'll share , received the other day, from a similar outstanding working girl in Phuket , reality after the dream :- .... who send to me the money now? I don't care what whom talk about me.I need the money for take care my family.I don't like work bar girl. Why I work bar.Becase I need some man good heart and good take care for me.Don't only about money. That him good guy for tell you about me?I 'm thinking now i need go with customer more.But I don't know whom tell you talk about me good or bad. PLEASE SAY THINKS VERY MUCH FOR HIM also.Do you want to ask my father?Or want to ask my mae why I have to work bar.I don't worry anything. now i have to go to my room,take care of you, OK we talk later on. BTW is wasn't from Denver ..... Peace out H3X
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19-09-2007, 21:13
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It's hardly a unique experience...what's unusual about it is emailing the girl back with the equivalent of a PhD thesis.
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19-09-2007, 21:16
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So so true! enough said
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19-09-2007, 21:30
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I'm really sorry for you and I hope that you will be more lucky with the next girl.
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19-09-2007, 22:05
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Dont be sorry for him, he knows the game and this email from the BG, to me, is heart wrenching in itself. She is being entirely practical and honest. A wonderful trait in a woman.
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19-09-2007, 23:23
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This is definately a case of "Deja Vu" , you posted the first part of this in another thread 2 days ago !!!!!.
So , if this is a repeat , then here is my original reply.  Quote:
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19-09-2007, 23:37
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Ohhhh I can't wait till Part 3. It's a cliff hanger.
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19-09-2007, 23:44
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Please do not loose patience with me... I started a new thread to post this story in several instalments (may be 3 or 4) to be continued in the following days. And no, this is not a love at the first sight story...
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