Phuket Nightlife

sierradelta · #1 20-09-2007, 15:16

Hi Guys,

Just wondering from the depth of experience on this board what would be peoples best "guess-timate" be for the following question.

How many BG's from the same bar (even a favorite drinking bar) can generally be taken for ST/LT before things get maybe a little "tense" and it becomes time to maybe stroll on down the road to another bar?

My best was 4...it seemed to get a bit "catty" after that, so I took a break.

PS: I was looking at doing a survey for this question but I couldn't get the fcuking thing to work?

Cheers

SD

IRISH JONNY · #2 20-09-2007, 15:28

my meaning from your post is how many times you take a girl before she/or you get serious? girlfriend/boy friend experience?
it varies with the girl....i tend to stick to st....and that being once.......
usually girls will get possessive after 3 or 4 nites in a row....they tend to see you as their new boy friend.......they see you as their certain income..
asi say.it varies with girls...its their jobs.they are professionals......ij

Masterwoodsman · #3 20-09-2007, 15:30

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Originally Posted by sierradelta

Hi Guys,

Just wondering from the depth of experience on this board what would be peoples best "guess-timate" be for the following question.

How many BG's from the same bar (even a favorite drinking bar) can generally be taken for ST/LT before things get maybe a little "tense" and it becomes time to maybe stroll on down the road to another bar?

My best was 4...it seemed to get a bit "catty" after that, so I took a break.

PS: I was looking at doing a survey for this question but I couldn't get the fcuking thing to work?

Cheers

SD

You're lucky or should i say stupid to even risk 4 !!!!

The Thai girls are very jealous and see you taking one of her friends after you've taken her, as taking her meal ticket. Not only does it put you in danger but it also causes an atmosphere in the bar.

I'd say 1 per bar unless she wants to bring her friend along too !!!! Bonus

IRISH JONNY · #4 20-09-2007, 15:37

looks like i picked up on the OPs POST WRONG....SORRY....IJ

Dojoden · #5 20-09-2007, 16:03

Im too chicken to take more then one. Dont want them feeding any of me to the ducks

I just remember I took two once from Dollhouse in Bangers, got a little attitude so I stayed away from there for the rest of the trip.

fun2have · #6 20-09-2007, 16:10

4 for me from the one bar, a mate of mine never got any of the "atmosphere" from taking multiple girls from the one bar, but he was honest and told them he was on the holiday butterfly, another friend took 2 from the same bar and it was "atmosphere" as soon as he did it.

landofsmiles · #7 20-09-2007, 16:30

You'll get far higher figures from expats.

I think 7 from one bar and 9 or 10 different ones from one massage shop for me....but that is spread over a period of 1 to 2 years although I did go to a bar recently and there were 4 there at the same time. I've never had a problem. Most are happy to see you take one of their fellow workers rather than you go elsewhere.

Sham69 · #8 21-09-2007, 01:21

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Originally Posted by fun2have

4 for me from the one bar, a mate of mine never got any of the "atmosphere" from taking multiple girls from the one bar, but he was honest and told them he was on the holiday butterfly, another friend took 2 from the same bar and it was "atmosphere" as soon as he did it.

i was the same and i was up front about being a butterfly so they knew the score and i think it helped they were all treated the same ....no favourite, although one gave ME dirty looks and comments through a petted lip.

seafox · #9 21-09-2007, 01:30

If you take 4 from the same bar all at the same time for 4 nights in a row there is no attitude!

And the good thing is one of them is always ready to go when you get up to get rid of some beer.

Sham69 · #10 21-09-2007, 01:54

ok i'll remember to do that next trip

LOL

cybernator_uk · #11 21-09-2007, 02:00

Ok in my 4 trips to Thailand I have barfined 3 girls from the dollhouse in Bangkok... But if we are talking over a period of time then that would be the case. If you're talking in one 2 week tour, then I've never barfined more than 1 girl from any bar... It's not I'm scared to but I just consider it a loss of face for the girl...

ub2yoo · #12 21-09-2007, 02:09

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Originally Posted by seafox

If you take 4 from the same bar all at the same time for 4 nights in a row there is no attitude!

And the good thing is one of them is always ready to go when you get up to get rid of some beer.

Good advice, there's always a clear solution for everything :-)

seafox · #13 21-09-2007, 02:13

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Originally Posted by ub2yoo

Good advice, there's always a clear solution for everything :-)

It worked for me, until I looked in my wallet after 4 nights with them. Was glad that I left for Bangkok and Phuket after that. But it was a good time.

slinggalin · #14 21-09-2007, 02:27

I found that if let them know ahead of time that you plan on "spreading the wealth", then they never really get mad at you,

but,

If you go in and BF a different one all the time, then the ones prior usually get jealous because they're loosing face.

marc26 · #15 21-09-2007, 03:07

i just think there is so many girls to go around, why even bother
i wouldnt even want the hassle

dennisinkamala · #16 21-09-2007, 03:43

Bu**er the attitude, I luv em all... LT/ST

shez21 · #17 21-09-2007, 12:55

I've only ever bar fined 2 from the same bar. I made it clear from the start that I was a butterfly, to which the 1st girl replied....."is ok, you on holiday". The 2nd girl checked with mamasan first and the 3 of them had a discussion to keep the peace.
All worked out in the end.

ub2yoo · #18 21-09-2007, 14:00

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Originally Posted by shez21

I've only ever bar fined 2 from the same bar. I made it clear from the start that I was a butterfly, to which the 1st girl replied....."is ok, you on holiday". The 2nd girl checked with mamasan first and the 3 of them had a discussion to keep the peace.
All worked out in the end.

...such a narrow thing to say.. as if one can't butterfly when not on holiday 5555

shez21 · #19 21-09-2007, 14:57

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Originally Posted by ub2yoo

...such a narrow thing to say.. as if one can't butterfly when not on holiday 5555

here....here!

Matt Knickerbox · #20 21-09-2007, 16:10

5 from one bar over a 2 week journey. It went pretty good till the 5th one. BG #3,4 got a little pissy(i think they were drunk) started flicking me off, saying something about me in thai. So I had the mamason inflict a temporary restraining order on them, they had to stay on the other side of the bar for the rest of the night. But the other BGs were cool with it. that bar was just great too many attractive BGs working there to just stay with one.
Bar girls are going to play the game of he was mine first, when it comes down to it who gives a s**t. I'm the one with the money.

Then 3 from a different bar didn't go over as well. My regular bg was a no show one night so I picked some other chic(turned out to be her arch rival nimesis or a chromium rival if you will). Definately poor planning on my part, I didn't think ahead for the next day. So I show up the next night chillin' with #2 and #1 shows up they start talking, then they talk louder till #1 gets pissed and walks away. Oops, and now #2 is annoying. So I end up with #3.

The worst you can do in my experience is hang out with a bg for a while, then notice an ever better looking bg and end up going with the #2. They really, really don't like that. Not ever a ladydrink as a parting gift will make them feel better.

aussie dollar · #21 21-09-2007, 16:30

think the record is twenty if my memory serves me right,long term BM's holds this record.
this was in one go BF the whole place.

shanghai · #22 21-09-2007, 20:53

A friend of mine takes maybe 3 / 4 girls per day ST, always from the same bars, pool halls, the beer garten in BKK or where ever. The girls are never under any illusion that he is interested in anything but s*x and they accept it. I have seen him go back to the same bar three times in one day taking a girl each time (he actually took 3 girls on one occassion) and the girls all accept him for what he is (a pure butterfly) and they all seem to have no problem with it. He and the girls treat each situation purely commercially and everyone wins.

Icebox · #23 22-09-2007, 01:55

way too much hassle to take many girls from the same bar ive done it and its problems, not worth it IMO

les1999 · #24 22-09-2007, 18:46

I, unfortunately, took out 3 from a well known bar but did let it be known I was on holiday and a butterfly.
Un be-known to me there were 4 of them in the same room and the third, apparentley mentioned I was out to "fcuk the family" i.e. all the girls living in the same room........the following night I was approached by the 4th one in the room.........18 months later I'm still with her and we still laugh about it......555555555