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Old 05-11-2007, 12:31
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Despite intentions to see many BG's, do you end up falling for the one Girl?

Are there others out there like me?

You hit town (Phuket or Pattaya) with the intention of meeting as many (BG's) as you can, but end up falling for the one girl.

You'd like to splash yourself around but there's something about this cute soul you're drawn to.

On your trip, do you spend most of your time with the one girl, or do you aim for a high turnover with as much fun as you can pack in?

If you do splash yourself around, how do you avoid uncomfortable confrontations?

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Old 05-11-2007, 17:06
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been to los more than a few times and Ive never stuck with the same girl ,the biggest problem I have is waking them up and getting them to leave in the morning..Im a early riser

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Old 05-11-2007, 17:46
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Same same for me critical. But not this time! I feel I have missed out on a lot because of this. Pattaya first with BM making sure I don't f@ck up and do this again. Then Patong maybe GFE again maybe not at this stage. She has been annoying the hell out of me and is full of sh1t but good company. So who knows
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Old 05-11-2007, 18:44
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18 months ago I went on holiday and for 2 weeks I 'butterflied' my way round Patong, had a different lady every day (and night) - then b/f'd one with 14 days to go and - hey - were still together. I go to Thailand every 5 weeks to 8 weeks and see her ever time, aint been bored yet and we have some great times, but thats just me - everyone is different and thats the good part with LOS, cos you can do whatever you like and how you like it - enjoy yourself.
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Old 05-11-2007, 18:50
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Are there others out there like me?

You hit town (Phuket or Pattaya) with the intention of meeting as many (BG's) as you can, but end up falling for the one girl.

You'd like to splash yourself around but there's something about this cute soul you're drawn to.

On your trip, do you spend most of your time with the one girl, or do you aim for a high turnover with as much fun as you can pack in?

If you do splash yourself around, how do you avoid uncomfortable confrontations?

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Last year November I went to Patong with excatly that idea. Just take a different nice girl every night, but the first night I got to know this cute little Sweetheart and we still are together now. I have no regtrets at all.

So on this subject I am in the same boat as the previous writer .
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Old 05-11-2007, 19:14
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been to los more than a few times and Ive never stuck with the same girl ,the biggest problem I have is waking them up and getting them to leave in the morning..Im a early riser

If they turn out to be a starfish OK, but don't you feel remorse kicking them out after all the intimacy, especially if they're longing to be loved, not just rooted?
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Old 06-11-2007, 13:26
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11 years ago I first spent a week in bangkok, and was a big butterfly. 2 per day
Then I left for Pattaya, supposed to meet a friend in a bar there, but then there was this girl "come in sit down please!!!" with the big smile. She was shy, only been there a couple of weeks. A month later we were married, my butterfly days were over. And yes, still married
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Hey, if it feels good with the one girl then why fight it. These experiences are far more elusive than the butterfly marathon. Sometimes when you butterfly you are just as mechanical as a BG.

As far as plans or intentions go. They just get in the way of a great vacation in LOS. I just like to walk around without a mission and let the flow take me. I did it last night in Pattaya and ended up with 3 gogo girls dueling for me with french kisses. You just can't plan that.
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Old 06-11-2007, 14:54
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If they turn out to be a starfish OK, but don't you feel remorse kicking them out after all the intimacy, especially if they're longing to be loved, not just rooted?
not really..there happy when they leave, been payed ..but not to say I woudnt stick with the same girl for awhile if I liked her. just hasnt happened. anyway I dont think I will be doin much butterflying next trip.
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the biggest problem I have is waking them up and getting them to leave in the morning..Im a early riser

I'm an "early riser" too , it is usually because of that 'problem' that I wake them up !!!!!!................then I don't want them to leave (at least for a while !!!).
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Old 06-11-2007, 15:58
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Hey, if it feels good with the one girl then why fight it. These experiences are far more elusive than the butterfly marathon. Sometimes when you butterfly you are just as mechanical as a BG.

As far as plans or intentions go. They just get in the way of a great vacation in LOS.


That is why I advise newbies who try to plan their whole vacation (especially the nightlife times) to forget about it. Just take it as it comes and enjoy.
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Old 06-11-2007, 16:00
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well, i'm not as "experienced" as other BM's here...

but the last trip i stayed the whole time just with the same girl because i really liked her and enjoyed the time with her! (well, actually i went the first night with an other girl )
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Old 06-11-2007, 22:38
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I dont mind having the same girl for a few days, but I do try to get her to home sometimes say every other day in the morning so I can have a bit of free time to chill out by myself or have a massage then meet her in the bar in the evening,

However if their english aint too good, it does take some explaining.

I usually say "I go play golf" and swing my arms.
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Old 07-11-2007, 00:11
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my plans before leaving for los are to do at least one a day, different one each time but every time so far i have used the services of the same bg 2 or 3 times, variety is good but if you get a good one that knows her shit, why gamble on another?, i want to go back!
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Old 07-11-2007, 01:26
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tried both sides of the story. gotta say that I most enjoy the splashing around side.

to avoid unconfortable confrontations, do never tell her.
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Old 07-11-2007, 03:54
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When I first started going to Thailand they called me "Helicopter."

Man, I wanted a different lady everyday and sometimes two at a time. Now, after almost 15 years, it is a whole lot different. As I have gotten older I am much more particular and enjoy quality and the "Nurse Goodbody" treatment over quantity. I still like to hook up with different ladies on arrival, but it seems everytime I think I have found Miss Thailand it turns into a big letdown very soon.

I have found I have a much more enjoyable time when I stay with one lady for a few days or more than trying to be a butterfly all the time.
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Old 07-11-2007, 04:00
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I am way over it. sob, they called me international airport when I last was there.55555
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Old 07-11-2007, 06:04
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11 years ago I first spent a week in bangkok, and was a big butterfly. 2 per day
Then I left for Pattaya, supposed to meet a friend in a bar there, but then there was this girl "come in sit down please!!!" with the big smile. She was shy, only been there a couple of weeks. A month later we were married, my butterfly days were over. And yes, still married
that is nice to hear!! how long you been married?
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i usually find a girl and think "she's the one". then i see another girl walking down the street or in a bar and think i cant live without her. the vicious circle begins again and again and...........
usually have at least two a day.
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that is nice to hear!! how long you been married?

Good one Petruccis, never noticed this unobservant trait you have when we met last month!!!

Let me hazard a guess for you, hmmmmmmmm!!, I'd go for 10years, 11 months, only a guess could be wrong of course!!

When are you coming back??? reckon this little post might just cost you quite a bit of ribbing!!
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Hey, if it feels good with the one girl then why fight it. These experiences are far more elusive than the butterfly marathon. Sometimes when you butterfly you are just as mechanical as a BG.

Couldn't have said it better myself Sometimes I butterfly sometimes I don't, just follow the flow
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Old 08-11-2007, 01:48
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well you were wrong to them its just the last stage then you have no more chances
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Good one Petruccis, never noticed this unobservant trait you have when we met last month!!!

Let me hazard a guess for you, hmmmmmmmm!!, I'd go for 10years, 11 months, only a guess could be wrong of course!!

When are you coming back??? reckon this little post might just cost you quite a bit of ribbing!!

luckily it waz just a guess. you added in those 2weeks holiday pre-mariage
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