Phuket Nightlife - How much is it if I rent some girl for one week?

gundream · #1 15-06-2004, 20:55

Hi all experts:
I just finsish my first trip in Phuket.
By the help from this board member, I really enjoy the life in Phuket.
Thanks!
I have a good date with BG of Crazy Girl bar but it is a pity that her english is
really poor. So I can not get the answer for my question.
If I want to rent one girl for one week, how much should I pay?
DO I need to pay the Bar fee every night? Or I just need to pay the girl
one package fee?

BTW, I don't think Crazy Girl is a good A-go-go bar although I find my favor over there. They would set up some trap for new customer.
Do you know how much they would like to charge me the first time?
The Bar fee is 2000 THB.

africanw · #2 15-06-2004, 22:39

All depends on the girl. I meet a girl my last time I went and I paid 300 baht bar fine. Think someone riped you off. But for the rest of the time I was in Patong I did not pay anything, nothing for the girl and nothing for the bar. Think I got lucky on that one.

Went to movies/supper/nights out/etc. I did at the end give her money as she had not been working at the bar. Money which she did not asked for.

It really all depends on the girl!!!!

tintin · #3 15-06-2004, 23:03

yes, but don't forget, once you keep a bg so long she doesn't ask 4 money!

She except you to give somthing!!! The bf is weird, I always had to pay it except once because the bg wanted to be more with me, then i with her!

And African, if your girl is still in Phuket in November, I will find her!!!

Even if you don't give her phone-nr!!!

marc26 · #4 15-06-2004, 23:10

I think its funny, alot of us newbies, myself included, like to say we stayed witha girl for a week and we didnt give her money, but in the long run she probably ends up gettingmore from us in ways of dinners,drinks, gifts, than if she went with a different guy everynight. they are not stupid, but i do the same thing, i think it makes us feel good to do it this way, the pay everynight. even if a thai girl is in love wiht you,no lying, you will always be expected to give her things and take care of her, which i have no problem, since i like to take care of my gf's at home, and if you guys know anything about nyc and brooklyn girls, their tastes are much more expensive.

domifletch · #5 15-06-2004, 23:37

You are right Tintin, when I staid with a BG for a few days, she never asked me money. But I've always given her at the end 1000 bath/day if she were good and funny, but I know many men who give less... As they say, it's up to you tee ruk. I also paid for food, sometimes a trip or Phuket Fantasea, and sometimes a gold chain if she really took wall care of me.

I think they can make us understand we need to give them money, but never telling us that they want to be paid.
One will tell you she wants to buy a buffalo for her mama, another will tell she has to go to the bank to send money to family, etc... It usually happen a1 or 2 days before you leave. It's as they dont want to be considered as *****es and they can make you feel you are a good man.
The result is the same, but I do prefer this way to get my money too. It's maybe also easier for them to make us believe they really love us and not our money, as they never asked it.

All the girls in you BG's bar, and all her friedns will know how much you gave and they will remember it many months later. Their memory is incredible and all the staff will know what you do and what you say when you are with you BG/GF ... Funny

If you are considered as a "good man", you will be very welcome when you will come back.

IRISH JONNY · #6 16-06-2004, 00:02

I FIND IT HARD TO STAY WITH A GIRL FOR MORE THAN 2 OR 3 NITES......
I GET BORED AND AM ALWAYS ON THE LOOKOUT FOR A BETTER LOOKING GIRL THAN I ALREADY WOULD HAVE.........
I KEEP IT SIMPLE AND PAY THEM THEIR 1000 BAHT EVERY MORNING AND ARRANGE TO MEET THEM THAT NITE.......I HAVE NEVER "RENTED " A GIRL FOR A PERIOD OF TIME....IT JUST COMPLICATES THINGS.......
THEM AFTER 3 DAYS I WILL VENTURE TO ANOTHER BAR AND BF SOME ELSE...
I MEET A CUTIE LAST TOUR AND BROKE ALL MY RULES BY STAYING WITH HER FOR THE LAST FOUR NITES OF MY TOUR..I STAY IN CONTACT WITH HER AND MITE MEET HER FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS IN JULY.WHO KNOWS WHAT THAT MITE LEAD TO ..IJ SETTLING DOWN? I DOUBT IT...
JONNY

marc26 · #7 16-06-2004, 00:28

im not as experienced as you veterans, but i like staying with the same girl in patong. i've gone to LOS twice in the last 6 months, i went nuts in bangkok, then settled down with 1 girl in patong. now shes getting a little smart, shes asking me when i get to bangkok,she wants to meet me in bangkok the day i land, which isnt going to happen, need a few days to go wild before is ettle down

africanw · #8 16-06-2004, 00:28

Quote:

Originally Posted by marc26

even if a thai girl is in love wiht you,no lying, you will always be expected to give her things and take care of her

But thats the same as any normal relationship.

africanw · #9 16-06-2004, 00:31

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Originally Posted by tintin

yes, but don't forget, once you keep a bg so long she doesn't ask 4 money!

She except you to give somthing!!! The bf is weird, I always had to pay it except once because the bg wanted to be more with me, then i with her!

And African, if your girl is still in Phuket in November, I will find her!!!

Even if you don't give her phone-nr!!!

Lol even have the address of where she lives. I will also be in Thailand in November

What dates you there. Might ship her off somewhere else while you there

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finneus28 · #10 16-06-2004, 03:13

I agree with Marc's method. This next trip I'm going to spend a few days
in Bangkok and go nuts then hopefully get one girl I really like in Phuket. I'm not saying I won't shop around, but once I find one I really like I know I'll probably stay with her for a bit.

tintin · #11 16-06-2004, 06:23

Quote:

Originally Posted by africanw

Lol even have the address of where she lives. I will also be in Thailand in November

What dates you there. Might ship her off somewhere else while you there

.

Hè Hè, depends who is going to be first!

If I like her as much as on the picture, I have the means of having her stay!!!

And if she indeed has shipped off, wich is always possible....I will have to look for even....better, will not do for less!

My date is not just settled! When are you there, thought you would only come in december!

river · #12 16-06-2004, 06:59

You guys are hard to cop with the exception of Jonny if you want a normal relationship stay at home. If you want holiday romance find a nice girl at home and take her away.

Why stay with one girl it only gets complicated if you don't pay her she starts emailing you sms etc. she thinks about long term.

Keep it to a simple business transaction once it becomes emotional it takes all the fun away, the bar fine is 200 bht bar and 500 bht go go if you pay more you're getting ripped.

Sorry guys but it's like reading a bloody mills & boon novel.

stevem · #13 16-06-2004, 07:35

Seems to be a bit of a mentality of a trophy hunt, as to who can get away with not paying a BG. These girls are working, like it or not. How would you feel if at the end of the week, your boss decided that he wasnt going to pay you. Just think about it.

river · #14 16-06-2004, 10:34

Quote:

Originally Posted by stevem

Seems to be a bit of a mentality of a trophy hunt, as to who can get away with not paying a BG. These girls are working, like it or not. How would you feel if at the end of the week, your boss decided that he wasnt going to pay you. Just think about it.

Everyone's saying how cheap it is but when it comes to actually paying the girl her dues suddenly there's a case of long pockets short arms.

She didn't ask me for any money so I never gave her any, some of these girls can be shy and don't want to insult you so, ask or not just pay up 1000 bht is not so much to pay for the service you get.

No wonder the good looking ones stick to the Japs!

Apollo · #15 16-06-2004, 10:53

Firstly, men ALWAYS pay. One way or another. In the East, or in the West. Dating or married. BG or not. We always pay. Period.

Secondly, I also endorse the "pay as you go" method. It prevents disappointment in the end, and keeps you free, more or less, should you decide to move on at any given time.

(Now, perhaps Dirty Mike can come along and attack me for these opinions. Why? No idea, but surely he'll find something...)

JayBee · #16 16-06-2004, 12:53

[quote=Apollo]. One way or another. In the East, or in the West. Dating or married. BG or not. We always pay. Period.[quote]

Was cruisin' the bar sois w/ a buddy. A girl runs out, "hello handsum etc." I like her looks. My friend wants to go check out another soi, but I say no, I want to check her out. But he orders the first round, and the next thing you know she is sitting on his lap, and then he buys her 500 Baht worth of roses which is close to 3 dozen(it's a good ploy if you really want to blow a BG's mind sometime, just give the flower lady 500 Bht and she'll give you all the flowers and sometimes throw in the garlands, too). He had told me that never under any conditions will he pay a girl. Some young Europeans are like that. Especially good-looking Greeks and Italians. He was Greek. They say there is no challenge if you pay, and the game is no fun because you already know the outcome. He said he'd rather spend 5000 Bht impressing a girl with flowers, dinners, water skiing, scuba, boat trips, etc., but never give her money. So I thought he'd changed his mind. They were getting pretty cozy, so after awhile I told him "Have fun. I'm going to find a girl." Then he said, no, I don't want her, not unless she wants to come for no money. You can have her." I took her aside and tried to explain, but she was confused, thought I was f*ckin w/ her head. In the end, she went with me.
Later, at a restaurant, I told her this, "With him it's a game. If he doesn't pay you, he wins, if he pays then you win, he loses. He would feel bad if he had to pay. I would feel bad if I didn't pay. That's the difference between him and me. Because you have rent to pay, a father and son to support, clothes to buy, and need things to help you stay so pretty. I know that. I couldn't pretend it didn't matter whether I paid you or not."
So the whole thing about not paying is just about male ego. She likes me so much she didn't even ask for money! Actually, I think it does mean she likes you a lot, because she sure would have asked some older, less attractive guy, who she didn't particularly care about seeing again. She wouldn't take a chance on getting stiffed by that guy. However, it does NOT mean she doesn't want the money or even expect the money, because she needs the money. I think one reason they don't ask is because they are dreaming that maybe at the end of a week or two, you'll say, "I love you. Can't live without you. Come with me to England"(or wherever). "Be my wife." I have seen it happen! They don't want to spoil that possibility by asking for money. They feel the romance, too! And they have a dream! IF the dream comes true for them, then they think that they won't ever have to worry about money again. It's the "Knight in Shining Armor" fantasy, AKA the "Pretty Woman" fantasy. Sometimes dreams come true!

Even though I liked her an awful lot, I had to cut that BG loose after a couple days, because I couldn't forget that she picked my friend before me.

Moral of the story: "Don't cruise the bars with a guy who is 10 years younger, better looking, and more charming than you are!"

IRISH JONNY · #17 16-06-2004, 13:42

[quote=JayBee][quote=Moral of the story: "Don't cruise the bars with a guy who is 10 years younger, better looking, and more charming than you are!"

[/QUOTE]
JEES I MUST HAVE NO CHANCE THEN............
BALD, OVER WEIGHT AND IRISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !
JONNY...
ONLY KIDDING JAYBEE..GREAT STORY............

africanw · #18 16-06-2004, 17:01

Quote:

Originally Posted by river

You guys are hard to cop with the exception of Jonny if you want a normal relationship stay at home. If you want holiday romance find a nice girl at home and take her away.

Why stay with one girl it only gets complicated if you don't pay her she starts emailing you sms etc. she thinks about long term.

Keep it to a simple business transaction once it becomes emotional it takes all the fun away, the bar fine is 200 bht bar and 500 bht go go if you pay more you're getting ripped.

Sorry guys but it's like reading a bloody mills & boon novel.

Becuase English girls suck. Tried a few and did not like the taste.

africanw · #19 16-06-2004, 17:15

Quote:

Originally Posted by tintin

Hè Hè, depends who is going to be first!

If I like her as much as on the picture, I have the means of having her stay!!!

And if she indeed has shipped off, wich is always possible....I will have to look for even....better, will not do for less!

My date is not just settled! When are you there, thought you would only come in december!

I fly out of the Uk on the 26th of Nov. Am staying in Bangkok for two night and will be in Patong on the 29th. Leave Patong on the 11th of Dec. Think she said she taking Dec off work.