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07-01-2008, 03:42
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K.M.A 1. She's not my girlfriend Where married have been for 1 year. 2. I have no need of a PI. 3. She's older and mature enough not to make stupid mistake. 4. She does have family present and she knows I have friends there. 5. She knows a visa is in process.  |
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07-01-2008, 04:09
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1. Have met many married girls in the game. 2. Maybe not, if you dont want to know what she is up to. 3. Old and mature enough to know how to hide it from you and your friends. 4. Do you think family will say anything as long as she brings money home? 5. Thats no reason for her not to make some more money on stupid farangs. With this i dont say she is doing something wrong, only tell you not to be too sure about what she is doing while you are not there.... |
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07-01-2008, 04:14
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wow I can sum up a responce with one line. 55555555555555555555555555555555555555555555555555 55555555555555 |
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07-01-2008, 05:41
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actually she's 40 now cos we've known each other for almost 2 years so she's not far off 41 - mind you like most Thai ladies she looks a lot younger (wish I did...55555) 2 days eh - after reading some posts on this forum I would say 2 mins is closer......5555555555 I admit I'm one of the few BM's who doesn't live over there but holidays (R&R) every 5 to 8 weeks and does actually trust his g/f - I have never stressed over her fidelity and dont see any reason to - lets be honest "what will be will be" and as you say, she is older so tends to be far more mature.
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07-01-2008, 05:50
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Thats the usual response from a guy when he know someone is right, dont know what to say, but has to answer the post...   |
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07-01-2008, 05:59
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its been said before but actually some Thai girls can be trusted and many cant be - however if other BM's, like myself, are happy with the relationships they have then I dont see the problem.
I never worry about what mine's up to - if I did I wouldn't be in the relationship ............. to stressfull by far.............
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07-01-2008, 06:01
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See the Problem is she's my wife and trust her. I do not give a Flying F*** about what you may think she's doing. I know what she's doing and I do believe she's a good women. I have said this numerous times over and over..... But none of you get the point I trust her for reason you do not know and would not understand unless you where there. But have your way ..........i'll have it mine. Last edited by wolfphantom : 07-01-2008 at 06:03. |
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07-01-2008, 06:18
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Just winding you up a little... Dont take it too serious.. Wish you and your wife all the best.. Ignorance is a bliss... |
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07-01-2008, 06:28
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your Ignorance is amusing to Me but that beside the point, you do not know her or our situation. But I forgive you......55555 |
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07-01-2008, 06:31
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07-01-2008, 14:22
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So Is She Or Isn't She?
Well? Is she or is she not?
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07-01-2008, 14:34
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Yup...or a forget-me-not.
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07-01-2008, 14:47
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Threads threads threads
Wow this thread has really developed. I wanted to get some general discussion on the issue and not really make it about wolfphantoms situation or anything very specific but hey I guess a thread can go where it likes and that's what makes it so interesting.
Also wanted to say that I didn't contradict myself or my opinions about Thai ladies in my OP on this thread and the other OP about my lady getting groped. I can see that this thread has taken somewhat of a bad view towards Thai ladies in some posts and the other has a more positive view of them and how they should be treated however they really are two completely different subjects. Even though in my opinion I think that if a guy really does love and fall for a BG he should do a bit of ground work this doesn't mean that I think all are bad it's just that I see so many taking genuine guys for a ride. I don't really care about blind idiots that fall in love after 2 days in the LOS but there are many that genuinely want love and a future and when love is blind a lot can be going on without his knowledge. These are the guys I give a crap about because some are my friends. |
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07-01-2008, 15:29
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I Think it is Interesting....
...that otherwise intelligent farangs come to Thailand and become instantly stupid as soon as they touch the tarmac. How many farangs pick up a prostitute in their home country and fall madly in love? I would guess not many. This leads me to the belief that even the ugliest and meanest Thai bar girl has more femininity and grace than most farang women. Why else would so many men become complete idiots upon arriving in Thailand? Even when they know she is fooling around...they don't want to believe it. You can tell them a hundred different ways...rather than believe the truth they will try and shoot the messenger. I really don't think there is anything you can say to someone like that...except "I told you so." after they are put through the wringer and lose thousands of dollars. Perhaps they want to be cheated on? Perhaps they have a subconscious desire to be cheated on and treated badly? Perhaps they suffer from a low self esteem? How is it that a guy sends 30,000 Baht a month to a girl he has known for barely a week? This happens all the time in LOS. I'm just curious...
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07-01-2008, 17:17
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Sorry didn't mean to hijack the thread at all
I was just replying to a post directed at me and wouldn't you know it Bamn! I basicly attacked again. Seem most of you think I am naive or blind. So let explain a bit more then feel free to rip me to shreds. My favorite is "business as usual " strange because like I have said before my wife had never been into the P4P scene. Ok ok I know your next question "how would you know BG's are imfamous lairs?" Well for one I didn't ask her first I asked the guy's whom been hanging around the bar for week's. Well like most I was very leery of what she had to say at first, but she barely spoke English. Come to find out she had only been at the bar 2 weeks. While I didn't barfine her the first night we met I had the following nights. I met her though the bar manager at the time when I took the manager to Tiger and was basicaly ditched. Because she was setting me up with My girl. But I didn't know it at them time, hell I had s/t just hours prior and really was there for fun. I never once payed my girl for a night but I did buy her meals and some clothes. She had worked BKK as a factory girl and washed hair at her friends salon for extra money prior to coming to Phuket. So I was in Tiger with this girl who could not speak English for a damn, thank gawd she was cute and could dance. So I stayed and closed the joint with her. So where drunk and stumble out of Tiger. We end up back my place and pass out with no sex. I wake up and she had left and came back with breakfast. So I decided to stay with her for the day and pay her back for breakfast. We just clicked she was obviously having a good time as was I. I ended spending 2 weeks with her and coming back a month later for more. Thats when she came with the idea of getting tattoo's Yes I have her name on me. Needless I was invited to meet the family soon after. During one of my early trips I became gravely i'll she could have went to the bar to work. I mean I was sick sick.... well she went to the pharmacy and got me meds on her bill. She even went and got my friend who was out partying and she stayed 2 whole days with me lay'ed out. She could have robbed me blind and left me for dead. I knew after that I had met a special girl I mean I had over 100k where she could get it and she didn't touch a baht Not even to buy me meds which I found out where not cheap 2k. She took off two days and payed 2k+ and got a doctor to come to my room. We have been together a over a year and half since then. I have been to her great grandmothers place and all sort of Thai Budhaist ceramony's. We where married 2 different times and again officially in BKK and she want's to get married again in the states. Funny I get yelled at if I miss a call by an hour or two. She'll be on the phone in a second if something is bothering her. She has been was married to a Thai man b4 and it didn't end well. He came home with a massage parlor girl among other things. She tends to fight off pushy Farangs and I mean fight "beer bottle". She wont attack anyone unless the clearly prevoked lets say groping is a big NO NO. I can't say the ones she has attacked didn't have it coming in a big way because frankly she beat me to it one time. She's the first women I've seen slap the shit out of Arab man. I asked her why? She said " he asked her to boom boom him". Needless to say this was a Saudi in SA. Fyi women have little to no rights there. I was quickly approaching form behind her so no way she could have seen me. When she slapped the shit out of him and he had a bank roll out the size of my fist and was trying to buy her. Hell I wasn't supposed to be there for another 1/2 hour I was meeting her at a mall after work. ****note**** women are not supposed to be out alone in Saudi. She was there solo shopping waiting for me and caught this guys eye. Saudis are not even supposed to talk to women they are not family with. Those are just some of the reasons I trust her. I mean I have hundreds of others. I have even tricked her using call forwarding to sneak into Phuket a week early and supprise her. I stayed a few bars down and hoped no one would see me for a bit but one of her friends caught me and dragged me up to her she was in tears when she saw me. She was so happy it took a few hours and many drinks to clam her down. So know you now a bit more. As you can see she is a bit different. I know most you think all the girls working bars are jaded and out only for money. Yeah I've met a few well ok alot. I not saying she's completely different she'll try her best to seprerate your money from you via lady drinks. But in the end thats all she do. She is quiting the bar scene though she's had to many AH try shit and she's got in trouble with the owner for something. well that my story for all you punters! PS no flaming I have 4 page thread full already  |
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07-01-2008, 17:42
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only replying to on thread topics after this guys!!! truthfully some guys Do need an eye opening "shock", Not every girl is going to be honest or faithful hell the odd are so high you'ed have better chance winning the lotto. I know its strange to hear this from "my girl is different guy". Like told you all I am not stupid. I know the truths of the world and have been screwed over before a good many times by Thai's and other women alike. Hell its no different anywhere else guys Do not fool yourselfs and think this is a THAI only thing. American Women are just as bad if not worse because they'll take your house while screwing around on you. The Military teaches some harsh lessons I learned mine. Do I think every joe blow needs to run out and hire a PI. NO I don't dispite all drama I've been a party too. I seen some people change and come out of the hardest places to crawl out of. If you think you need it get it there is probably a need for it. But if your sure I mean sure it shouldn't matter you should have some faith and trust. Last edited by wolfphantom : 07-01-2008 at 17:44. |
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07-01-2008, 21:31
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Well...............we are waiting.....
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08-01-2008, 08:27
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08-01-2008, 09:40
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08-01-2008, 09:50
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When she slapped the shit out of him and he had a bank roll out the size of my fist and was trying to buy her.
Lucky for the guy she wasn't near any knives or had a bottle in her hand.
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08-01-2008, 10:24
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She could have robbed me blind and left me for dead. I knew after that I had met a special girl I mean I had over 100k where she could get it and she didn't touch a baht
Maybe just waiting for a bigger pay day? NEVER, not my girl, she's different 555555 |
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08-01-2008, 18:58
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