Why not use a Gum Shoe?????

[wolfphantom]

landofsmiles seems to have issues with me or maybe he just likes to twist words and statements to fit some twisted view. I don't know what you issues are but please respectfully refrain form quoting me if your going to try and twist my words.
All you do is make yourself look like a ass.
I don't have issues with you as of yet and really do not care too.
Thank you

[wolfphantom]

Originally Posted by ChoakMyDee

That Kiwi fella that wrote the book "Confessions of a Bangkok Private Eye" summed it up when he said that in all his investigations he hadn't found one(am I right...or was it he did find 1?). Anyhow the point is if you want to follow the statistical average then most of these girls don't stop the game even when the farang sends adequate money.

All you guys incapable of a rational thought can stop reading here.

Ok so thinking along the lines of the statistical average, the chances are good that either Wolfphantom's lady or Les1999's lady is still in the game. Don't get mad at me...I'm just following a statistical fact. There is also a chance that both ladies are faithful but that would be a huge anomaly on the curve. So the question now becomes which lady is being unfaithful?

I will ask again...when faced with these unsurmountable odds against them, why would an otherwise intellligent man place such a large bet on a bad horse?

Like Said b4 if you think you need PI you are probably to late.
You all seem to think I need one but I disagree.

[Tarzan]

Originally Posted by wolfphantom

You all seem to think I need one but I disagree.

Maybe its because they know something you obviously dont know. Ever thought of that..?

[wolfphantom]

Originally Posted by Tarzan

Maybe its because they know something you obviously dont know. Ever thought of that..?

I have, tarzan I have read every post and yet to see why I should think about.

[Tarzan]

Originally Posted by wolfphantom

I have, tarzan I have read every post and yet to see why I should think about.

Ok... Try read the post one more time and maybe you will understand what people try to say....

All i can say is that i wouldnt trust your "friends" that is looking after her in Patong anyway... Or i would try to find out "how" they look after her... You may find they share more then a beer with you..

[Dupree00]

Originally Posted by ChoakMyDee

I will ask again...when faced with these unsurmountable odds against them, why would an otherwise intellligent man place such a large bet on a bad horse?

I can't speak for the youngens. But if a middle aged or over the hill man gets a chance to be with a beautiful young woman that makes him happy. That's a bet worth taking. Not much time left in life to worry about trivialities like unfaithfulness. Besides, most of these guys have already had their hearts broken with divorce or unfaithfulness or even widowers. After life lessons like that you tend not to let yourself be so naive. You can still have strong feelings but you will always remember what is possible if things go bad. You never forget. It's actually quite liberating once you get over a broken heart. That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger.

[Flhai]

Originally Posted by Dupree00

I can't speak for the youngens. But if a middle aged or over the hill man gets a chance to be with a beautiful young woman that makes him happy. That's a bet worth taking. Not much time left in life to worry about trivialities like unfaithfulness. Besides, most of these guys have already had their hearts broken with divorce or unfaithfulness or even widowers. After life lessons like that you tend not to let yourself be so naive. You can still have strong feelings but you will always remember what is possible if things go bad. You never forget. It's actually quite liberating once you get over a broken heart. That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger.

I am not over the hill myself Dupree but I do agree that for many people it really is about the now and not being so worried about everything in the future. For myself I have a habbit of trying to make things all perfect and thinking too much about the future when I know at times I should just relax and enjoy the moment given nothing lasts forever.

[ChoakMyDee]

Very good post. I am one of the middle aged who considers himself priveleged to be with a beautiful young woman. But they don't gotta be from a bar. I suppose the bar girls are the ones that are easiest to meet which would explain why so many farangs fall for them. Also considering the most evil Thai bar girl has more class than any farang woman. But please don't act surprised when you find out yer beloved is banging them as fast as they are throwing her under them.

Originally Posted by Dupree00

I can't speak for the youngens. But if a middle aged or over the hill man gets a chance to be with a beautiful young woman that makes him happy. That's a bet worth taking. Not much time left in life to worry about trivialities like unfaithfulness. Besides, most of these guys have already had their hearts broken with divorce or unfaithfulness or even widowers. After life lessons like that you tend not to let yourself be so naive. You can still have strong feelings but you will always remember what is possible if things go bad. You never forget. It's actually quite liberating once you get over a broken heart. That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger.
.

[dennisinkamala]

Coniving. cheating unreliable and untrustworthy.
Beautiful, willing and full of life and fun.

Whatever your views, enjoy the moment, thats all we can hope for.

And, if it goes t1ts up for you, it was probably worth the time money an effort.

Broken hearts mend and there is always Bangla to soothe the torment.

[les1999]

well CMD unless my g/f mother is also 'on the game' at 70 y/o then yes my g/f is still on to it, but as I speak to her and her mum every day at her house (in a small village - no bars) then quite frankly I have no problems.
All doubters can say what they like but I still do not stress out about my g/f, and as for sending loads of money - I send her 20,000baht a month or around AU$700 which is less than I earn in a day so for me at least the "bet", as you put it, is very minimal.

Also if a guy writes a book about Thai b/g's where they are all faithful I dont think he'd sell many books - a bit like the normal media ... dont believe all you read......5555555555

I'm sure many, many BM's have fallen for the small, brown ladies of Thailand, and many have sent money as well (tho might not admit it) and the relationship has broken down, however it doesn't stop them going over and enjoying the rest of the ladies on offer. Many of us have failed marrages, some more than one ..... dur - but hell, life goes on and as I have said before "there are plenty more fish in the sea" - I am very happy with my relationship and I've had no worries about it what so ever, not to say that others haven't, but, as we all say - "up to you", or in my case "up to me".

Again though to all those BM's who worry about their g/f's - if its that bad then end it, as the stress and worry would be too much - as for me.............I aint got no stress or worries ........55555555555

[marc26]

Originally Posted by ChoakMyDee

That Kiwi fella that wrote the book "Confessions of a Bangkok Private Eye" summed it up when he said that in all his investigations he hadn't found one(am I right...or was it he did find 1?). Anyhow the point is if you want to follow the statistical average then most of these girls don't stop the game even when the farang sends adequate money.

All you guys incapable of a rational thought can stop reading here.

Ok so thinking along the lines of the statistical average, the chances are good that either Wolfphantom's lady or Les1999's lady is still in the game. Don't get mad at me...I'm just following a statistical fact. There is also a chance that both ladies are faithful but that would be a huge anomaly on the curve. So the question now becomes which lady is being unfaithful?

I will ask again...when faced with these unsurmountable odds against them, why would an otherwise intellligent man place such a large bet on a bad horse?

because there is human emotion attached to it
its not just stats
its called getting to know a person

[dennisinkamala]

Originally Posted by marc26

because there is human emotion attached to it
its not just stats
its called getting to know a person

Nicely put.

We cant all be mechanical beings, thank heavens.

[Soupdragon]

Originally Posted by ChoakMyDee

I will ask again...when faced with these unsurmountable odds against them, why would an otherwise intellligent man place such a large bet on a bad horse?

I would say that this is less to do with intelligence and more to do with the male ego, which less face it, can be a dangerous animal at times. The guys know that these girls are P4P, they paid themselves, but the girls are highly trained and capable of making every punter believe he is the best thing on two legs. So at this point the ego overides the brain and says, hey I AM fantastic, better than the rest, lets keep this illusion going. Now no amount of advice to the contrary will be entertained by the guy as he is happy in his little dream world and is going to stay there as long as he possibly can, even passed the point where it is patently obvious that he is deluding himself and being cheated.

[pablo]

All I have to say is....

[dennisinkamala]

Originally Posted by wolfphantom

landofsmiles seems to have issues with me or maybe he just likes to twist words and statements to fit some twisted view. I don't know what you issues are but please respectfully refrain form quoting me if your going to try and twist my words.
All you do is make yourself look like a ass.
I don't have issues with you as of yet and really do not care too.
Thank you

I dont think LOS has any personal issues with you but, I DO think you would be wise to heed the words of wisdom you are getting rom him and other BM's.

Soupragon (above) makes a very relevant point.

People here are trying to help you, not put you down.

[wolfphantom]

Originally Posted by dennisinspain

I dont think LOS has any personal issues with you but, I DO think you would be wise to heed the words of wisdom you are getting rom him and other BM's.

Soupragon (above) makes a very relevant point.

People here are trying to help you, not put you down.

That's laughable.
LOS is just twisting my words. Theres no wisdom just pure spite. If you believe he's trying to help your fool.
If you where trying to help then why would you even suggest that my wife is unfaithful? You have no Proof and just trying to "open my EYE's".
Thank you but its advice I neither want nor care to read about. Because its a negative view and places seeds of doubt and mistrust.
My eyes where never shut nor am I blind. I know the area hell I been there close 20 times in the last five years.
I know the girls, I know several bar managers. I never asked to have my marriage or my wife put on the chopping block. Hell I never asked any for your for advice on if my wife was cheating.
Thank you but please stop all ready.
Its not wisdom its lack of human respect.

[dennisinkamala]

There is none so blind.......

End of my contribution to this thread.

[Soupdragon]

Originally Posted by wolfphantom

That's laughable.
LOS is just twisting my words. Theres no wisdom just pure spite. If you believe he's trying to help your fool.
.

Wolfphantom, as a impartial observer here, I have to say what the fcuk are you doing on this forum ?? You started a thread to introduce yourself but straight away set yourself up for "special" attention by stating "She's gone back to work at Blue bar "SORRY GUYS she just dances" and is also working/training at a salon by day". You then go on to threaten and belittle many respected members of the board. Then you come out with "personally I regret this whole thread as I found out the majority of you are cynical assholes whom seem to enjoy tourmenting and seeding doubt." That thread is closed as it is obviously just BS so you do a quick search and find another thread you can jump into to continue the attention you are getting. Have a word with yourself dude.

[wolfphantom]

Let me put this very simply.

I don't have rose colored glasses. But I seeing people not even given a chance burns me up.
A majority of the Bm here have had negative expriences happen to them or by proxy. I am no exception, but I willing to extend a chance that some of these girls are just here to work and not p4p or jump into a farang's bed at the chance of some quick baht.
Some these girls do have morals and not just the I worth more then 1000 baht kinda morals.

[landofsmiles]

No I don't have any personal issues with the guy but>>>

Originally Posted by wolfphantom

I never asked to have my marriage or my wife put on the chopping block. Hell I never asked any for your for advice on if my wife was cheating.

...so why post so much personal information about her on a public forum and put yourself in the firing line like this? If I loved and respected someone I certainly wouldn't tell everyone she's been known to throw knives at people and smash bottles over their heads.

You have to remember too there are 100s of people on this forum and there will be some reading this who know her.

[ChoakMyDee]

Les...I wasn't doubting your lady's faithfulness...I was mentioning your name as an example because you were the only other person on the thread to have mentioned that you have a bar girl as a wife/gf. This was done to emphasize a statistic. Perhaps I should have said BM "A" and BM "B".

Originally Posted by les1999

well CMD unless my g/f mother is also 'on the game' at 70 y/o then yes my g/f is still on to it, but as I speak to her and her mum every day at her house (in a small village - no bars) then quite frankly I have no problems.
All doubters can say what they like but I still do not stress out about my g/f, and as for sending loads of money - I send her 20,000baht a month or around AU$700 which is less than I earn in a day so for me at least the "bet", as you put it, is very minimal.

Also if a guy writes a book about Thai b/g's where they are all faithful I dont think he'd sell many books - a bit like the normal media ... dont believe all you read......5555555555

I'm sure many, many BM's have fallen for the small, brown ladies of Thailand, and many have sent money as well (tho might not admit it) and the relationship has broken down, however it doesn't stop them going over and enjoying the rest of the ladies on offer. Many of us have failed marrages, some more than one ..... dur - but hell, life goes on and as I have said before "there are plenty more fish in the sea" - I am very happy with my relationship and I've had no worries about it what so ever, not to say that others haven't, but, as we all say - "up to you", or in my case "up to me".

Again though to all those BM's who worry about their g/f's - if its that bad then end it, as the stress and worry would be too much - as for me.............I aint got no stress or worries ........55555555555

[georgelondon]

"a salon" nudge nudge wink wink! 555555!