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30-11-2004, 07:50
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Hooking up with same bg on return trip(s)
To all BM who have made several trips to LOS, I know most of you hang out at MTB. Do you guys also hook-up with the same BG from previous trips? I can only speak for myself, during my 1st trip this past September I stayed with the same BG for a good portion of my vacation. My second trip will most likely be in Mid-January and I'm looking forward to hooking up with the same BG. The way I see it, she knows what I like already.
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30-11-2004, 08:44
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Always be flexible
Have done it that way same BG 2 trips(some butterflying) nice to see an old face who knows your likes and dislikes, good if your after the GFE, but dont get to the stage where she takes you for granted, maintain your rules.
Other trips now maybe familiar face will find you but I tend to butterfly more and have a girl I like for a week then time for a change.
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30-11-2004, 08:55
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why set your mind on the same BG. there may be no guarantee that she is
still there unless you are in comms with her. even when i know for sure that
she still there, i would prefer to arrive unannounce, BF someone else and if
not satisfied then maybe look her up. cheers.
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30-11-2004, 09:37
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Just turning up is great
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Originally Posted by charlie5005
why set your mind on the same BG. there may be no guarantee that she is
still there unless you are in comms with her. even when i know for sure that
she still there, i would prefer to arrive unannounce, BF someone else and if
not satisfied then maybe look her up. cheers.
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Agree with you 5005, arriving out of the blue is fun and allows for hunting to be different without the old faces seeing you, at least till the Esarn BG grapevine kicks in.
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30-11-2004, 13:43
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I had the hottest FL last year and I was looking forward to seeing her again this year, but she is now a BG, 15lbs heavier, and has a totally different attitude than 1 year ago. Don't expect much and you will be better off, my recommendation...butterfly and tell her you will be there 1 week later than your arrival date, then your emotions won't get in the way.
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30-11-2004, 13:53
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Never plan to hook up with same BG but always seem to a least a couple of times. LOL
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30-11-2004, 14:38
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Surprise Factor
Best way is to show up unannounced and check out the undiscovered Bars first.This way you get to meet some more beautiful BG.
If you survived a coulpe of months not seeing your regular BG, then another day or so shouldn't kill you...kick back and enjoy the bourbon. 
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30-11-2004, 14:45
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Originally Posted by Robo(sydney)
Best way is to show up unannounced and check out the undiscovered Bars first.This way you get to meet some more beautiful BG.
If you survived a coulpe of months not seeing your regular BG, then another day or so shouldn't kill you...kick back and enjoy the bourbon. 
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Exactly, Robo!
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30-11-2004, 15:55
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Arriving unannounced also gives you the opportunity to see if she is chatting to a new guy .. once you see she is with another guy, you may not want to see her again.
One of my favorites is to BF a BG then go to the one i was with last trip, and whilst she is flirting with another guy, tap her on the shoulder.. she looks so surprised, and does not know what to do!!

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30-11-2004, 16:12
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I Used To Always Butterfly Until My Last Tour.......
Met This Great Girl And Had Some Great Times.probably The Best In Los....
Told Her I Was Coming Back At Crimbo And She Said She Would Meet Me..........we Kept In Touch.by Email And Sms.i Still Knew She Worked The Bar But That Didnt Bother Me........now She Tells Me She Has Met A Rich Farang And She Stays At Home.no Can Go To Phuket At Crimbo,..........was Depressed At The Start.but Now Well Over It........plenty Of Fish In The Sea............
Moral......never Make Plans With A Bg.they Have Tooooooooooo Many Customer....
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I Used To Always Butterfly Until My Last Tour.......
Met This Great Girl And Had Some Great Times.probably The Best In Los....
Told Her I Was Coming Back At Crimbo And She Said She Would Meet Me..........we Kept In Touch.by Email And Sms.i Still Knew She Worked The Bar But That Didnt Bother Me........now She Tells Me She Has Met A Rich Farang And She Stays At Home.no Can Go To Phuket At Crimbo,..........was Depressed At The Start.but Now Well Over It........plenty Of Fish In The Sea............
Moral......never Make Plans With A Bg.they Have Tooooooooooo Many Customer....
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Your Right Jonny, I have been messed around too many times by bg over email.. they say they will meet you, but then have a rich BF and can't come... now i just enjoy myself... too many girls to just have 1 for the whole trip
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30-11-2004, 16:21
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... now i just enjoy myself... too many girls to just have 1 for the whole trip
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MY SENTIMENTS PAL.........
BACK TO MY BUTTERFLYING DAYS..
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30-11-2004, 16:40
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Originally Posted by Robo(sydney)
Best way is to show up unannounced and check out the undiscovered Bars first.This way you get to meet some more beautiful BG.
If you survived a coulpe of months not seeing your regular BG, then another day or so shouldn't kill you...kick back and enjoy the bourbon. 
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Giddi up !!! i agree robo, i found on my second trip that i relied on living the same great experience as i did the first so i went to the same bars and found some different faces and the first couple of days was not the same even saw a bg i liked first time with a different guy almost every night, so i moved on and meet other people and had a better time than i did first. I do keep in comm's with some cause i enjoy there company but my next trip is going to be a surprise and see where los take's me... Cheers mate have a open mind and a great trip 
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30-11-2004, 18:29
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Do i or dont i
I was going to ask the same question, The BG i stayed with for the last 6days of my 1st trip still emails me every month, Now she is very honest with me now only because i caught her lying to me numerous times which i expected.
The best one though was when her boyfriend from holland rang her and i asked her "Is that your boyfriend" which she obviously said no he just my good friend and then she walked away a bit so i couldnt hear what she was saying, Now here's the good bit anyone that stayed at the c&n will know there's two sets of stairs and she was standing beside one of them near where the lifts are, And i was at the other ones  So i said right ill catch her out now for the laugh, So i went down the stairs beside me and walked over to the stairs underneat where she was  And just stood there for a few mins and listened too her tell her boyfriend how much she missed him, And could'nt wait until he came back, And how she didnt go with cutomers anymore, And that she was just getting home from a night out with her friends, So as you can imagine i was trying to hold my laughter in when my mates BF came up the stairs and asked what i was standing there for, So i told her and she start laughing and then we both went up the stairs, Well i can still picture her face, It just dropped to the floor when she realised id heard everything she had said  , And me and mates BF where pissing ourselves laughing and she's still on the phone telling him how much she "loved" him and was missing him soooooo much, While trying to hold in the laugh herself because she knew she was caught lying threw her teeth  , But she made it up to me big style that night, She gave me a few great BJ and probably the best sex ive ever had, We didnt stop until the next morning after she had drained every last drop out my balls
Anyway back to why i posted in the first place, At the start i had every intention of going back and seeing her because she was a fun chick to be around most of the time  But now im having second thoughts because im afraid if i stay with her again i might start to get too attached, And ive no intention of ever moving over to los or ever bringing a girl home with me, I just want to have a fun holiday but im just afraid that ill start liking her too much if you know what i mean
What do you guys think, Should i go see her again or should i just go butterfly, I really cant make my mind up on my own because it was alrite shagging a different bird every night but i did get pissed off after a few days, I need help
Ps: Here's a few photo's of her thanks to R3aps 
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30-11-2004, 21:17
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MY SENTIMENTS PAL.........
BACK TO MY BUTTERFLYING DAYS..
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Hey Jonny, I thought you said the bgs call you helicopter
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Hey Jonny, I thought you said the bgs call you helicopter
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THEY USED TO.UNTIL THE SUMMER,.THEY THOUGHT I HAD CHANGED TO A GOOD MAN...
BUT GUESS WHOS BACK..........
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THEY USED TO.UNTIL THE SUMMER,.THEY THOUGHT I HAD CHANGED TO A GOOD MAN...
BUT GUESS WHOS BACK..........
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Now i belive a complete airport will be back .....
(helicopter will be a too small word)
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Now i belive a complete airport will be back .....
(helicopter will be a too small word)
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I recently achieved International Airport status with the bg's but remember that butterflying will increase the HIV risk - a sobering thought indeed.
I can never make up my mind what to do, I met a cracker last time and she wants to see me again and travel around again.
The great thing about her is we established from day 1 that we would only be like mates but obviously a business relationship also.
There is definately no jealousy either way so i'm free to do whatever and so is she. She even don't mind me with the odd LB and that's saying something.
For this reason i am currently thinking of doing a few things we discussed last time ie: Visit Chiang mai & Ko Samui - neither of us have done either and i think she's a great travel companion as has been proved to me already.
But she also knows i'm coming back to pattaya to fcuk a few hotties 1st and she's cool about this.
It's a 2 way dilemna either way:
If you butterfly all the time you never spend quailty time getting to know any of them and kinda feel alone again after the next girl has left the next day.
And if you do it the other way you are always looking at the next girl in the street wondering what she's like in the sack etc..
I think maybe i'm lucky for once this time, I played the good guy before and regretted it but now i got the best of both world as this latest lady knows not to fcuk me around and told me she realised i knew the score on a lot of los issues very early on after meeting me.
So i will meet her and travel + have fun, but i'll still pick and choose plenty on the side also.
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ive been to patong 3 times this past year. on my 1st night in patong i met a bg and have stayed with her every time. what i do is i usually stay in bangkok for 3-4 days and go wild and then come down to patong and stay with her, best of both worlds. then in patong i get massages with extra when she goes to the beauty salon everyday.
ally- i just talked to my girl and we se up rules for when im there long time, i think you should tell your girl you want to stay with her most nights, but some nights you just want to go out with your friends.
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ive been to patong 3 times this past year. on my 1st night in patong i met a bg and have stayed with her every time. what i do is i usually stay in bangkok for 3-4 days and go wild and then come down to patong and stay with her, best of both worlds. then in patong i get massages with extra when she goes to the beauty salon everyday.
ally- i just talked to my girl and we se up rules for when im there long time, i think you should tell your girl you want to stay with her most nights, but some nights you just want to go out with your friends.
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Yeah i was thinking that myself, I suppose its up to her then if thats all right with her  , If not ill just have to go butterfly again
Ps: I just uploaded 2 pics of her now on the last post, Do you remember her now?, Because for some reason you thought i was with moay 
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yeah sorry
your girl definitely an upgrade over moay. like i said we set rules last night but im sure they will go out the window when im there. before she didnt work in the bar, and i didnt go with anyone else(so she thinks!). but now she works in the bar and i can go with other girls not in soi eric and a bunch of other things. we will see if it works, if it doesnt, always plenty of bg's, cant wait to hang out in april, see ya
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yeah sorry
your girl definitely an upgrade over moay. like i said we set rules last night but im sure they will go out the window when im there. before she didnt work in the bar, and i didnt go with anyone else(so she thinks!). but now she works in the bar and i can go with other girls not in soi eric and a bunch of other things. we will see if it works, if it doesnt, always plenty of bg's, cant wait to hang out in april, see ya
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Yeah see you then marc26, And let us know how you eventually get on with your girl...
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First of all, Allybabba I see your dilemma. She's one hot BG with a beautiful smile. The way I see it, I'm going to tell my BG when I'm arriving, if she's not with me the 1st night it's her lost. Like I tell girls in Boston, I have no time for drama in my life. This is what I plan on doing, about 2 weeks before my arrival, I'll tell her my hotel and so on. I'm not into the entire butterfly thing, I've worked some long hours to make this trip a reality. While my friends in Boston are freezing their a** in the January cold I'll be roasting my b***s on the beach. 6 wks and counting
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